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    psychdoc12psychdoc12 member
    Mae208 said:
    Another confession. I thought the post titled 'baby fever on its way?' Was someone thinking her baby was about to get a fever. And I've been rolling my eyes since it was first posted. I still haven't read the post but just realized it's probably about BABY FEVER. not a babies fever. Smh.
    I'm a doctor, give me benefit of the doubt!
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    Doveyluvr said:
    Yeah, more expensive for our family :(
    Dang! Too bad :(
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    ashleymarie512 said:

    JLW0504 said:

    I like Gossip Girl. There. I said it. I just started it this week and am now hooked.

    Also, I've only had sex 4 times since conception. Twice PP w,/o contraception

    I almost started it on Netflix this week, but couldn't bring myself to do it. This may have been what I needed to start it up!
    Doooooo it! Seriously, do it. Just finished last week, worth it. I just started pretty little liars. Obviously my confession this week is I watch shows designed for people who try to believe they are still teenage girls.
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    I have several. I usually have none.

    1. I had pie, ice cream and coffee for breakfast. It was a berry pie so there's my fruit group, dairy group for ice cream and coffee rounded it all out.

    2. My 3yr old watches too much tv. Instead of singing lullabies to the baby, she sings him tv commercials. #mommyfail

    3. I have clean laundry all over the couch. I loathe folding and have just avoided it. But at least it's clean. #igivenofucks

    4. Christmas is going to suck this year at our house. We've had a lot of things come up, like a couple big bills & car trouble. We had to buy a new battery for my car, DH alternator went out, he got a flat and needed a new tire-it's really depleted our Christmas fund. The kids will get an outfit, a new book, a new wii game, a movie and a toy/art supply and that's it. Of course they will get stuff from the family, but I wish we could do more.

    There is probably a few more that are completely flame worthy, but maybe I will save them for another day.

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    Well the insurance talk just ruined my happy mood. Lol

    I'm still bitter about the fact that we pay 900.00 a month in insurance.
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    Mae208 said:

    Another confession. I thought the post titled 'baby fever on its way?' Was someone thinking her baby was about to get a fever. And I've been rolling my eyes since it was first posted.

    Yeah I said this in the actual thread yesterday.


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    pmarie33 said:


    Mae208 said:

    I just realized my toddler has been wearing the same shirt since Wednesday. The only reason I realized this is because he went shopping with my husband Thursday and MH let him try on cologne at one of the stores. LO just gave me a hug and he still smells like an old man.

    Why?  Do you not change his clothes daily, put him in pajamas or bathe him?  WTF?  

    Yes. He usually gets a bath every other night and pajamas every night.

    Wearing the same shirt for 2.5 days is not the norm around here, hence it being my FFFC.
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    HFrizzle said:

    I have several. I usually have none.

    1. I had pie, ice cream and coffee for breakfast. It was a berry pie so there's my fruit group, dairy group for ice cream and coffee rounded it all out.

    2. My 3yr old watches too much tv. Instead of singing lullabies to the baby, she sings him tv commercials. #mommyfail

    3. I have clean laundry all over the couch. I loathe folding and have just avoided it. But at least it's clean. #igivenofucks

    4. Christmas is going to suck this year at our house. We've had a lot of things come up, like a couple big bills & car trouble. We had to buy a new battery for my car, DH alternator went out, he got a flat and needed a new tire-it's really depleted our Christmas fund. The kids will get an outfit, a new book, a new wii game, a movie and a toy/art supply and that's it. Of course they will get stuff from the family, but I wish we could do more.

    There is probably a few more that are completely flame worthy, but maybe I will save them for another day.

    That sounds like plenty of Christmas gifts!!
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    NRyan55 said:

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    Ycu2013 said:

    Well the insurance talk just ruined my happy mood. Lol

    I'm still bitter about the fact that we pay 900.00 a month in insurance.

    NHS 4 life. Viva la (el?) "socialism".
    I have awesome "socialist" healthcare too! It's called Tricare. (Insurance for military members and dependents for you non-US gals)

    It makes me sick that we pay as much as a mortgage payment, like we needed another! AND it's going up again in January.
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    NRyan55 said:

    dknight413 said:

    Ycu2013 said:

    Well the insurance talk just ruined my happy mood. Lol

    I'm still bitter about the fact that we pay 900.00 a month in insurance.

    NHS 4 life. Viva la (el?) "socialism".
    I have awesome "socialist" healthcare too! It's called Tricare. (Insurance for military members and dependents for you non-US gals)
    I miss my dads military insurance. It will cost about 1500 a month to add me, dd, and DS to my H's work plan.

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    norbert5 said:

    ashleymarie512 said:

    JLW0504 said:

    I like Gossip Girl. There. I said it. I just started it this week and am now hooked.

    Also, I've only had sex 4 times since conception. Twice PP w,/o contraception

    I almost started it on Netflix this week, but couldn't bring myself to do it. This may have been what I needed to start it up!
    Doooooo it! Seriously, do it. Just finished last week, worth it. I just started pretty little liars. Obviously my confession this week is I watch shows designed for people who try to believe they are still teenage girls.
    Ok, ok...I give in ;) I'll start on Wednesday!
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    I have another!

    I have a fake FB page so I can talk to an ex boyfriend. My husband knows all about the fake profile and that I talk to him. It's not my husband that has the issue, it's the ex's insecure wife. She has never liked me cause I was his first love (those feelings were not reciprocated btw) and for some reason sees me as a threat. I haven't actually seen him in person on close to 17 yrs and we live in different states, but he's not allowed to talk to me at all. So we both have fake profiles and check in on each other a couple times a week. He's a really good friend of mine and that's why it didn't work out romantically (not that at 15 I was think romantically). We just felt it was better to save the friendship than ruin it with a nasty break up, plus the feelings just weren't there that way.

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    StefMurph said:



    I told my husband I'd like to start the 4 gift tradition with dd.

    one thing you want, one thing you need, one thing you wear, one thing you read

    We're doing this for the first time this year! Made shopping so easy.

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    edited December 2013
    Quote tree downsizing fail:
    @StefMurph

    That's kind of our idea. A doctor that was a patient of ours told me this is what he did with his kids and we really liked the idea, but have never implemented it. So this will be our first year and while it makes me sad that we aren't doing more like we usually do, I know my pocketbook will be much more accepting of the change.

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    AmberValerien said:

    I actually have one this week. My 12 year old nephew stayed the weekend with us last weekend and wanted to hold the baby all the time so I took full advantage of it. He held and snuggled the baby while BF and I DTD in the shower.

    Shower sex is fun, but I'm too tall and the shear mechanics of it are too difficult. LoL I've just given up on it.

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    I think 4 presents is a lot!! My family is middle/upper class (so it's not like my parents couldn't afford it), but we always only got one gift for Christmas. Getting multiple seems to cheapen the other gifts, IMO.


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    KuhaBaby said:

    HFrizzle said:

    I have another!

    I have a fake FB page so I can talk to an ex boyfriend. My husband knows all about the fake profile and that I talk to him. It's not my husband that has the issue, it's the ex's insecure wife. She has never liked me cause I was his first love (those feelings were not reciprocated btw) and for some reason sees me as a threat. I haven't actually seen him in person on close to 17 yrs and we live in different states, but he's not allowed to talk to me at all. So we both have fake profiles and check in on each other a couple times a week. He's a really good friend of mine and that's why it didn't work out romantically (not that at 15 I was think romantically). We just felt it was better to save the friendship than ruin it with a nasty break up, plus the feelings just weren't there that way.

    Nope. This would not sit well with me either.

    Why doesn't it sit well with you? It's just causal conversation here and there, nothing else. We don't even live in the same state, we don't text or talk on the phone, no emails, it's innocent conversation. So I'm honestly not sure what the big deal is.

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    I'm still on contact with my ex's mom. She complained to me at first about how much the new girlfriend sucks, but now we're just regular friends. I don't care if it's disrespectful to my lying, cheating ex--and obviously his mother doesn't care either. My hub doesn't see an issue with it.


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    carriet2018 said:


    KuhaBaby said:

    HFrizzle said:

    I have another!

    I have a fake FB page so I can talk to an ex boyfriend. My husband knows all about the fake profile and that I talk to him. It's not my husband that has the issue, it's the ex's insecure wife. She has never liked me cause I was his first love (those feelings were not reciprocated btw) and for some reason sees me as a threat. I haven't actually seen him in person on close to 17 yrs and we live in different states, but he's not allowed to talk to me at all. So we both have fake profiles and check in on each other a couple times a week. He's a really good friend of mine and that's why it didn't work out romantically (not that at 15 I was think romantically). We just felt it was better to save the friendship than ruin it with a nasty break up, plus the feelings just weren't there that way.

    Nope. This would not sit well with me either.

    yea this isnt ok with me either. whether or not you agree with your husband or wife about their stance on that, i think you need to respect their wishes on this matter. my ex's mom tries to hit me up on facebook and i dont respond to her bc i dont think that is fair to my ex's wife or my husband. call me old fashioned.


    Not ok. It doesn't matter what you think if his wife or how you feel about him. He is lying to her and you are knowingly helping undermine his marriage.
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    JenMatt2010 said:

    HFrizzle said:

    KuhaBaby said:

    HFrizzle said:

    I have another!

    I have a fake FB page so I can talk to an ex boyfriend. My husband knows all about the fake profile and that I talk to him. It's not my husband that has the issue, it's the ex's insecure wife. She has never liked me cause I was his first love (those feelings were not reciprocated btw) and for some reason sees me as a threat. I haven't actually seen him in person on close to 17 yrs and we live in different states, but he's not allowed to talk to me at all. So we both have fake profiles and check in on each other a couple times a week. He's a really good friend of mine and that's why it didn't work out romantically (not that at 15 I was think romantically). We just felt it was better to save the friendship than ruin it with a nasty break up, plus the feelings just weren't there that way.

    Nope. This would not sit well with me either.

    Why doesn't it sit well with you? It's just causal conversation here and there, nothing else. We don't even live in the same state, we don't text or talk on the phone, no emails, it's innocent conversation. So I'm honestly not sure what the big deal is.
    I just think it's weird to have fake profiles. If you were just chatting on FB or even texting/emailing/phone calls to catch up, it would be one thing, but I think making fake FB profiles takes it to another level. I agree with PP that it's disrespectful to his wife.

    There are fake profiles because she doesn't allow us to communicate. They have only been married for maybe 10yrs and has never liked from day one. He and I have been friends for nearly 20 yrs. she doesn't allow him to be friends with any women, yet she is able to be friends with her ex's and has even cheated on him with one. So rather than throw away a friendship of 20 yrs we hide it from her.

    She's crazy and I could careless.

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    HFrizzle said:
    I actually have one this week. My 12 year old nephew stayed the weekend with us last weekend and wanted to hold the baby all the time so I took full advantage of it. He held and snuggled the baby while BF and I DTD in the shower.
    Shower sex is fun, but I'm too tall and the shear mechanics of it are too difficult. LoL I've just given up on it.
    It took some getting used to but we've found a way to make it work. Most the time it doesn't stay in the shower since other spots in the bathroom are easier to manage. ;-)
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    KuhaBaby said:

    HFrizzle said:

    KuhaBaby said:

    HFrizzle said:

    I have another!

    I have a fake FB page so I can talk to an ex boyfriend. My husband knows all about the fake profile and that I talk to him. It's not my husband that has the issue, it's the ex's insecure wife. She has never liked me cause I was his first love (those feelings were not reciprocated btw) and for some reason sees me as a threat. I haven't actually seen him in person on close to 17 yrs and we live in different states, but he's not allowed to talk to me at all. So we both have fake profiles and check in on each other a couple times a week. He's a really good friend of mine and that's why it didn't work out romantically (not that at 15 I was think romantically). We just felt it was better to save the friendship than ruin it with a nasty break up, plus the feelings just weren't there that way.

    Nope. This would not sit well with me either.

    Why doesn't it sit well with you? It's just causal conversation here and there, nothing else. We don't even live in the same state, we don't text or talk on the phone, no emails, it's innocent conversation. So I'm honestly not sure what the big deal is.
    If you have to create a fake profile in order to talk... Something seems wrong. Maybe not on your end.. But if I were his wife and this was my husband I would be mad. To have to go behind my back... Make a fake profile so he can still talk to the first love of his life... Seems pretty fucked up.
    My thoughts exactly... I feel bad for the wife! I did talk to my ex on FB for a while, and his wife asked him to stop talking to me... Our Communication was absolutely innocent but we both respected his wife's decision, and ended the communication. If she is insecure then that is too bad, insecurity sucks, and I am not going to undermine her and her wishes. This is her MARRIAGE we are talking about.
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    HFrizzle said:

    JenMatt2010 said:

    HFrizzle said:

    KuhaBaby said:

    HFrizzle said:

    I have another!

    I have a fake FB page so I can talk to an ex boyfriend. My husband knows all about the fake profile and that I talk to him. It's not my husband that has the issue, it's the ex's insecure wife. She has never liked me cause I was his first love (those feelings were not reciprocated btw) and for some reason sees me as a threat. I haven't actually seen him in person on close to 17 yrs and we live in different states, but he's not allowed to talk to me at all. So we both have fake profiles and check in on each other a couple times a week. He's a really good friend of mine and that's why it didn't work out romantically (not that at 15 I was think romantically). We just felt it was better to save the friendship than ruin it with a nasty break up, plus the feelings just weren't there that way.

    Nope. This would not sit well with me either.

    Why doesn't it sit well with you? It's just causal conversation here and there, nothing else. We don't even live in the same state, we don't text or talk on the phone, no emails, it's innocent conversation. So I'm honestly not sure what the big deal is.
    I just think it's weird to have fake profiles. If you were just chatting on FB or even texting/emailing/phone calls to catch up, it would be one thing, but I think making fake FB profiles takes it to another level. I agree with PP that it's disrespectful to his wife.

    There are fake profiles because she doesn't allow us to communicate. They have only been married for maybe 10yrs and has never liked from day one. He and I have been friends for nearly 20 yrs. she doesn't allow him to be friends with any women, yet she is able to be friends with her ex's and has even cheated on him with one. So rather than throw away a friendship of 20 yrs we hide it from her.

    She's crazy and I could careless.
    *ONLY* been married for 10 years huh? And you said he didn't like her from day one? That's pretty laughable.
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    Mae208 said:

    HFrizzle said:

    JenMatt2010 said:

    HFrizzle said:

    KuhaBaby said:

    HFrizzle said:

    I have another!

    I have a fake FB page so I can talk to an ex boyfriend. My husband knows all about the fake profile and that I talk to him. It's not my husband that has the issue, it's the ex's insecure wife. She has never liked me cause I was his first love (those feelings were not reciprocated btw) and for some reason sees me as a threat. I haven't actually seen him in person on close to 17 yrs and we live in different states, but he's not allowed to talk to me at all. So we both have fake profiles and check in on each other a couple times a week. He's a really good friend of mine and that's why it didn't work out romantically (not that at 15 I was think romantically). We just felt it was better to save the friendship than ruin it with a nasty break up, plus the feelings just weren't there that way.

    Nope. This would not sit well with me either.

    Why doesn't it sit well with you? It's just causal conversation here and there, nothing else. We don't even live in the same state, we don't text or talk on the phone, no emails, it's innocent conversation. So I'm honestly not sure what the big deal is.
    I just think it's weird to have fake profiles. If you were just chatting on FB or even texting/emailing/phone calls to catch up, it would be one thing, but I think making fake FB profiles takes it to another level. I agree with PP that it's disrespectful to his wife.

    There are fake profiles because she doesn't allow us to communicate. They have only been married for maybe 10yrs and has never liked from day one. He and I have been friends for nearly 20 yrs. she doesn't allow him to be friends with any women, yet she is able to be friends with her ex's and has even cheated on him with one. So rather than throw away a friendship of 20 yrs we hide it from her.

    She's crazy and I could careless.
    *ONLY* been married for 10 years huh? And you said he didn't like her from day one? That's pretty laughable.
    Sorry I meant they have only been married for 10 yrs and she has never liked me from day one.

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    They have ONLY been married for 10 years and he hasn't liked her since day one?

    Ummm. No.
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    elllaf said:

    They have ONLY been married for 10 years and he hasn't liked her since day one?

    Ummm. No.

    Read the last comment. ^

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    I think @hfrizzle is trying to say she has been friends with him for 20, but he's been married for 10. So the friendship should hold up.
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    I think that my confession is being side eyed so much because it's a male/female relationship. We have been friends for so long. We "dated " for two weeks when we were 15...fifteen!!! We kissed once and went on one date to the movies...with his dad. The whole relationship was weird and yes even though he said he loved me, we both agreed that it was weird. It's not like we dates in a mid 20's, dated for years, had an intimate relationship. It was nothing! So yes, for the sake of our 20 yr friendship, we go behind her back to see what's new, if we watched the football game or how Christmas shopping is going.

    Flame all you want, scoff all you want. I don't care! He is one of my longest friendships and it will stay that way.

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    DD#2~Daphney Mae 04/17/03 7lb 13oz 21"
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