Our hospital has two professional photographers that take newborn pictures. I'm talking CUTE pictures with the nice backgrounds, props, etc. We used our hospital picture for our birth announcement they were so nice. The awesome thing was that she came into our hospital room and turned it into a mini studio.
I was glad that we brought a few cute knitted hats and outfits with us for pictures.
Not sure if most hospitals do this and thought I'd share!
Re: Hospital Newborn Pictures- Something to think about. :)
That stinks! Ours were very reasonable.
dx PCOS 2007
BFP #1 (natural) 12/23/2010. Stillbirth due to IC 4/2/2011
TTC #2 starting 03/2012
RE starting 07/2012
05/2013 BFP on a Letrozole (Femara)/trigger!
Cerclage, Procardia, Makena, GD (with insulin), MBR, and we made it!
Our Angel was born sleeping at 20 weeks due to IC.
And you can take them when you get home. Babies are kind of adorable all the time. It's silly to say you'll have nothing.
And I agree with Tlex. You don't need to remind us what's going on in every single post you make. We remember!
Honestly? My pregnancy hasn't gone anything like I've planned either. I've been in the hospital for a week, and I'm not leaving until baby is here. My MFM told me today that she would be suprised if I make it to 34 weeks. LO could need to come out in two weeks, or it could be tomorrow. We don't know. I'm looking at definite nicu time for LO, and surgery a few months later for hypospadias and the mass of who knows what between his cord and penis.
But trying to move forward is important. Dwelling on the issues isn't going to help you feel better. Speaking with a professional is the only thing that has a chance. I'm in the process of working through things myself- I know how hard it must be for you as well.
Also, fwiw, I have a friend who had her twin boys unexpectedly at 29w5d. She had a professional photographer brought into the nicu about a week later, and she loves those pictures. They remind her of how far they've come and commemorate a huge part of all of their lives. It may not be the photos you always wanted- but they will be real photos of your baby's first days of life, and they'll be beautiful.
Agree. My first daughter was in the NICU and we didn't get hospital pics and had a professional shoot when she came home, at about 3-4 weeks old. She still looks super tiny and newborn in the pics. We used them
for her birth announcements.
ETA as TLex and Rondack said, we also had friends and family who took amazing photos in the NICU and have many of those framed.
Right now you're making everything about complications and issues and that isn't healthy. You need to talk to your doctor ASAP about it so you can start handling things in a better way than focusing only on that and talking only about that.
Things are hard and don't go as planned, but when it's all you think or talk about something has to change or you will break down.
I would imagine even in the NICU, they (or you, or whoever) could get some pretty amazing photos that will be among your most prized possesions, even if they aren't 'good enough' to frame or share on an announcement.
I will go ahead and echo PP: while NB photos are traditionally done within the first few weeks, there is nothing wrong with having them done later on. As a matter of fact, I just got an announcement about a week ago from my cousin's 4th baby, born in September (I think). The photo was obviously fairly recent, as baby was wide awake, on his belly, holding his own head up. It wasn't the traditional 'sleepy newborn' type photo, but it was an absolutely adorable announcement!
dx PCOS 2007
BFP #1 (natural) 12/23/2010. Stillbirth due to IC 4/2/2011
TTC #2 starting 03/2012
RE starting 07/2012
05/2013 BFP on a Letrozole (Femara)/trigger!
Cerclage, Procardia, Makena, GD (with insulin), MBR, and we made it!
Our Angel was born sleeping at 20 weeks due to IC.
Some of the photos I don't share much, because people will be dumb about it and talk about "you both look bad!" Shut up. It's gorgeous. I also have some that are more traditionally breathtakingly beautiful, plus the NICU garb. It's part of his life and his newborn story. You'll want photos and they can be lovely.