May 2013 Moms

FFFC

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  • Mine is inspired by yesterday's UO...

    I've never seen It's a Wonderful Life. 


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  • I haven't either. It makes me sad
  • What?! You must. Now.
  • I haven't, and it wasn't until last year that I saw A Christmas Story.

    I only gave DD 6 Hannukkah presents.

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  • @Boo0512 Are we talking Christmas? Where is this said "wish list" ? Do you mean like a registry for Christmas presents?! 

    I do the old fashioned pen and paper list for H to give a few ideas but that's about it. 

    Not flaming...just intrigued.....
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  • Boo0512Boo0512 member
    edited December 2013
    I have an amazon wish list. It applies for Christmas and birthdays. I'm a horrible person, I know.

    Eta: Between my fam and the in laws we exchange lists/links to lists via email.
  • I loathe "A Christmas Story." With a passion.
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  • yah...I've never seen A Christmas Story or It's a Wonderful Life. But, I've also never seen ET and whole bunch of other "classics" so there's that.

    Yesterday S was given the wrong bottle at school and she ingested 2oz of someone elses's BM. I guess the two bottles (hers and the other kid) were both warming up, they were the same type of bottle, and had similar labels. One of the teachers (not any of her normal ones), picked the wrong bottle, and it wasn't until they fed her 2oz and she was really pissed off and not wanting to eat the bottle that they figured out what had happened. I did my due diligence and called the pedi to make sure there wasn't anything we needed to do, but honestly, I'm not that worried about it. I think her school was more freaked out about it happening since they have protocols in place for this type of thing than we were.  I'm probably going to be called a bad mama for this, but it is what it is.
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  • @crazycoffeegirl I don't find it weird at all. My nephew once picked up a bottle my sister had prepped while watching Abbie and drank the whole thing (6oz!). He hasn't had BM since he was about 3mo and he was around 14mo around the time. My sis was freaked but to me it was NBD.

    Mine - this week I needed a nap so badly that I stuck Ab in her PNP to play in front of the tv and I took a nice 45min nap.
  • I have another today.

    I can't stand people who get uppity about driving in the snow. Yes, it's dangerous, I get that. You don't want to drive in it, fine.

    My issue comes in when people startin with the commentary, "I (should be italicized, but can't on mobile) don't drive in the snow. I'M not risking MY life", etc.

    Also, when able bodied people make it seem like it's impossible for them to get out in the snow. I call bullshit. Yes, snow is a bitch to deal with. If you'd rather couch it with some hot cocoa than deal, fine, but say THAT instead of saying you CAN'T get out.
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  • @mslaurats - heh, she was probably like what the heck is going on, I know I get mixed bottles, this milk is too sweet!
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  • I've never seen "It's a Wonderful Life" and I think "A Christmas Story" is dumb.
    My FFFC: I've never heard of Paul Walker before this week.
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  • missk0411 said:

    I select my wine based on the design on the label.

    I totally do this when I want to try a new one :)

  • Mine is that a pretty big reason (but not the BIGGEST reason) that I want to BF for at least a year is to hopefully reap the alleged health benefits to myself (lower risk of ovarian and breast cancers). My paternal grandmother died of complications from breast cancer before her 30th birthday so I'm at higher risk, although I don't have the BRCA genes, thankfully.

    Stupid fucking cancer.
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  • I have another - I only found out about Nelson Mandela's death because ONE person on my fb newsfeed posted about it. That's how frequently I read the news these days. I spend my non-working time at work bumping and Christmas shopping online.

    But...WTF is wrong with all my other FB friends!?
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  • @CNJ4EVA

    I understand that. We lived in Upstate NY when I learned to drive so I've always dealt with snow. But it seems like everywhere else in the country this is the biggest catastrophe imaginable. When we lived in Phoenix there was a frost warning and my company actually made everyone sit through a meeting about how to warm up your car and scrape windows. I just walked out.

    Here in NC, if they forecast snow anywhere within a 100 mile radius people completely panic. Grocery stores get raided, restaurants close. We were doing a test drive the only day last winter when it snowed and the sales guy looked like he wanted to wear two seat belts. DH decided to show him how to do donuts.

    So my UO is I hate people who panic when they hear snow and buy the dumbest things at the super market. You need 3 things. 1) booze 2) matches 3) snacks. That's it. Also, state DOTs- FYI spreading sand does nothing to help make the roads safer. Get some fucking salt!
  • Boo0512Boo0512 member
    edited December 2013
    beaubecca said:


    Boo0512 said:

    My FFFC is this that I hate getting presents.

    I'm the awful relative/friend/spouse that is super duper specific and I get angry when people buy me stuff that isn't on my wish list. I get even angrier when people don't give me a gift receipt. Call me an ungrateful twat, I'll take it.

    Option A) Go to the wish list, buy gift, get gift receipt in case it was already purchased by another person.

    Option B) Purchase gift card to suggested stores.

    It's not that hard, there are no points for creativity in this game.

    I'd honestly rather get no gift at all if they don't bother with a gift receipt.

    I know I'm a bitch about this ::awaits flaming::

    ETA: I always buy off of other people's wish lists and get a gift receipt, so I'm still a bitch but not a hypocrite ;)

    I like you! But I'm really tempted to flame this one... A gift is supposed to be a token of someone's appreciation of you, thoughtfulness of you, etc.

    Personally, I hate gift registries and wish they didn't exist. But for Christmas the thought of actually getting angry when people don't give you something off your specified list astounds me. My sisters get mad when my mom gives them presents they don't like (she gives really bad gifts) and I think it's disrespectful, insulting, and downright spoiled behavior. Sorry!


    That's fine, that's why it was my FFFC. I look at it this way, when I give someone a gift, it's for them not for me. Personally when I spend money on someone I want them to like it! If I spend 40 bucks on something, I don't want it sitting in a box in their basement, I'd rather give them a gift receipt and let them exchange it for something they will actually use.

    That's just me.

    ETA: I live in a very small house with virtually no storage. So it's literally an issue when I get things I don't need. I've ended up donating brand new items because I don't have any use/place for them. That's why I said I'd rather get no gift at all if someone doesn't want to buy me something I need. ::shrugs::
  • Mine is inspired by yesterday's UO...


    I've never seen It's a Wonderful Life. 


    My FFFC is that I haven't either. And don't want to because I find it boring. Miracle on 34th I like, but not that one.
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  • @Boo0512, not a flame, but I'm on the complete opposite side of you. I like when someone buys me what they think I will like. And get annoyed when my SIL gives me a specific wish list... And they're all gift cards. Wtf?!? How bout I just hand you a check? To me that's not what Christmas is about. But that's just my preference.

    @crazycoffeegirl,
    That wouldn't bug me that bad either, but it prob would bug DH. I think if the woman is conscientious enough to pump for her child, she's prob not on drugs or taking crazy medications, so the milk is fine. Funny she didn't like it though. I also would nurse another baby or donate milk in a second. I would let my baby drink donated milk if I knew the mother wasn't taking anything. Not sure about letting someone else nurse him though, just from a completely 100% selfish "I would get jealous" standpoint.
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  • Speaking of milk- I would nurse someone else's baby without batting an eyelid.

    Ditto. I give milk to my friends who are a gay couple who adopted a baby girl. Or at least I did until my supply dropped. Now I hoard my precious dwindling supply for C.
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  • Hey @Shantxtell, I'll take your donations, or let you nurse S, but she might have other ideas since apparently she has very particular tastes.

    @NJAZgirl, I think S likes formula...she hasn't gotten pure BM in a bottle since she was 2 weeks old so if it's not coming directly from me, she probably knows it should taste like formula for the most part. Or she's just brilliant and knows it wasn't from me ;)

    And @LaxMOM44, that actually reminds me, how's the supplementing going? Have you taken C back in for a weight check or anything? I hope she's gaining weight!
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  • @Boo0512, I kind of get you. I have a smallish house with limited storage too, and I prefer a minimalist style anyway - clutter makes me anxious. I also have a different decorating style than my mom and BFF so I tend not to much like (and definitely don't need) the stuff they buy for me. And I HATE that they're wasting good money on something I don't like, especially my mom as my parents don't have much money. But I would never get angry about it, or let the gifter know I don't like something. Hell, I even feel bad not using it and I never return anything. It really is the thought that counts.

    That said, I also work really hard to buy everyone really thoughtful gifts that I know they'll love and there are only a few people on my list who do the same for me! That does irritate me a bit.

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  • @Boo0512, I kind of get you. I have a smallish house with limited storage too, and I prefer a minimalist style anyway - clutter makes me anxious. I also have a different decorating style than my mom and BFF so I tend not to much like (and definitely don't need) the stuff they buy for me. And I HATE that they're wasting good money on something I don't like, especially my mom as my parents don't have much money. But I would never get angry about it, or let the gifter know I don't like something. Hell, I even feel bad not using it and I never return anything. It really is the thought that counts.

    That said, I also work really hard to buy everyone really thoughtful gifts that I know they'll love and there are only a few people on my list who do the same for me! That does irritate me a bit.

    Yeah I have pretty specific decorating taste that doesn't match my MIL/SIL so that's been an issue.

    Also, I should have clarified, the person that gave me a gift I didn't like never knows. I always thank them and they are none the wiser.
  • @LaxMOM44 - that's awesome news! Good job C and mom both.
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  • beaubecca said:
    CNJ4EVA said:
    I have another today. I can't stand people who get uppity about driving in the snow. Yes, it's dangerous, I get that. You don't want to drive in it, fine. My issue comes in when people startin with the commentary, "I (should be italicized, but can't on mobile) don't drive in the snow. I'M not risking MY life", etc. Also, when able bodied people make it seem like it's impossible for them to get out in the snow. I call bullshit. Yes, snow is a bitch to deal with. If you'd rather couch it with some hot cocoa than deal, fine, but say THAT instead of saying you CAN'T get out.
    I used to be like this... until I totaled my car in a snowstorm. Now I still drive in it when I need to but I get panicky and tremble about it. I know its irrational but the roads really are dangerous when its icy or visibility is bad and the other erratic drivers around you make it even more dangerous. I think people should stay off the roads as much as possible in that kind of bad weather. Flurries are different - but true wet snow or ice is what I mean.
    Yep, DH's sister died driving in a snow storm.  I am definitely a believer that everyone should stay off the road unless it is an emergency.
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  • My FFFC:

    My SIL is doing elf on the shelf for my nephew. Well she hung my nephew's underwear all over the Christmas tree.

    When she posted it a picture of this on FB I couldn't bring myself to like it and thought it was just plain awful on so many levels.

    WTH happened to imagination?!




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  • My related FFFC is that I hate getting decorative presents or things that I won't use.  I recieved a 3 foot tall Harry Potter one year and my husband loved it and I HATED it! I like HP and all but what the hell am I going to do with a huge HP!?!?!
  • My mom over Thanksgiving gave me 5 ornaments for DD. My MIL also said she's getting us some ornaments for DD. DH called her and asked her not to get any- we already have enough of the "my first christmas" ornaments. She went off on a tangent and said she's getting them whether we like it or not. I really want to toss all of them. 
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  • beaubecca said:
    My related FFFC is that I hate getting decorative presents or things that I won't use.  I recieved a 3 foot tall Harry Potter one year and my husband loved it and I HATED it! I like HP and all but what the hell am I going to do with a huge HP!?!?!
    OK now that is hilarious - and ridiculous. My Dad gives tchotchkes like this all the time. The worst is how he thinks we are all still 6 years old. He gave me a strawberry shortcake storybook set... 2 years ago! I swear. And he has given me a HP necklace, a HP miniature action figure collection and an HP blanket. Terrible. But I appreciate the thought and that he recognizes how much I liked Strawberry and HP! At least that's what I tell myself as the stuff collects dust...
    My BIL gave it to me and when the cats broke it, I cheered!!!!! I told them it was sad though.  
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