ETA: Because the question gets asked sometimes about what is a drive by. This is a perfect example of someone who only posted here a few times and no one really knows who she is so she would have been better off just moving on to 1st Tri or her BMB.
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38 Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
But, what made you think to post this on a TTGP board? There are plenty of other boards on the bump.. like 1st Tri for example. That would have been my first stop.
Married 11/21/2018
Me: 33 / DH: 33
TTC #1 since 2012, finally successful in 2016
BFP 11/29/2013 - EDD 8/9/2014 - MMC 12/31/2013 8 weeks 2 days - Tried to MC naturally for 4 weeks, D&C 2/2/2014
IUI 01/25/2016 - BFP 2/5/2016 - Natural Home Delivery to our DD 10/8/2016
Placing bets on "she came here for support and thought we'd be happy for her" vs. "fuck all you heartless bishes no wonder god hasn't blessed your ute with a babe"
Ya know what sucks? When i'm on mobile and i see a bfp, and i get excited that it might be one of the awesome, supportive, funny ladies I have come to care about. But really? It some random chick i barely know, and it just makes me feel shitty that she's been here for 5 minutes and got ku, while me and my "friends" are just sitting here chillin.
But hey...congrats and stuff.
Started TTGP July 2013 ~ BFP! 11/21/13 ~ TEAM PINK!!!
**Josephine Aimee** born 5/21 at 29 weeks 2 days
You should know how great things were before you. Even so, they're better still today.
Now I can't think who I was before you ruined everything in the nicest way
My favorite part of OP's post is, "I'm feeling blessed." So I guess everyone who has been trying for awhile and hasn't gotten KU is, what...cursed? F that.
Hey guys . I have been on this board and I have posted before. I meant that post for 1st tri. All the lovely comments you left were really mature. I'm glad you all got a morning laugh/joke out of it. This board isn't very inviting to newbies and the posts portray you in a negative way. Anyhow , I still am praying for everyone and wishing babydust your way. GL
Hey guys . I have been on this board and I have posted before. I meant that post for 1st tri. All the lovely comments you left were really mature. I'm glad you all got a morning laugh/joke out of it. This board isn't very inviting to newbies and the posts portray you in a negative way. Anyhow , I still am praying for everyone and wishing babydust your way. GL
Hey guys . I have been on this board and I have posted before. I meant that post for 1st tri. All the lovely comments you left were really mature. I'm glad you all got a morning laugh/joke out of it. This board isn't very inviting to newbies and the posts portray you in a negative way. Anyhow , I still am praying for everyone and wishing babydust your way. GL
Speak for yourself sister. I'm a newbie and I felt invited. Also, I don't believe for 1 second that you meant this for 1st Tri.
Hey guys . I have been on this board and I have posted before. I meant that post for 1st tri. All the lovely comments you left were really mature. I'm glad you all got a morning laugh/joke out of it. This board isn't very inviting to newbies and the posts portray you in a negative way. Anyhow , I still am praying for everyone and wishing babydust your way. GL
False. See every "intro" ever written. There are approximately 4 million "welcome!" and "Good luck" posts attached. I am brand spanking new and this post even insulted me. I read the blog, read the "new here" post, lurked for awhile etc. Therefore, I knew that if our first month of TTC was successful I would head straight to 1st tri or BMB to post a BFP, not here. Kthxbai.
Hey guys . I have been on this board and I have posted before. I meant that post for 1st tri. All the lovely comments you left were really mature. I'm glad you all got a morning laugh/joke out of it. This board isn't very inviting to newbies and the posts portray you in a negative way. Anyhow , I still am praying for everyone and wishing babydust your way. GL
Well shit. Idk what category this falls under. I need more categories for my next bet.
Hey guys . I have been on this board and I have posted before. I meant that post for 1st tri. All the lovely comments you left were really mature. I'm glad you all got a morning laugh/joke out of it. This board isn't very inviting to newbies and the posts portray you in a negative way. Anyhow , I still am praying for everyone and wishing babydust your way. GL
Megs7911 said: False. See every "intro" ever written. There are approximately 4 million "welcome!" and "Good luck" posts attached. I am brand spanking new and this post even insulted me. I read the blog, read the "new here" post, lurked for awhile etc. Therefore, I knew that if our first month of TTC was successful I would head straight to 1st tri or BMB to post a BFP, not here. Kthxbai.
Hey guys . I have been on this board and I have posted before. I meant that post for 1st tri. All the lovely comments you left were really mature. I'm glad you all got a morning laugh/joke out of it. This board isn't very inviting to newbies and the posts portray you in a negative way. Anyhow , I still am praying for everyone and wishing babydust your way. GL
Girl you dont have to lie to kick it. We know you meant to post that here... just own it and move on.
Wow, My husband and I have been trying for over a year and I decided to finally think about joining one of these boards for support but after seeing this I don't know if its the best idea for anyone to join. I would be afraid to happen to get lucky and get my BFP after being on here for a month and not having the approval from all of the other members to be excited for myself because I haven't been on here long enough. I get that it is annoying when someone who has been trying for a month hops on and says "been trying 1 month and am so blessed to get my positive" because it is hurtful to others like myself that have been trying longer and have had no luck. But this is just cyberbullying going on here. Either comment and say congrats or leave her with no comments and move on don't make yourselves look like a bunch of bitter, jealous women. Im assuming everyone here is a woman and not a 16 year old girl trying to get pregnant so her boyfriend will hang around so class it up ladies. I wish you all lots of baby dust
Wow, My husband and I have been trying for over a year and I decided to finally think about joining one of these boards for support but after seeing this I don't know if its the best idea for anyone to join. I would be afraid to happen to get lucky and get my BFP after being on here for a month and not having the approval from all of the other members to be excited for myself because I haven't been on here long enough. I get that it is annoying when someone who has been trying for a month hops on and says "been trying 1 month and am so blessed to get my positive" because it is hurtful to others like myself that have been trying longer and have had no luck. But this is just cyberbullying going on here. Either comment and say congrats or leave her with no comments and move on don't make yourselves look like a bunch of bitter, jealous women. Im assuming everyone here is a woman and not a 16 year old girl trying to get pregnant so her boyfriend will hang around so class it up ladies. I wish you all lots of baby dust
Wow, My husband and I have been trying for over a year and I decided to finally think about joining one of these boards for support but after seeing this I don't know if its the best idea for anyone to join. I would be afraid to happen to get lucky and get my BFP after being on here for a month and not having the approval from all of the other members to be excited for myself because I haven't been on here long enough. I get that it is annoying when someone who has been trying for a month hops on and says "been trying 1 month and am so blessed to get my positive" because it is hurtful to others like myself that have been trying longer and have had no luck. But this is just cyberbullying going on here. Either comment and say congrats or leave her with no comments and move on don't make yourselves look like a bunch of bitter, jealous women. Im assuming everyone here is a woman and not a 16 year old girl trying to get pregnant so her boyfriend will hang around so class it up ladies. I wish you all lots of baby dust
Wow, My husband and I have been trying for over a year and I decided to finally think about joining one of these boards for support but after seeing this I don't know if its the best idea for anyone to join. I would be afraid to happen to get lucky and get my BFP after being on here for a month and not having the approval from all of the other members to be excited for myself because I haven't been on here long enough. I get that it is annoying when someone who has been trying for a month hops on and says "been trying 1 month and am so blessed to get my positive" because it is hurtful to others like myself that have been trying longer and have had no luck. But this is just cyberbullying going on here. Either comment and say congrats or leave her with no comments and move on don't make yourselves look like a bunch of bitter, jealous women. Im assuming everyone here is a woman and not a 16 year old girl trying to get pregnant so her boyfriend will hang around so class it up ladies. I wish you all lots of baby dust
Oh the GIFs are glorious. I'm mobile so I can't add my own but OP, quit lying about posting here accidentally and go complain about us to first tri, tata!
jenn19michelle This has nothing to do about the time you've been trying, but more about being a part of the community.
In real life, would you go around and tell random people that you are pregnant? If we don't know you, why shoulw we care about your BFP?
Why do I even?
This. I don't care how long you've been trying. I have congratulated women that have been successful in their 1st month. They were posters that I recognized as active participants in this community.
Wow at all of you. This is probably why you are all still in the Trying to get pregnant board, because you are more concerned with trying to look bad and be cyberbullies to anyone who does get their BFP than worrying about actually getting pregnant. Get off the computer and spend more time tracking your cycles and sleeping with your husbands (if theyll let mean things like you near their genitals) and maybe you could have your BFP too. I take back my babydust because you all are still too childish for a child to suffer through having to live with you as their parents. Enjoy your bullying because that is obviously all you are really going to do anyway. Tata. I'll stick to the more friendly pregnancy sites where people are actually cheering each other on rather than tearing them down. I feel bad for all of you.
She feels sorry for our husbands, our phantom children, and us. It's a trifecta!
Re: BFP ! 14 dpo
Uhhhh...ok?
ETA: Because the question gets asked sometimes about what is a drive by. This is a perfect example of someone who only posted here a few times and no one really knows who she is so she would have been better off just moving on to 1st Tri or her BMB.
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
I'm happy for you, really I am.
But, what made you think to post this on a TTGP board? There are plenty of other boards on the bump.. like 1st Tri for example. That would have been my first stop.
Married 11/21/2018
Me: 33 / DH: 33
TTC #1 since 2012, finally successful in 2016
BFP 11/29/2013 - EDD 8/9/2014 - MMC 12/31/2013 8 weeks 2 days - Tried to MC naturally for 4 weeks, D&C 2/2/2014
IUI 01/25/2016 - BFP 2/5/2016 - Natural Home Delivery to our DD 10/8/2016
IUD removed 10/3/2018
Ready to TTC for #2
EDD- 06/13/2017
**Stinkerbelle-8-27-10 * Mr.P's 2nd Mama 7-27-07**
son#1 born 6/2010
son#2 born 4/2012
son#3 born 7/2014
But hey...congrats and stuff.
"Your truth is different from my truth, and we're both right."
TTC since March 2013. BFP 4/13/13, blighted ovum discovered 6/6/13, m/c 6/8/13.
BFP 11/10/13, EDD 7/25/13 - stick little owlet!
Ooh, the daily gif thread!
Team Purple!!!!
In real life, would you go around and tell random people that you are pregnant? If we don't know you, why shoulw we care about your BFP?
Why do I even?
She feels sorry for our husbands, our phantom children, and us. It's a trifecta!