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Can we have a TP Wednesday??

J&JJ2011J&JJ2011 member
in November 2013 Moms

With all of us in such a splendid mood as we reach the most comfortable stage of our pregnancy, I thought I'd throw an extra one of these out there...Well in reality, I needed a virtual one to offset doing a real one...

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Re: Can we have a TP Wednesday??

  • J&JJ2011J&JJ2011 member

    We have the same facility workers that come to our floor daily to do maintenance.  One of the well- known ones turns the corner and goes "You are the biggest lady I've ever seen!!"  I must have given him the death stare because he got red and proceeded to add "pregnant lady I mean!"  Grr.....  

     

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  • dobrydneydobrydney member
    I am at that point where I just want to TP humanity, which I think most of us could agree whether we have inside babies or outside babies.  Everyone and their brother KNOWS when I'll have this baby and exactly what it will be like, they must be baby whisperers. 
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  • PeachsMamaPeachsMama member
    SJacques7 said:

    mapayne626 said:

    fluttergirlmoonchild79 said:

    TP to everyone coming to visit us and saying "you look tired." No shit Sherlock. We have a 5 day old. We're not really sleeping much.

    WHAT??? I was told newborns sleep for like twelve hours straight and breast feeding was a cake walk.. Well damn..
    My SIL asked me yesterday if we have a schedule down yet and if Lucas is sleeping at least 6 hours straight. He's only 13 days old! Our schedule is eat, sleep and shit! I'm happy he sleeps 3-4 hours at a time. Love that people think they know what MY baby should be doing.
    Everyone's an expert.. Drives me bat crap crazy! Lol.
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  • DeliadorelDeliadorel member
    All my relatives live abroad and I'm not in contact with them every day, which is fine with me;)
    Now that my parents arrive in US to help us, literally my land line is on fire; all the relatives call every day:"how is she/did she deliver/where were you earlier/ I thought you are at the hospital etc". Bitchy me, on Monday I put the phone on mute! My mom was like :^o :-S
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  • beccaxbooxbearbeccaxbooxbear member
    TP to my BIL. I don't know him too well because my sister and him dated for a very short period of time ( few months) then got married quickly as well and have been married since January and live 20 hours away. My sister and I have had a few disagreements lately mostly because of how she's treating my son and because she hasn't shown any interest in this pregnancy because I'm having another boy instead of a girl and she would have preferred a neice this time around ::eye roll:: but we decided to put it behind us and just get along. I sent a gift as a peace offering and she loved it. Now BIL has decided that he wants nothing to do with my sister's family because we supposedly don't care about him and have never accepted him. Idk where he's coming up with this because when he was up here with my sister we treated them to dinner and a movie with us, went shopping with him to help him pick out gifts for my sister, was super kind and good to him when he ran over our dog in our driveway because he was being stupid, the list goes on. We've been fair to him, never rude or dismissive or put him aside. Now he's threatening to not allow my sister to have ANY contact with her family what-so-ever if anything happens that upsets him or her. He said she'd have to cut us all out of her life permanently. WHO THE F$@#/ does that? Dh and my dad keeps trying to call him to calm him down and talk it out with him man to man but he won't take anyone's calls. I'm now scared my sister married some crazy controlling lunatic who has moved her halfway across the country to be his prisoner. I can't sleep tonight because of this. I just needed to get it out. I might just have to fly out there and kick his a$$
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  • PeachsMamaPeachsMama member
    beccaxbooxbear said:

    TP to my BIL. I don't know him too well because my sister and him dated for a very short period of time ( few months) then got married quickly as well and have been married since January and live 20 hours away. My sister and I have had a few disagreements lately mostly because of how she's treating my son and because she hasn't shown any interest in this pregnancy because I'm having another boy instead of a girl and she would have preferred a neice this time around ::eye roll:: but we decided to put it behind us and just get along. I sent a gift as a peace offering and she loved it. Now BIL has decided that he wants nothing to do with my sister's family because we supposedly don't care about him and have never accepted him. Idk where he's coming up with this because when he was up here with my sister we treated them to dinner and a movie with us, went shopping with him to help him pick out gifts for my sister, was super kind and good to him when he ran over our dog in our driveway because he was being stupid, the list goes on. We've been fair to him, never rude or dismissive or put him aside. Now he's threatening to not allow my sister to have ANY contact with her family what-so-ever if anything happens that upsets him or her. He said she'd have to cut us all out of her life permanently. WHO THE F$@#/ does that? Dh and my dad keeps trying to call him to calm him down and talk it out with him man to man but he won't take anyone's calls. I'm now scared my sister married some crazy controlling lunatic who has moved her halfway across the country to be his prisoner. I can't sleep tonight because of this. I just needed to get it out. I might just have to fly out there and kick his a$$

    An abusers first step is isolation.. Hate to add more worry but you really should be concerned! There's been a lot of abuse in my family so I'm a little hyper sensitive to it.
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  • beccaxbooxbearbeccaxbooxbear member
    @mapayne626 @joelies and @cupcakesandquilts
    I feel the same way. I've become such an emotional mess over the whole situation. Her and I are 14 months apart and have been inseparable our whole lives and now we hardly talk. She's been very distant and quiet since moving away. I think she wants to move back but I don't think he's going to allow it. I'd fly down right now if I was allowed to fly. Don't know what to do because what if I do go for her but she doesn't want help or see a problem yet? Ugh. I'm going crazy. I love my sister so much.
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