I'm pretty emotional so please excuse any typos. I also just wrote this all out and my internet froze, so sorry if it post twice.
Me: Everything is fine, tubes are clear, no problems showing on my ultrasound, no PCOS, and no IR.
H's SA:
Concentration: 0
Volume: 2.5
Motility: 0
Total Motile Cells: 0
So....there is our problem.
Our RE is optimistic that b/c this is secondary IF, the reason H has no sperm could be from a blockage. He does have a varicocele, but it wasn't a problem conceiving DD. H has has multiple health issues over the past 2 years, including a surgery, and 3 blood transfusions. RE does not feel that any of this is the cause, but he isn't sure. He refereed us to a Urologist who specializes in IF for more testing.
The testing will reveal that either H infact is not producing sperm, or that there is a blockage. If it's a blockage, they will do a sperm retrieval from behind the blockage, and then straight to ICIS IVF. They have some great IVF options for payment, b/c we all OOP, we were relieved to hear this.
If he is not producing sperm, we will move to a sperm donor or adoption.
I held it together for about 5 seconds after he said "zero sperm" and then the flood gates opened. We are devastated, but he kept reminding us that 10 years ago, sperm retrieval wasn't an option, and now it is very successful. We are lucky to live in DC where there are many many great resources for this, and we are seeing one of the top RE's in the area. He was optimistic that if they can get sperm from H (he said even 5-10 spermies will do) we can start IVF next cycle.
I don't know anything about IVF, or sperm retrieval, so I am going to be doing a lot of research over the next couple of weeks while we wait for H's testing to be completed.
He said that getting pregnant naturally would, at this point, would be scientifically impossible.
If you made it this far, thank you so much for reading! I will gladly except creeping internet stranger hugs today, or any information anyone has on sperm retreval, or working with these numbers.
TL;DR H has no sperm.
TTC #2 since 8/2012
Me:28 H:34
Me: all tests normal!
H: Azoospermia (Sperm count zero).
MFI Urologist all test normal.
Biopsy Feb. 14
****EVERYONE WELCOME****
Re: Back from RE with not so great news.
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April 2013: Femara + Trigger + IUI = ???
Married 11/21/2018
Me: 33 / DH: 33
TTC #1 since 2012, finally successful in 2016
BFP 11/29/2013 - EDD 8/9/2014 - MMC 12/31/2013 8 weeks 2 days - Tried to MC naturally for 4 weeks, D&C 2/2/2014
IUI 01/25/2016 - BFP 2/5/2016 - Natural Home Delivery to our DD 10/8/2016
IUD removed 10/3/2018
Ready to TTC for #2
Mom of Boys!!
Baby #1 - 3 years old
Baby #2 - Born 10/1/14
bfp#4 3/19/2014 edd 12/1/2014 please let this be the one!
beta @ 5w0d = 12,026! u/s 4/22/14 @ 8w1d it's twins!
So sorry to see this news. I hope that he has an easy sperm retrieval and you are able to have another little one soon! <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />
My Ovulation Chart
TTC #1 since March 2010
DH - SA = Low Morphology. Great overall count.
August 2012: HSG - All Clear
September 2012: Timed Intercourse 100 mg Clomid CD 4-8 w/ Repronex & HCG Injections = BFN
October 2012: Timed Intercourse 100 mg Clomid CD 4-8 = BFN
September 2013: New Doctor: 50 mg Clomid CD 5-9 & IUI #1 = BFN
October 2013: 50 mg Clomid CD 3-7 & IUI #2 = BFN
November 2013 to ??? = On a mental break for now.
Trying to have baby #1 since April 2013
DH SA March,May 2014 - Low motility and shape issues. On vitamins per RE to help
Me testing April 3, 2014 - FSH and LH good, HSG showed blocked right tube
April 29, 2014 - First RE appt., right tube needs to be removed and possibly left also if
it's bad too. RE suggests going straight to IVF
June 4, 2014 - LAP/HSC and unexpected endo. removed but tubes got to stay!
June 13, 2014 - Post-Op appointment. We decide where to go next since main issue
is MFI influenced. Trying naturally until decision... Repeat SA in September. Aiming for IUI #1 November 2014.
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
I'm here if you ever want to chat.
Good luck moving forward, I'll keep y'all in my prayers.
TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13 SUCCESS!!! Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).
Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!! Finally on the road to getting better.
Resumed TTC 7/2014! Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!! EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!!
Team Purple!!!!
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
Savannah Mommy and Daddy can't wait to meet you.
***DD 5/15/2004***TTC #2 Since March 2012***Severe MFI*** LameBlog ***
Kathi
EDD- 06/13/2017
**Stinkerbelle-8-27-10 * Mr.P's 2nd Mama 7-27-07**
I'm sorry that you got bad news.
I can tell you from experience (We have done 2 rounds of IVF) that IVF sounds a lot scarier than it actually is (although the financial part is scary, we are OOP as well).
PM me if you have any questions or need to talk.
GL.
TTC #1 since August 2011
My Blog
September 2012: Start IF testing
DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA
October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos
November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues. Converted to freeze all due to lining issues. 2 blasts frozen on day 6!
January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues
April 2015: FET #2.1
PAIF/SAIF Welcome!
TTC #2 since 8/2012
Me:28 H:34
Me: all tests normal!
H: Azoospermia (Sperm count zero).
MFI Urologist all test normal.
Biopsy Feb. 14
****EVERYONE WELCOME****
Your doctor sounds very knowledgeable and optimistic. FX that everything works out!
Great Dane Mom to Duke & Hazzard
Dx: PCOS
DS1 born 11/2014
DS2 born 11/2018
3 previous losses
Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green