@brandilc84 Isn't it amazing how you can have done this before and still feel clueless sometimes? Lol. My middle one is only 3, so it's not like it's been a tremendously long time. But, some days it feels like ages and I have no idea what I'm doing. Plus, every kid is different. We're doomed. Lol. And, outnumbered. Super combo
@brandilc84 Isn't it amazing how you can have done this before and still feel clueless sometimes? Lol. My middle one is only 3, so it's not like it's been a tremendously long time. But, some days it feels like ages and I have no idea what I'm doing. Plus, every kid is different. We're doomed. Lol. And, outnumbered. Super combo
Yes! My kids are 6 years apart. Things change- I am doing things different with Owen now, then I did 13 years ago- and I did things different 7 years ago with my middle son. I can't remember everything, and your right...every kid is different.
@brandilc84 Isn't it amazing how you can have done this before and still feel clueless sometimes? Lol. My middle one is only 3, so it's not like it's been a tremendously long time. But, some days it feels like ages and I have no idea what I'm doing. Plus, every kid is different. We're doomed. Lol. And, outnumbered. Super combo
Yes! My kids are 6 years apart. Things change- I am doing things different with Owen now, then I did 13 years ago- and I did things different 7 years ago with my middle son. I can't remember everything, and your right...every kid is different.
same with me too, my youngest is 3 and I've done things differently with LO. Plus each child is different.
That was/is a pet peeve of mine. Then if there was no other reason to attack, some would twist your words so they could make up a reason to attack. I don't miss that. .
Same over here @CindyRelluh and @Riansmommie. I already told my hubby once he graduates med school and makes a little more (and we're done with babies) I want a boob job so it actually looks like I have boobs. And I want a tummy tuck to get rid of all my stretch marks. And laser hair removal in my bikini area...I HATE shaving down there
I want the tummy tuck to get rid of some stretch marks as well as tighten the skin up around my belly button. Pregnancy screwed over my once normal looking belly button lol. Also forgot to add I want some lipo sculpting on my thighs because I def have some thunderous ones lol
Same over here @CindyRelluh and @Riansmommie. I already told my hubby once he graduates med school and makes a little more (and we're done with babies) I want a boob job so it actually looks like I have boobs. And I want a tummy tuck to get rid of all my stretch marks. And laser hair removal in my bikini area...I HATE shaving down there
I heartily endorse laser hair removal. Having my pits zapped was the best decision.
I feel like I post pretty regularly, but I don't really feel like I'm "friends" with anyone. I'm cool with that though, I use TB as a place to get a break from my day and reality and learn new things about being a mom and I enjoy that. But I can see where people feel some things are clique-ish.
I feel this way too
I don't feel the cliquish thing though, honestly. The bad bs badge is for all June 2013 mommies. I feel much more relaxed and like I can be myself here now. Whereas before, I felt like I was walking on eggshells and didn't want to say or do the wrong thing.
I feel very strongly that the way the board was before all the LOs was MUCH more holier than thou. I love this board now and all the bad bs I my Bad B's!
@CindyRelluh ditto! Once I'm done makin babies boob job and tummy tuck are the next things on my list
me three! My boobs need to be put back where they go. My tummy needs a good tuck also- actually I need a body lift.
And see, every time I actually make it to a computer and see your sig, I think you look so beautiful.
I would totally be on the plastic surgery train if I wan't terrified of surgery. Puts a damper on it.
Thank you!! My body has taken a serious beating carrying 3 kids though. I'm terrified of needles....not sure I would actually be able to go through elective surgery...with the whole general anesthesia to go along with that fear.
Since you're all wondering - here are my thoughts.
I like marshmallows. And it's with an A, people; not an E. Let's be respectful. I especially like strawberry marshmallows. Peeps are disgusting.
I think it's kind of funny how we went from being the "nicest" board to the board that everyone apparently remembers as mean and snarky. I was here from the beginning; the only snark I saw was for MUD, AEs, or people who you just wanted to pinch in the arm fat for being dumb. I don't really care about how the board is now; I lurk a lot but don't post as much because I think it's weird that so many people joined after their kids were born.
And I will miss BLT!! Except we are going to run away together soooooo I guess I'm good.
Since you're all wondering - here are my thoughts.
I like marshmallows. And it's with an A, people; not an E. Let's be respectful. I especially like strawberry marshmallows. Peeps are disgusting.
I think it's kind of funny how we went from being the "nicest" board to the board that everyone apparently remembers as mean and snarky. I was here from the beginning; the only snark I saw was for MUD, AEs, or people who you just wanted to pinch in the arm fat for being dumb. I don't really care about how the board is now; I lurk a lot but don't post as much because I think it's weird that so many people joined after their kids were born.
And I will miss BLT!! Except we are going to run away together soooooo I guess I'm good.
Have a picture:
I agree with you. I'm not sure exactly who the ones are who joined post pregnancy, but I know what you mean. Also, I want to adopt your child, and make him my squish.
N will be up in an hour to eat and I'm about 2 hours past my bed time, but I seriously don't want to sleep. I'm too entertained. That gingy gif from flerlgirl... I laughed so hard!
I agree with you. I'm not sure exactly who the ones are who joined post pregnancy, but I know what you mean. Also, I want to adopt your child, and make him my squish.
I don't post much here either anymore because I don't recognize most people who do. I joined a few months into my pregnancy and I really liked the regulars that were on here. I enjoyed our nightly chats. I really don't understand what a lot of this bad b stuff is about but I don't really care ether as I am too busy with my 2 boys to really give it a second thought. I do miss seeing all of the old regulars post. I didn't think that anybody was mean. I second @flerlgirl that I think it is weird that so many people started posting after their babies were born.
I don't post much here either anymore because I don't recognize most people who do. I joined a few months into my pregnancy and I really liked the regulars that were on here. I enjoyed our nightly chats. I really don't understand what a lot of this bad b stuff is about but I don't really care ether as I am too busy with my 2 boys to really give it a second thought. I do miss seeing all of the old regulars post. I didn't think that anybody was mean. I second @flerlgirl that I think it is weird that so many people started posting after their babies were born.
At first, I thought it was weird too. Granted, some of them were (cringe) but the ones that stuck around are seriously awesome. It's worth it getting to know them.
Tots agree with @maelara ... Been here since bfp and tried to post a decent amount while pregnant but honestly didn't feel as comfortable as I do now. I really like the vibe of the board right now and all the ladies are truly amazing!
I've been on the boards since 5 weeks/bfp and to be fair, I was teetering between may 13 and June 13 since my edd was June 3 (I was sure my baby would come at the end of May... And she did, may 24) Anyway some of the snark I remember may have actually been from may 13- I know for sure some of it was! And I gave up on that board at some point, sticking with June, because everyone said June was a "nice board" and it was sure nicer than May!! There was just a few who I felt picked on people with innocent questions for no reason... Anyway, I don't hate the old regulars (honestly besides a few, I don't even remember who they were because I only lurked and didn't pay much attention to names) but like I said, I like the overall feeling of the board now. And the older regs who still post, I like!!
I know this thread isn't even about confessions at this point, but I thought of one this morning.
I am secretly loving that my friend who insist on doing CIO with her baby that's two weeks younger than mine and who is always super smug about her kid sttn is having such issues getting her 3 year old potty trained. I know that makes me terrible, but if one more person tells me to ask her for advice on getting Alex to sleep, I am going to throat punch them.
Dude. I can't keep the threads straight so maybe this isn't the right place for it to be seen but I'm sorry for naming names in the favorites questions. I missed so many of your names. Then you showed up and now i feel bad. So... Hi to all you lovely people that I didn't mention earlier.
As for the rest of this... I really do love this board in all its forms. It ebbs and flows like anything but I feel like it has been really entertaining lately. I kinda love everyone here because you all make the board what it is in your way.
Anyway.
I'm technically on vacation at the beach and I've had my first rum and coke and I'm all wordy.
All in favor of hugging it out give me some love! Or if you're a negative Nancy, report me.
I know it's been said, but a lot of the people who said they don't consider themselves regulars, I do. Lol. @bekahlulu I consider you a reg. I love your gummy smiled squish profile picture.
Here's my 2 cents......it is called the BUMP not the BABY. But I'm cool with the newbs. Andplusalso IDGAF who you like or don't like but I agree with both sides. If you have issues say you have issues. It is really simple. Example I can't stand @emolm See it is really easy to name names.
Since you're all wondering - here are my thoughts.
I like marshmallows. And it's with an A, people; not an E. Let's be respectful. I especially like strawberry marshmallows. Peeps are disgusting.
I think it's kind of funny how we went from being the "nicest" board to the board that everyone apparently remembers as mean and snarky. I was here from the beginning; the only snark I saw was for MUD, AEs, or people who you just wanted to pinch in the arm fat for being dumb. I don't really care about how the board is now; I lurk a lot but don't post as much because I think it's weird that so many people joined after their kids were born.
And I will miss BLT!! Except we are going to run away together soooooo I guess I'm good.
Have a picture:
I'm a big fan of yours @flerlgirl but I have to say this rubbed me the wrong way. I used to go to other local message boards while I was pregnant (lifamilies.com) because I could get opinions on doctors, hospitals, etc near me. Now I am home with more time on my hands and starting lurking TB over the summer. I decided I really liked the group (you included) and
wanted to get involved. I can't fathom why this is "weird." Maybe it was just the choice of words that rubbed me.
@violett1183 hmmm, maybe I didn't explain myself very well. It isn't weird like the old man down the street who talks to his own elbow and has a pet giraffe. It's weird in the sense that it is something I did not expect, and therefore am taking time to get used to. I was surprised that so many people wanted to jump in after the fact. But of course you're welcome here. I don't have a problem with anyone. I just meant the dynamic changed in a way I would not have predicted. Make sense?
After dealing with a screechy cling on for the past week, I actually asked my DH if we could feed our DD to a pack of wolves last night. And there was a small part of me was serious...
I don't use lotion on Joseph...I kept on forgetting and then I just said screw it basically. His skin is still extremely soft though.
Also I still can't figure out what FFFC stands for....
My pedi actually said it's better not to use lotion on babies because most really don't need it. She said the main purpose at this age is for baby massage.
I can only speak for myself, but I started posting after baby b/c I worked full-time and I don't have a job that allows me to be on TB. I've been on maternity leave now so I'm able to post while sitting with a sleeping baby. I still don't post much and consider myself a newbie, but I have found everyone to be funny, sweet, and supportive. I really like @CarloynL8 since offering me a Keurig code and giving advice to me awhile back. I also remember reading she is from SI and I know not to mess with a SI girl!!
Re: FFFC
same with me too, my youngest is 3 and I've done things differently with LO. Plus each child is different.
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#4 Due May 2015
IT'S A BOY
I will probably get a credit card specifically for if. My genes have screwed me royally in the weight loss department.
I feel this way too
Thank you!!
My body has taken a serious beating carrying 3 kids though. I'm terrified of needles....not sure I would actually be able to go through elective surgery...with the whole general anesthesia to go along with that fear.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
At first, I thought it was weird too. Granted, some of them were (cringe) but the ones that stuck around are seriously awesome. It's worth it getting to know them.
BFP#2 9/28/12 EDD 6/5/13 J.B. born 6/6/13
I am secretly loving that my friend who insist on doing CIO with her baby that's two weeks younger than mine and who is always super smug about her kid sttn is having such issues getting her 3 year old potty trained. I know that makes me terrible, but if one more person tells me to ask her for advice on getting Alex to sleep, I am going to throat punch them.
As for the rest of this... I really do love this board in all its forms. It ebbs and flows like anything but I feel like it has been really entertaining lately. I kinda love everyone here because you all make the board what it is in your way.
Anyway.
I'm technically on vacation at the beach and I've had my first rum and coke and I'm all wordy.
All in favor of hugging it out give me some love! Or if you're a negative Nancy, report me.
Stop it, flerl.
Or am I?
See it is really easy to name names.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
After dealing with a screechy cling on for the past week, I actually asked my DH if we could feed our DD to a pack of wolves last night. And there was a small part of me was serious...