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  • I think I've made my point on this pretty clear in the past, but I hate guns and wish they were illegal. 

    Guns at home are bad enough, but I especially think concealed handguns should be illegal.  I can think of no good outcomes from carrying in public.

    Also, I hate hunting and don't know how people do it. 



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  • I also think that teachers in schools should be trained and carry guns. Nothing rings the dinner bell for psychopaths like a "gun free zone" like schools and movie theaters.
    The idea of teachers carrying guns blows my mind every time I hear it...  (And I'm in Texas, so I hear it a lot.)



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  • Well if teachers don't carry the guns, at least have an armed guard (but that is probably very costly). When people decide to carry out mass shootings like this, they are excited about the glory they will get from the media once they cowardly end their own life. They want to do the most damage possible in the shortest amount of time (before ding ding ding someone with a gun like a cop gets there to stop them). So where can you find large gatherings of people....in small places...where you won't be met with any resistance or any way for them to defend themselves?....gun free zones!
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  • I agree. If the teacher being armed policy was ever actually accepted, at the end of the day i think it should be the teacher's decision. They really should have an armed security guard at schools but don't. Not sure if it's policy or budget.
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  • I do agree that the constitution was written in a different time. Automatic weapons did not exist. Bullets were handmade, and both were not cheap. 

    I do believe that it should at least be as difficult to get a drivers license as it is to get a gun permit. Take a safety class, pass a test, etc. I don't believe in having a dangerous weapon if you don't properly know how to handle and store it.

    I do have several friends who responsibly own guns, and practice their use safely. I have absolutely no problem with this. I would absolutely own a weapon, but not until I feel I know how to own and operate one safely. 

    I do not think outlawing guns entirely would solve gun violence. And after living in a state where I could not legal get a gun, and having moved out of state because I felt so unsafe in my home and walking around I will say that I prefer to have the option. Plenty of criminals and other types had guns and used them regularly, but I couldn't get a gun legally. 

    I guess I don't feel like I have the right answer to solve the problems, and I hate that people have been killed by gun violence or accidental discharges. But I damn sure want to be able to protect my family and property. 
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  • kelley72 said:
    I fully support the 2nd amendment.  As ops have stated discussion of limiting/banning personal ownership of firearms in response to domestic/individual shootings is ridiculous without discussing other  topics including mental health.  Believing that limiting the rights of law abiding citizens will stop Criminals from engaging in violent acts is not rational and therefore to me ends further discussion.  The laws we have work when enforced.  The types of weapons legally allowed to be owned and operated by individuals is within boundaries set to support the necessary needs of a militia not just hunters.
    How about the kids that find their parents' gun and accidentally shoot themselves or another kid?  I think limiting gun rights would help with this problem.   



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  • I grew up with guns, but I don't personally own any. I'm not anti-gun by any means (I'm marrying into a police officer/SWAT family), but I do think we need more education and higher restrictions on gun ownership. Outlawing guns won't make them disappear as criminals are going to do whatever is necessary to obtain a gun. My fiancé has a CCW and I feel safer when we are out. Anything can happen and if we were ever in a life or death situation, I could never forgive myself if I hadn't let him bring his gun with him and something happened to one of us or our baby. My fiancé has to qualify once a month for his job as well so he is consistently learning about responsible gun ownership.


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  • dotgirl2 yes I did perhaps I was typing too slowly for all of the comments to be posted prior to me posting mine.  I don't have a problem reiterating a point though.  Sometimes things are important enough to be stated more than once.
  • kelley72 said:
    I fully support the 2nd amendment.  As ops have stated discussion of limiting/banning personal ownership of firearms in response to domestic/individual shootings is ridiculous without discussing other  topics including mental health.  Believing that limiting the rights of law abiding citizens will stop Criminals from engaging in violent acts is not rational and therefore to me ends further discussion.  The laws we have work when enforced.  The types of weapons legally allowed to be owned and operated by individuals is within boundaries set to support the necessary needs of a militia not just hunters.
    How about the kids that find their parents' gun and accidentally shoot themselves or another kid?  I think limiting gun rights would help with this problem.   

    It is a tragic event that occurs.. of course more deaths of infants/children occur in car accidents than in incidents such as this.  More education and responsability on the part of the parent is actually what needs to occur.  Of course one such death is too many so please do not think I am ignoring that fact. 
  • I grew up with guns, but I don't personally own any. I'm not anti-gun by any means (I'm marrying into a police officer/SWAT family), but I do think we need more education and higher restrictions on gun ownership. Outlawing guns won't make them disappear as criminals are going to do whatever is necessary to obtain a gun. My fiancé has a CCW and I feel safer when we are out. Anything can happen and if we were ever in a life or death situation, I could never forgive myself if I hadn't let him bring his gun with him and something happened to one of us or our baby. My fiancé has to qualify once a month for his job as well so he is consistently learning about responsible gun ownership.
    This is the scenario that I don't get...  If a family is getting robbed at gun point, and the husband goes to pull out a gun, do you not think the criminal would shoot him while he was doing that?  I just don't see how carrying a gun helps in that scenario, and everyone always says that doing so makes them feel safer. 



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  • It is a tragic event that occurs.. of course more deaths of infants/children occur in car accidents than in incidents such as this.  More education and responsability on the part of the parent is actually what needs to occur.  Of course one such death is too many so please do not think I am ignoring that fact. 
    Yes, more education is needed - but so is education on how babies are made and parenting and so many other things.  If parents don't parent their child to begin with they're not going to properly teach them about gun safety either.


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  • -katykatykaty, in my scenario both parents have a gun so the mom is also reaching for her weapon and puts the criminal down ... or perhaps a 3rd party who sees what is occuring, or probably b/c the criminal already has his weapon out the parents do/give the criminal whatever it is they want and hope he leaves them afterwards. 
  • clo1982 said:
    How about the kids that find their parents' gun and accidentally shoot themselves or another kid?  I think limiting gun rights would help with this problem.   
    I disagree with this. Yes, it is absolutely tragic; and it's a preventable accident. But, that is what it is, an accident based on carelessness. Much like someone hitting someone due to driving while texting, or getting injured shooting off fireworks, or hurting someone driving drunk, or kids taking pills that were left out and ending up in the hospital. Careless, yes...preventable, yes. But if you limited everything that could potentially harm someone due to carelessness, it'd be pretty impressive how little was left! In that case, the guns weren't the problem...the parent's were the problem as they didn't take proper precautions to ensure their child's safety.I don't think it is the government's place to intervene in these situations.
    Yeah, but we have more stringent rules when it comes to driving than when it comes to gun ownership.  Granted, driving is dangerous, too, but innocent children would only benefit from stricter gun laws. 



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  • I'm mobile bumping so my "reply" doesn't work, but to the lady who said "but I would prefer that alternative over making teachers responsible for a gun!"

    Alternative being??? You and your students gunned down?

    I see that teachers should not be forced to have a gun and I see the validity in thinking it could be dangerous if a troubled student was to overpower you. Being Annie Oakley is not part of your job description, you're right. Your job is to teach, and that is already hard enough with low funding and huge class sizes.

    All I am suggesting is something needs to change here. If teachers WANTED to carry a gun for personal protection at work, I think they should be allowed to. I think schools should be better guarded than they currently are.

    I have a concealed carry permit and I love it. I have crimson trace on my gun so I will know exactly where my bullet is going to go before I shoot if it ever came to that. I just wish they'd let me carry it when I am teaching but right now that is not allowed.
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  • clo1982 said:
    How about the kids that find their parents' gun and accidentally shoot themselves or another kid?  I think limiting gun rights would help with this problem.   
    I disagree with this. Yes, it is absolutely tragic; and it's a preventable accident. But, that is what it is, an accident based on carelessness. Much like someone hitting someone due to driving while texting, or getting injured shooting off fireworks, or hurting someone driving drunk, or kids taking pills that were left out and ending up in the hospital. Careless, yes...preventable, yes. But if you limited everything that could potentially harm someone due to carelessness, it'd be pretty impressive how little was left! In that case, the guns weren't the problem...the parent's were the problem as they didn't take proper precautions to ensure their child's safety.I don't think it is the government's place to intervene in these situations.
    Yeah, but we have more stringent rules when it comes to driving than when it comes to gun ownership.  Granted, driving is dangerous, too, but innocent children would only benefit from stricter gun laws. 
    I don't think so... It is expensive and inconvienant, etc to get a carry permit in the state of Georgia.  Have you ever been on the road here?  man I swear they let anybody get a license ;)  jk... I think society overall and obviously we just disagree, would be better off with MORE individuals owning guns (assuming they are trained properly, law abiding, etc...)
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    I'm mobile bumping so my "reply" doesn't work, but to the lady who said "but I would prefer that alternative over making teachers responsible for a gun!" Alternative being??? You and your students gunned down?
     
     I just wish they'd let me carry it when I am teaching but right now that is not allowed.

    I personally would rather take my chances that my child's class/school was gunned down over having her teachers carrying guns at school. 

    I think teachers being allowed to carry guns would be the only situation where I might home school my kids, and I never in a billion years thought I would home school. 



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  • saisongbird
     
    2) The second amendment was written a very long time ago, in a time where there wasn't a valid police force and military conscription was more common and people legitimately had to defend their homes. This is not the world we live in today. The second amendment was NOT written with hunting in mind. If you want to go back to that world, fine, but get rid of semi-automatics and military grade guns and go back to the world of muskets. If you want to keep your musket in your house, fine by me.
    Yes written a while back, your point is wonderful for defending my position.  The law was written so that militia could defend themselves against a tyrannical govenment.  Obviously a 22 isn't gonna do that if "the government" decided to arm itself against individuals.  Automatic weapons and many military grade weapons are NOT legally owned byindividuals. 
  • @kelley72 - but those are awfully big assumptions to make.  And they can't be made safely.  Think about it as a parent - do you not childproof your house, assuming your child will make proper choices?  As they get older, do we have to discipline children for lying and breaking rules?  People break the law all the time.  Assuming that people are properly trained and are law abiding just isn't safe or reasonable.


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  • We have guns in our house, but we are responsible gun owners too. They aren't loaded and are secured in our safe.

    I am all for stricter gun laws, but I don't think they should be outlawed completely. I was completely shocked how easy it was for my husband to get a gun at a gun show last summer! I agree with several other PPs that the process should be more in depth. Also, unless you are a soldier there is no reason for you to have an assault type weapon in your home.

    Hunting doesn't bother me, I grew up with a dad/uncle/cousins who hunted and we consumed what they killed. I see no real difference between getting meat this way versus getting it from the store/butcher. Again, just a cultural thing from how I grew up.

  • 5) Finally, I forget which country it is where personal gun ownership is illegal...maybe it's Denmark?  I need to check.  But their rates of gun violence are almost non-existent.  As are most of their other crime rates.  They're not unrelated, people.  And you're kidding yourself if you say they aren't.  Think about most crimes in this country.  Are people attacking each other with knives?  No.  It's guns.


    I don't disagree that they're related, but I don't see how you could just go backwards. The guns are here. If people were required to surrender them--and even if most gun owners did--there's no way that you'd get all of them and the people who didn't give theirs up are the ones to worry about to begin with. And...if the guns weren't here people would still find ways to attack each other. Not on the same scale necessarily, but you never know. Bombs can do a lot of damage and I hear that you just have to consult the interwebz for instructions.

    I think the heart of the issue stems back to the mental health argument. There's so much evidence that people who commit these mass shootings often acquire their guns illegally anyway. There's definitely no easy solution to the situation and I'm not at all opposed to stricter requirements around legally getting a gun, but I think that's just a tiny piece of the problem. Gun control alone is not going to solve the very complex problem in the US.

    (And we do have a hand gun in the house that my (former Marine) husband already had when we got together. It's secured and DD will be taught about gun safety as she gets older in age appropriate ways.) 
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  • kelley72 said:

     
    I don't think so... It is expensive and inconvienant, etc to get a carry permit in the state of Georgia.  Have you ever been on the road here?  man I swear they let anybody get a license ;)  jk... I think society overall and obviously we just disagree, would be better off with MORE individuals owning guns (assuming they are trained properly, law abiding, etc...)
    I (obviously) disagree that more gun ownership would make us a safer country.   https://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/sep/18/gun-ownership-gun-deaths-study



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  • I think I've made my point on this pretty clear in the past, but I hate guns and wish they were illegal. 

    Guns at home are bad enough, but I especially think concealed handguns should be illegal.  I can think of no good outcomes from carrying in public.

    Also, I hate hunting and don't know how people do it. 

    I absolutely agree. 

    No one should have a weapon that is able to slaughter 20 little children and six adults in under 5 minutes. That's utter insanity and it is absolutely shameful that something so horrific can happen and we as a country do nothing. 

    In 1996, a man in Scotland did something similar. The United Kingdom banned people from owning personal firearms. There has not been a school shooting since.


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  • kelley72 said:
    -katykatykaty, in my scenario both parents have a gun so the mom is also reaching for her weapon and puts the criminal down ... or perhaps a 3rd party who sees what is occuring, or probably b/c the criminal already has his weapon out the parents do/give the criminal whatever it is they want and hope he leaves them afterwards. 
    The criminal is always going to already have his weapon out.  I think the best chance of survival in that situation is your last sentence - giving him what he wants and hoping he goes away. 



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  • sopranoalisopranoali member
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    Friends, all this talk about the 2nd amendment being outdated because of the weapons available at the time vs now is a flawed argument.

    The second amendment was written to prevent a tyrannical government. As our private weapons have improved, so have military issued weapons. Politicians on both sides of the aisle understand this.

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  • "No one should have a weapon that is able to slaughter 20 little children and six adults in under 5 minutes. That's utter insanity and it is absolutely shameful that something so horrific can happen and we as a country do nothing. "

    It would be really easy to kill 20 children and 6 adults in 5 minutes, especially if your mommy took you to the gun range all the time and gave you open access to her guns. He had a Glock 10mm and sig-sauer 9mm, both hand guns. He also had a Bushmaster which has 30 round clips I believe. Not sure which ones he actually used.

    Seung Hui Cho killed more people in less time at Virginia Tech. All of them adults. With simple hand guns.
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  • "No one should have a weapon that is able to slaughter 20 little children and six adults in under 5 minutes. That's utter insanity and it is absolutely shameful that something so horrific can happen and we as a country do nothing. " It would be really easy to kill 20 children and 6 adults in 5 minutes, especially if your mommy took you to the gun range all the time and gave you open access to her guns. He had a Glock 10mm and sig-sauer 9mm, both hand guns. He also had a Bushmaster which has 30 round clips I believe. Not sure which ones he actually used. Seung Hui Cho killed more people in less time at Virginia Tech. All of them adults. With simple hand guns.
    If he had no guns, it wouldn't have happened. 



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  • My opinions on gun control are all over the map.  For home protection, I think they are pointless.  If it's properly locked up and separate from the ammo, it's useless when needed.  If it's accessible, it's not safe.  Even if I was well educated on how to shoot (I'm not clueless, but far from an expert) I don't think I could pull the trigger on an intruder.  I think a baseball bat, can of wasp spray, mace, etc is a much better weapon. 

    I am not a fan of CCWs.  I don't think most people plan to go out and commit a crime with their regsitered concealed weaopon, but in confrontations people get irrational and hot headed.  What would be a dissagreement, say in traffic, could turn deadly if a person with a temper has a CCW.  There is the argument that tragedies like the Colorado theater shooting could have resulted in fewer tragedies if someone had a CW, but I don't know.....you're out on a date, enjoying a movie and suddenly someone starts shooting.  This isn't TV, would most people really be in the right frame of mind to actually start shooting back to save people, and not harm any more people in the process?  I think there is a very small percentage of people that a CCW is a good idea for, but not the majority that have/want them.

    Rifles in the home for hunting?  Sure, go for it.  I personally don't hunt, it's too cold and boring and I am way too big of a softee to shoot Bambi, I think I would burst out in tears and it would bother me for weeks if I actually shot an animal.  But I see why it needs to be done and for responsible gun owners, have at it.

    I don't think stricter gun control will cut down on crime though since most weapons are obtained ilegally in that case, I don't have a solution for fixing that, except maybe crack down harder on first time offenders so they don't become repeat offenders.  If you commited a violent crime, there should be no such thing as a plea deal.

    The area where gun control needs to be stricter is the way people store their guns in their homes.  Far too many kids have access to guns and end up shooting themselves or friends/siblings.  If you have a registered gun at home, it needs to be locked up, unloaded and seperate from the ammunition.  There should be unannounced home visits for all registered gun owners to make sure the guns are secured properly.

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  • Friends, all this talk about the 2nd amendment being outdated because of the weapons available at the time vs now is a flawed argument. The second amendment was written to prevent a tyrannical government. As our private weapons have improved, so have military issued weapons. Politicians on both sides of the aisle understand this. Edit: can't spell.
    Nobody ever says they want their guns to protect against a tyrannical government... They say they want their guns to protect their family and property against criminals.  I think the 2nd Amendment argument is ridiculous. 



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  • "No one should have a weapon that is able to slaughter 20 little children and six adults in under 5 minutes. That's utter insanity and it is absolutely shameful that something so horrific can happen and we as a country do nothing. " It would be really easy to kill 20 children and 6 adults in 5 minutes, especially if your mommy took you to the gun range all the time and gave you open access to her guns. He had a Glock 10mm and sig-sauer 9mm, both hand guns. He also had a Bushmaster which has 30 round clips I believe. Not sure which ones he actually used. Seung Hui Cho killed more people in less time at Virginia Tech. All of them adults. With simple hand guns.
    Newtown: He used a semi-automatic to murder and a handgun to take his own life

    Virginia Tech: He used two firearms during the attacks: a .22-caliber Walther P22 semi-automatic handgun and a 9 mm semi-automatic Glock 19 handgun.[13] 

    My point is that no one but military personnel should be able to purchase guns with that much firepower. There's no reason for it. None. 
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  • Except for the fact that many of us do not want the government having all of the power.
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  • @katykatykaty yes if Adam Lanza's mother didn't own guns and leave them unlocked, he wouldn't have had access.

    Can't remember who killed more children...Adam Lanza or Timothy McVeigh?
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