I'm really struggling with the snarky women on here

Re: I'm really struggling with the snarky women on here

• MonaMuse member

  October 2013

  Hmm.. I noticed you've only been on since September and your ONLY posts are created to stir drama. The last thread was: This board is far too cluttered - which you did EXACTLY the same thing. Didn't read the entire post and tried to create drama. 

  
  

  Which is even more interesting coupled with the fact that you just posted: I think "some"of you aren't even pregnant but patrol these posts and boards just looking to be nasty to people cause you have no life"

  
  

  The jig is up troll. You've been outed. 

  

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• Ferreri0925 member

  October 2013

  SNLT1012 said:

  Ferreri0925 said:

  MonaMuse said:

  Hahaha. Oh troll you do make me laugh. That's as good as an admission that you didn't read the entire thread. And I LOVE that you STILL have not denied that fact that intentionally trying to create drama. Interesting.

  I don't need to defend some losers false and ridiculous accusations thank you. so there! Now go run and call someone else names
  
  

  Speaking of false and ridiculous accusations...
  

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  I think "some"of you aren't even pregnant but patrol these posts and boards just looking to be nasty to people cause you have no life

  It's true though how can some of these girls be pregnant? they are so mean to people asking valid questions. I have seen people made fun of because someone else thinks they are asking a stupid question. like why do you have to be mean? If you don't like the question then just don't reply! if they were truly newly pregnant I would think no question is silly or stupid.
  
  

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• MonaMuse member

  October 2013

  Nice try. 

  

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• Ferreri0925 member

  October 2013

  MonaMuse said:

  Nice try. 

  Ok weirdo... Get a life. Go play in a sand box somewhere little girl!
  

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• flerlgirl member

  October 2013

  

  
  

  
  
  
  

  
  I'm not new. I just hate The Bump. 
  
  

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• KristaU831 member

  October 2013 edited October 2013

  edited to not feed the troll

  
  

  
  

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• MonaMuse member

  October 2013

  @ flerlgirl - that's awesome!! Lol!! Totally just made my day.

  
  

  @KristaU831 - let's not feed the troll. If we ignore it maybe it will go away.

  

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• KristaU831 member

  October 2013

  let me change my response then… lol. 

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• KingLED member

  October 2013

  FFS.  I read nothing on this last page, but I assuming it's just the idiot troll spouting nonsense and trying to start drama.
  
  So for all of you that don't like that TB is snarky and fun, got any of the hundreds of other message boards out there that are all about puppies and rainbows and let us bitches have at least one fucking pregnancy board that isn't full of ridiculous nonsense.  TB is an amazing place because it actually has its own personality and it isn't just an annoying forum full of women that think just because they're women they have some fucking obligation to be all pg and happy about shit.  Fuck that and fuck anyone that's going to try and pretend that's going to change. 
  
  
  

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• Bcsquier member

  October 2013 edited October 2013

  Wow I really need to get on the online boards instead of just the mobile because it's too hard to keep track of stuff and then I glance at it this morning and all hell has broken loose! It looks like that girl got what she deserved though and the other women weren't rude about it but tactful.

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• lucreciac member

  October 2013

  MonaMuse said:

  Which is exactly what your doing. Trolling around looking to create drama - which by the way I love that you didn't bother denying. I noticed also that you didn't deny the fact that you didn't bother reading the entire post.   

  Thank you @MonaMuse! I didn't even have the energy to stop eating my gummy bears and reply to someone who is obviously just causing trouble. Gummy bears are way more important.

  
  
  
  
  
  

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• chaysefaith member

  October 2013

  @ferreri0925...I won't quote you because it doesn't need to be repeated.  But you really need to get control of yourself.  You have crossed the line and said something completely uncalled for.  You need to take a step back, calm down, and apologize to Elly.  

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• chaysefaith member

  October 2013

  Ferreri0925 said:

  FFS.  I read nothing on this last page, but I assuming it's just the idiot troll spouting nonsense and trying to start drama.
  
  So for all of you that don't like that TB is snarky and fun, got any of the hundreds of other message boards out there that are all about puppies and rainbows and let us bitches have at least one fucking pregnancy board that isn't full of ridiculous nonsense.  TB is an amazing place because it actually has its own personality and it isn't just an annoying forum full of women that think just because they're women they have some fucking obligation to be all pg and happy about shit.  Fuck that and fuck anyone that's going to try and pretend that's going to change. 
  
  
  

  You are a psycho bitch pretending to even be pregnant LOSERSsssssssss!!!!!!!!

  
  

  
  

  Actually.  I am quoting.  Just so you can't dirty delete.

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• MonaMuse member

  October 2013

  @SNLT1012 - I've  flagged her and reported her to our board's moderator. Not only was it abusive but trolling is against community rules and is a flaggable offense.

  
  

  "Trolling" The Bump boards by posting inflammatory or off-topic messages with the intent of provoking members/disrupting normal discussion is not permitted and will lead to warning/banning from the boards.

  
  

  Let's hope they catch her and toss her out on her can!

  

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• erind228 member

  October 2013

  SNLT1012 said:

  @ferreri0925...I won't quote you because it doesn't need to be repeated.  But you really need to get control of yourself.  You have crossed the line and said something completely uncalled for.  You need to take a step back, calm down, and apologize to Elly.  

  I agree. It's one thing to be snarky and another thing to be cruel. What you said is down right cruel. You need to apologize.
  

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• nunzchucks member

  October 2013

  Ferreri0925 said:

  EllyD14 said:

  FFS.  I read nothing on this last page, but I assuming it's just the idiot troll spouting nonsense and trying to start drama.
  
  So for all of you that don't like that TB is snarky and fun, got any of the hundreds of other message boards out there that are all about puppies and rainbows and let us bitches have at least one fucking pregnancy board that isn't full of ridiculous nonsense.  TB is an amazing place because it actually has its own personality and it isn't just an annoying forum full of women that think just because they're women they have some fucking obligation to be all pg and happy about shit.  Fuck that and fuck anyone that's going to try and pretend that's going to change. 
  
  
  

  You are a psycho bitch pretending to even be pregnant LOSERSsssssssss!!!!!!!!
  
  

  
  I cannot even believe you just said this to a woman with a history of m/c. Apologize and then
  

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• Ferreri0925 member

  October 2013

  Lmao

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• marielena3 member

  October 2013

  Oh dear, what those women did to Kirsten was just so mean!! Everybody hurts in this world pregnant or not pregnant. Just don't bully people just because you're hurt!!
  
  This is exactly why I hate America, this is the exact behavior of American women that are just bitchy and mean to each other, bullying others all the time!! You don't see this in Europe!! Just learn to love your peer women as this will bring peace and equilibrium into your lives!!
  
  Yes, I know that everyone is *ucking religious in this country but nobody actually is empathetical or has any common sense!
  
  Just let it go and do some yoga, drink some green juice and do whatever you're doing to improve yourself and just ignore the rest of the people as you're already doing.
  
  Be the best and screw the rest, 'merica!
  
  
  

  

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• marielena3 member

  October 2013

  snuff9861 I'm not American either! I just happen to be in this country and observe the social differences..
  

  

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• lest12 member

  October 2013

  If you hate America so much, then fucking leave. It works just like the bump. If you hate it so much, fucking leave.

   

         

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• KristaU831 member

  October 2013

  i wish people would learn what bullying actually is before calling nonsense on the bump bullying. sigh. bullying is a real problem. people calling you a tool/jerk/asshole etc. is not bullying. A group of people calling you insensitive is not bullying. 

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• marielena3 member

  October 2013

  lest12 I don't hate America, I hate American *itches. And I'll definitely leave the country in a couple of years. As for the Bump, it's still a good place to learn about pregnancy and experiences and I don't hate it.
  

  

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• lest12 member

  October 2013

  I'm sure us American bitches have no use for you either, so don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out.
  
  
  

   

         

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• justme04 member

  October 2013

  Hahaha. Oh troll you do make me laugh. That's as good as an admission that you didn't read the entire thread. And I LOVE that you STILL have not denied that fact that intentionally trying to create drama. Interesting.

  I don't need to defend some losers false and ridiculous accusations thank you. so there! Now go run and call someone else names

  Speaking of false and ridiculous accusations...

  I think "some"of you aren't even pregnant but patrol these posts and boards just looking to be nasty to people cause you have no life

  It's true though how can some of these girls be pregnant? they are so mean to people asking valid questions. I have seen people made fun of because someone else thinks they are asking a stupid question. like why do you have to be mean? If you don't like the question then just don't reply! if they were truly newly pregnant I would think no question is silly or stupid.

  I have to admit I am always at my meanest whilst pregnant.  Its the hormones.  I think you're the one who isn't really pregnant!  I haven't seen anything snarky or uncalled for on this board.  What I have seen is someone try to organize topics to make it easier for discussions to occur which I think is pretty freaking genius.  I know we didn't do that back in June 11 but it makes things so much easier.  I will also be perfectly honest that when you are pregnant with your 2nd or so child questions do seem a little redundant.  I'd much rather go to one organized post and put in my two cents then track down 40 posts and put the info I have on every single one.  It isn't that I don't respect every single one of you (well unless you are going to bully another board and call everyone here a bully for calling you out on it) I just have two kids running around now and only get so much time a day to peak in and check up on how everyone is doing and answer questions I feel I can help with.

  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  

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• flerlgirl member

  October 2013

  marielena3 said:

  Oh dear, what those women did to Kirsten was just so mean!! Everybody hurts in this world pregnant or not pregnant. Just don't bully people just because you're hurt!!
  
  This is exactly why I hate America, this is the exact behavior of American women that are just bitchy and mean to each other, bullying others all the time!! You don't see this in Europe!! Just learn to love your peer women as this will bring peace and equilibrium into your lives!!
  
  Yes, I know that everyone is *ucking religious in this country but nobody actually is empathetical or has any common sense!
  
  Just let it go and do some yoga, drink some green juice and do whatever you're doing to improve yourself and just ignore the rest of the people as you're already doing.
  
  Be the best and screw the rest, 'merica!
  
  
  

  Is it bad that the most offensive thing in here to me was the made-up word "empathetical"?

  
  

  
  
  
  

  
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• starsinger17 member

  October 2013

  I love this board! I was in the December 2012 board and it was boring!!! Everything was sunshine and rainbows even when somebody need a reality check. I don't come on here just to ask questions I come on here to communicate with people and snark is reality. Its IRL and its on the computer if you don't like it tough shit. Ignore it or go away. Complaining about it is just going to bring more snark.

  

  

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• marielena3 member

  October 2013

  flerlgirl Thanks for this, you've proved my point! q.e.d.
  

  

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• flerlgirl member

  October 2013

  BrightEyes112 said:

  flerlgirl Thanks for this, you've proved my point! q.e.d.
  

  Actually flerlgirl is awesome.

  I couldn't agree more. Thanks, BE!

  
  

  
  
  
  

  
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• flerlgirl member

  October 2013

  marielena3 said:

  flerlgirl Thanks for this, you've proved my point! q.e.d.
  

  I still have no idea what your point was but you are sincerely welcome. 

  
  

  
  
  
  

  
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• marielena3 member

  October 2013

  BrightEyes112 of course she is. Everybody around here is! No one feels like they are being mean or bitchy. And that's the problem..
  

  

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• CreEspree member

  October 2013

  I've been MIA for the day and I miss so much! Sheesh! But I absolutely heart you ladies!! =D>

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• flerlgirl member

  October 2013 edited October 2013

  marielena3 said:

  BrightEyes112 of course she is. Everybody around here is! No one feels like they are being mean or bitchy. And that's the problem..
  

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  ETA and how have I been mean or bitchy to you, exactly? I sometimes sleepbump so I just want to make sure I'm not doing it again. 

  
  

  
  
  
  

  
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• yurmom member

  October 2013

  Dlsexton is the most awesome

  

  
  

  
  

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• yurmom member

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• flerlgirl member

  October 2013

  dlsexton said:

  

  @dlsexton I did a dance to this at my wedding. Good times. 

  
  

  
  
  
  

  
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• NoodleM member

  October 2013

  Ilike the snark because it's better than being fake to each other and letting bullshit slide. I've been here since nov of 2010, and these boards have gotten way tamer than they used to be, so I don't get the people who are saying it has gotten worse.

  
  

   But there are still a ton of great women who keep it real like those who explained to kirsten marie why her behaviour is so inappropriate and that is what makes this placeso great.

  
  
  
  

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• Shellann1 member

  October 2013

  Wow ok
  Was just reading this and was all amused by the antics but spouting hate on someone's nationality? Not cool folks.
  And don't cover it up with you hate American bitches, the fact someone might be a bitch fine but you dont need to be mentioned their country. Like a Swedish , Canadian, or Japanese bitch ok???
  Insulting people based on nationality, race, gender, sexual orientation or anything else is not ok.
  Improve your argument. when you have a good argument then insults/slurs/ biogtry isnt required.
  Kind of follows the same principal of dont raise your voice, improve your argument.

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