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Megncowan2 · December 2013

Sorry.

AnyMax · December 2013

I think you've got the wrong board.

kbedfox · December 2013

Definitely not the right place to post this.

ngolimento · December 2013

This is a highly inappropriate post for this board, please take it down.

buggirl72 · December 2013

What the above ladies said. Please edit your post to say "apology -wrong board". PgAL will happily welcome you and give you the support you need right now.

Megncowan2 · December 2013

I'm sorry I accidently wrote this on the wrong board. It's not like I didn't have a traumatic loss and clearly was a part of this board at one time. You ladies could have been a little nicer and more understanding but thanks.

blackbird818 · December 2013

I actually think the above ladies were VERY nice in their responses & pointing out you have the wrong board. They didn't roast you alive or anything.

RayRay007 · December 2013

I think they were very nice and understanding?? They gave you the benefit of the doubt that you posted on the wrong board and asked you nicely to take it down.

Of course we're all sorry for your loss, but it doesn't mean we can't be upset about a pregnancy being rubbed in our face.

MoreThanSparrows08 · December 2013

@Megncowan2 No one said you weren't welcome here, nor did anyone say your loss was irrelevant - they simply stated that you had posted on the wrong board. All of these ladies here have suffered at least 1 loss, and, as someone who has suffered the same, you should understand that this type of post can be very hurtful to some of these ladies who are having a rough day. If you could simply edit the title of the post to warn to other ladies that this was posted on the wrong board, I'm sure that would save you a few more frustrated replies to this one. For me in particular, I just MC on 1 week ago, so I would be exactly where you are right now if I hadn't lost my babies, so seeing this was really hard for me. No one here is trying to diminish the pain and suffering you went through with your loss; we are simply asking that you post a warning for the other ladies and apologize for your mistake.

Megncowan2 · December 2013

Again, I wasn't rubbing it in anyones face. Clearly I was a part of this board at one time because of my loss. Writing "This post is highly inappropriate" well it was a mistake and I'm going through a lot of the same stressors right now each of you did with each of your pregnancies, not rubbing it in your face and if anything you all should continue to be supportive and understanding.

Megncowan2 · December 2013

Yes I was............. Actually I just looked up the previous posts I wrote here about cytotec induction, etc.. But good luck to you all. Didn't mean any harm

MoreThanSparrows08 · December 2013

Megncowan2 said:

Yes I was............. Actually I just looked up the previous posts I wrote here about cytotec induction, etc.. But good luck to you all. Didn't mean any harm

I'm sorry, but I don't think 2 posts 2 weeks apart really qualifies you for being "a part of this board". It means you posted here once or twice, but no one here knows you - you didn't participate in any other discussions or offer any support anywhere else on this board.

We are all very sorry for your loss, and hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months, but we would appreciate it if you could be a little more sensitive to our feelings, especially when you post about being pregnant to a bunch of women who have lost one or more babies and are still trying for another and haven't been able to do so yet. Just a little sensitivity to our situation would be nice. Best of luck to you.

blackbird818 · December 2013

Megncowan2 said:

Again, I wasn't rubbing it in anyones face. Clearly I was a part of this board at one time because of my loss. Writing "This post is highly inappropriate" well it was a mistake and I'm going through a lot of the same stressors right now each of you did with each of your pregnancies, not rubbing it in your face and if anything you all should continue to be supportive and understanding.

Are you kidding me?? I AM NOT pregnant so no you aren't having the same stressers as I am!!!! We all wish the best for our graduates, and many of us lurk on PGAL to offer continued support to those fortunate ladies. I think you're being very selfish and disrespectful of our safe place, which is even more hurtful b/c you came from here or so you say.

Poppy715 · December 2013

You clearly have no idea what this board is about. You are not currently doing through the same of anything I'm facing. You are seemingly KU for Christmas. I'm not. Big difference. I'm sorry for your previous loss but don't come in here post on the wrong board and then get defensive when a couple of people SUPER NICELY ask you to correct your mistake.

lindsebert · December 2013

OP - your apology is gross. You were treated very nicely by the PPs. You made the mistake, not any of them. As another PP pointed out you're being a huge AW. Also, you are not going through ANY of the same things that I am right now. It seems like you're going to have a pretty merry Christmas, and I on the other hand, will probably spend most of the day in tears. Try putting on your big girl panties, own up to your mistake, and give a sincere apology to the ladies that you hurt, and continued to hurt.

((Hugs)) to all of the ladies hurt by this.

rmpar29 · December 2013

Poppy715 said:

You clearly have no idea what this board is about. You are not currently doing through the same of anything I'm facing. You are seemingly KU for Christmas. I'm not. Big difference. I'm sorry for your previous loss but don't come in here post on the wrong board and then get defensive when a couple of people SUPER NICELY ask you to correct your mistake.

THIS!

luciddreamer106 · December 2013

Megncowan2 said:
Again, I wasn't rubbing it in anyones face. Clearly I was a part of this board at one time because of my loss. Writing "This post is highly inappropriate" well it was a mistake and I'm going through a lot of the same stressors right now each of you did with each of your pregnancies, not rubbing it in your face and if anything you all should continue to be supportive and understanding.

I'm mobile, so I can't make the text bold... "If anything you should continue to be supportive and understanding." Seriously? You posted here a couple of times and haven't offered anyone support, but we're supposed to offer you support when you post about your u/s here?

Thank you for editing your post. I still think it's messed up that you posted here, were called out on it, and then got defensive about posting it in the first place. You should have just apologized, edited, and moved on.

Poppy715 · December 2013

jalara48 said:

Megncowan2 said:

Again, I wasn't rubbing it in anyones face. Clearly I was a part of this board at one time because of my loss. Writing "This post is highly inappropriate" well it was a mistake and I'm going through a lot of the same stressors right now each of you did with each of your pregnancies, not rubbing it in your face and if anything you all should continue to be supportive and understanding.

We can see your post history. You were never part of this board.

True that! Also, I don't see you supporting me anywhere. Why should I give you support when you were not here giving any to us? You have what 3 post's on this board? I would call that a drive-by, not a member.

ngolimento · December 2013

Megncowan2 said:
Again, I wasn't rubbing it in anyones face. Clearly I was a part of this board at one time because of my loss. Writing "This post is highly inappropriate" well it was a mistake and I'm going through a lot of the same stressors right now each of you did with each of your pregnancies, not rubbing it in your face and if anything you all should continue to be supportive and understanding.

You're being highly inappropriate again. Please leave, these ladies deserve better treatment than what you have to offer.

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