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To pee or not to pee....

ally510ally510 member
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I'm debating testing tomorrow & I'm either looking for someone to talk me off the ledge or tell I've waited long enough & can POAS. Tomorrow is the anniversary on my loss at 15 weeks. The grief of that day & the past year & the wondering whether or not this (my 1st IVF cycle) worked is consuming me. Tomorrow I'll be 6dp5dt. If I test & get a BFP, it will make the day so much better, but if it's negative it will add so much insult to injury. So 2IF, I ask you...to pee or not to pee????
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Re: To pee or not to pee....

  • mrsgabusmrsgabus member
    I want to tell you to wait but the impatient part of me says do it

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  • GraceyandTroyGraceyandTroy member
    I'd skip it.  With all the meds from the IVF cycle, a pee stick won't be reliable anyway, so even if you get a BFP, you might still be wondering if it's real.  Just take the day for what it is and test later.  That's my vote, anyway.  
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    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    edited November 2013
    I vote not to pee. I had my loss anniversary on Tuesday and af came that day. It made an already hard day that much harder. Hold out and make it through the day with a hopeful feeling rather than risk adding insult to injury.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • kndeckarkndeckar member
    I'm also in the "don't pee" boat. You won't know if it's 100% reliable either way & if a bfn is going to upset you that much it's not worth it. I vote for going and doing something fun to take your mind off of all of it.
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  • ScarletBegonia79ScarletBegonia79 member
    Don't do it! It will be tough to wait it out but worth it.

    TTC #2 since 8/2012

    IUI #1 April 2014: BFN

    IUI #2 July 2014: BFN

    IUI #3 August 2014: BFN

    BFP: September 15, due May 22nd 2015

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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    Wait for a less emotionally charged day to test (if you wanna test early). I'm so sorry for your loss and I have FX this is your rainbow baby :)
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    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    I'm a total pee-pusher, but I have to agree with everyone in this one. Waiting might be best. Considering its morning, what did you decide?

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    I was just stalking you last night. I'm surprised you haven't peed yet. I would pee today, I wouldn't do it on a day like tomorrow. In the unlikely event you get a BFN, better to get it today- you have enough bad thoughts associated with tomorrow. I really don't think that will happen though.. 

    So! I think you should go pee RIGHT now. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Oh you posted this yesterday  >-)


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Well what's the status of your UTE? 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • tuscanbride2007tuscanbride2007 member
    I am way late but I just wanted to give you ((HUGS)) for your loss anniversary.

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13
    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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