Hi ladies,
Please don't kill me, I know there have been a bunch of GD threads - but I was hoping to start one for those of us who have officially been diagnosed with GD.
I'm struggling. I got my diagnosis last week, but am still waiting on the referral service to set me up with my test strips and meter thing. In the meantime, I had a normal OB appt yesterday, where they spent a LOT of time talking to me about this diagnosis. Understandably, they're taking it very seriously. They tested my sugars (like 1 hour after I had eaten a snack) and it read 127 - the doctor hurried in to tell me "holy heck, no more carbs, no sugar, and get your meter ASAP!"
Because of the way I eat (which is continuously, all day long, not necessarily 3 sit-down meals), they're going to have me checking my sugars like 6-7 times per day. And from now on I need to see the OB once a week, where they will hook me up to a fetal monitor for 20 minutes at a time. They said that with GD there is an increased risk of heart problems, and they want to check the baby every week to be sure she's okay. This really scares me.
The whole thing makes me feel frustrated and dejected, not to mention scared for my LO. I know the basics of the GD diet - low/no carb, nothing sugary, and to combine protein with any carbs I eat. But I'm feeling frustrated by the limitations, and not to mention scared for my LO. I also know I'm being a huge baby about it all - so I have to change my diet, no big deal, right?...but I'm frustrated and could use some suggestions. I feel like I'm going to live the next 9 weeks off freakin almonds, string cheese, and lunch meat. Ew.
Does anyone have any good meal plans to share? Or ideas for lunches that don't need a microwave? Or any other tricks and words of wisdom for getting through the next 9 weeks?
I also want to say that in the grand scheme of things, I know this isn't a big deal, and it could be so much worse. LO I'm so grateful that this is a manageable illness, and that I can control my own diet to ensure LO's healthiness. I'm absolutely willing to do whatever it takes to keep her healthy, ya know? But I am feel overwhelmed by it all, and could use some support/words of wisdom from other women in the same position. TIA.
Re: GD Mommas - I need help/support
I've had quite a few breakdowns in the last 2 weeks. I'm back on prednisone and after dealing with the bitchiest nurse in existence I'm on insulin too. I was at the point before the insulin that everytime I ate I'd worry about my sugars, and in return freak out about my baby girl (they keep throwing out "stillbirth" and I'm having a really hard time with that risk after my losses).
Dinner wise I've been making a LOT of chicken. Snacks I've been on a cheese and pepperoni kick.
I don't have the best advice, I just really wanted to let you know you're not alone. And it sucks because when I try to talk about it I pretty much get told "it's temporary, suck it up." No one seems to get the anxiety that's come along with the diagnosis. Keep your chin up, I'm here if you wanna chat...I totally feel your pain!
XoXo
Sarah
BFP#1 10/24/11 EDD 07/01/11 DD1 6/29/11
BFP#2 07/26/12 EDD 03/21/13 M/C(mmc6wk)09/04/12 @~11w
BFP#3 02/08/13 EDD 10/22/13 M/C(mmc6wk)03/11/13 @~8w
BFP#4 06/05/13 EDD 02/19/14 DD2 02/05/14
I was going to page lex, but I see megash already has that covered. I'm sorry you have to deal with this, but I'm glad you're getting the care you need.
First off, breath. It will all be ok.
Second, you said you graze daily. They have me eating every 2 hours, is that a doable schedule for you? Because I eat 2 meals a day, and about three snacks on that schedule and that is what the dietician recommended out our meeting. The snacks are usually something like cheese and a serving of carbs that isn't more than 15 carbs. Peanu butter is considered a protein for me, which is a relief, because I hate most other stuff.
Do you like eggs? My friend used to hardboil a few eggs and eat them throughout the day.
That being said, I've been doing this for this baby since August and have a pretty limited diet at this point, because for me, what was safe to eat last week, pings me high this week. Keep the carbs at the prescribed level (for me that is 30 grams breakfast, 45 lunch, 45 dinner, and 15 for each snack.) and all the protein you can stomach. Also, many veggies are free (obviously corn and beans are carbs,)but fruit, sadly, is kinda evil (I would cut you for watermelon right now.) But there is still a lot that you can find to eat in the restrictions. I have found that Nature Valley makes a protein granola bar that has 14 carbs that satisfies my sweet craving, and dannon has a light greek yogurt that satifies my creamy cravings, so while they aren't filling, they are tasty treats.
The monitoring is not bad and should not scare. I think of it as extra eyes on the baby, which most people would kill for. For me, you lie in a chair and they count kicks and make sure the heartbeat stays stable. It's not 20 minutes though, sometimes it takes longer if the baby is sleeping or feels lazy that day. If that happens, I get an ultrasound where they have certain criteria that must be met, including movement and "breathing practice."
Also, if your OB was aware you had eaten less than an hour before you tested, then they way overeacted, my numbers only have to be below 120, 2 hours after I have eaten. (Some people test after an hour, I am not sure what that cut off is)
XoXo
Sarah
BFP#1 10/24/11 EDD 07/01/11 DD1 6/29/11
BFP#2 07/26/12 EDD 03/21/13 M/C(mmc6wk)09/04/12 @~11w
BFP#3 02/08/13 EDD 10/22/13 M/C(mmc6wk)03/11/13 @~8w
BFP#4 06/05/13 EDD 02/19/14 DD2 02/05/14
You shouldn't go more than 8 hours before taking a fasting number in the morning, so if you are on empty, you may have to set an alarm for the middle of the night to eat to (and this will sound counterintuitive) keep your number from rebounding high after it goes too low. And while it's not the same, Thomas's bagel thins have 28 carbs, which, with melted cheese and a tomato (not cream cheese, also pretty carb-tacular) might work for you.
First off ::hugs:: I know it's scary and overwhelming right now, but I'm sure once you get in touch with your dietician it'll be a lot clearer. They'll have a lot of tips/information for you. And think of the positive - all the extra care means your LO is in great hands!
For food - I am a huge fan of a bigass salad with meat (leftover roast chicken is great for this), cheese, hard boiled egg and a ton of veggies plus a combo of vinegar and oil on top - yum! Easy to throw together a few ahead of time too so lunches are set for the week. Plus you can mix up the toppings to make it a little different every day. Try lettuce wraps instead of bread for a sandwich if you usually eat those at lunch. A big piece of romaine layered with lunch meat, avocado, tomato, mayo/mustard, rolled up - yum! Snacks I do fruit/nuts a lot it seems to be a good balance of protein/fat/carbs, so an apple with peanut butter or a banana with almonds. I also make my own trail mix - skip the chocolates and just do a bunch of nuts with raisins to keep the sugar down.
You'll figure it out! And the good news is, we only have a few months left so before you know it LO will be here
XoXo
Sarah
BFP#1 10/24/11 EDD 07/01/11 DD1 6/29/11
BFP#2 07/26/12 EDD 03/21/13 M/C(mmc6wk)09/04/12 @~11w
BFP#3 02/08/13 EDD 10/22/13 M/C(mmc6wk)03/11/13 @~8w
BFP#4 06/05/13 EDD 02/19/14 DD2 02/05/14
Having to suddenly transition to a strict diet is really tough. One thing to help you add some variety to what you eat would be to try searching for new meals and snacks you can make. I really like all recipes.com (I promise they don't pay me!) You can do advanced searches that restrict the results to diabetes friendly meals, including setting a max number of carbs per serving. You can also ask it to include or exclude certain foods if you're sick of a certain thing.
Hopefully you can get comfortable with the changes soon and get lots of ideas and support here!
My diet consists of breakfast, mid morning snack, lunch, afternoon snack, dinner and late snack. Each meal is allowed a certain number of carbs, proteins and fats. Breakfast is one of the harder meals to control so stay away from fruits and whole dairy (both contain sugars). I usually have a slice of Nature's Own sugar free bread with peanut butter, an egg and high protein yogurt. For a mid morning snack I can have a small fruit (maybe a few slices of apple with peanut butter) and a cheese stick, peanuts, or some other type of protein. Celery sticks with peanut butter is good as well. South Beach makes a cinnamon raisin protein bar that is good for afternoon snacks. Stay away from heavy starches and sugars. For lunch you could have a chicken wrap (choose a low carb whole grain tortilla) with some cottage cheese and a handful of blueberries or strawberries. You could also make a bean salad with slices of chicken or a "BLT" with turkey bacon and light mayo. Nature's Own makes a very low carb whole grain bread (sugar free) that works well. Add a cheese stick for more protein and maybe some veggie slices.
Some good foods to concentrate on are things like fish, seafood, eggs, chicken, seeds/nuts, cheese, pork, non starchy veggies such as zucchini, celery, spinach, green beans, tomatoes, and lettuce, and drink a lot of water. Also, taking a short walk after large meals will help lower your numbers.
I'm a bit surprised your doctor is making you test so many times per day. However, once you get into a routine it will be second nature and I usually have no issues "testing on the go". The most important thing is not skipping meals because this can make it difficult to control your levels. If you go over a bit, think of it as a learning experience and change your diet accordingly. Yes, GD is a big deal but as long as you are trying I wouldn't stress over every little hiccup as long as it is only on occasion. If you are finding it difficult to manage your number at every meal, request a sit down with your doctor or nutritionist to go over your meal plans. If you have a high number, it's good to write down what the meal was so you can ask for clarification. It helped me understand what exactly I needed to change. For instance, I found my body does not work well with milk. I assumed this was a high protein addition but never realized how the lactose was working against me. After writing down my meal, the doctor was able to help me see what I was doing wrong.
Good luck! I know it's stressful but take it one day at a time and understand that you are learning. Don't be too hard on yourself. If you have questions... don't be scared to ask. It will get easier.
BFP #3 -mm/c @ 7wks, discovered at 9wks, D&C 9/28
BFP #4 5/29 EDD 2/9 - please be our rainbow
In general, I do better when avoiding most grains, and stick with other forms of carbs (I eat a lot of fruit and greek yogurt). Of course, there are exceptions to that, but I am learning as I go.
I have a few 'cheats'- sugar free chocolate (eat only one piece here and there), and real fruit (no sugar added) popsicles are a couple of my weaknesses!
dx PCOS 2007
BFP #1 (natural) 12/23/2010. Stillbirth due to IC 4/2/2011
TTC #2 starting 03/2012
RE starting 07/2012
05/2013 BFP on a Letrozole (Femara)/trigger!
Cerclage, Procardia, Makena, GD (with insulin), MBR, and we made it!
Our Angel was born sleeping at 20 weeks due to IC.
They'll probably offer you a fetal heart/cardio scan, I've had two now and LO has a minor pericardial effusion (minimal extra fluid in the sac around the heart).
Regarding diet, its different for GD and normal, but veggies/salad have no carbs, meat has no carbs and lots of protein (just be careful of sauces you cook with apply), and sweet potatoes are low GI so better than normal potatoes if you need some carb
In the UK you can buy a blood sugar meter with upto 50 strips for around $50 in any chemist, so if you get desperate then you could buy one. High sugar levels will make you thirsty, feel slower and make your saliva thicker. You'll be more likely to be irritable too, and need to pee a huge amount often as you won't be absorbing the fluid you do drink properly. Drink LOTS of water!!!
Low sugar levels are likely to give you a hot flush, give you clammy sweats, a dull headache at the back of your skull, make your hands shake, and give you a lack of concentration. Eat a small amount of high GI and a small amount of high GI (piece of chocolate/fruit followed by slice of wholemwal or granary toast) immediately and rest for 10-15 mins til sugars come back up!
Hope some of that helps
Are you ladies doing a weekly check in?
I failed the 1 hour and am doing the 3 hour this next week and I'm nervous about possibly being diagnosed. I know I may pass the 3, but it's still on my mind.
TTC #1 since 1/10
DX: Unexplained/??? MFI issues
Our lil' lost sparks:
5w3d loss 7/30/10 - EDD March 2011
8w loss 4/15/11 - EDD November 2011
8w3d loss 8/2/12 - EDD March 2013
4w c/p loss 10/29/12 - EDD July 2013
Long story: trying on our own + testing testing testing with 6 rounds of Clomid, more testing, injectables + TI, laparoscopy - one tube blocked, 2 IUIs with Follistim...BFNs.
RPL testing all normal, Karyotyping normal
Moving on to IVF.
IVF #1 April 2012 = BFN, IVF #2 June 2012 = BFP. U/S 7/23 = saw heartbeat but measuring behind. Follow up U/S on 7/30 - no heartbeat. D&C 8/2. Trisomy 12. IVF #3 Oct 2012 = Chemical Pregnancy
Phone consult with CCRM on 12/12/12 - ODWU 1/4/13 - both tubes clear(!) - AFC 24, AMH 3.2, FSH 9.6, LH 5.4, E2 25. DH has high frag rate but improved!
IVF #4 March 2013 CCRM. EP protocol w/ Menopur, Gonal-F & Dexamethasone. ER 3/29 & IMSI, PICSI. 43R 13M 10F 6blasts bio'd. CCS testing reveals 3 normals!!!
FET 5/31/13 of 1 4AA blast - thawed and expanded. 4dp5dt BFP.
Beta 9dp5dt = 181, 11dp5dt = 427. 1st u/s showed a healthy heartbeat! EDD 2/16/14
After 4 years of hoping and heartbreak, our sweet little bean was born on 2/19/14
We are so in love with her.
"I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it."
Everybody is welcome!!!
dx PCOS 2007
BFP #1 (natural) 12/23/2010. Stillbirth due to IC 4/2/2011
TTC #2 starting 03/2012
RE starting 07/2012
05/2013 BFP on a Letrozole (Femara)/trigger!
Cerclage, Procardia, Makena, GD (with insulin), MBR, and we made it!
Our Angel was born sleeping at 20 weeks due to IC.