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Normally stuff doesn't piss me off

KC1212KC1212 member
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BUT I turned on the Santa Claus 3 for DS and Mrs Claus is KU in it. With cramps, a headache and just a bitchy mood - I find it totally annoying!

I have 4 years of coping with crap under my belt so I usually have a thick skin!

What gets to you on bad days?
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Me: 27 DH: 33
Married 6 years
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF


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Re: Normally stuff doesn't piss me off

  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    edited December 2013

    You too, Mrs Claus???  Seriously if Mrs. Claus isn't safe, I don't know who is.  She's supposed to be a grandma type!!  Sorry for the unexpected gut punch with what should've been an innocent movie, KC. 

    What gets to me the most on IF bad days is Facebook.  Hands down.  It makes me want to curl up and cry.

    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    I have not had a fb account in 3 years! Or a twitter :)

    Other than the baby crap the general "I love my life" fake crap I found annoying-lol.
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member

    Oh, I'll also add on that the Parenting After a Loss (PAL) and the TTCAL ticker tracker from back in the day I was a part of TTCAL both bum me out.  I just see people that I shared my loss and subsequent pregnancy journey with tracking their post baby #2 cycles on the ticker tracker.  People I don't even know from PAL because our pregnancies didn't overlap at all are now moving onto or are well into their subsequent pregnancies.  It's just such a bummer to see how left behind I am.

     

    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    CheesyPeas said:

    Oh, I'll also add on that the Parenting After a Loss (PAL) and the TTCAL ticker tracker from back in the day I was a part of TTCAL both bum me out.  I just see people that I shared my loss and subsequent pregnancy journey with tracking their post baby #2 cycles on the ticker tracker.  People I don't even know from PAL because our pregnancies didn't overlap at all are now moving onto or are well into their subsequent pregnancies.  It's just such a bummer to see how left behind I am.

     

    That stinks! I know the "left behind" feeling as well :(

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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    KC1212 said:
    I have not had a fb account in 3 years! Or a twitter :) Other than the baby crap the general "I love my life" fake crap I found annoying-lol.

    I totally agree with you!  I hate facebook in general most days but I feel like I need to stay on it to monitor my MIL.  I feel like she would post every personal detail and hundreds of pictures of my DS if I weren't on there.  She knows I'm a proponent of not oversharing or putting private information on FB.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    CheesyPeas said:


    KC1212 said:

    I have not had a fb account in 3 years! Or a twitter :)

    Other than the baby crap the general "I love my life" fake crap I found annoying-lol.


    I totally agree with you!  I hate facebook in general most days but I feel like I need to stay on it to monitor my MIL.  I feel like she would post every personal detail and hundreds of pictures of my DS if I weren't on there.  She knows I'm a proponent of not oversharing or putting private information on FB.

    Oh goodness ! That's not cool! Yeah that would bother me too :)
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member

    I was having a hard day a few days ago and went to the loss board just to lurk around... A girl on there posted about her baby testing positive for down syndrome and that she had decided to terminate the pregnancy at 20 weeks. I could have thrown my computer when I read it.

    Here I am desperate to have a child and she is opting to KILL hers over an extra chromosome?!

    No, it's not my place to judge... I cant help how I feel though & I can only hope God gives her peace with that decision.

    Special needs children are a challenge, yes, but they have more joy than anyone I've ever known. It really broke my heart. :(

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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    +SouthernMomma+ said:

    I was having a hard day a few days ago and went to the loss board just to lurk around... A girl on there posted about her baby testing positive for down syndrome and that she had decided to terminate the pregnancy at 20 weeks. I could have thrown my computer when I read it.

    Here I am desperate to have a child and she is opting to KILL hers over an extra chromosome?!

    No, it's not my place to judge... I cant help how I feel though & I can only hope God gives her peace with that decision.

    Special needs children are a challenge, yes, but they have more joy than anyone I've ever known. It really broke my heart. :(

    Yeah I can't handle stuff like that. I am catholic and we are very pro-life.
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member
    KC1212 said:

    I was having a hard day a few days ago and went to the loss board just to lurk around... A girl on there posted about her baby testing positive for down syndrome and that she had decided to terminate the pregnancy at 20 weeks. I could have thrown my computer when I read it.

    Here I am desperate to have a child and she is opting to KILL hers over an extra chromosome?!

    No, it's not my place to judge... I cant help how I feel though & I can only hope God gives her peace with that decision.

    Special needs children are a challenge, yes, but they have more joy than anyone I've ever known. It really broke my heart. :(

    Yeah I can't handle stuff like that. I am catholic and we are very pro-life.
    My mom is a Pentecostal preacher and we are too... So sad.
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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    The woman on the House Hunters I was watching last night was pregnant. I made a remark under my breath about "every friggin person is pregnant but me and MH told me I was being ridiculous. Stupid H. That's why you guys are da bomb.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member
    Jen071407 said:
    The woman on the House Hunters I was watching last night was pregnant. I made a remark under my breath about "every friggin person is pregnant but me and MH told me I was being ridiculous. Stupid H. That's why you guys are da bomb.


    That is terms for an excessive amount of x-lax in his next meal, JS!

    Sorry he was being a pain!

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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    Jen071407 said:

    The woman on the House Hunters I was watching last night was pregnant. I made a remark under my breath about "every friggin person is pregnant but me and MH told me I was being ridiculous. Stupid H. That's why you guys are da bomb.

    I watch that show sometimes too!

    Guys are idiots! Ignore your DH
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • tachetache member
    Target! I swear it's a Mecca for pregnant women! Every time I turn a corner in that place there is someone KU.
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    +SouthernMomma+ said:

    I was having a hard day a few days ago and went to the loss board just to lurk around... A girl on there posted about her baby testing positive for down syndrome and that she had decided to terminate the pregnancy at 20 weeks. I could have thrown my computer when I read it.

    Here I am desperate to have a child and she is opting to KILL hers over an extra chromosome?!

    No, it's not my place to judge... I cant help how I feel though & I can only hope God gives her peace with that decision.

    Special needs children are a challenge, yes, but they have more joy than anyone I've ever known. It really broke my heart. :(


    This makes me want to cry. :(
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • Sweetest116Sweetest116 member
    Thanks for the tip about Santa Claus 3... I totally forgot she's pregnant and annoying in that one.  I'll avoid it and go with the classic Santa Claus 1.  Or Home Alone...
    <3 Baby #1 BFP 6/10/2011-EDD 2/19/2012-DS Born 2/10/2012!
    :'(  CP BFP 1/6/2013-EDD 9/19/2013-CP 1/9/2013
    <3 Baby #2 BFP 1/3/2014-EDD 9/12/2014 -DD Born 9/10/2014!
    <3 Baby #3 BFP 7/8/2018-EDD 3/17/2019-Team Green!




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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    I just remembered another thing that irks me on bad days...thebump homepage. Silly, yes. But I don't care and I'll whine if I want to.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

     image

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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    Sweetest116 said:

    Thanks for the tip about Santa Claus 3... I totally forgot she's pregnant and annoying in that one.  I'll avoid it and go with the classic Santa Claus 1.  Or Home Alone...

    Mrs Clause should be way past menopause! Not middle aged with magical Christmas eggs!

    image

    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • Sweetest116Sweetest116 member
    Magical Christmas eggs... BWAHAHAHAAHAHAHA!  That's funny, that's what I'm hoping I produce this cycle!  Where can I get some?!
    <3 Baby #1 BFP 6/10/2011-EDD 2/19/2012-DS Born 2/10/2012!
    :'(  CP BFP 1/6/2013-EDD 9/19/2013-CP 1/9/2013
    <3 Baby #2 BFP 1/3/2014-EDD 9/12/2014 -DD Born 9/10/2014!
    <3 Baby #3 BFP 7/8/2018-EDD 3/17/2019-Team Green!




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  • cerad5cerad5 member
    I am extra sensitive because of my recent loss, but usually whiny facebook pregnant posts, anyone who gets pregnant spontaneously "like wow we weren't even trying". I have a cousin who commented on someone's post, so it showed up on my feed, KTFU with triplets. Spontaneously. No meds. Already has three kids. Grrrr.
    DD 12/1/2009
    TTC#2 Since May 2012
    Dx PCOS February 2013 on Metformin 1500 mg
    Met with RE October 2013, we've got a plan!
    Surprise BFP on "break cycle" 10/12/13. EDD 6/17/14.
    MMC discovered 11/25/13 at 10 weeks. D&C 11/27/13.
    BFP 2/8/14 Beta#1: 176, Prog 18! Beta#2:335, Prog, 19.5!
    EDD 10/16/2014

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  • jb2rnjb2rn member
    the fact that all my other SAHM friends are pregnant or have a newborn. I totally feel left behind. 
    b/w=FSH 15.6, AMH 0.4 surprise natural BFP on 3/12/11
    DS born via unplanned C-section at 40w6d

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  • cerad5cerad5 member
    I am extra sensitive because of my recent loss, but usually whiny facebook pregnant posts, anyone who gets pregnant spontaneously "like wow we weren't even trying". I have a cousin who commented on someone's post, so it showed up on my feed, KTFU with triplets. Spontaneously. No meds. Already has three kids. Grrrr.
    DD 12/1/2009
    TTC#2 Since May 2012
    Dx PCOS February 2013 on Metformin 1500 mg
    Met with RE October 2013, we've got a plan!
    Surprise BFP on "break cycle" 10/12/13. EDD 6/17/14.
    MMC discovered 11/25/13 at 10 weeks. D&C 11/27/13.
    BFP 2/8/14 Beta#1: 176, Prog 18! Beta#2:335, Prog, 19.5!
    EDD 10/16/2014

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