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Introduction...I hope I'm in the right place

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edited October 2013 in Secondary IF

Hi all,

I am 30 (IF caused by ruptured ectopic @ 25 and benign tumor @ 19 that took my r ovary), DH (no IF issues at all) is in the military and turning 31 this weekend. Married since 11/3/2007.  We live in NC with our 2.5 year old b/g twins.  The twins were conceived via IVF1.  We had 3 frozen embryos from their cycle and did a FET 10/1.  We got a BFP but betas were low/slow doubling.  This past week we were shocked to see a baby that measured perfectly with a healthy heartbeat.  Sadly two days later (Saturday) I miscarried while taking our little ones trick or treating at DH's unit Halloween Bash.  It was fast and completely heartbreaking (obvi). 

We're looking at IVF2 either in Jan or April.  We are military and at a post where they have a military RE clinic.  The downfall is that they only cycle quarterly.  We are at odds on whether to cycle in Jan or wait until April.  Just looking to give and receive support.  I hope I'm in the right place.  If I'm not, I hope I haven't offended anyone.

I'm an old nestie/bumpie from before the big switch over.  I haven't posted in a year or so and I had a different screen name that I haven't been able to sign into since the switch. 


B/G twins born 3.22.11
TTC #3
M/C 10.26.13 @ 6w2d



Re: Introduction...I hope I'm in the right place

  • Sounds like you are in the right place to me. I am so sorry for your loss :( Good luck to you in making your decision for the next IVF.
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  • Welcome to the board, and good luck with your next round of IVF!  I'm so very sorry for your loss.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • Good luck! 

    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 

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  • Hope your stay is a short one! Welcome!



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    Happily married since Feb 2010, Sweet DD born Oct 2010, 39 years old, blocked tube, low . 09 AMH and high 21 FSH

    It's not him, it's me!

    September 2013 failed IUI - left blocked tube

    November 2013 IVF - premature ovulation converted to IUI 

    December 2013 "We were <are> on a break!!!" ~ Friends homage


    November 2013 protocol: Menopur, Gonal-f RFF Pen 900, Ganirelix 250mcg, baby Asprin, Gonal-f RFF Pen 300, Z Pak, Novarel, Progestrone in Sesame Oil


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    edited October 2013
    I am sorry to hear about your loss.  Welcome and good luck with your future IVF! 


  • Thanks for the warm welcome ladies :) 

    Just got back from my post-m/c check up.  Confirmed empty ute and betas are dropping.  They were 700's today and they want to follow them down to >5.  I have an appt Friday to discuss our next move.  RE wants at least one natural cycle before we start the next IVF.  I know that waiting and getting it together mentally/physically/financially is the right move, but I'm so tempted to cycle in Jan.  The 5-6 month wait for the cycle to start in March/Late April-Early May stims and retrieval is just so daunting.  I hate this.  Anyone been through a  similar scenario? 

    Thanks ladies!

    B/G twins born 3.22.11
    TTC #3
    M/C 10.26.13 @ 6w2d



  • Welcome!  I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    m/c 05/2009
    DD born 8/9/10
    TTC #2 since 8/2012
    CP 12/2012
    dx MFI 10/2013
    Surprise BFP 11/6/2013  EDD 7/19/2014
    Beta #1 15 dpo HCG 355 Prog 30.9
    Beta #2 22 dpo HCG 8147 Prog 18.8
    Beta #3 29 dpo HCG 44580 Prog 29.8

  • Welcome!

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 


  • Welcome. So sorry for your loss.

    TTC #2 since 8/2012

    IUI #1 April 2014: BFN

    IUI #2 July 2014: BFN

    IUI #3 August 2014: BFN

    BFP: September 15, due May 22nd 2015

  • Welcome!

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13

    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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