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Back from RE with not so great news.

I'm pretty emotional so please excuse any typos. I also just wrote this all out and my internet froze, so sorry if it post twice.

Me: Everything is fine, tubes are clear, no problems showing on my ultrasound, no PCOS, and no IR. 

H's SA:
Concentration: 0
Volume: 2.5
Motility: 0
Total Motile Cells: 0

So....there is our problem.

Our RE is optimistic that b/c this is secondary IF, the reason H has no sperm could be from a blockage. He does have a varicocele, but it wasn't a problem conceiving DD. H has has multiple health issues over the past 2 years, including a surgery, and 3 blood transfusions. RE does not feel that any of this is the cause, but he isn't sure. He refereed us to a Urologist who specializes in IF for more testing.

The testing will reveal that either H infact is not producing sperm, or that there is a blockage. If it's a blockage, they will do a sperm retrieval from behind the blockage, and then straight to  ICIS IVF. They have some great IVF options for payment, b/c we all OOP, we were relieved to hear this.

If he is not producing sperm, we will move to a sperm donor or adoption.

I held it together for about 5 seconds after he said "zero sperm" and then the flood gates opened. We are devastated, but he kept reminding us that 10 years ago, sperm retrieval wasn't an option, and now it is very successful. We are lucky to live in DC where there are many many great resources for this, and we are seeing one of the top RE's in the area. He was optimistic that if they can get sperm from H (he said even 5-10 spermies will do) we can start IVF next cycle.

I don't know anything about IVF, or sperm retrieval, so I am going to be doing a lot of research over the next couple of weeks while we wait for H's testing to be completed.

He said that getting pregnant naturally would, at this point, would be scientifically impossible.

If you made it this far, thank you so much for reading! I will gladly except creeping internet stranger hugs today, or any information anyone has on sperm retreval, or working with these numbers.

TL;DR H has no sperm.

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Me:28 H:34
Me: all tests normal!
H:  Azoospermia (Sperm count zero).
MFI Urologist all test normal.
Biopsy Feb. 14

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    Oh my gosh! I'm so sorry. I hope the Urologist has some answers for you. Big hugs lady.

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    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
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    I'm so sorry! It's never easy hearing that something is "wrong". :(
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    Im sorry. Try to keep your chin up. Sounds like your RE is a good one and will be there for you.
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    Hugs for you as you are going through this. I'm sorry.

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    Sorry you are dealing with is; sending positive thoughts your way.
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    I'm so sorry.  I'm glad that you have excellent resources and a great RE, but that's still really hard news to hear.  FX that the urologist has some answers and good luck with IVF!
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    September 2013:  Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
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    November 2013:  NTNP
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    I am so sorry. 

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    So sorry to hear this. Your RE sounds really optimistic, so hang in there.
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    Oh my. I'm so sorry. 

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    So sorry to see this news. I hope that he has an easy sperm retrieval and you are able to have another little one soon! <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />

     

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    September 2012: Timed Intercourse 100 mg Clomid CD 4-8 w/ Repronex & HCG Injections = BFN

    October 2012: Timed Intercourse 100 mg Clomid CD 4-8 = BFN

    September 2013: New Doctor: 50 mg Clomid CD 5-9 & IUI #1 = BFN

    October 2013: 50 mg Clomid CD 3-7 & IUI #2 = BFN 

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    I'm so sorry you both are going through this! It sounds like you have a very competent doctor, and I hope that you are able to do the sperm retrieval and IVF! (((Creepy internet hugs)))
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    Many, many hugs to you!!!
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    nswain85nswain85 member
    edited November 2013
    I am so so sorry to hear about the results... I hope that the further testing goes smoothly and has a good outcome!

    Trying to have baby #1 since April 2013

    DH SA March,May 2014 - Low motility and shape issues. On vitamins per RE to help

    Me testing April 3, 2014 - FSH and LH good, HSG showed blocked right tube

    April 29, 2014 - First RE appt., right tube needs to be removed and possibly left also if

    it's bad too. RE suggests going straight to IVF

    June 4, 2014 - LAP/HSC and unexpected endo. removed but tubes got to stay!

    June 13, 2014 - Post-Op appointment. We decide where to go next since main issue

    is MFI influenced. Trying naturally until decision... Repeat SA  in September. Aiming for IUI #1 November 2014.

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    ((More creepy internet hugs for you)) I'm so sorry  you're dealing with this, but it's good that the doc seems optimistic. Hopefully the urologist appointment will go well.



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    **Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
    Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
    SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
    HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
    Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
     9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
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    I'm so sorry you're going through this. ::HUGS::
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    I am so sorry to hear this. *hugs*

    I'm here if you ever want to chat.

    Good luck moving forward, I'll keep y'all in my prayers.
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    *hugs* to you and your husband.

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    I'm so sorry you have to go through this :(
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    I'm sorry for those results, but it does sounds promising that your doctor is optimistic and there are still options for you guys.   (((hugs)))

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    Omg- that's so tough. My thoughts are with you.
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    I'm not "loving" your issue...I'm just trying to show support. I'm sorry that you are going through this...
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    I'm so sorry.

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    Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.

    Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!

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    Hugs girl!! Hope it all works out!
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    I am so sorry. I hope it is a blockage and you have a fast, successful IVF.
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    ::HUGS:: I'm praying for you guys.

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    So sorry to hear this. Good luck in your steps from here.

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    :hugs: I am so sorry! Will keep you in my thoughts and hope for some better news soon!

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    I am so sorry you are going through this! 
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    I'm sorry that you got bad news. 

    I can tell you from experience (We have done 2 rounds of IVF) that IVF sounds a lot scarier than it actually is (although the financial part is scary, we are OOP as well). 

    PM me if you have any questions or need to talk.

    GL.

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    October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos

    November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues.  Converted to freeze all due to lining issues.  2 blasts frozen on day 6!

    January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues

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    Oh gosh. I'm so sorry that you guys got this news. I hope that the next round of testing goes well and that the doctors can give you some great options!
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    so sorry to hear this, hopefully it all turns out well for you  


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    Thank you all so so so much! I stepped away to feed P lunch and came back to this overload of support! I am so glad that I am a part of this amazing community, I'm not sure how people go through any of this alone.


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    Me:28 H:34
    Me: all tests normal!
    H:  Azoospermia (Sperm count zero).
    MFI Urologist all test normal.
    Biopsy Feb. 14

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    I'm so sorry! *hugs*

    Your doctor sounds very knowledgeable and optimistic. FX that everything works out!
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    @Bredinswife - huge hugs to you, I am so sorry. I hope the sperm retrieval goes well.
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    Creepy internet hugs for you.  Sorry you're going through this, and best of luck to it all working out.

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    ::creepy internet hug:: sorry you are dealing with this right now... :(
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    VanellopeVanellope member
    edited November 2013
    ((Hugs)) I am so sorry that your going through this. Praying its a blockage and you have successful IVF! This 

    Edit: I had to reread the s/n bc I didn't recognize the pic. This breaks my heart for you. I am so so sorry. FX times a million. 
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    Big hugs! So sorry to hear, sending positive thoughts your way
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    I'm so sorry about the bad news you received. Hoping they are able to retrieve some sperm for IVF! 

    P.S. Your daughter is adorable!
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    I am so sorry.
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