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Mrae87 · December 2013

To those of you who are still able... What's the best position you've found while pregnant? And has anybody bought prego lingerie?

nblondheim · December 2013

I don't even know what sex is anymore....my poor husband!!!!!

kare_bear_12 · December 2013

What is sex?? Doesn't ring a bell!!!

jwls84 · December 2013

Ugh I hate sex lately, but the "best" position lately is spooning or doggy.

lvlichelle · December 2013

DH told me the other night that he doesn't want to have sex again until the baby is born. He said that he is scared of hurting LO. I told him it wouldn't hurt her and that I have 10 weeks until EDD then another 6 weeks before it is okay to have sex again. I said "That is 4 months to wait". Honestly I have no clue how long it has been since we have done it. For like 2 months we were working opposite shifts at work and so I never got to see him except on the weekends.

If the actual act of sex would go quicker for him, I would probably do it more often. I don't like how my belly moves all over the place during sex now... all I can think about is how we are shaking LO up in there.

kelley72 · December 2013

Definitely doggy! No weight on my abdomen so no discomfort and no bellies (mine or dh's) in the way visually. I have no bought any lingerie for pregnancy but I do have babydoll dresses that make me feel sexy- as do heels..

CharlestonVal · December 2013

I'm just relieved to hear I'm not the only one totally NOT in the mood lately. Poor DH.

nlane0723 · December 2013

Ha. What sex? I did let him give it to me from behind last night, but that's because I fail at wifely duties and he caught on to my baby kicking scheme. If we even have sex (it's literally happened no more than 5 times since I got KU), it's doggy. My belly gets in the way on top and if I'm on my back, my limbs go numb.

Nickiechan · December 2013

Doggy... is my favorite for comfort...

crystaljoanna · December 2013

On my side though we are averaging once every two weeks so it's not like it's happening all the time.

amdecker1016 · December 2013

My poor husband - the doc said to refrain from sex until birth. But we'll see if that happens.

LiFeIsAmIrAcLe · December 2013

Lol I feel like the naughty dirty pregnant woman compared to all you guys who just aren't feeling it. I've never been so horny in my entire life lol. ;;) spooning is probably my favorite these days. The only position that has gotten uncomfortable is being on my stomach. Other then that we still at least attempt them all. :P I have noticed though that for some reason it takes me longer to orgasm now that I'm pregnant! No idea why.

kelley72 · December 2013

I'm just the opposite- I reach orgasm very easily! Love it

VanessaBee · December 2013

Soooo much preggo lingerie!!! I'm a total lingerie hoarder anyway, so this was just another excuse to buy more!! I'm so delighted by all the beautiful options out there. I'm still finding I can do most positions - I haven't hit that point where lying on my back is uncomfortable - but, that said I can't be on top. The penetration is WAY too deep now - or I'm way too sensitive - or some combination thereof. I did manage to do it laying on my stomach the other day, but it required an architectural feat of pillows! Mmmm...so worth it though! $:\$ ">

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SamJustice · December 2013

Doggy all the way. I prop myself up with pillows to help my hands and knees. Plus it helps to keep my boobs from swinging to hard or my belly from getting too crushed.

Or I lay on my side with FI kneeling behind me. I can't do on top because moving my hips like that causes crazy cramps and missionary we can pull off for a minute or two.

Also couch sex is pretty awesome. It's like modified missionary with your butt hanging ofg and him kneeling on the floor.

mamamia866 · December 2013

Doggy and me on top. I got some this morning after a three week hiatus. I am less horny than I was during second tri, but I gave in because the pregnancy orgasms are so much stronger than pre-preg!!

Hdhtk4 · December 2013

Couch sex (modified missionary) or spooning. Not into doggy and I just feel a weird pressure when I'm on top. I wish I was into it like some of you girls though!

PerkyErky · December 2013

I have been on pelvic rest for 3 months and have been so horny. I am hoping the pelvic rest will be lifted at 32 weeks, dr said it might be. I will have to keep all these positions in mind!

lobsterwife09 · December 2013

My pelvis has been aching in pain for weeks so moving around into different positions is quite uncomfortable. We've been doing it while I'm laying down on my back facing the edge of the bed and he stands, doing all the work poor guy, lol. But getting up hurts so icredibly much from the shifting of the weight and I sometimes have striking pains.
Doggy has always been a little uncomfortable but I think we'll try it again. I can't wait to be done with pregnancy so we can get back into doing some naughty things! lol $:\$ ">

kstar83 · December 2013

im impressed, my poor DH. Last time I was on top and it worked OK, its hard for me to finish now though. Really sucks. I think we both get in our own heads way too much. Maybe doggie style will work that way we aren't looking at my belly....

KariB509 · December 2013

I agree with doggy. It really works well when I kneel on the floor and rest my body on the couch.

BTBergstrom · December 2013

Me on top is the only way we have had success. Although my orgasms are not as strong which isn't much fun. DH is lucky if we have sex once a week it's more like every two.

jennybean80 · December 2013

No sex since mid-November. Stupid pelvic rest :-(

Christencox · December 2013

I am WAY more into it than he is lately. I LOVE being on top, and shower sex from behind is AMAZING! Spooning isn't great for me, and he hasn't really even tried missionary in a while. I would do it every day if I could! He likes when I'm on top too, so it's a win-win!

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novelblessings · December 2013

I'm with the "what's sex" crowd. According to DH we've only had sex twice since I've gotten pregnant. I feel bad for him but early on when I wanted it, he was never around because he was really busy with work in the Fall. Now I just feel huge and we just haven't attempted to go there in a couple months.

craftiemommie · December 2013

Last time we did it was october... and its not happening any time soon! I had some problems with bleeding and we are both freaked out a little (lot). He's willing to wait. ... a long time I guess! He's the best though, I get upset about not satisfying him but he's just fine.

Momstheword83 · December 2013

I like spooning position the best. Doggy comes in second place but I get tired of my belly hanging after awhile. I'm going to suggest the modified missionary position next time because I really miss missionary.

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Katieblue552 · December 2013

Where are you ladies getting prego lingerie? We are still pretty active, with me being on top for the most part. Doggy is so uncomfortable for me, I feel like I'm stretching the baby out, possibly out of downward dog yoga habits.

mrsdahamm · December 2013

Our "go to" is me on top facing him but my belly is starting to smother him. I usually just stay on top but turn away from him. Doggy is good too, but I don't orgasm from it so it's not used very often. Honestly though foreplay is my favorite at this point. No belly in the way and it feels amazing. I've actually been surprised that my DH hasn't been freaked out by the belly yet.

VanessaBee · December 2013

@katieblue I like the FigLeaves website because they carry lots of different brands (HotMilk, Elle McPhearson, etc...). Also the HotMilk website, because I LOVE their stuff. I've, on occasion found some of HotMilk's stuff of Zulilly...whoo-hoo for sales!!

babylimas · December 2013

On top is the only possible way. Except does anyone else feel a lot of pain? I ache for a long time afterwards, almost like things aren't fitting.

BethRN1987 · December 2013

Sex? Ha! Last time was when this LO was concieved. Hubby to nervous with previous miscarriages even though we both logically know it won't hurt. Although I am getting really antsy and just want to have sex. I can take care of myself but there's nothing like sex

nblondheim · December 2013

@novelblessings

You're not alone!!! We have once very early on then I was placed on pelvic rest due to bleeding. I was on that for a long time. Once I got off we tried but I was large and uncomfortable and could feel the babies moving and it was awkward for me! And we again can't now! Twice the whole pregnancy....yikes!!!!!

Mrae87 · December 2013

I am super horny

hubby needs to hurry home from work!! And I need to check out that prego lingerie site!!

BrideNamedMeg · December 2013

Spooning or doggy with a pillow to support my boobs and belly

Shower isn't so bad either but I sometimes get a bit too warm in there.

twinlove314 · December 2013

I've had the best luck standing by the edge of the bed, bent over with DH behind me. I use a pillow under my elbows to lean on

LaurenAsh23 · December 2013

Doggy is easiest, but others are still doable for the time being. Dh can't/won't touch the boobs though...colostrum started coming out of both the other night. Needless to say, it was definitely a mood killer!

Eta: most of the time though, I'd rather just take care of myself.

Excitedmum35 · December 2013

I think we may have done it a total of three times since our BFP. Last pregnancy I was really into it- but this time- not so much. Although- I'm beginning to feel like I could the last couple of weeks but I think DH just thinks its completely out if the question or he isn't into it too. Not sure.
But those three times- I've been on top. We do doggy if DH needs to finish but I never orgasm that way either.
Why is that?!?!?

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Bethany Elizabeth born on 3/14/14 @ 6:48am weighing almost 8lbs 1oz and measuring 20 1/2 inches.