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freakyfastfreakyfast member
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So not sure how or why I got this, I know I didn't sign up for it.  I received a newborn nutrition kit. Its a big box and I haven't opened it, but it has a lady with a baby, looking like she just feed the baby or is about to.  My EDD from my ectopic was 12/02/13.  Where does this come from? :( 



  


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  • ally510ally510 member
    That's just cruel! I got a few of those from formula companies when I was pregnant with my DD. I assumed they came from TB selling my personal info or maybe my OB. Did you join TB and put in your due date info when you were pregnant with the baby you lost?
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    edited November 2013
    It's so cruel.  I was pregnant when my angel baby's EDD came around and that stuff started arriving in the mail, and it made me cry all the same.  I kind of assumed the mailings were triggered by my OB or something because I got advertisements from a local photographer about newborn sessions but I hadn't ever considered thebump angle.  I might've had my town listed on TB back then....
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    I did sign up on the bump, because I was on The Knot, and i did put in my EDD but I removed it when it was over.  I was getting emails every other week from a cord blood place, and i just kept deleting them, and then finally I responded because the title said. 'Your little one is almost here!' and I couldn't take it anymore and responded to him that I was no longer pregnant.  I don't even know how I got signed up for that. I assumed it was my ob-gyn. 



      


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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    ((hugs)) that is plain old mean. OR it's a sign of positive things to come with your upcoming FET!

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Jen071407 said:
    ((hugs)) that is plain old mean. OR it's a sign of positive things to come with your upcoming FET!

    Jen071407 to put a positive spin on things.  I love it! 



      


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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    I'm so sorry!!! 
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  • Momarazzi007Momarazzi007 member
    That happened with the ectopic we had before dd :( that due date was April Fool's Day, so even more cruel. I am so sorry. I took mine, after getting PI off, to church for donation- made me feel at least maybe someone got help out of it. I'm sorry :(
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!     February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
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  • +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member
    Awe I'm sorry girl, my EDD was 01/05/14 ... I'm sure ill end up getting something too. :-/ ....hugs!!!
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  • chusumchusum member
    Ugh! Yeah, I think it's either TB or OB's office. Either way, sucks!

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    TTC Since September 2009

    1st   BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

    DX: Pericentric Inversion of Chromosome 8 & compound heterozygous for MTHFR mutations
    RX: Lovenox/Heparin & Folgard

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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Awww. I am looking at this from the other side- I think this is a GOOD sign, that soon you will be totally up the duff! 

    (Big hugs) :( 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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