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  • TP to my in-laws for discussing pregnancies at Christmas dinner.
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  • peggels24 said:

    TP to my in-laws for discussing pregnancies at Christmas dinner.

    ((Hugs)) TP for sure.

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    BFP#1 June 2013/ EDD 2/23/2013 Blighted Ovum confirmed July 18, 2013
    took Cytotec July 20, 2013

    BFP #2 12/28/2013 EDD 9/11/2014 Its A Girl!!! Rebecca Ann!

    Rebecca Ann born 8/31/2014 6lb 1oz 19 inches long 8:55am!!!!


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  • peggels24 said:
    TP to my in-laws for discussing pregnancies at Christmas dinner.
    I'm sorry!  :(



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  • TP to my boss for making me work today.  I'm leaving 2 hours early and taking sick time off so I can go do some after-Christmas shopping.  Also TP to the USPS for not delivering my SIL's Christmas gift on time - Estimated Delivery Date: 12/23/13 - it's now 12/26 and it's still in freaking NJ UGH!
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  • TP to my boss for making me work today.  I'm leaving 2 hours early and taking sick time off so I can go do some after-Christmas shopping.  Also TP to the USPS for not delivering my SIL's Christmas gift on time - Estimated Delivery Date: 12/23/13 - it's now 12/26 and it's still in freaking NJ UGH!
    I have to work today too.  TP to our bosses.

    BFP 7/16/13, EDD 3/27/14 - blighted ovum  - D&C 8/26/13
    Dx PCOS and Septate Uterus
    Septum Resection - 2/6/14
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    March 2014:   first medicated cycle + iui
    = BFP!
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  • @peggels24 Ugh, TP to them. How insensitive! ((Hugs))

    @MoreThanSparrows08 TP to your boss and the whole darn postal system! I'm waiting on a couple gifts myself.

    @Drgn30 TP your boss too.
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  • This day is getting shittier and shittier.  Another coworker just announced their pregnancy.

    Can I throw myself a little pity party over here?  I'm on CD68 and I'm hungover.  FML

    BFP 7/16/13, EDD 3/27/14 - blighted ovum  - D&C 8/26/13
    Dx PCOS and Septate Uterus
    Septum Resection - 2/6/14
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    March 2014:   first medicated cycle + iui
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  • @Drgn30 I'm so sorry :(
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  • @Dragn30 ((hugs)) & @peggels24 ((hugs))

    @MoreThanSparrows08 TP to usps!!

    TP to my sister who brought me two Christmas gifts yesterday when we exchange gifts...NEVER. So last night I felt like crap because 1) you're pg and I'm not and 2) I didn't get you a gift. Made me feel like a big jerk.



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    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
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  • Drgn30 said:
    This day is getting shittier and shittier.  Another coworker just announced their pregnancy.

    Can I throw myself a little pity party over here?  I'm on CD68 and I'm hungover.  FML
    Hugs, @Drgn30.
  • TP to the holidays in general for making me seriously grouchy right now.
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  • Thank you ladies.  I don't know what I would do without this board.  Knowing that I'm not alone is the only thing keeping me from becoming a crying mess right now.

    @frenchteachermama - ((hugs))  I can only imagine how tough it is to have a pregnant sibling.

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    Dx PCOS and Septate Uterus
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    March 2014:   first medicated cycle + iui
    = BFP!
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  • @Drgn30 Pitty party away! I'm so sorry this is happening all around you. Have a nice big glass of wine and chocolate tonight when you get home. ((Hugs))

    @3purpleroses How insensitive! I'm sorry. ((Hugs))

    Frenchteachermama Ugh that's so annoying! ((Hugs))

    @Peledreamsofrain ((Hugs)) No worries about being grouchy, everyone on this board has been through hell and some grouchiness is to be expected.

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  • Drgn30 said:
    This day is getting shittier and shittier.  Another coworker just announced their pregnancy.

    Can I throw myself a little pity party over here?  I'm on CD68 and I'm hungover.  FML
    ((hugs)) @drgn30
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    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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  • Frenchteachermama oh that's shitty!  
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  • TP to my mom who purchased a nursing cover while I was still pregnant (a cute trendy nursing scarf I told her about) and even though we experienced our 2nd loss in August she still gave it to me for Christmas! Really Mom?!?!  Way to rub it in my face!  And of course that made everyone in my family look at me like they were expecting some announcement.... ugh.


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    BFP #2 - 10-15-2010 - Baby boy born 6-11-11
    BFP#3 - 6-2013 - edd 2-21-14 -mmc discovered by u/s @ 9 wks - D&C
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    U/S 10-8 & 10-14 - baby is growing perfectly!
    10-20 - 151 bpm 10-31 153 bpm
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  • @Courtney1741, how insensitive. I'm so sorry. ((HUGS))

    *Baby mentioned.*

    TP to the hair stylist and her customer sitting next to me. I am gettung my hair did, and the client in the next chair just had a baby (same week as my EDD). Of course it was all they could talk about. After hearing all about her delivery, I finally asked my stylist to move me while my color is processing.

    So now I'm sitting by myself in a pedicure room and people are looking at me like I'm crazy. TP to them. My stylist is a loss mama too, so at least she understands.
  • TP to my step mom who got me pj's for Christmas and after I open them and said thank you and put them aside to move onto something else she says "oh, what size are they?" I look, "XXL". She says, "Oh, well I got them a lot bigger for you because you know, you were suppose to be a lot bigger by now."

    They also got me nursery furniture as my "big gift" and didn't return it because they got it in another city and it was heavy.

    FML

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  • TP to my mom who purchased a nursing cover while I was still pregnant (a cute trendy nursing scarf I told her about) and even though we experienced our 2nd loss in August she still gave it to me for Christmas! Really Mom?!?!  Way to rub it in my face!  And of course that made everyone in my family look at me like they were expecting some announcement.... ugh.
    @Courtney1741, that's awful! TP to your mom for clearly not thinking about what she was doing. :(  Hugs to you.


     

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  • @courtney1741 @newfmom7 - that is so rude and insensitive - I cannot believe your family members gave you those gifts! Wow. I'm kind of in shock. TP to them for being insensitive.
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  • **** little one mentioned****

    I have been doing ok for the most part but the stress of my not so competent staff during inventory, the holidays, I had a break when my Assistant wanted to show me her 3 month old grand baby... she is one of the few people who knows about the mc.... I am just having a rough day...

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  • @Courtney1741, how insensitive. I'm so sorry. ((HUGS))

    *Baby mentioned.*

    TP to the hair stylist and her customer sitting next to me. I am gettung my hair did, and the client in the next chair just had a baby (same week as my EDD). Of course it was all they could talk about. After hearing all about her delivery, I finally asked my stylist to move me while my color is processing.

    So now I'm sitting by myself in a pedicure room and people are looking at me like I'm crazy. TP to them. My stylist is a loss mama too, so at least she understands.

    ((Hugs)). That has happened to me too. I was getting a pedi and the woman across from me was pregnant and due right around my EDD. She was talking nonstop about baby and her lamentations of pregnancy. I started to cry and asked the woman to move us to a different room. I was embarrassed but she was a loss mama too so, like your stylist, she got it. I'm guessing that if it happened to you and to me, it probably happens more often than we would guess. I'm so sorry, though, that it happened to you. ((hugs))

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    BFP#2 11/6/2013.  CP 11/14/2013.  

    BFP #3 12/13/2013.  Beta #1 @ 15dpo- 239. Progesterone 27.  Beta #2 @17dpo - 90.  CP 12/21/2013

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  • E&B0811 said:
    @Courtney1741, how insensitive. I'm so sorry. ((HUGS)) *Baby mentioned.* TP to the hair stylist and her customer sitting next to me. I am gettung my hair did, and the client in the next chair just had a baby (same week as my EDD). Of course it was all they could talk about. After hearing all about her delivery, I finally asked my stylist to move me while my color is processing. So now I'm sitting by myself in a pedicure room and people are looking at me like I'm crazy. TP to them. My stylist is a loss mama too, so at least she understands.
    ((Hugs)). That has happened to me too. I was getting a pedi and the woman across from me was pregnant and due right around my EDD. She was talking nonstop about baby and her lamentations of pregnancy. I started to cry and asked the woman to move us to a different room. I was embarrassed but she was a loss mama too so, like your stylist, she got it. I'm guessing that if it happened to you and to me, it probably happens more often than we would guess. I'm so sorry, though, that it happened to you. ((hugs))

    Thanks, hon. Sending love and snuggles back to you.
  • TP to my mom who purchased a nursing cover while I was still pregnant (a cute trendy nursing scarf I told her about) and even though we experienced our 2nd loss in August she still gave it to me for Christmas! Really Mom?!?!  Way to rub it in my face!  And of course that made everyone in my family look at me like they were expecting some announcement.... ugh.

    WHAT?! Omg I am so sorry!!!



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    TTC #3 since June 2013
    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


  • newfmom7 said:

    TP to my step mom who got me pj's for Christmas and after I open them and said thank you and put them aside to move onto something else she says "oh, what size are they?" I look, "XXL". She says, "Oh, well I got them a lot bigger for you because you know, you were suppose to be a lot bigger by now."

    They also got me nursery furniture as my "big gift" and didn't return it because they got it in another city and it was heavy.

    FML

    My jaw is on the floor again! I can't believe this! I am so so sorry!!!!!




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    My FF Chart:
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
    TTC #3 since June 2013
    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


  • Thanks for all the support ladies!!  My mom is actually super supportive, she lost my sister at 6 months of age due to complications from her premature birth.  She has been my rock through both of my losses, and I just don't think she was thinking this would hurt me since she knows we are TTC.  But it was definitely a punch in the gut. I had to really hold it back from bursting into tears and just waited til I was alone later!


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    BFP #1 - 6-2009 - edd 1-23-10 - mmc - discovered by u/s @ 13wks 2days - D&C
    BFP #2 - 10-15-2010 - Baby boy born 6-11-11
    BFP#3 - 6-2013 - edd 2-21-14 -mmc discovered by u/s @ 9 wks - D&C
    BFP #4 - 3-10-14 - edd 11-19-14 - natural miscarriage 4-10-14
    BFP #5 - 8-24-14 - edd 5-5-15 - Please be our RAINBOW!!! <3
    U/S 9-30 - baby measuring right on track, heart rate of 155bpm
    U/S 10-8 & 10-14 - baby is growing perfectly!
    10-20 - 151 bpm 10-31 153 bpm
    11-13 IT'S A BOY!!!!!
    12-11 & 12-18 - 144 bpm everything looked great at recheck of a/s
  • stefuge said:
    @courtney1741 @newfmom7 - that is so rude and insensitive - I cannot believe your family members gave you those gifts! Wow. I'm kind of in shock. TP to them for being insensitive.
    This!  WTF?  I'm so sorry that @courtney1741 and @newfmom7 had to deal with that!  ((hugs))
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    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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  • rubysi said:
    **** little one mentioned****

    I have been doing ok for the most part but the stress of my not so competent staff during inventory, the holidays, I had a break when my Assistant wanted to show me her 3 month old grand baby... she is one of the few people who knows about the mc.... I am just having a rough day...
    ((hugs))
    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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