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Monday Morning Bitchfest

..anyone care to join me?

Im bitching first thing this morning bc MH (he has the week off work) decided to wake up miserable as fuck as start bitching about how the baby woke up screaming at 12:30 last night as he was just about to come to bed (I was already asleep and DH had the monitor with him). DS has to be teething again..hes been waking up like this all week. Poor guy.

As for DH...wtf dude..if it was that bad and you had such a hard time getting him back to sleep you should've just woken me up instead of complaining and making me feel guilty now.
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    Sure!

    One of the last things I had convinced DH was good about living in Canada was the health care, but the system has screwed me over in a last-straw kind of way (my family doctor refuses to examine me for a fairly serious gynecological issue that I have OR refer me to a gynecologist, and I've been trying to get them to do this since JULY). My family doctor would be like, "oh...OK..." if I asked for a prescription for, say, medical marijuana with no justification, but he doesn't do checkups and doesn't touch patients himself, and only refers patients to ancient, awful specialists at this terrible hospital that I hate, for, like, a year in advance, regardless of the severity of a problem. Every other family doctor in the world is full and not accepting new patients, except for the ones with sh!tty reviews on ratemds. Now I want to move back to the U.S. just for the health care, which I can't believe I just typed that.

    Also, my (long) hair is crispy and dry and thinning slightly at the temples, and even though I have thick hair and haven't lost very much much at 6 months postpartum, I'm desperate for a new look. But I'm also worried that I'll miss having long hair and will be SOL for a while.

    Also, we live in a junior one-bedroom apartment designed for one person, and we are two adults, a baby, and two cats. We don't even have that much stuff, but the small space makes us look like hoarders. Moving is out of the question financially, so I have to be patient for now, and I hate that.

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    I'm sick and at work...

    I bought restaurant.com gift certificates for people for Christmas and now one of the restaurants isn't honoring them, so DH and I look like jackasses and I am pissed.  I tried to call their customer service and was put on hold for at least 20 minutes so I hung up.  So not in the mood today!
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    @Notsharknado Same here! Having DH home, I mentally equated this to having more childcare/household help from him... ehh..thats been negligible. Although he did do the dishes for me last night and got up with DS when he woke up screaming. So there's that.

    I blame half of it on the fucking new ps3 game I bought him for xmas. I guess thats my bad...
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    Hawkward said:

    DH started day shifts today. He stayed up too late last night and forgot to set his alarm. This morning I wakesly woke up, realized he had 30 minutes to get to work, and woke him up. I went out to start the car for him (it was -1 windchill), and when I came back in, he gave me attitude because he wanted to drive the truck not the car. I saved your ass this morning so get over it, dude.

    This sounds like something MH might do. Hes most certainly not a morning person and always seems to be in a god awful, non-functional mood when he wakes up. Sometimes its easier to just stay out of his way and let him work it out himself.
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    @CtGirl30 Im sorry...you guys have definitely had a rough go of things lately. What a bummer to be sick throughout the entire holiday season...there's enough shit to worry about let alone sick kids and being sick yourself.

    Maybe you need to Lysol bomb the shit out of your house and GTFO for a while...lol. You poor thing! You got all my sorries.
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    I'm going to bitch about DD's sleep. I'm so tired and cranky. It's been months of bad sleep. Anyone want to adopt a cute 2.5 yr old with mild insomnia? She giggles and cuddles really nice.
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    After 9 glorious, wonderful days off I had to be back at work today. Of course it would be snowing this morning. So woke the girls up a little earlier to take them to my dads.

    Apparently I wasn't accelerating fast enough after a red light for some yahoo in a monte carlo. The driver passed me and while coming back into my lane in front of me the monte carlo spun out! Went through both lanes heading east bound went through the median and ended up facing west in the west bound lanes. The idiot is lucky there was no other traffic. Who the hell goes speeding through snow covered roads? Thank goodness I was able to brake and keep my car under control.

    When I finally got to work no one was frickin here! Over an hour later and I am still the only one here. No call or email from my boss.

    Wow! How scary! An SUV behind us fishtailed badly yesterday. The roads are terrible. Glad you're okay.
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    Mine's the same it's been the last few days. My throat hurts so fucking bad. Aaand I just coughed up blood. Great.

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    The Lysol bomb sounds like a great idea, Mrs. T. So much stuff going around this Winter - colds, stomach bugs, etc.
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    My kid will not nap. DH is at work today. I'm off. I just ate some breakfast while she babbles on the monitor. Every time I try to put her down she is like literally asleep in my arms and wakes up the instant I put her in the crib. I love being home with her, but she is tired and needs a nap.
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    DS got up before 7 am. Bad boy.
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    I hope everyone thats sick or has sick LOs feels better soon! This cold/flu season thus far can kiss my ass.

    I gotta go get my sweat on to Shaun T's Focus T25 (got it for xmas!). Then this afternoon we're going to tour 2 daycare centers we're looking into for PT care for DS. Then hopefully I can get this job thing going and make some money! I think DS will love going a few days a week to play with the other kids.

    Eta fucking autocorrect..
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    My older two kids are home for another week.  DH just went back to work after having almost 3 weeks off, and it won't stop storming, we are getting dug out right now, and I just checked and there is another storm warning for Wednesday.  So much snow.
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    My DH is in Florida right now until Thursday.  I'm fucking cold, bro. 


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    DS has RSV, two ear infections and is teething. Awesome sauce. He is doing much better today though.

    DD is not getting some form of the sickness.

    I am so happy to be at work today. DH annoyed the hell out of me this holiday.

    Oh and @CTGirl30 I feel ya on the no sleep thing. DS was so good in the beginning and now it is aweful. So freaking tired.

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    I also fell down the stairs with the baby yesterday. He is fine but I hit my butt, back, neck and head. My elbow is so jacked up, it is still bleeding today.

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    Holy shit EVA116 !! How awful! Sorry you are hurt, but thank god the baby is ok.

    I fell not too long ago with DS in my arms, on a sopping wet floor in the Y locker room (the cleaning woman had just mopped and failed to put a wet floor sign down to warn us of it). Luckily he was fine and so was I, but my back and hip cracked so hard when I fell that I was seriously afraid I broke something.
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    EVA116 said:

    I also fell down the stairs with the baby yesterday. He is fine but I hit my butt, back, neck and head. My elbow is so jacked up, it is still bleeding today.

    I'm sorry, that is painful, and scary both.
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    Yeah it sucked. I was crying, DS was crying and poor DD started crying too. She was already at the bottom of the stairs. I missed hitting her. Stupid stairs.

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    DD said "no no stairs, no no" LOL

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    Aw @eva116 those stupid stairs hurting her mommy no no no! That sounds rough and scary...I'm sorry!

    The holidays are finally catching up to DD. She is constipated so she is a whiny mess. I have been sharing my mommy duties with my mom, step dad, and Dh among other family members so I didn't realize she hasn'tpooped lately. I feel guilty that I let her get this bad because now she won't eat the stuff that might help her poop because her belly hurts :(

    Ugh I kknow she constipates easy and I feel like I just let this happen :(
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    Apparently DS is getting his first tooth. The tip of it has surfaced and I noticed it Saturday after he got his shots. He's happy today but I hope this doesn't make him too irritable.

    My phone is also pissing me off. It keeps saying it has no storage space but when I go to delete stuff, it says the same thing. WTF? Can't wait til February when our contract is up and we get new phones.

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    Eva, I hope you guys catch a break soon. You must be so bruised. Glad the baby's ok.
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    Thanks @bunkinmama I don't even have my regular go to stuff to help her out because we are at my mom's. Usually some canned peaches, a prune and some white grape juice help out a lot. So I made it work and gave her some canned Mandarin oranges, Apple cherry juice and an apple.
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    DH took his last 4 weeks of his CA given 6 weeks of paternal baby bonding time. 2 weeks around Thanksgiving. 2 around Christmas...he goes back to work January 2nd. Not so bad on the surface, but I had to work a very busy retail season and he spent most of this baby bonding time on his butt playing video games. He's still in bed right now as I type because he stayed up to play some games while I co-slept with a kid that tosses and turns as bad as he does. I need to get this kid in his own bed before I blow up like a balloon because I can see how much help DH is going to be. /rant
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    DD was an asshole this morning while I was getting ready for work and to take her to daycare. She hasn't been since last Monday and she was a hot mess when I tried to leave her. I felt so bad she was so upset and that we had a rough morning. Hopefully in the next few weeks it will ease up since the holidays are over.
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    @jessicabcairns I'm sorry your DH has to deal with that disappointment so close to your LOs arrival. That's definitely a bummer knowing that your family can't be there for the birth of your LO. But at least they are all coming out at one point or another.
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    I agree...shopping is a pretty shitty reason to not be there for the birth of your grandchild...but ehh..what can you do, thats the decision she made for whatever reason or another. At least you guys will have his sister and your family there for immediate support.

    Enjoy your movie!
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    I hope the movie cheers him up @jessicabcairns
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