DD just started a new daycare last month and got her 1st birthday party invite this week. One minute she tells me she doesn't know the kid and doesn't want to go, the next she does know him and does want to go. I'm leaning towards going because it's not for 3 weeks, so she should get to know everyone better, plus I'd hate for the poor kid to have invited everyone and no one go, or a bunch of kids go and DD misses out on alot of fun. It's at Funplex, I've never been but I think it's a chain. I think DS (16 months) would also enjoy it. I'm thinking me, DH, DD, and DS all go, I'll keep DD w/ the birthday group and take her in for the pizza/cake while DH plays around w/ DS. Is that ok? I don't want them to think DS is crashing the party, I won't expect food or tokens for him.