I am 30 (IF caused by ruptured ectopic @ 25 and benign tumor @ 19 that took my r ovary), DH (no IF issues at all) is in the military and turning 31 this weekend. Married since 11/3/2007. We live in NC with our 2.5 year old b/g twins. The twins were conceived via IVF1. We had 3 frozen embryos from their cycle and did a FET 10/1. We got a BFP but betas were low/slow doubling. This past week we were shocked to see a baby that measured perfectly with a healthy heartbeat. Sadly two days later (Saturday) I miscarried while taking our little ones trick or treating at DH's unit Halloween Bash. It was fast and completely heartbreaking (obvi).
We're looking at IVF2 either in Jan or April. We are military and at a post where they have a military RE clinic. The downfall is that they only cycle quarterly. We are at odds on whether to cycle in Jan or wait until April. Just looking to give and receive support. I hope I'm in the right place. If I'm not, I hope I haven't offended anyone.
I'm an old nestie/bumpie from before the big switch over. I haven't posted in a year or so and I had a different screen name that I haven't been able to sign into since the switch.