Hi ladies- I had my follow up appointment with my OB yesterday. Everything looks good but she recommends that we wait 3 months before TTC again. It sounds like part of that comes from wanting to be sure my body has healed and we have all of our test results back from this loss (most likely a cord accident but doing all of the other testing on me and the baby to be sure nothing else shows up). I think the other part, though she doesn't say it, is about trying to get emotionally ready. It all makes sense to me logically but it also makes me so sad to have to wait that long before trying again.
I don't want it to seem like I'm trying to forget the pregnancy and little boy that we lost. I know that even if what happened to us was a fluke, if we are lucky enough to get pregnant again, I will worry every second of every day. But I also don't think any of that will change whether or not we get pregnany in one month or one year. Plus, right or wrong, I feel like after all of the sadness that we've been experiencing- I'd love something to be excited about again.
My husband processes things differently and it could very likely take him the 3 months or even longer to be ready to move forward. I just wonder if I'm alone in feeling like I don't want to wait?
BFP #1- 4/2011; DD Brynn born 12/2011
BFP #2- 7/13; EDD- 4/2/14; Lost DS at 20 weeks (11/16/13) due to cord accident
BFP #3- 3/14; EDD- 11/28/14; Lost DD at 15 weeks (6/7/14)- cause unknown
To my angels- I held you every second of your lives and I'll love you every second of mine.