October 2013 Moms

@amjoy25's nightmare birth story in gifs PIP

Sorry about the MIA-ness, and late birth story...so, induction set for October 22nd at 2pm due to gestational diabetes...one day before my due date:


I check in at 3.5 cm, 80% effaced; water still intact. I get my IV, and Pitocin is started at the lowest dose to be dosed up every 30 minutes:
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It is continuously dosed up until my MW gets there at 6pm...and I'm all like:

...when asked about my contractions...so, the MW broke my water at 4cm:
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The nurse suggested I get my epi now, because getting one during a bad contraction would be tough:

Epi in with one try at 6:30pm...FTW!

By 9pm I was complete! I also just wanted to take a nap...

But it was go time!
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I pushed for 1 hour...in every position possible, but Willa's heart rate would drop into the 50's with every push and contraction. After 1 hour, my MW said she needed to get the doctor:

The doctor came in and suggested we vacuum:

He gave it one try...no go. He says it's c-section time:
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I just want her out safely at this point. So the husband gets all dressed, and I am wheeled to the OR, the anesthesiologist is at my head along with my husband. I feel tugging and pulling, but no pain...I grab tight to my husband's hand:
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My husband and I exchange a look when we hear crying:
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They show her to us and then take my husband over to clamp the cord; meanwhile, I hear the anesthesiologist say "you guise her urinary bag is full of blood".




I knew immediately, my bladder had been cut! So, the on-call urologist takes his sweet time to get there...I am waiting, numb, wide awake, and still open...he gets there an hour later! BTW a bladder knick is a possible complication of a c-section; although, the doctor that did my c-section said he had not cut a bladder in years. Great.

It takes 4 hours to repair, and I get to have a urinary catheter for 3 weeks:

I get back to my room, and I spend all night snuggling and BFing Willa...who BTW is awesome! She weighed 6lbs 9oz, 19 3/4 inches.
But, I start have severe left flank pain that Morphine and Percocet ARE NOT touching, and I am vomiting it is hurting so bad.
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I am sent for a KUB x-ray and a cat scan. Guess what? The urologist has sutured my left ureter (the tube from your kidney to your bladder) to my bladder by accident and I have a blockage...I must go back to surgery tonight!
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But first, I must get a nephrostomy tube to temporarily drain urine from my kidney and make me more comfortable:
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So, that procedure went well, I am much more comfortable. Soooo, I go back to surgery, they repair the ureter, but I get a fever that night, and the nurses are packing me with ice bags:
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And now I'm having right sided flank pain...and the nurses are poking me multiple times for blood, blood cultures, urine, etc.
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The doctor orders another cat scan with contrast for every oraphus...including rectal:
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The scan comes back fine. Thank God.
I am discharged with a nephrostomy tube for 1 week, a urinary catheter for 3 weeks, and a c-section that has been opened twice in 24 hours:
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Fast forward to today: I have my staples out (and c-section was the least painful part of this experience), nephrostomy tube comes out tomorrow, and the urinary catheter November 11th:
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My husband has been immeasurably helpful and awesome (think emptying my catheter, doing most of the diaper changes, helping me shower...this is not pretty BTW)...I literally would not be able to care for a newborn without him.

And the IL's have been cooking every meal since Saturday:


Thanks for listening! Disclaimer: we will fight any extra charges to our hospital bill that were not directly incurred for Willa's birth.

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  • Oh my goodness you poor thing, that sounds absolutely horrible, I'm so sorry you went through all of that. But the upside is you got sweet beautiful Willa out of it!

    I wish you a speedy recovery and enjoy your new addition!! She really is adorable!
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  • holy shit.  thank god you're a nurse because that all sounds super scary!!?  but AW WILLA! she's so beautiful.  hope you feel better soon, mama!
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  • Wow, what a nightmare!  Wishing you a fast recovery.  Willa is beautiful!

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  • Wow! What a story! I'm sorry things got complicated but I'm glad you are ok! Your baby is precious btw! Hang in there :)
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  • Oh my gosh. Reading that made me hurt!! I can't imagine having had to go through that! Happy you're healing alright and little Willa is adorable and healthy! And kudos to your DH!



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  • bionicbbionicb member
    edited October 2013
    Whoa holy shit. That is some serious fucking up on the doctors part! Congrats on your beautiful Willa! 

    Uhm.. as a (admittedly scary) heads up, when they take the neph. drain out they are going to hold pressure, for a while. let them. Esp with all the crap thats gone down. Heck, maybe have them hold for a little longer than normal. You DO NOT want the consequences of that shit leaking into your belly. Its worse than horrible labor contractions. 


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  • sleepy33sleepy33 member
    edited October 2013
    All I can say is, your urologist is SUPER lucky you are such a kind and understanding person. I am so glad you have lots of folks around to help you and hope you recover ASAP!!
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  • Sarasmith84Sarasmith84 member
    edited October 2013
    Omg I don't even know what to say! I'm so sorry.
  • Holy shit! I have no words for what you have been through. Glad baby Willa is here and you are on the mend. Mad props to your husband too. That had to be so hard for him to see and deal with.

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  • WOW my pity party for spinal headaches is over.  Your story just continued to spin out of control!  You are awesome.
  • beernifer said:
    Mother of god. That is some crazy ass shit.
    Win.

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  • Oh. dear. Jesus.

    That is seriously horrid! I am so sorry you had to go through all of that. I'm glad you are on the mend and have an awesome husband to help you out!

    And Willa is freaking adorable!
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  • Holy ?!&! Nightmare doesn't even cover it. I'm glad everyone is ok now though! You're
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  • Holy crap! You deserve an award for going through all that.

    But I love the gif story and Willa is adorable!
  • Omg, how horrifying! I'm glad Willa is doing awesome,but yikes!
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  • As someone who still has an inside baby, this story terrifies me!!!!

    I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that. Your daughter is beautiful though!
  • Holy shit balls!! So sorry ! Glad you and little Willa are okay.
  • You are hella tough, lesser women would not have weathered that as well as you did!
    Yay for baby snuggles, supportive husband, and cooking in laws! At least with all you have been through, you are surrounded with love and support!

    I cringe for you having to have the cath for so long. That's the worst.
  • That is one hellofa birth story! Glad you two are doing well!! Congrats!
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  • Oh my! I thought I had it bad with two feet with foot drop. You are a trooper. Hope you heal quickly! Willa is adorable!!

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  • Omg sweetie, I just wanna give you a hug. Of course she's worth it, I mean look at her! She's awesome! I'm sure you got the best baby because of this experience.
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  • This is all because you're a medical provider. Same reason a veterinary oncologist once told me if she ever sees a patient with 3 types of cancer, she knows it must belong to a veterinarian. Best wishes for your recovery.
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  • Ugh. What a traumatic experience. So glad you are both healthy now. Congrats on your sweet girl!

    When you say you will fight other charges, do you mean the urologist stuff? Or how does all that work when the additional surgeries were not your fault?
  • Wow sorry for that delivery but congrats to you!!!
  • Holy shit!

    That's all I got.


    Oh, and Willa is so super adorable I can't even stand it.

  • Holy intense birth story. Glad everything is ok, hope you're feeling back to normal soon! Willa is beautiful!
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  • I'm sorry you had so many complications and that it will take some time before you are fully recovered. I had to have a catheter for a few weeks when I herniated a disc and my husband also took care of me and my catheter. In fact, his doing so is what convinced me he was the one so I can kinda understand that part.

    Congratulations on having Willa!!!
  • Holy. shit. ! I Am so sorry this happened and that urologist deserves a simultaneous face and cunt punch. So glad you are doing ok and handling things like a champ. Willa is such a beautiful name for a beautiful girl! Congratulations!

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  • Holy crap! Glad you're ok. She's adorable.
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  • Wow, I'm sorry you had so many complications! Willa looks perfect though.
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  • Omg, what a nightmare! Glad you're doing better. Willa is adorable!
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  • Yeah, only loved it because of the pictures.

    Ridiculous how many mistakes you had to endure. Hope your recovery is extra speedy!
    Oh, and I like CV's thinking...
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  • Oh my goodness, I am so sorry you had to go through all of that! She is precious though!!

  • Shedna said:
    As someone who still has an inside baby, this story terrifies me!!!! I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that. Your daughter is beautiful though!

    I would deft do everything possible to have a vag delivery! Although, I do not think my story is common with any c-section birth.

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  • Holy shit. I think I've just decided my baby can just stay in! If I could insert a big shocked eyed gif here I would. Glad you and Willa made it through all that and hope you continue to heal well from all the different doctor's accidents.
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  • Oh my! I thought I had it bad with two feet with foot drop. You are a trooper. Hope you heal quickly! Willa is adorable!!

    Foot drop is pretty bad too! I hope you get some answers.

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  • For the love of all that's holy! That is way more than one person should ever have to endure!

    I thought my c/sec was bad. It's interesting to me about the bladder cut, my dr thought she might have nicked mine, but they didn't do anything. I always thought that seemed strange. Maybe they were just in a hurry to finish because my epidural quit working and I was in so much pain.
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  • Amjoy25Amjoy25 member
    edited October 2013
    kimbo1216 said:
    Ugh. What a traumatic experience. So glad you are both healthy now. Congrats on your sweet girl! When you say you will fight other charges, do you mean the urologist stuff? Or how does all that work when the additional surgeries were not your fault?
    I'm not too sure but I'm sure it will involve a lawyer. I used to work hand in hand with the hospitals risk management department, so I have alerted them to my case also.

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  • Amjoy25Amjoy25 member
    edited October 2013
    @huntjul. All of the nurses kept saying that...."it's because you're a nurse, all this is going down". I think when the OB found out I was a nurse, he was extra prudent. He actually stayed in town, when he was supposed to go out of town, to be sure my case was settled and I was ok. He was actually really concerned about me. The urologist...could prob give 2 shits.

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