^^^ yep, so different for every baby! But I'll play! Aidan+Anais everything - the swaddle blankets were the only thing DD liked to be swaddled in (so all out Velcro swaddlers are pristine for this new kiddo). I like the traditional muslin ones (boutique sized, not Target) for swaddling. The bamboo ones are SUPER soft but don't hold a swaddle tightly. We also used these for everything - nursing covers, car seat / stroller sun shades, changing blanket, blanket for play/tummy time, ginormous burp cloth, etc. We have 12 and used every one of them all the time! I also love their "burpy bibs" - they were my favorite burp cloth and they were great for drool bibs while teething (they stain easily so we didn't use them for solid food).
I LOVE the BrestFriend nursing pillow. I nursed until DD was 18 mo and we used the pillow every day. I hate the Boppy for nursing.
and conversely, kiddo ONLY stayed swaddled in the ones that were shaped, velcroed/zippered and gimmicky... he broke out of ever a&a swaddle we ever tried. the a&a blankets, while adorable and useful now as forts, were utterly useless to us in the first year or two.
itzbeen timer was useless and we returned it.
boppy was essential. ameda nipple healing gel pads were essential. hmm, what else??
-Snap n Go stroller for the carseat. Srsly that was a lifesaver. Have a double one now for the twins.
-ONE set of honking bottles. once you find the kind that works with your LO get rid of all the honking other ones and stockpile the one you like. Trying to sort through Doc Browns, Advent, Evenflow ect was a PITA! Guess thats more later advise than registry advise.
-Swaddles
-Lots of packages of those basic cloth diapers to use as burp rags
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A&A blankets-While my kids used other swaddle devices for sleeping, these were great for playing on the floor, nursing cover, blanket for car/stroller. Both my kids have used them as their loveys since 6 mos.
Twice the amount of burp cloths that you think you'll need. I like the gerber prefolds ones, but prefer ones I made with chenille in one side and flannel in the other.
Nursing pillows-I got both the MBF and boppy and kept one on each level of our house.
Something to sit baby in so you can things done, like shower.
Snacks and easy lunches for yourself, as you may find it hard to get some grub for yourself.
For me Aden and Anais swaddling blankets. I LOVE them. LOVE. I bought a new set for my second and am thinking of getting a third for my thrid. I just love them. They are huge, breathable and become softer with each wash.
A good quality breastpump. Worth its weight in gold.
I think as a third time Mum I am shocked at what you don't need for baby and what I wouldn't waste my money on again.
Why do people love the fucking itzbeen timer so much. Not sure why it gets me all riled up but it's stupid! I admit to tracking the first 2-3 weeks BFing on my phone though until we fell into a pattern.
I just looked it up, that seems silly to me.
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I really liked the RNP. They weren't "invented" yet for #1 but I used the crap out of it for #2. A white noise sound machine. Effing love those things. They soothe baby and drown out the noises you make around the house. FP Healthy care booster seat in lieu of a high chair. Not only did I like not having a high chair floating around my kitchen, it's easy to clean, and I brought it with us out to eat so we didn't have to use their germ infested high chairs. PJ's with zippers bc eff button snaps in the middle of the night. Jumparoo. My kids looooved it.
Absolutely useless (FOR ME): crib mobile, swing (huge product replaced by smaller bouncy chair), messenger style diaper bags (every time you drop something the darn thing dramatically falls off your arm), I way overspent by thinking I needed the Graco PNP w/ changing area. Hmm that's it for now.
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A GOOD nasal aspirator. Not the crappy bulb syringe kind. Nose Frida or if that freaks you out there are odometer other good battery operated ones.
I registered for the Nose Frida. The idea totally grosses me out, but everyone says it is the best! I assume becoming a mom I will get over a lot of things I consider gross
I agree with most of these...love a&a everything. But I must add the cottony Carter's gowns with the elastic at the bottom. They come in boy, girl, & neutral styles. They are perfect for the never ending diaper changes!!! Plus, they have the little fold over things on the sleeves to keep baby from scratching his/her face!
Gerber CD prefolds as burp cloths. Inexpensive and super absorbant. Pack N Play- ours had the changing pad, mobile, and bassinet/raised level. I feel like a sleeper attachment is redundant if you have the bassinet level. Nursing pads - for me, Lansinoh disposables for in public, random cloth ones at home (they showed through my clothes, so they were a no go for leaving the house. Cheap disposables felt like ripping duct tape off my nipples.) Something with motion to strap them into-swing/bouncer/whatever (every kid is different.) A nursing pillow. I liked Boppy better. PJs with zippers or open bottoms. Sleep bags are great. Snaps at 3 am pissed me off more memorably than anything I can think of regarding infant care. Car seat, crib, some method of feeding.
We never had or missed a specially designed diaper receptacle, warmer of bottles or wipes, feeding timer, or a video monitor.
This EXACTLY!! I really thought i was the only one who used those CDs as burping cloths. I also wanted to ask.. my son used the soothie line of bottles and passi's and i heard they no longer sell them. Anyone know if this is true or not?
A&A swaddle blankets & burpers. They are ridiculously expensive and ridiculously awesome. Snap N Go stroller for car seat. White noise machine for nursery.
Rock n play-used it nonstop for both of mine. Also a sound machine that stays on! We had one if those cute little lambs that only stayed on 30 minutes...guess who woke up every 30 minutes...
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I LOVE the BrestFriend nursing pillow. I nursed until DD was 18 mo and we used the pillow every day. I hate the Boppy for nursing.
-Snap n Go stroller for the carseat. Srsly that was a lifesaver. Have a double one now for the twins.
-ONE set of honking bottles. once you find the kind that works with your LO get rid of all the honking other ones and stockpile the one you like. Trying to sort through Doc Browns, Advent, Evenflow ect was a PITA! Guess thats more later advise than registry advise.
-Swaddles
-Lots of packages of those basic cloth diapers to use as burp rags
POS+April 2009-M/c May 2009, POS+July 2009-M/c Aug 2009, POS+ Novemeber 2009 -Baby Boy Charlie DOB 07/06/2010, POS+July 2011-M/c and D&C Aug 2011, POS+Dec 2011 -Baby Boy Ethan DOB 07/27/2012, POS+Aug 2013-TWIN BOYS! Jack and Miles born March 23rd 2014!!
Twice the amount of burp cloths that you think you'll need. I like the gerber prefolds ones, but prefer ones I made with chenille in one side and flannel in the other.
Nursing pillows-I got both the MBF and boppy and kept one on each level of our house.
Something to sit baby in so you can things done, like shower.
Snacks and easy lunches for yourself, as you may find it hard to get some grub for yourself.
A white noise sound machine. Effing love those things. They soothe baby and drown out the noises you make around the house.
FP Healthy care booster seat in lieu of a high chair. Not only did I like not having a high chair floating around my kitchen, it's easy to clean, and I brought it with us out to eat so we didn't have to use their germ infested high chairs.
PJ's with zippers bc eff button snaps in the middle of the night.
Jumparoo. My kids looooved it.
Absolutely useless (FOR ME): crib mobile, swing (huge product replaced by smaller bouncy chair), messenger style diaper bags (every time you drop something the darn thing dramatically falls off your arm), I way overspent by thinking I needed the Graco PNP w/ changing area. Hmm that's it for now.
Snap N Go stroller for car seat.
White noise machine for nursery.