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NBR poor H

GeauxM&VGeauxM&V member
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Well, after all week of taking care of me, our errands, going to work etc...H is passed out on the couch this morning. Last night (I wasn't really paying attention) he must have drank waaaay too much because at 8:30pm...yeah it was only 8:30pm... I found him vomiting violently in the toilet. In the 3 years that we have been together he has never drank to the point of being sick. I hope this isn't his way of dealing with the stresses coming at us with parenting :( I know he had a long week and deserved to finally relax, but I have to admit it scared me a little bit. I know he felt awful and must have apologized at least 20 times and promised he wouldn't do that ever again because he has to be ready to drive me to the hospital at any point now. My sister is coming to visit me today and tomorrow so he will get a chance to recuperate, I guess. Have a great weekend everyone!
Me: 28 DH: 33 TTC since February 2012, married September 2012 DX with Hypothalamic Amenorrhea 2/2013, HSG clear, Bloodwork good, SA great! Started seeing RE February 2013
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  • 2010weddinggal2010weddinggal member
    Hope he feels better soon, when he is done being hungover talk to him, see if he will share why he drank so much last night.
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  • thesportsgalthesportsgal member

    We're not teetotalers so it's not out of the ordinary to see my husband drink but never to the point of vomiting.  I think at this point they are stressed out and dealing with it differently.  I know my husband is really stressed out and scared about labor/delivery and making sure me and LO are okay, then stressed about providing the best for her, etc.  He KNOWS his life and lifestyle are about to change so the couple beers after work thing isn't bothering me.  He doesn't do anything to make me mad while drinking but if your husband did, then you should say something.

    Although you did say he apologized so that is good.  Most of the time, that's all I need.  I don't feel the need to make someone continue to feel stupid for their behavior - just an apology. Good luck, lots of water and excedrin for him ;).


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  • Caitlinh27Caitlinh27 member
    My H did something similar the other night as well. I had a ladies night party for work so he met his friend for pizza and beer and when I got home he was moaning and groaning because he ate and drank too much. He wasn't drunk though. He goes "oh my gosh I feel so uncomfortable, you don't even know" and then looked at me to see if he could get a reaction out of me. I just laughed.

     

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  • GeauxM&VGeauxM&V member
    Thanks for the replies, ladies. I know H feels horrible about it, and I am by no means opposing to him drinking right now. It's just I didn't think that he would go that overboard with it, especially since at the most he just a little tipsy. And even that is rare. We will talk more tomorrow. Right now my sister is visiting us for the weekend so at least she is helping me a bit with chores, cooking and errands. I really appreciate your posts :)
    Me: 28 DH: 33 TTC since February 2012, married September 2012 DX with Hypothalamic Amenorrhea 2/2013, HSG clear, Bloodwork good, SA great! Started seeing RE February 2013
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