stole my thunder

Tifers777 · December 2013

@reneewhite90
Yeah I haven't even told her congrats. And I haven't seen her since she found out. I will see her at Xmas and honestly don't even wanna talk to her. Funny thing is my mom was like oh don't worry all of your stuff ( ie. baby shower etc.) will be taken care of before I do anything for her! Hahaha! And also her second out of wedlock. And she doesn't even have contact with the first father.

Empireceo · December 2013

Honestly, OP the more you try to defend yourself the less sympathetic I feel. You need to feel like you have the spotlight? Stop whining and go out and accomplish something. Babies are a blessing and there's enough love to go around for all of them

mrscmwood · December 2013

crystalmir91385 said:
A family member just announced she's expecting twins in June. While I'm happy for her, I'm also kinda bummed. Noone else in the family is ready for a baby yet, so I was kinda excited about having the only one (at least thru next year). Not to mention they just had a girl last June. Couldn't they wait a little longer?

I know I'm being silly about this, but I can't help it.

I was trying really hard to empathize with you until I got to " They just had a baby, cant they wait?"

WHAT!? Just.....what? You gotta be kidding me. My girls are 13 months apart and my youngest was born last June as well. I probably should have waited just in case someone else in my extended family decided to have sex with their hubs and get knocked up.

You can't post some stupid silly shit like that and not expect to be flamed.....

mrscmwood · December 2013

Tifers777 said:
@reneewhite90
Yeah I haven't even told her congrats. And I haven't seen her since she found out. I will see her at Xmas and honestly don't even wanna talk to her. Funny thing is my mom was like oh don't worry all of your stuff ( ie. baby shower etc.) will be taken care of before I do anything for her! Hahaha! And also her second out of wedlock. And she doesn't even have contact with the first father.

Stop it. Did I just enter the twilight zone!?!?!

mrscmwood · December 2013

LMFAO. This.

HatchetFace said:

Tifers777 said:
@reneewhite90
Yeah I haven't even told her congrats. And I haven't seen her since she found out. I will see her at Xmas and honestly don't even wanna talk to her. Funny thing is my mom was like oh don't worry all of your stuff ( ie. baby shower etc.) will be taken care of before I do anything for her! Hahaha! And also her second out of wedlock. And she doesn't even have contact with the first father.
So um.... how long have you known that you are insane?

ykristos · December 2013

Tifers777 said:

@reneewhite90 Yeah I haven't even told her congrats. And I haven't seen her since she found out. I will see her at Xmas and honestly don't even wanna talk to her. Funny thing is my mom was like oh don't worry all of your stuff ( ie. baby shower etc.) will be taken care of before I do anything for her! Hahaha! And also her second out of wedlock. And she doesn't even have contact with the first father.

Not of wedlock!

And seriously, you guys: if anyone is getting pregnant to one up you, you should feel great sympathy for that person, because they just made a crazy, lifetime commitment because of their need to AW. That is dedication to be feared (for their sanity).

reneewhite90 · December 2013

@Tifers777 -

1. I was being extremely sarcastic in my original reply, while still not trying to be bitchy.

2. I now do not care in the slightest about being bitchy.

3. You do realize it is almost 2014 and having a baby out of wedlock is not the end of the freakin' world correct?

4. DD, my oldest, is 5 years old now and I have not seen or even spoken to her father since I was 4 months pregnant with her. I am now married to a great guy who has been around since she was one who she adores, have an awesome son with him, and am expecting baby number three.

5. Don't be such an ignorant ass.

reneewhite90 · December 2013

But hey, at least I now officially knows what it feels like to want to "cut" a bitch -.-

JessicaDanielle0910 · December 2013

At the risk of sounding like a bitch, OP and @Tifers777 I have to say that all of this is childish. We are having children, we aren't supposed to be acting like children. Everyone of us has that AW family member, facebook friend,ex best friend, we all know the feeling of someone doing something to spite you, or having someone do something to steal your thunder or getting that awesome pair of $200 shoes you wanted in 10th grade and then rubbing it in your face. People understand the feeling... But when it comes to the subject of having children, I don't think it's right to apply that mentality. What will you feel like if they lose their baby, or have complications with pregnancy, or end up with a child with a disability and you're sitting over there with a healthy baby?Are you gonna say "haha thats what you get?" It's just wrong to even put that type of juju on someone's pregnancy, be happy for them. Do you know how many people can't have children? Or how awesome it is to have someone else to be pregnant with? My friend and I are both pregnant right now, and her accidental pregnancy is what inspired my husband and I to try again. They were so happy, and we were suffering from a recent loss. But we wanted that, and seeing them so happy gave us the courage to try again. And by some miracle we ended up pregnant the first time we tried. She cried with me the day I got my BFP, she wasn't offended or sad she was so happy for us. When we thought we lost this baby she cried with me again, and the day I went back for the ultrasound that confirmed I was still pregnant with a healthy little girl she was right there with me,with her baby bump and all. My point is you have no idea what is going to happen a BFP doesn't assure a healthy pregnancy, I would be ashamed of myself for thinking like that.

Edit: autocorrect fail

pistolpackinmomma · December 2013

Tifers777 said:
@reneewhite90
Yeah I haven't even told her congrats. And I haven't seen her since she found out. I will see her at Xmas and honestly don't even wanna talk to her. Funny thing is my mom was like oh don't worry all of your stuff ( ie. baby shower etc.) will be taken care of before I do anything for her! Hahaha! And also her second out of wedlock. And she doesn't even have contact with the first father.

Psst I think you missed her sarcasm font.

talkthewholetime · December 2013

Did any of you guys get pregnant because someone else did?
No?

Didn't think so.
Everyone needs to stop being the victim.

And for the love of god. Stop thinking so highly of yourself. No one considers you & your life when making choices about themselves and their family. No ones world revolves around you and what you're doing. Don't flatter yourself.

Tifers777 · December 2013

Lmao at both of you guys! You don't understand I come from a very strict mother and family that if you aren't married and having children it's not celebrated as it would be if you were married. So sorry I guess I should have explained that! lol yes I know it's 2014 but that does not matter in my mothers book. I have nothing against getting pregnant while not married, half of my friends have babies and aren't married. And yes my stepsister I feel sympathetic for because yes she has been with this guy for about 3 months and even before him talked about how she didn't care who the dad was she wanted another baby like now when I found out. This is what my point is. She's crazy!!

JessicaDanielle0910 · December 2013

Is it wrong that I have been laughing uncontrollably at that home alone GIF for probably five minutes... And I'm kinda upset nobody has brought out the cake yet. ):

mrscmwood · December 2013

JessicaDanielle0910 said:
Is it wrong that I have been laughing uncontrollably at that home alone GIF for probably five minutes... And I'm kinda upset nobody has brought out the cake yet. ):

@ykristos that gif was perfection.

reneewhite90 · December 2013

@Tifers777 -

I was raised in a strict Catholic household, went to a private, Christian school, literally never missed a Sunday of mass... I still showed up home when I was 18 pregnant with my daughter which could not be further than what both myself and my parents had planned for my life. So believe me when I say, I get the whole crazy conservative parents thing. Thank God my parents aren't overbearing asshats and decided to help me rather than make me feel "crazy" as you and your mother obviously feel about this dumb bitch of a stepsister you got there...

What's her name, by the way? I need a new BFF to take to hell with me.

crystalmir91385 · December 2013

JessicaDanielle0910 said:

Is it wrong that I have been laughing uncontrollably at that home alone GIF for probably five minutes... And I'm kinda upset nobody has brought out the cake yet. ):

I have brownies...does that count?

momthatlifts · December 2013

Tifers777 said:

@reneewhite90 Yeah I haven't even told her congrats. And I haven't seen her since she found out. I will see her at Xmas and honestly don't even wanna talk to her. Funny thing is my mom was like oh don't worry all of your stuff ( ie. baby shower etc.) will be taken care of before I do anything for her! Hahaha! And also her second out of wedlock. And she doesn't even have contact with the first father.

LMFAO!!!

)

crystalmir91385 · December 2013

sheriot said:

I am also sure I've put my foot in my mouth about 2500 times since I've been pregnant. We all fuck up wording sometimes. I'm gonna believe that you posted this in an Emo Mommy Moment...I agree with pp's, though...it sounds like you may want to take some time and look at why you felt like this. Congrats on your healthy baby

yeah...I'm thinking without giving more personal info, this came off a bit crazier than I meant it to be. And now it's really going nuts. Lol At least it's making for an interesting Friday night.

JessicaDanielle0910 · December 2013

reneewhite90 said:
@Tifers777 -

I was raised in a strict Catholic household, went to a private, Christian school, literally never missed a Sunday of mass... I still showed up home when I was 18 pregnant with my daughter which could not be further than what both myself and my parents had planned for my life. So believe me when I say, I get the whole crazy conservative parents thing. Thank God my parents aren't overbearing asshats and decided to help me rather than make me feel "crazy" as you and your mother obviously feel about this dumb bitch of a stepsister you got there...

What's her name, by the way? I need a new BFF to take to hell with me.

This. Except I was 17 with DS.
When you get there save me a seat and I will bring some tequila. It must be a catholic thing... I think Jesus was conceived out of wedlock too, but don't get me starting rumors.

JessicaDanielle0910 · December 2013

crystalmir91385 said:

JessicaDanielle0910 said:

Is it wrong that I have been laughing uncontrollably at that home alone GIF for probably five minutes... And I'm kinda upset nobody has brought out the cake yet. ):

I have brownies...does that count?

Oh it counts.

crystalmir91385 · December 2013

awisern said:

At the risk of being flamed... We were trying for number two and everyone knew. SIL was not "trying" (she's pretty competitive and I think she was trying to get knocked up first, but that's a moot point). Anyways, this was number four for her. I was disappointed and a little upset when she told us the day she found out. Fast forward a month and I was pregnant. We were both extremely excited to have kids so close in age. Our kids get along very well and enjoy seeing each other regularly. But my biggest fear with the two of us being pregnant at the same time came true. She miscarried a couple months ago in her second tri. I felt like the shittiest person ever. If I could take it all back I would. I still get really upset about it all...after my a/s I broke down because she wasn't going to be having her baby and how sad she must be. So, to wrap this up, I understand a bit of where you are coming from. But don't let it last long...look forward to the kids being good friends and be thankful for healthy pregnancies.

Oh no! T&P to your family!

Tifers777 · December 2013

@reneewhite90
I will gladly give you her number maybe you can tell her to get back in her bipolar and anti psychotic meds she stopped abruptly when she found out! Lmao! And btw I said nothing about my parents not helping her of course they will. It's the ignorance of knowing better and there's no excuse when your 31 and there's birth control. Thanks!

reneewhite90 · December 2013

crystalmir91385 said:

sheriot said:

I am also sure I've put my foot in my mouth about 2500 times since I've been pregnant. We all fuck up wording sometimes. I'm gonna believe that you posted this in an Emo Mommy Moment...I agree with pp's, though...it sounds like you may want to take some time and look at why you felt like this.

Congrats on your healthy baby

yeah...I'm thinking without giving more personal info, this came off a bit crazier than I meant it to be. And now it's really going nuts. Lol At least it's making for an interesting Friday night.

Haaa- you are forgiven on your "emo mommy moment". Especially because if your thunder wasn't all completely taken before, Tiferrrrooo here TOTALLY stole the rest.

crystalmir91385 · December 2013

reneewhite90 said:

@Tifers777 - 1. I was being extremely sarcastic in my original reply, while still not trying to be bitchy. .

Thanks for toning down the original message. However I think it also made this an exciting night!

mrscmwood · December 2013

reneewhite90 said:

crystalmir91385 said:

sheriot said:

I am also sure I've put my foot in my mouth about 2500 times since I've been pregnant. We all fuck up wording sometimes. I'm gonna believe that you posted this in an Emo Mommy Moment...I agree with pp's, though...it sounds like you may want to take some time and look at why you felt like this.

Congrats on your healthy baby

yeah...I'm thinking without giving more personal info, this came off a bit crazier than I meant it to be. And now it's really going nuts. Lol At least it's making for an interesting Friday night.

Haaa- you are forgiven on your "emo mommy moment". Especially because if your thunder wasn't all completely taken before, Tiferrrrooo here TOTALLY stole the rest.

Ha! I was just about to say, aren't you glad someone stole your thunder this time?!

This tiffers B is cray cray!!!!!!

busterbeagle · December 2013

Tifers777 said:

@reneewhite90 I will gladly give you her number maybe you can tell her to get back in her bipolar and anti psychotic meds she stopped abruptly when she found out! Lmao! And btw I said nothing about my parents not helping her of course they will. It's the ignorance of knowing better and there's no excuse when your 31 and there's birth control. Thanks!

ROFL mental illness is hilarious!

reneewhite90 · December 2013

crystalmir91385 said:

reneewhite90 said:

@Tifers777 -

1. I was being extremely sarcastic in my original reply, while still not trying to be bitchy. .

Thanks for toning down the original message. However I think it also made this an exciting night!

Oh ya know, anything I can do to help the cause!

talkthewholetime · December 2013

Tifers777 said:
@reneewhite90
I will gladly give you her number maybe you can tell her to get back in her bipolar and anti psychotic meds she stopped abruptly when she found out! Lmao! And btw I said nothing about my parents not helping her of course they will. It's the ignorance of knowing better and there's no excuse when your 31 and there's birth control. Thanks!

Lmao!!!

Honestly, there is nothing funny about this.

Except that you're condemning the choices of a 31 year old GROWN WOMAN.

JessicaDanielle0910 · December 2013

busterbeagle said:

Tifers777 said:

@reneewhite90
I will gladly give you her number maybe you can tell her to get back in her bipolar and anti psychotic meds she stopped abruptly when she found out! Lmao! And btw I said nothing about my parents not helping her of course they will. It's the ignorance of knowing better and there's no excuse when your 31 and there's birth control. Thanks!

ROFL mental illness is hilarious!

Lmao don't put that bad juju on mentally ill people. They like babies!

Tifers777 · December 2013

Lol sorry guys that was a little crazy! @mrscmwood are you new? I've never even seen any posts from you expect on HDBD. Please don't assume when you don't know me. Just sayin. Have a lovely evening ladies. I just had to get that all out because it's really been bothering me. This little thing with my step sister had been going on back and forth for years. It also has happened with my other siblings and her

Miles2Go · December 2013

Tifers777 said:
Lol sorry guys that was a little crazy! @mrscmwood are you new? I've never even seen any posts from you expect on HDBD. Please don't assume when you don't know me. Just sayin. Have a lovely evening ladies. I just had to get that all out because it's really been bothering me. This little thing with my step sister had been going on back and forth for years. It also has happened with my other siblings and her

Please, tell us more.

ykristos · December 2013

Tifers777 said:

@reneewhite90 I will gladly give you her number maybe you can tell her to get back in her bipolar and anti psychotic meds she stopped abruptly when she found out! Lmao! And btw I said nothing about my parents not helping her of course they will. It's the ignorance of knowing better and there's no excuse when your 31 and there's birth control. Thanks!

So are you going to blame your horrifically judgmental comments on your mom's beliefs this time around, too?

Edited to add: You do realize that people don't ask to have a mental illness, right? And if her Bipolar Disorder is severe enough to require both mood stabilizers and antipsychotics, it's certainly not LMAO. Though you typically can't take those types of medications while pregnant, it's obvious she was in treatment beforehand-- good for her. Thanks for perpetuating the MH stigma, though.

JessicaDanielle0910 · December 2013

Tifers777 said:
Lol sorry guys that was a little crazy! @mrscmwood are you new? I've never even seen any posts from you expect on HDBD. Please don't assume when you don't know me. Just sayin. Have a lovely evening ladies. I just had to get that all out because it's really been bothering me. This little thing with my step sister had been going on back and forth for years. It also has happened with my other siblings and her

Wait, she has purposefully gotten pregnant to maliciously foil all of your siblings pregnancies?? How many siblings do you have? That's a fertile girl, she needs to look into being a surrogate she could probably make some money.

mrscmwood · December 2013

Tifers777 said:
Lol sorry guys that was a little crazy! @mrscmwood are you new? I've never even seen any posts from you expect on HDBD. Please don't assume when you don't know me. Just sayin. Have a lovely evening ladies. I just had to get that all out because it's really been bothering me. This little thing with my step sister had been going on back and forth for years. It also has happened with my other siblings and her

Crazy bitch, please. I've posted once on HDBD and have responded plenty to other posts. Whether I've responded once or 2345433 times it doesn't change your crazy. Please, do go on about your family putting down your mentally ill pregnant sister. It's enthralling.

jjtyler · December 2013

This post is almost as bad as the bridezilla who threatened all of us in the bridal party to not get pregnant for almost 2 years so no one was FAT in her wedding pictures....

It did almost make me want to get pregnant with triplets like 7 months before her big day...so I get I should call PP stepsister and see what I could have done differently.

People are cray cray....

reneewhite90 · December 2013

She probably doesn't talk to any of the fathers either... That bitch.

Kris2011RN · December 2013

Tifers777 said:
@reneewhite90
I will gladly give you her number maybe you can tell her to get back in her bipolar and anti psychotic meds she stopped abruptly when she found out! Lmao! And btw I said nothing about my parents not helping her of course they will. It's the ignorance of knowing better and there's no excuse when your 31 and there's birth control. Thanks!

Really?!?! Are you really laughing at her because she stopped her meds? She might know more about them than you and knows that they aren't safe for baby. you must have a dark sense of humor. I honestly don't know where to begin with your drama. I think you need to reread your post and maybe then you'll see how immature you sound.

JessicaDanielle0910 · December 2013

reneewhite90 said:
She probably doesn't talk to any of the fathers either... That bitch.

Sadly, it's not the single mothers of this world that I worry about... We tend to overcome.
The undiagnosed psychopaths, however....

crystalmir91385 · December 2013

So apparently a lot happened while I was gone (for 2 hours)...No wonder everyone thinks May 14 is crazy!

reneewhite90 · December 2013

I'm sure her crazy bitch bipolar stepsister will be A-OK. She seems like a smart enough girl. She is on meds to help when not pregnant, and refrains when taking them while pregnant, which is highly suggested as far as I know. Oh wait, I do know. Tiferrrpie, you should start triple reading your posts before you click "post reply". If not for the health of me and my baby (I also heard stress isn't great and you are frustrating as all hell) than at least to spare yourself the damn embarrassment from how ridiculously immature and naive you sound.

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