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It's tough writing an intro on this board

chusumchusum member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
So while I've been here plenty of times I always have a tough time writing an intro on this board in particular. So between feeling sorry for myself, bouts of crying, and deleting and rewriting my intro post again and again. I'm saying hello. My history is that this will be my 6th miscarriage. Still trying to decide whether or not I let my body do it or I have a D&C. My OB wants me to do a D&C, but I enjoy popping some percosets and do it myself. Just hoping I start to cramp and bleed soon because I just want to be done with it and move on again (duh, who enjoys a long drawn out miscarriage?).

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Married August 9, 2008
TTC Since September 2009

1st   BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

DX: Pericentric Inversion of Chromosome 8 & compound heterozygous for MTHFR mutations
RX: Lovenox/Heparin & Folgard

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    alm288alm288 member
    I'm sorry that you found yourself on this board again and for your loss. I've only had a d&c so I can't compare them. I personally was glad to have the d&c. It was not as bad as I thought and the recovery was super quick. I just wanted to put it behind me. Good luck - whatever you decide! *hugs*
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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    aschultz9aschultz9 member
    So sorry that this keeps happening to you
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    TXSparkyTXSparky member
    I'm so sorry that you are here again. It sounds like you have traveled a difficult path.  I was given the option.  I chose the meds because of the (super small) risk of scaring.  I'm just not feeling lucky this week and didn't want to take the risk if I it was necessary. Good luck with whatever you decide.  You will be in my prayers.


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    BFP 9.19.2013 - EDD 6.1.2014 - MMC @ 8 weeks 3 days



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    TVLilyTVLily member
    So sorry for your loss.
    Thinking of you.

    EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
    EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
    IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI 

    Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW

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    amandalou22amandalou22 member
    So sorry you're here again. So sorry...I just did the meds vs. the d&c this time too.....and after reading your history on your siggy it sounds like we deal with similar problems. Different chromosome issues but it's like playing roulette every time I get pregnant. I feel you. Giant hugs!!!!
     
     
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    libby+natelibby+nate member
    I know I responded on TTCAL but I wanted to offer more support and tell you again how sorry I am.
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    MMason12MMason12 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses!!  My T&P's are with you. 
    Me: 30 Him: 33
    Married: August 2012
    BFP #1 9/2013 -- MC 10/2013
    DD: 9/22/2014           
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    masterofallcheesemasterofallcheese member
    i am so so sorry for all you have experienced. ((hugs))

    Missed M/C natural cycle 10/2013

    DX PCOS 3/2014

    2 cycles Clomid 50 mg + Ovidrel + TI

    1 cycle Clomid 50 mg + TI - no response stair-stepped to Clomid 75 mg + Ovidrel + TI

    1 cycle Clomid 50 mg + Ovidrel + IUI

    1 cycle Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Follistim + Ovidrel + TI

    1 cycle Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Folistim + Ovidrel + IUI

    1 cycle Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Follistim  - no response, repeated Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Follistim + Ovidrel + IUI = success! 12/2014

    Beta 1 - 15 dpiui, 324, Beta 2 - 17 dpiui 750. Twins!!

    My Blog: pcosandpizza.blogspot.com


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    IhopeIhope member
    I'm so sorry. You know best what the best route is for you. Follow your heart
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    BkBaby118BkBaby118 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses.
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    Ceridwen21Ceridwen21 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. My very best wishes to you.

    Oscar born October 2011

    Miscarriage at 8 weeks (August 2013)

    DD due September 1, 2014

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    Ashley144uAshley144u member
    I'm so sorry for your losses! Thoughts and prayers!!!
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    DS born 04/25/2012
    BFP- 09/05/2013
    Ectopic Pregnancy Diagnosis- 09/17/2013
    We have a Guardian Angel
    BFP- 03/02/2014, EDD 11/13/2014
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    co baby1co baby1 member
    I am so sorry for your losses ((hugs))!
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    maisonduchoco2maisonduchoco2 member
    I am so sorry for your losses. ::hugs::

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    chusumchusum member
    @meladoriestar he wants karotype to see if it's a chromosome problem or if another problem we haven't found.

    Thanks ladies. Luckily I started bleeding yesterday, and major pressure today. So I'm hoping the tissue passes this evening or tomorrow.

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    Married August 9, 2008
    TTC Since September 2009

    1st   BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

    DX: Pericentric Inversion of Chromosome 8 & compound heterozygous for MTHFR mutations
    RX: Lovenox/Heparin & Folgard

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    chusumchusum member
    @meladoriestar I've heard of people doing that, I could ask. It doesn't hurt to ask right?

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    Married August 9, 2008
    TTC Since September 2009

    1st   BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

    DX: Pericentric Inversion of Chromosome 8 & compound heterozygous for MTHFR mutations
    RX: Lovenox/Heparin & Folgard

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    megrae12megrae12 member
    I am so sorry for your loss! I couldnt imagine having to go through this again and again. My T and P's are with you and hubby. BIG, HUGE ((HUGS))!!
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
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    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much. 
    All Welcome


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    lindahwalindahwa member
    I am so sorry for your loss *hugs*
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    SaranJonathanSaranJonathan member
    So very sorry. Huge hugs.
    BFP #1 4/6/09; EDD 12/6/09; miscarriage 4/10/09..............BFP #2 5/3/09; DD born 1/9/10........BFP #3 12/15/12, EDD 8/31/13; baby stopped growing at 5w3d; natural miscarriage..........BFP #4 2/8/13, EDD 10/20/13; missed miscarriage discovered 9w2d; d/c.......BFP #5 10/22/13, EDD 7/8/13; miscarriage 10/28/13..... BFP #6 11/19/13; DS born 7/29/14 {\rtf1\ansi\ansicpg1252 {\fonttbl\f0\fswiss\fcharset0 Helvetica;} {\colortbl;\red255\green255\blue255;\red51\green51\blue51;\red255\green255\blue255;} \deftab720 \pard\pardeftab720\sl280\partightenfactor0 \f0\fs22 \cf2 \cb3 \expnd0\expndtw0\kerning0 \outl0\strokewidth0 \strokec2 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker} {\rtf1\ansi\ansicpg1252 {\fonttbl\f0\fswiss\fcharset0 Helvetica;} {\colortbl;\red255\green255\blue255;\red51\green51\blue51;\red255\green255\blue255;} \deftab720 \pard\pardeftab720\sl280\partightenfactor0 \f0\fs22 \cf2 \cb3 \expnd0\expndtw0\kerning0 \outl0\strokewidth0 \strokec2 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker}
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