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So, I'm having a meltdown

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Re: So, I'm having a meltdown

  • McsweetsMcsweets member
    @legallyginger - that cake looks delish!!

    I just want to say I think it is 100x better than you did this on purpose and not on accident.  The baby will be loved, cared for 100%, and will be priority.  Plus you will probably be happy to have your mom around at times!  Hard to imagine right now I'm sure :)
    1st FET 2/14/2013 Happy Valentines Day! - BFN
    2nd FET 6/14/2013     - BPF!!! -
    1st Beta:     1046!!!!! - 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!!
    First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats <3
    Second u/s     7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
    Third u/s     9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks.
    Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B = 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM
    MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks.
    Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm  --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh*
    MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week.
    MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29


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    Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!
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  • KTdid81KTdid81 member
    You are doing fine.  The baby doesn't care if it has a nursery.  Rather than worry about that you should congratulate yourself on everything you HAVE accomplished.  You will be fine and so will the baby.  Just take it one day at a time.  

    Plus, look around.....what makes you think that any of us have it ALL together?  I certainly don't.  We'll just all wing it together!!!
    Married 4-26-2011  Me 31 DH 28  
    TTC since 12/2011  
    5/4/13-IUI #1=BFN,  6/3/13-IUI #2=BFN, 7/1/2013-IUI #3=BFP!!!
    Little Man arrived 3/28/14 at 10:32pm
    9 lb 1 oz & 21 3/4 inches



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  • pepperedmothpepperedmoth member
    Hugs. That is all. I think you're a really cool person, and will be an awesome mom. That is all!
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  • VanessaBeeVanessaBee member
    Oh bless, honey. I know you're stressed, but the irony is, the fact that you're stressing means you ARE a good mom! You're worried and you want the best for your baby and that makes a pretty good parent in my book. I don't have a nursery either - teeny weeny little apartment, and it just doesn't make sense to do one until I move. I keep joking that the only thing I own so far is a car seat and that's just so they'll let me bring him home...ha! It will all work out and pack-n-plays set up wherever is convenient works miraculously.
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  • aguy2011aguy2011 member
    It's never the right time. My hubby and I have a home and good jobs. But in July, I just started a new high pressure job and lost my dad in same week. Then three weeks later....pregnant. I have cried thinking I have done things on bad timing but it will all work out. You don't beed to worry about nursery. In a little while, it will all align for you. And, you will be so glad you didn't wait for baby:). Plus, none if us pg in heat!!
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