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  bunnybun4 member

  November 2013

  On my iPad so apologies for weird formatting... I had a d&e at 19 weeks...I had several pretty unique circumstances and I don't really know if I had any other options. At the time I couldn't even fathom delivering her so I was glad to do the d&e without any questions. Looking back now, yes it hurts that I didn't get time with her...but I just have to give myself some grace and remember that at the time that was the best decision I could make in a very limited amount of time, we did what we had to do to make it thru a very horrific circumstance. I also tell myself that now I can think about her as the sweet little wiggling baby on our us and not whatever she would have looked like when we had to have her. I know it hurts that we never got to hold our lo's but we just have to remember that we just did what we had to do. ((Hugs))

  

  8/12-Suprise BFP- Sweet Bunny Born Sleeping 11/21/12 (19 weeks)

  -5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)

  11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13

  8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF

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  12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!!  One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15

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  princezjk member

  November 2013

  I agree with marylaurena.  Someone at my IRL support group shared some advice she had received from a fellow loss mom that has helped me on days where I beat myself up for not taking enough pictures of Izzie.  "Forgive yourself for decisions you made on the worst day of your life"  I think this is the same sentiment marylaurena was sharing, but this mantra has been helpful to me and hope it can help you as well.  (((hugs)))

  

  
  

  
  

     

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  jonahsma member

  November 2013

  Thanks ladies . Hugs and blessings to you all!

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