Hi Ladies. I have been lurking on the board for awhile. I lost my daughter in March at 20w4d due to IC. I am now pregnant again and due March 8th with a baby boy. I am currently 17w5d and have been having regular cervix checks since week 14. My initial check, my cervix measured 4cm, last week it measured 3.4cm (16w6d), and today it measured 3.1cm. I go for my anatomy scan and cervix check next Thursday and then I will most likely schedule my cerclage. On the plus side my cervix is tightly closed and not funneling.
The hope originally was to not need a cerclage however my cervix seems to have other ideas. I know cerclages have a high success rate, but I am just so worried and scared. I am worried about losing this baby.
Married 11/23/11, TTC starting 10/12, BFP#1 11/30/12, Adoption of stepson finalized 03/19/13,Loss of our daughter at 20w4d due to incompetent cervix 03/27/13, BFP#2 06/28/13, DS2 born 3/1/14.

Re: Intro "my name's Erica and I have IC"
I honestly think your Dr should have taken the preventive cerclage approach for you. Proof is in the pudding those measurements that your cervix is indeed IC. I highly suggest you try to get that cerclage as soon as possible its more successful when done early. Here is my pregnancy treatment this time around.
14wks cerclage
16wks started 17p shots
16wks vaginal cervical cks bi-wkly.
I am currently 33wks, been on bedrest since 21wks cervix hold closed at 1.8cm. I have 3 more 17p injections left and had last cervical ck at 32wks. I get off bedrest at 36 wks and ceragr removed at 36-37wks.
My cervix started to shorten at 21wks from 4.2-3.5cm since then every week it's gotten shorten been stable at 1.8cm for 7wks.
Best of luck and good luck on your anatomy scan :-)
I've had 2 losses from undiagnosed IC so for my last pregnancy I had a cerclage placed at 11w. At 18w I went on bed rest because my cervix had shortened to around 2.5cm. At 19w it was down to 1.5cm and I went on HBR. At 20w it was pretty much gone. I ended up having a placental abruption at 23w6d and had an emergency c-section, but as my OB likes to point out my cerclage held!
BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w.
BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
BFP #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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GL with everything - keep me posted!
2nd FET 6/14/2013 - BPF!!! -
1st Beta: 1046!!!!! - 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!!
First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats
Second u/s 7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
Third u/s 9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks.
Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B = 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM
MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks.
Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh*
MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week.
MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29
Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!