Monday Bitchfest

BlondieBia21 · November 2013

I could write a novel after this weekend...

NikkiD522 · November 2013

Nothing fits. Not even my underwear.

BlondieBia21 · November 2013

1. MIL gave lo water in a bottle. When I was obviously upset about it, I got this reply from her- "all humans need water, she's fine." I had fi explain why she doesn't get water and tell his dad that his mom needs to stop questioning my every move.
2. The next morning as I was avoiding her, I had to wash lo's bottles. She says to me, "you know you wouldn't have to wash em So much if you just gave her water."
3. Yesterday was my bridal shower. Mil says "I don't think I'm going, I don't want to." Oh okay. Then fi asks me if I'm taking LO and before I could say yes, mil says "no she's not, she doesn't need to." I looked at her and said yes, and she said no. Then she says "she's never going to know who I am if you keep taking her from me."

X(

youtubebeauties · November 2013

Where's my little angel baby?!? After she turned 12 weeks, DD is so damn fussy in the afternoons...naps for only 30 mins, screams at the boob, & only wants to be held.

Moosesoar · November 2013

I have a cold, mastitis, an ingrown toenail and I have been up since 3am with a fussy baby. Yeah, not in a good mood.

Lilmrslay · November 2013

This past week has been an absolute nightmare.

I got the flu, then had to drive myself to the emergency room with an asthma attack while DH stayed with LO and SS. Then LO got sick too, I twisted my ankle and now I'm worried about my supply because I never feel full even after not feeding for 10 hours, and LO seems hungry constantly. Plus my LOs teeth are moving which makes her miserable and for the past week or so she seems a lot less settled with more crying than we've had pretty much since she arrived.

Feeling like it's just all out of sorts lately and want my happy little girl back.

TexasGirl81 · November 2013

This motherloving traffic has got to go, gtg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't I just can't!

MommyAmes2 · November 2013

BlondieBia21 said:

1. MIL gave lo water in a bottle. When I was obviously upset about it, I got this reply from her- "all humans need water, she's fine." I had fi explain why she doesn't get water and tell his dad that his mom needs to stop questioning my every move. 2. The next morning as I was avoiding her, I had to wash lo's bottles. She says to me, "you know you wouldn't have to wash em So much if you just gave her water." 3. Yesterday was my bridal shower. Mil says "I don't think I'm going, I don't want to." Oh okay. Then fi asks me if I'm taking LO and before I could say yes, mil says "no she's not, she doesn't need to." I looked at her and said yes, and she said no. Then she says "she's never going to know who I am if you keep taking her from me." X(

Psychotic bitch!

MinnesotaMomma91 · November 2013

Fuck you neighbor. Your loud ass music at 2 am woke up my baby. So fuck you i got no sleep because of you.

AACaHa13 · November 2013

@BlondieBia21- Your mil sounds like a nightmare! I would seriously go off or have your fiance put her in her place. I would be afraid to accept her for life! Lol. Glad my mil can't drive and doesn't have a car!

@youtubebeauties- my son turned 12 weeks last tues and the same thing happened! It only lasted for one day, thank god! I wanted to rip my hair out. Hope it gets better soon for you.

I am bitching today about a damn leak in the ceiling we fixed over the summer..... or so We thought! We put new shingles up, new insulation, patched the ceiling....nope, not fixed. Now we get to take it all apart again. Sooo pissed.

Revez · November 2013

It's like my body has forgotten how to live properly. I'm STILL bleeding, my boobs can't decide if I have an over supply or an under supply, my back is killing me, my jaw keeps locking, my left hand is having issues, this weight won't come off, I look like the Pillsbury doughboy had a baby with a tiger,

Oh, and I hate my ILs, that is all.

Michelle N · November 2013

BlondieBia21 said:

1. MIL gave lo water in a bottle. When I was obviously upset about it, I got this reply from her- "all humans need water, she's fine." I had fi explain why she doesn't get water and tell his dad that his mom needs to stop questioning my every move. 2. The next morning as I was avoiding her, I had to wash lo's bottles. She says to me, "you know you wouldn't have to wash em So much if you just gave her water." 3. Yesterday was my bridal shower. Mil says "I don't think I'm going, I don't want to." Oh okay. Then fi asks me if I'm taking LO and before I could say yes, mil says "no she's not, she doesn't need to." I looked at her and said yes, and she said no. Then she says "she's never going to know who I am if you keep taking her from me." X(

You win! What did you do?? I had a weekend with my ILs and while I may bitch about it below.. it doesn't light a candle to the shit you had to deal with! why wouldn't she go to your bridal shower?! On the bright side, sounds like your DH stands up for you. Good man!

KatyKatMeowz · November 2013

JNL$LSM said:

BlondieBia21 said:

1. MIL gave lo water in a bottle. When I was obviously upset about it, I got this reply from her- "all humans need water, she's fine." I had fi explain why she doesn't get water and tell his dad that his mom needs to stop questioning my every move.
2. The next morning as I was avoiding her, I had to wash lo's bottles. She says to me, "you know you wouldn't have to wash em So much if you just gave her water."
3. Yesterday was my bridal shower. Mil says "I don't think I'm going, I don't want to." Oh okay. Then fi asks me if I'm taking LO and before I could say yes, mil says "no she's not, she doesn't need to." I looked at her and said yes, and she said no. Then she says "she's never going to know who I am if you keep taking her from me."

X(

I would be in jail this morning. Thank God I live no where near my ILs. Like I told H LO does not "need" to anyone but you, ODS (DN told me over the weekend he wants to be called my son) :x I will not deny hi that, and me.

Just curious did you take LO?

Aw @ him wanting to be called your son! So sweet!

thoughtfulmommy · November 2013

BlondieBia21 said:
1. MIL gave lo water in a bottle. When I was obviously upset about it, I got this reply from her- "all humans need water, she's fine." I had fi explain why she doesn't get water and tell his dad that his mom needs to stop questioning my every move.
2. The next morning as I was avoiding her, I had to wash lo's bottles. She says to me, "you know you wouldn't have to wash em So much if you just gave her water."
3. Yesterday was my bridal shower. Mil says "I don't think I'm going, I don't want to." Oh okay. Then fi asks me if I'm taking LO and before I could say yes, mil says "no she's not, she doesn't need to." I looked at her and said yes, and she said no. Then she says "she's never going to know who I am if you keep taking her from me."

X(

You win!! She is horrible. That is shitty that she screwed with your shower.

Did you have fun anyway??

MommyBolty · November 2013

@BlondeBia21 sounds like your MiL and mine would be besties IRL. Ugh...sorry about your weekend.

Mine... I just dropped LO off at daycare for the first time.

( since I'm off work today it will be a test of my willpower on how long she actually stays.

AprilRaine · November 2013

After DH got home from work yesterday I took a nice "alone" trip to Ulta to shop and get a break from the boys. Literally 30 minutes into my trip I get a text saying that the baby was crying in his ear so he put him in his room. Are you f-ing kidding me? I immediately called & bitched him out making sure he understood that was not okay.
I'm so annoyed that I do this all day long every single day and he can't handle both boys at once for an hour. He was so good at the baby stage with DS1, what the hell happened!?

Wjoyner08 · November 2013

My GM watched LO Sat so DH and I could have our first post baby date. All I wanted was dinner and a movie but DH didn't want to sit, he wanted to walk around. Then he wanted to save money for a new computer he wants so I got frozen pizza when we got home.

Snowbird7 · November 2013

My husband didn't remember from breastfeeding class that breast milk separates naturally. So when he pulled 5 oz out of the fridge, he thought it had gone bad and POURED IT DOWN THE DRAIN.

I can't be too mad, since he's an awesome dad/husband 24/7. But the worst part is I have supply issues and only pump 1 oz at a time, so that bottle was the efforts of five pumping sessions.

janneann1127 · November 2013

AprilRaine said:
After DH got home from work yesterday I took a nice "alone" trip to Ulta to shop and get a break from the boys. Literally 30 minutes into my trip I get a text saying that the baby was crying in his ear so he put him in his room. Are you f-ing kidding me? I immediately called & bitched him out making sure he understood that was not okay.
I'm so annoyed that I do this all day long every single day and he can't handle both boys at once for an hour. He was so good at the baby stage with DS1, what the hell happened!?

Omg! Mine is the same way! He was so great with DS1. Now he has absolutely no patience with newbie. I don't get it, and it's so frustrating. It makes me feel bad when I leave the house!

janneann1127 · November 2013

Wjoyner08 said:
My GM watched LO Sat so DH and I could have our first post baby date. All I wanted was dinner and a movie but DH didn't want to sit, he wanted to walk around. Then he wanted to save money for a new computer he wants so I got frozen pizza when we got home.

Um, that sucks. You need to have a little talk with him! Sorry you had such a crappy date night.

LJUTCMommy · November 2013

First day back to work and Dd decided to get up at 430 this morning. DH leans over and says "that's gonna be tough."

janneann1127 · November 2013

BlondieBia21 said:
1. MIL gave lo water in a bottle. When I was obviously upset about it, I got this reply from her- "all humans need water, she's fine." I had fi explain why she doesn't get water and tell his dad that his mom needs to stop questioning my every move.
2. The next morning as I was avoiding her, I had to wash lo's bottles. She says to me, "you know you wouldn't have to wash em So much if you just gave her water."
3. Yesterday was my bridal shower. Mil says "I don't think I'm going, I don't want to." Oh okay. Then fi asks me if I'm taking LO and before I could say yes, mil says "no she's not, she doesn't need to." I looked at her and said yes, and she said no. Then she says "she's never going to know who I am if you keep taking her from me."

X(

Dude. Your mil sounds like a real peach.

AprilRaine · November 2013

janneann1127 said:

AprilRaine said:
After DH got home from work yesterday I took a nice "alone" trip to Ulta to shop and get a break from the boys. Literally 30 minutes into my trip I get a text saying that the baby was crying in his ear so he put him in his room. Are you f-ing kidding me? I immediately called & bitched him out making sure he understood that was not okay.
I'm so annoyed that I do this all day long every single day and he can't handle both boys at once for an hour. He was so good at the baby stage with DS1, what the hell happened!?
Omg! Mine is the same way! He was so great with DS1. Now he has absolutely no patience with newbie. I don't get it, and it's so frustrating. It makes me feel bad when I leave the house!

So glad to hear its not just us! DS1 is DHs little buddy now and it's like he's forgotten how much work he used to be when he was an infant. I end up compensating by focusing all on LO while DH is home but I really don't want either of the boys to feel like there's any favoritism going on. Gah!

edenrivers · November 2013

@AprilRaine and @janneann1127 I third the DH amnesia. And sometimes when DS2 is fussy and DH can't calm him down, he just puts him in the crib or bassinet. Drives me crazy!

My bitchfest is sleep. LO was up three times on Friday night, I didn't make up for it on Sat so yesterday I was falling asleep standing up. Needed rest last night b/c DH is OOT this week, but no. LO went down at 10:30. At midnight a crazy, windy rainstorm woke both DH and I. LO up at 2:30. Doesn't fall back to sleep til almost 4:00. DH wakes me to say goodbye around 6:00, and LO wakes a few minutes later. *snore* I need more coffee!!

BubblyDevil · November 2013

Newspaper delivery person seems to think my neighbors garden has a subscription, and not me. I'm getting tired of calling to complain everyday.

Why can't they just fire him already? This has been an off and on issue for 4 fucking years!

KatyKatMeowz · November 2013

My dad died in May. I miss him. I always do, but today a little more.

BubblyDevil · November 2013

@KatyKatMeowz I am so sorry for your loss. My dad died in February, and I've been having a harder time lately too.

Hugs to you and I hope you find something to make you smile today.

Ashesha13 · November 2013

Stupid Esurance over charged our account by more than 2000 dollars due to a mistake THEY made on our renewal... And it was the second time it happened so after DH dealt with it the first time we thought we had the issue solved. Apparently not and other than recrediting our account they arent willing to make it up in any other way to keep a customer. Peace out esurance we are taking our business elsewhere.

janneann1127 · November 2013

AprilRaine said:

janneann1127 said:

AprilRaine said:
After DH got home from work yesterday I took a nice "alone" trip to Ulta to shop and get a break from the boys. Literally 30 minutes into my trip I get a text saying that the baby was crying in his ear so he put him in his room. Are you f-ing kidding me? I immediately called & bitched him out making sure he understood that was not okay.
I'm so annoyed that I do this all day long every single day and he can't handle both boys at once for an hour. He was so good at the baby stage with DS1, what the hell happened!?
Omg! Mine is the same way! He was so great with DS1. Now he has absolutely no patience with newbie. I don't get it, and it's so frustrating. It makes me feel bad when I leave the house!
So glad to hear its not just us! DS1 is DHs little buddy now and it's like he's forgotten how much work he used to be when he was an infant. I end up compensating by focusing all on LO while DH is home but I really don't want either of the boys to feel like there's any favoritism going on. Gah!

Oh my gosh yes! That's exactly where we are too. DS is a total daddy's boy so I end up doing all the baby stuff, which makes DS jealous and he won't listen to anything I say.

it sucks!

V&G101808 · November 2013

JNL$LSM said:

BlondieBia21 said:

1. MIL gave lo water in a bottle. When I was obviously upset about it, I got this reply from her- "all humans need water, she's fine." I had fi explain why she doesn't get water and tell his dad that his mom needs to stop questioning my every move. 2. The next morning as I was avoiding her, I had to wash lo's bottles. She says to me, "you know you wouldn't have to wash em So much if you just gave her water." 3. Yesterday was my bridal shower. Mil says "I don't think I'm going, I don't want to." Oh okay. Then fi asks me if I'm taking LO and before I could say yes, mil says "no she's not, she doesn't need to." I looked at her and said yes, and she said no. Then she says "she's never going to know who I am if you keep taking her from me." X(

I would be in jail this morning. Thank God I live no where near my ILs. Like I told H LO does not "need" to anyone but you, ODS (DN told me over the weekend he wants to be called my son) :x I will not deny hi that, and me.

Just curious did you take LO?

That warms my heart :x

mommabmb · November 2013

Wow... After reading this thread my bitch seems stupid. McD was out of diet coke this morning. Might be petty, but it ruined my day.

KMck27 · November 2013

Our church has been a nightmare since we moved here. It took over a month before I could even meet with a priest to schedule LO's baptism. At the meeting I expressed we wanted November 24. I call today so I can stop over and drop off the godparents letters of eligibility and the secretary tells me there is no date scheduled and the father that I met with is on vacation this entire week! WTF I have our entire family coming and although it's just immediate it is still 27 people! She said she will try to reach the priest not on vacation....he is the one that never responded to ANY of my multiple phones calls in the first place...I am beyond annoyed and frustrated.

Marvel1013 · November 2013

FILis back today to spend the week as usual.. No explanation needed there. FML

Ffrey1119 · November 2013

Why does dh lie about things? Petty things, wtf. 99% of the time I find out, it's not cool and it pisses me off.

You didn't tell me because you thought it would piss me off well now I am even madder. Why not just tell me things like a normal husband.

amarissa85 · November 2013

Blonders I think you need to straight up tell MIL to back off and mind her own business, that baby is your child not hers.

BlondieBia21 · November 2013

To continue mine, I avoided mil the rest of the time we were there. Fil and I talked and he said he's just going to be blunt and tell her what she's doing isn't ok. She questions my every move and is very passive aggressive toward me. She is just rude. It doesn't help that she is an alcoholic. When she's not drinking, she is a great person. Thinking back to when I was just her son's gf, she never acted this way. She's let her true colors out since we got engaged and lo got here. I want to run away. The wedding is in 2 weeks and I'm petrified how she will behave.

Bunnyfer · November 2013

I am so sick of the one supervisor at work. She is super annoying, and has a habit of singling me out and picking on me. I work nights she works days. Now I hear she is coming to the night shift. I am not thrilled about this. Plus, we have an open supervisor position, and one of my coworkers thinks he is a shoo in, and is now taking it upon himself to tell the rest of us what to do...ASSHOLE

LJUTCMommy · November 2013

mommabmb said:
Wow... After reading this thread my bitch seems stupid. McD was out of diet coke this morning. Might be petty, but it ruined my day.

Lol. On Saturday I tried to order a burger and the cashier was like "Ma'am, it's 10am. We don't have lunch yet".

Grr.

kwhite27 · November 2013

I feel like I have been hit by a bus.

(

janneann1127 · November 2013

Ooh I hate esurance. I signed up with them several years ago because they gave me a great rate. When my six-month premium was up, they sent me a bill for the next six months, and it was twice the price. I called to complain, and they told me that "rates in my area has gone up."
However, if I went on their website and signed up as a new customer, I got the lower rate. Bait & switch. I almost reported them to the better business bureau. I should have because I'm still bitter!

LEMSA · November 2013

I have to complete online training modules. And they are timed. You have to spend X amount of time on it. So I did a module in 5 minutes. I have to sit here for 20 so I get the full "25 minutes" in the module.

Total time of all these modules will be 4 hours.

At least I get paid.

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