Is anyone here from the UK or Ireland?

JMCB09 · January 2014

Hahahahahahaha

McCormic1020 · January 2014

I am thoroughly embarrassed. Please do NOT let these "SNARKY" women count towards your view of American women. This whole blog is shocking to me. But I just chalk it up to the fact most of them haven't reached a mature age yet. I'm sad that
these women are going to be teaching our
young. I thought The Bump would be a place for love and support yet everytime I log in I see hate. I am an American yet I was married in Ireland last year and I loved it which is what intrigued me to read this post. Am glad I did so I can redeem myself and others who are not bitches and who do not agree with the repeated harassment being put out there by our own people. Once again, I apologize for their behavior we are not all that way.

Carly198330 · January 2014

Would my pm be sent to my emails. Silly question but I'm new to this site and I've looked everywhere for it. Surely that's the only place it can be lol xx

Carly198330 · January 2014

This pm has nothing to do with all the nasty comments been out on here I personally really don't like seeing or reading some of the nasty comments that's been wrote on this post. This is back to the very start of the original question that was asked xx

JMCB09 · January 2014

McCormic1020 said:
I am thoroughly embarrassed. Please do NOT let these "SNARKY" women count towards your view of American women. This whole blog is shocking to me. But I just chalk it up to the fact most of them haven't reached a mature age yet. I'm sad that
these women are going to be teaching our
young. I thought The Bump would be a place for love and support yet everytime I log in I see hate. I am an American yet I was married in Ireland last year and I loved it which is what intrigued me to read this post. Am glad I did so I can redeem myself and others who are not bitches and who do not agree with the repeated harassment being put out there by our own people. Once again, I apologize for their behavior we are not all that way.

I'm pretty sure you missed the beginning of this. One of the women you are referring to was simply joking with OP as to why there weren't more [international] boards on here. OP then got a sandy vagina.

This board (not blog as you called it) if full of snark, sometimes in a fun way other times in a bitchy way. But, life is like that in general. You can't take the heat? Get out of the kitchen, IMHO

Carly198330 · January 2014

But your now being bitchy to someone else. There is no need for these nasty comments at all. This should be a place where mummy's to be can support each other and give advice etc x

biglewzer · January 2014

tourqeyes · January 2014

Carly198330 said:
Would my pm be sent to my emails. Silly question but I'm new to this site and I've looked everywhere for it. Surely that's the only place it can be lol xx

Are you mobile? Click on forums then you will see a link to go to your inbox.

JMCB09 · January 2014

I'm not being bitchy, I'm being realistic. This is life. People can be mean and bitchy but nice and sweet. Take the good with the bad or peace out. You can't live off of puppies and rainbows your whole life.

And if you think moms are supportive, wait until you poop that kid out. The mommy wars are unreal and you will how unsupportive some women are of one another.

biglewzer · January 2014

McCormic1020 said:

I am thoroughly embarrassed. Please do NOT let these "SNARKY" women count towards your view of American women. This whole blog is shocking to me. But I just chalk it up to the fact most of them haven't reached a mature age yet. I'm sad that these women are going to be teaching our young. I thought The Bump would be a place for love and support yet everytime I log in I see hate. I am an American yet I was married in Ireland last year and I loved it which is what intrigued me to read this post. Am glad I did so I can redeem myself and others who are not bitches and who do not agree with the repeated harassment being put out there by our own people. Once again, I apologize for their behavior we are not all that way.

Please don't apologize for me.

tourqeyes · January 2014

Carly198330 said:
But your now being bitchy to someone else. There is no need for these nasty comments at all. This should be a place where mummy's to be can support each other and give advice etc x

I wish you could see some of the PMs I am receiving.... :-/ I think that would seriously change your viewpoint.

Carly198330 · January 2014

Oh by the way this will be my third child and I'm shocked at the way women treat other women. People should live by what my nan says ' if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all' it's to easy to get carried away through messages but I wonder if this is how people would talk to each other if it was face to face x

biglewzer · January 2014

tourqeyes said:

But your now being bitchy to someone else. There is no need for these nasty comments at all. This should be a place where mummy's to be can support each other and give advice etc x
I wish you could see some of the PMs I am receiving.... :-/ I think that would seriously change your viewpoint.

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Seriously, Carly, have you not read some of the horrid things she's said about the people here. Lois has done thing to her and she's called her every name in the book. She's being absolutely vile, and yet you're overlooking that and focusing on snark. Really?

Thirtyodd · January 2014

I'm going to get this all sorted so just keep adding your silly Gifs etc :-)

tourqeyes said:

Carly198330 said:
But your now being bitchy to someone else. There is no need for these nasty comments at all. This should be a place where mummy's to be can support each other and give advice etc x
I wish you could see some of the PMs I am receiving.... :-/ I think that would seriously change your viewpoint.

I've got a PC, I will post all the Pms I have sent you if tomorrow :-) there is no secrets on my end dear!

AND the time and date that these PMs were sent will indicate that they were all sent AFTER your's and your friend's (loislayn23) jibes were posted on the push present thread.

You have no argument, you just can't handle a bit of backlash can you?

biglewzer · January 2014

Thirtyodd said:

I'm going to get this all sorted so just keep adding your silly Gifs etc :-)
But your now being bitchy to someone else. There is no need for these nasty comments at all. This should be a place where mummy's to be can support each other and give advice etc x
I wish you could see some of the PMs I am receiving.... :-/ I think that would seriously change your viewpoint.
I've got a PC, I will post all the Pms I have sent you if tomorrow :-) there is no secrets on my end dear! AND the time and date that these PMs were sent will indicate that they were all sent AFTER your's and your friend's (loislayn23) jibes were posted on the push present thread. You have no argument, you just can't handle a bit of backlash can you?

tourqeyes · January 2014

I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall.

I didn't even respond to your PMs? I don't understand what you are saying about the time stamps?

Eta: have you read the TOS though? I will be curious to see if you post your PMs.

JMCB09 · January 2014

Someone is salty about the push present thread. That is where all this stems from.

I need to find a Vagisil gif

Carly198330 · January 2014

I'm not taking sides I am saying the comments on here aren't nice and there is no need for any of it. We are all fully grown women that are parents or parents to be. Can't believe there is posts like these on these kind of sites. I'm not taking sides and I'm not reading through all the post I've come on this site for support and advice not to see who has won the biggest bitch medal!! I know everyone has different views, humor etc but I don't understand if a comment has offended someone and someone has done the decent thing to say why don't someone be the bigger person and apologise or just leave the blog or site (what ever people call it) surely there is other questions that need answering xx

Thirtyodd · January 2014

Oh and let's not forget it was you and your friends who decided to kick off on this thread too... that is stalking and if you read the rules out will see that stalking is not acceptable. Keep the insults coming though, this is all great stuff that you are letting me have for them.

The company are taking my complaints very seriously btw, so by all means keep going! It's just more stuff for them to read through :-)

biglewzer · January 2014

biglewzer · January 2014

Carly198330 · January 2014

Hi Hun I found your messages!! finally. really sorry!! And I've pm back xx

JMCB09 · January 2014

Stalking:
v.tr.
1. To pursue by tracking stealthily.
2. To follow or observe (a person) persistently, especially out of obsession or derangement.
3. To go through (an area) in pursuit of prey or quarry.

The above is stalking. Replying to a thread is engaging in computer mediated communication.

Next please

Edit: because I can

Thirtyodd · January 2014

tourqeyes said:
I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall.

I didn't even respond to your PMs? I don't understand what you are saying about the time stamps?

Eta: have you read the TOS though? I will be curious to see if you post your PMs.

Did I say you did? No! I have sent YOU a few Pms, I will get on the PC tomorrow and post complete screen shots and show each PM in it's entirety! I have no problem admitting everything. You did a lot of public bitching and a lot of encouraging of others to post Gifs and now that things have turned nasty on you you are trying to act the innocent.

You have played a big part in keeping this argument going, the bump owners have seen that. What's the saying, if you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen? Btw in one of my many complaints to their HQ I called you and a few others bitches quite a few times so they know exactly what I think of you and they have not avoided any of my emails so far, so yes they already know what my thoughts are about you and your malicious attitude so what, you think they are going to be shocked that I sent you a few Pms?

I even called your pal Lois a big talker in my Pms didn't I, well I'm speaking the truth she's a big mouth but then remember these Pms were all sent AFTER she posted all of her posts on push presents. She's a MOD rofl!!!

biglewzer · January 2014

Thirtyodd said:

I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall. I didn't even respond to your PMs? I don't understand what you are saying about the time stamps? Eta: have you read the TOS though? I will be curious to see if you post your PMs.
Did I say you did? No! I have sent YOU a few Pms, I will get on the PC tomorrow and post complete screen shots and show each PM in it's entirety! I have no problem admitting everything. You did a lot of public bitching and a lot of encouraging of others to post Gifs and now that things have turned nasty on you you are trying to act the innocent. You have played a big part in keeping this argument going, the bump owners have seen that. What's the saying, if you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen? Btw in one of my many complaints to their HQ I called you and a few others bitches quite a few times so they know exactly what I think of you and they have not avoided any of my emails so far, so yes they already know what my thoughts are about you and your malicious attitude so what, you think they are going to be shocked that I sent you a few Pms? I even called your pal Lois a big talker in my Pms didn't I, well I'm speaking the truth she's a big mouth but then remember these Pms were all sent AFTER she posted all of her posts on push presents. She's a MOD rofl!!!

1982Babies · January 2014

I wonder what the "bump owners" are going to do. I mean, are they bringing out machetes to off all of the sarcastic pregnant ladies? Or is it going to be a virtual slap on the wrist? OMG they're going to get them fired from their jobs!!!

JMCB09 · January 2014

Salsera29 · January 2014

@thirtyodd what is it exactly that you think they are going to do? Ban everyone who says something you don't like? I just don't get your motivation here.

Carly198330 · January 2014

Anyway should we get back to the start of the post after all this I can't remember if I asked when are you were due etc Can't believe how different things are from my other two pregnancies (think I've left to much of a age gap) lol the appointments are no where near as much as I had with Jordan and Mya. It's nice finally finding someone on here from the uk xx

BBColt78 · January 2014

Thirtyodd said:

To be honest I think American hospitals are way too medical about giving birth, like a lot of them have doctors deliver the baby instead of a midwife and I just watch the American shows and think why?

I knew there weren't four pages of UK moms posting.

I know none of these girls on this thread, nor am I stalking. But I know BSC when I see it.

Anywho- basing your info off of American shows is probably not the most educated decision. However, for your database of knowledge, there are not as many midwives near me as there are doctors. Also, the midwives at my hospital wouldn't touch an IVF pregnancy. They considered it high risk. This is why I have to see the way too medical doctors who were trained to deliver babies.

JMCB09 · January 2014

Thirtyodd · January 2014

Carly198330 said:
Anyway should we get back to the start of the post after all this I can't remember if I asked when are you were due etc Can't believe how different things are from my other two pregnancies (think I've left to much of a age gap) lol the appointments are no where near as much as I had with Jordan and Mya. It's nice finally finding someone on here from the uk xx

Good idea yeah I'm due 22nd of July, I went a bit early first time around so I doubt that I will make it to my due date this time either :-)

I have less appointments too this time, I'm glad though as my midwife is miles away and they don't do home visits here.

cuntasaurusrex · January 2014

@thirtyodd you've been asked MULTIPLE times now, but the question warrants repeating- exactly what did loislayn say to you that gives you the impression she's a "bitch", "big talker", etc?

Carly198330 · January 2014

Hi Hun. I'm due on the 12 July but I'm having a planned c section (due to two previous and spinal surgery) so will be about a week earlier so around the 5th July. But my twin sisters baby is one on the 4th July!! How cool is that! How are you feeling? This pregnancy has been harder than my other two and I'm only just starting to feel more like my normal self!! Hope you all had a lovely Xmas and happy new year xxx

Thirtyodd · January 2014

Yeah I'm feeling good, my morning sickness is pretty bad, worse than last time but all the other symptoms from last time haven't showed up so that makes it better really. It must be cool having a twin, are you identical?

Thirtyodd · January 2014

BBColt78 said:

Thirtyodd said:

To be honest I think American hospitals are way too medical about giving birth, like a lot of them have doctors deliver the baby instead of a midwife and I just watch the American shows and think why?

I knew there weren't four pages of UK moms posting.

I know none of these girls on this thread, nor am I stalking. But I know BSC when I see it.

Anywho- basing your info off of American shows is probably not the most educated decision. However, for your database of knowledge, there are not as many midwives near me as there are doctors. Also, the midwives at my hospital wouldn't touch an IVF pregnancy. They considered it high risk. This is why I have to see the way too medical doctors who were trained to deliver babies.

Yeah but even on here they talk a lot about doctors being in the room during normal natural deliveries, I assume it's normal to have a doc present?

McCormic1020 · January 2014

I don't know where you live but my world is rainbows. I chose not to reside in negativity. My friends, neighborhood, and circle are nothing like you petty little girls. We are supportive. I already have a child and I did not "poop" her out. Mommy wars, lmao. You watch to much reality t.v. Are you a teen mom? LOL

Carly198330 · January 2014

No we are non identical twins ( but we look really alike enough for people to get us mixed up)! But my sisters daughter belle will be celebrating her 2nd birthday 10 days before my daughters 9th birthday. So our babies are all born in the same month! Lol.
I've had morning sickness which huts every evening (slowly going now though) but struggling with headaches. Are you? Xx

Carly198330 · January 2014

Not sure where huts come from should be hits!! Blame it on my phone I think!! Lol xx

Thirtyodd · January 2014

No I had severe migraines last time for the first few weeks after finding out but nope no headaches whatsoever this time around.

Who is older you or her? My friend is a twin, herself and her sister are due on the same day and even though they are very close they never told each other they were trying lol it was such a shock on the entire family and friends and each other when they both announced on the same day lol. I think close twins do normally go through a lot in life together though which is so cool :-)

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