Probably Out (loss mentioned)

Re: Probably Out (loss mentioned)

• NADA-H member

  January 2014

  Did u get to the ER?

  
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• PrimRoseMama member

  January 2014

  NADA-H said:

  Did u get to the ER?

  The ER can do nothing.
  
  I'm so sorry, OP.
  
  
  

  
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• firefliesandfjords member

  January 2014

  Thoughts and prayers to you. I am so sorry.

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• hu11aba1oo2 member

  January 2014

  No need to go to the ER, they can't stop a miscarriage/chemical pregnancy and I'm not bleeding heavy enough to warrant an expensive ER visit. It would just be wasting money. 

  Married 09/29/2013 ~ TTC since 09/29/2013!

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• NADA-H member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry...

  
  God Bless You my Little One
  Farida, our first child, born on the 19th of July 2014
  
  Farida, at 8 weeks
  
  

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• kleigh926 member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry

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• LM915 member

  January 2014

  I am so sorry.

  
  

  
  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• hollster8 member

  January 2014

  So very sorry. 

   

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• foreverapartofme member

  January 2014

  Words cannot describe how difficult what you are going through truly is.  I'm so sorry for your loss.

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• Rosebean member

  January 2014

  So very sorry. Big hugs and thoughts and prayers.

  

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• EmR22 member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry you are going through this again. Take care of yourself. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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• GabbyCat13 member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry you have to go through this again. My thoughts and prayers are with you. *hugs*

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• poptart109 member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry

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• salsy2012 member

  January 2014

  I'm sorry that you're going through this. Thoughts and prayers are coming your way 

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• hu11aba1oo2 member

  January 2014

  Thank you ladies for all of your support. DH is not coping well, he was so excited about this baby and when I told him I was probably having a miscarriage he totally shut down on me. Said, maybe you weren't even pregnant since the line was so faint. I tried explaining to him that I took multiple tests, like 10! And all of them showed a faint line within the allotted time frame, any line =pregnant, no matter how faint. He was like, okay whatever you say. And went back to watching football. Tried talking to him some more, but he had completely shut down by then.

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• TeeJ526 member

  January 2014

  I'm sorry you're going through this @hu11aba1oo2.

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• beckynsean11 member

  January 2014

  Aw honey, I'm so sorry. Huge hugs!

  
  

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• Jolaine83 member

  January 2014

  I'm sorry, @hu11aba1oo2 ! That really sucks.  And while your DH might find it easier to pretend those tests are wrong, you know the truth.  Hopefully he'll come around to realize that soon.  I'm so sorry!  

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• Kateysomething member

  January 2014

  So sorry
  

  
  

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• herecomesthesun member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry. *hugs*

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• beemaya83 member

  January 2014

  It's always scary when you see that red....it sounds like you will be okay. God always has a plan. I hope DH comes around. Best wishes to you!

  

  

  
  

  BFP #1 12/23/13 MMC 01/24/14 @ 9w5days

  

   

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• rae_dylanzmom member

  January 2014

  So sorry for you and your DH. After our m/c last year, my DH is sort of ignoring the fact that we are PG again. He told a friend this week that we might be PG. Hope you move through this phase quickly.
  

  

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• MkL1526 member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry. Thoughts and prayers.

  
  

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• josiebegosie2002 member

  January 2014

  I'm very sorry for your loss. I pray for your success in the near future!

  

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• sparklingdiamond member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry :-(
  

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• mrsmullins0500 member

  January 2014

  So sorry for your loss.

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• Ceridwen21 member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry. I hope you and your DH can talk about it soon.

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  Miscarriage at 8 weeks (August 2013)

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• portentosa member

  January 2014

  So very sorry for your losses. My T&Ps are with you and your husband. ((hugs))
  

  

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• BlckRoses member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry for your loss, hugs.

  

  
  

  
  

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• ellaef1984 member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry.

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• jamjoyful member

  January 2014

  I'm very sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  

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• TexasTwinMom member

  January 2014

  Hugs. Hope DH comes around. It's hard, especially dealing with your emotions AND his.

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• Giraffealaff member

  January 2014

  ((Hugs)) I'm really sorry, love.

  
  

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• PrimRoseMama member

  January 2014

  RedheadBaker said:

  
  

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  It's always scary when you see that red....it sounds like you will be okay. God always has a plan. I hope DH comes around. Best wishes to you!

  
  

  Please, please never say this to another person who has just suffered any type of loss. It's a really hurtful thing to say. 
  
  +1 ... I hate this platitude.
  

  
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• beemaya83 member

  January 2014

  @redheadbaker I really didn't mean to offend anyone. I apologize once again.

  

  

  
  

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• PrimRoseMama member

  January 2014

  mayalopez said:

  @redheadbaker I really didn't mean to offend anyone. I apologize once again.

  We know you didn't mean it in a hostile or mean way. You are good. Thank you for the apology. :-bd

  
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• beemaya83 member

  January 2014

  @primrosemama: thank you! I'm just feeling a little bit attacked. Have you seen the other post titled "imma gonna go ahead ant put this here( re:loss)? Now others are throwing religion into the mix. I sincerely apologized then others just taking it further. They could have just left it at that...

  

  

  
  

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• rainydayluck member

  January 2014

  mayalopez said:

  @primrosemama: thank you! I'm just feeling a little bit attacked. Have you seen the other post titled "imma gonna go ahead ant put this here( re:loss)? Now others are throwing religion into the mix. I sincerely apologized then others just taking it further. They could have just left it at that...
  
  

  Dude, don't do this in this post. If you're feeling whatever, do it somewhere else, not someone's loss post.
  
  OP, I am so sorry for you and DH. I hope you have someone IRL you can talk to since DH is grieving differently.

  
  

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• PrimRoseMama member

  January 2014

  :-t
  
  @mayalopez : let's take the discussion to the other thread.
  
  OP : you are in our thoughts & prayers.

  
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• Bstevens21 member

  January 2014

  So sorry for your loss.

  

  

  
  

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