Are you 'out' yet?

KristaU831 · October 2013

Have you told the world you're pregnant yet?

MrsA71208 · October 2013

Nope. Just DH. Personally it is WAY to early for me to tell anyone. We will be telling our immediate families on Halloween since we will have heard the HB by then. Everyone else won't know until 12-13 weeks just like last time.

Laurelyn2012 · October 2013

Nope only my mom knows. If we make it to the first u/s and there is a heart beat we will tell the rest of the family and close friends.

hypotheticalme · October 2013

Nope. We will tell immediate family after my first ultrasound next week, and wait to share with anyone else until later.

GeorgiaGJohnson · October 2013

I'm 6 weeks, 4 days now and planning on telling family at 8 weeks. As for friends and FB, not 'til later November, when I've almost hit the 2nd trimester.

SRK128 · October 2013

Nope not yet!

SRK128 · October 2013

Nope not yet!

SRK128 · October 2013

Nope not yet!

fsumom · October 2013

A couple of co-workers, a friend and my parents know. I want to wait until I'm out of the 1st trimester to go public! I might tell the rest of my family after my ultrasound on 10/22!

MrsAMB07 · October 2013

No one yet! We'll probably wait until we hear the h/b on the Doppler. We were able to find it at home at 10 weeks last time, so we'll hope for that again.

comeauxlatoya · October 2013

I told my parents. Won't tell my coworkers till my 2nd trimester.

BruiserB · October 2013

My mom and a few friends at work know. I will probably get outed to a couple close friends tonight at dinner- they know about my losses, know we're trying again, and will obviously notice my lack of beer drinking at one of our fave beer drinking restaurants! We'll tell our other parents next week if the ultrasound looks good and the rest of the works in late November.

HeyAmberNicole · October 2013

We made sure our parents knew first and we've each told a couple of friends.

We'll make the announcements to our families on Thanksgiving

The rest of the world will be anytime after then!

MrsG80inTN · October 2013

We've told a few friends, our parents, siblings, and a couple coworkers who are pregnant. Staying close to the belt otherwise until first trimester is over.

MrsB1029 · October 2013

Our immediate family knows, and 2 of my closest friends at work. I figured if something happens, I will definitely need support. We will wait until after the 1st tri to tell everyone else.

twistsandturnsto2 · October 2013

My work knows. They were in on all my treatment throughout the IVF process and before. It was easier for me to be out about my IF anyways since I work on my feet and had to take time off for surgeries and such. My mom knows, MIL, FILs, SIL and Hs grandparents all know. I will update my immediate family after the first u/s probably. Maybe before.

CMA12 · October 2013

We told the parents right away. We told the siblings and close friends and a few co-workers at about 6 weeks. I'm trying to hold out to the 12-week mark, so early November for everyone else!

emfoxc · October 2013

We are telling our parents tomorrow after my first Doc appt (doubtful they'll do an u/s this early, but here's hoping).
I have my fingers crossed my M&FIL do not spill the beans to family before we're ready in late Nov/early Dec! I will be 6 weeks on Sunday

Other than parents tomorrow I have let various medical personnel know (dentist, trainer, derm) and one close friend who has been asking me every few weeks if I'm pregnant...and I just didn't want to lie to her.

ljs4117 · October 2013

Just me and DH... well.. and my brother. He somehow guessed it yesterday even though we live 3 hours apart and we haven't talked about anything even indirectly related. WEIRD..

I'll probably wait to tell family until we have a good u/s.. and I don't know if we will go out of our way to announce "to the world" or not.. I'm kind of a private person and for me I feel like people that need to know will figure it out or it will come up naturally in convo.

CMA12 · October 2013

Annnnd just saw I snuck onto the wrong board. *creeps out*

chusum · October 2013

I've told friends, but I don't do the huge Facebook announcements. I prefer a very slow coming out, when people find out they find out. I'll tell my parents after the Nt scan.

StinaLeigh · October 2013

Just my parents. Otherwise way to early for me to share. But if something happened I would totally rely on my mom for support, so I told her.

AnnaKaie · October 2013

We've told our parents and close friends. My first doc visit isn't till Nov 11th. I know its early but I'm dying to tell everyone. The only thing holding me back is in case it doesn't stick. This is our first.

bamirg04 · October 2013

We told our immediate family and siblings on Tues. night. We have a dr. appt next week everyone else will have to wait until the holidays.

allenmk7 · October 2013

My family knows. His doesn't. A few coworkers and friends of ours know. We plan on telling his family in about a week when we see them. We will announce it to our closest friends a week later. Then we will wait to announce it to the world around Christmas. We've been pretty open about our infertility struggles so we will be pretty open about this.

mamabird19 · October 2013

We told family and close friends - they were all people that we felt like if something happened we would want their support. If we wouldn't turn to them in that situation then we are waiting to tell them until the end of the month when I start my second trimester.

lzmac11 · October 2013

I have told some very close girlfriends who I know would be there to support me if we lose this baby. Other than that, my very best girlfriend is the only other person besides Hubbs that knows. This is our 2nd (we have had 1 loss this year) and so I got our DS a shirt made! When the shirt comes we will go around to parents/grandparents/siblings and our son can be the one to spill the beans!

KISMET009 · October 2013

Nope just my fiancé and my best girl friend knows for now. We'll announce after the first trimester and once we know the sex.

Pepper6 · October 2013

We've told our parents and siblings. I specifically said "it's still very early so we're not telling anyone else yet", and reiterated it to my mom again to not tell anyone else...and she still told about 5 more people. I'm not happy with her, told her next time I'm not telling her at all until I start showing and can't hide it anymore...

But I did want share with those closest to us because even if we do have a loss, we would have told them anyways.

lzmac11 · October 2013

lzmac11 said:

I have told some very close girlfriends who I know would be there to support me if we lose this baby. Other than that, my very best girlfriend is the only other person besides Hubbs that knows. This is our 2nd (we have had 1 loss this year) and so I got our DS a shirt made! When the shirt comes we will go around to parents/grandparents/siblings and our son can be the one to spill the beans!

I should point out that my "very close girlfriends" are girls I met over on TK. We were all on the same Month board. Lots of us have been friends for over 4 years now! We have been through a lot together.

My DH just texted me, we are going to a friends for supper.... we might spill the beans to them tonight

AshB11 · October 2013

Only my husband and best friend know so far. Oh and our photographer. We had family pictures planned for this weekend so I figured why not snap an annoucement picture for later use.

Kinipela7 · October 2013

Just DH and 1 of my sisters! I love having it a secret between us!

dragonfly711 · October 2013

I am 4 weeks, just found out today we are pregnant. I told DH, my mom and best friend. I also told the teacher I work with since we are in class all day with each other w 15 2nd graders. If any issues she should know.

We are not telling anyone else. I told people back in February at 9 weeks and I MC at 11 1/2 weeks so will not be telling anyone until after first tri!!!

justme04 · October 2013

We have told my mother, DH's mother, my aunt who watches our boys, my sister, my best friend and DH told a close friend. That is all for now.

WhitePicketFence · October 2013

We told family and close friends right away. I don't plan on telling work until the 2nd tri if it doesn't become obvious before then. I started showing a lot earlier last time so I'm afraid of how early I'll show with this one.

SandyD83 · October 2013

Almost everyone that we have seen in person knows. I didn't want to tell anyone, but my husband has some serious issues with keeping his mouth shut when he is excited. I was really upset at first but keep telling myself to be glad he is so excited because if he were the exact opposite it would be so heartbreaking to me. I imagine that if we suffer a loss then next time around he'd be better at respecting my wishes to keep quiet for a few more weeks. He really just doesn't understand the risk.
Ironically enough, my kids don't know. they are 4 and almost 3. Luckily my husband is still going along with my desire for the kids to not know until January.

I also won't say anything on Facebook until I am obviously visibly pregnant.

TonyaCody06 · October 2013

Nope! I'm going to try and get as close to Thanksgiving as I can before telling. I was showing pretty good with #3 by 11 weeks so we will see how long I can hide it. I'm only 4.2 weeks now if my chart is right. I've announced it around 6 weeks in the past but want to wait longer this time.

asheri · October 2013

I've told my parents, and my husband has told a few of his friends from work. Everybody else gets to find out (except my work--I'm waiting till after thanksgiving for that) after the first ultrasound on 10/28.

curlylocks3 · October 2013

Some people know, but not everyone. We're only telling people who knew when our FET was....everyone else we're holding off.

missesBAD · October 2013

Nope, just me and DH. With DD we told close family and friends right away. But this time we are really enjoying keeping it our little secret

We'll tell family and close friends on thanksgiving. The only thing I am nervous about it is I have bad morning sickness again...I am a huge baby and might have a hard time concealing it.

flerlgirl · October 2013

Family and my other BMB. Not telling anyone else until 12 weeks.

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