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AbclyonsAbclyons member
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I am 28 years old and I have a Balanced Chromosome Translocation. I have 2 healthy boys that are 5 and 2.5 and just gave birth to a baby girl angel at 20 weeks. I had an Amnio done at 16 weeks as I have with all of my pregnancies to find out if the baby had the translocation or not. Well we found out a week later that the baby had an Unbalanced Translocation which is never good. After a couple more ultrasounds and specialists we found out that she also gad a condition called Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome among other problems and she was not a candidate for surgery which means it's fatal. At our next ultrasound her heart had stopped and I was induced on Friday afternoon. This has been the most traumatic experience of our lives, but we are trying to stay positive and focus on our boys and all of our many blessings. We will always love and miss our baby girl, but we know she is in a better place and she will not ever have to suffer.
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  • cawettigcawettig member
    I am so sorry for your loss. (((Big hugs))) focusing on the ones you have at home does help, but it's like a bandaid that doesn't fix the wound. We are here for you whenever you need something. This board has brought me so much comfort, I hope it will do the same for you.

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    Isabella Genavieve - 02/03/05 - 7 lbs 11 oz 22 in 
    Arianna Kaitlynn - 04/10/2013 - 4 lbs 15 oz 15 in

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    TWINS!!!! 09/01/13
    Miscarriage at 12 weeks lost baby B 
    Arianna diagnosed with an Ompalocele at 13 weeks
    Arianna our Angel on 04/10/13 
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  • CRUN2012CRUN2012 member
    So very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this time.
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  • kz's_girlygirlkz's_girlygirl member
    I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter.  I will be thinking of you and your family, and hoping for comfort and peace in the days and weeks ahead. 
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    Dh:34, no issues.  Me:31, Endo, slightly hypothyroid, deformed ovary, paracentric inversion.
    4 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone +TI cycles= all BFN
    Lap in 2012 to remove large unresolving cyst discovered endo and double lobed ovary.
     6 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone IUI cycles= All BFN,
    1st IVF w/ICSI- June '13 Antagonist: Gonal-F, Menopur, Ganirelix, HcG, Estradiol, Crinone= 7 retrieved, 4 mature, 1 unfertilized, 2 abnormally fertilized, 1 normally fertilized.  2DT of only embryo and our miracle BFP.
    Our beloved baby boy was born sleeping Oct. 13, 2013 due to pROM/IC/Uterine infection.
    2nd IVF w/ICSI- Feb. '14 EPP/lupron/antagonist: Estrace, lupron, HGH, Gonal-F, Menopur, HcG, PIO, lovenox, doxy/dex.=21 retrieved, 16 mature, 15 fertilized!!  5dt of 1 blast/ 6 frozen. BFP!  Beta 1 9dp5dt:83.9  Beta 2: 11dp5dt: 145.2  Beta 3  14dp5dt: 497  Please be our sticky rainbow baby!

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  • NoetholaNoethola member
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    I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet daughter. Please be easy on yourself as you go through this. Its a very difficult journey.







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  • mingaling2mingaling2 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family. 

     
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    EDD 2/15/14 - Stillbirth at 21 wks 10/02/13
    EDD 8/12/15 - MMC 1/12/15
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  • bunnybun4bunnybun4 member
    so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby girl.  ((HUGS))

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    -5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)

    11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13

    8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF

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  • stefugestefuge member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your little girl. Having older children is both a blessing and a burden - they get you out of bed every morning, but it also makes it harder to grieve since they still need you to be you. Thinking of you and your family, praying for comfort and peace.
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    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
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  • kaydee_2008kaydee_2008 member
    I'm so very sorry about your sweet girl. Sending you big hugs. 
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  • VyD81VyD81 member
    I'm sorry for the loss of your baby girl. Hugs
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  • Dixon813Dixon813 member
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    So sorry for the loss of your baby girl... you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • sunflwrasunflwra member
    Welcome and I'm so sorry. I just joined this group myself as we found out our little boy had no heartbeat at 20 weeks last week at our anatomy scan and I was induced on Friday as well. These ladies have been wonderful.  It's so sad that a group like this has to exist but I'm so thankful that they do and I hope we can help you through.

    BFP #1- 4/2011; DD Brynn born 12/2011

    BFP #2- 7/13; EDD- 4/2/14; Lost DS at 20 weeks (11/16/13) due to cord accident

    BFP #3- 3/14; EDD- 11/28/14; Lost DD at 15 weeks (6/7/14)- cause unknown

    To my angels- I held you every second of your lives and I'll love you every second of mine.

     

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  • shandorfml2shandorfml2 member
    I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet girl

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