Mine will be 5, 3 (one month away from 4), and 2.5. My other three are very close in age so we wanted to wait a bit for this one. I think 2.5 years will be a great gap.
DS 1= 10yr (will be almost 11 when this one is born) DD 4yr (will be 5) DS 2 = 3yr (will be 4)
There was a gap between 1 & 2 was because I was young when I had 1 & didn't marry til he was 3. DD & DS2 are exactly 18mo apart. We were shocked when I got pregnant with #3 and then he came 5.5wk early. This baby was not planned either. Hubby was done. There will be an 11 year gap from oldest to youngest & 4yr gap to the closest sibling. wish they were closer in age but can't change that.
Mine will be 20 months apart, which we were hoping for. I am surprised it happened so soon because I had trouble getting pregnant with DD. I really wanted them close in age so they will hopefully have the same interests and will be good friends.
DD will be 16 months when this one comes. We wanted them close in age, and actually started trying when there would've only been a 14 month difference! I haven't decided if i'm crazy yet lol
Mine will be 14 months apart! I'm totally freaking out but excited at the same time.`
Me: PCOS DH: No issues
August '16-January '17: Clomid + HCG + IUI/TI = BFN February/March '17: Menopur + HCG + IUI = BFN April '17: Menopur + HCG + TI (due to too many mature follicles) = BFN May '17: Took off due to cysts June' 17: Menopur + HCG + IUI = Cancelled due to 8+ mature follicles November '17: Clomid + HCG + IUI= BFN December '17: Menopur + HCG + TI= BFP!!!! Due August 2018
I wanted my children separated by a couple of years: two years between first and second and three years between second and third. As it currently stands, DS will be 27 months when LO2 should arrive.
My oldest 2 are 11 and 13 , from my first marriage ..., now I'm pregnant with number. 3 ... My last ... My children will be 12 and 14 when baby gets here
Ours will be 2 years and 8 months apart. Looking back I wish we were having our second sooner, but at the time we would have had to start the baby making, there was no way I was ready. Now I think DD would make a great big sister at 2. They will be 3 school grades apart which I wish was 2, but oh well, what can you do.
My first 2 are 3 years and 10 months apart. When the new baby is born, my kids will be just over 6 and 2.5. I really liked the larger age gap, I think this is going to be more difficult.
Don't worry too much about the age gap with regards to being close. I have a sister who is 13 months younger, and a brother who is seven years younger. My sister and I are close, but my brother and I are even closer (mostly because of similar personalities. And we served in the same military unit together for several years). My oldest (17) is really heavily invested in being a big brother, and he makes an effort to spend time with them. Since my daughter is 11, he takes her to the mall, the fair, fireworks, all that sort of stuff. And the two year old...well, he takes him to the zoo, the park, on walks...even though people give him dirty looks thinking he's a teenaged parent.
DS will be 23 months when this one arrives. As for how to deal, I think you just adjust, just like you had to with #1, and any consecutive children. Always an adjustment period.
My first two were 15 months apart, and our son was born right after our first daughter turned 5. This baby will be born when DS is 18 months old, and when our DDs are 5 and 6. I love the age differences we have, but am anxious about a 4th baby! We have always wanted a large family, it's just kind of scary to actually have one!!
My DS is 14 months, he'll be 22 months when this baby is born. I wanted them closer together, and right about 2 years is the space between me and my sister, and it worked out great.
DD will be about 27 months old when the new baby will be born. We were aiming for closer, but it took longer than planned to get KU. I used to want 3, but I think we'll be done after this baby.
Mine were 15 months apart and after the first few months of a rough transition I love it! They are best friends and play together... My toddler shares well and loves her brother
I currently have an almost 9 month old so they'll be roughly 16 months apart. It was planned. We wanted them close. I figure we're done after this but I wouldn't mind a few more.
Congrats to my GP Sister from another mister Bruinsbabe!!
Mine will be 2 years 9 months apart. We planned for 2 years, but had a loss in February of what was supposed to be an October due date. Can't believe that I'd be having a baby that week if it had worked out.
TTCAL Siggy Challenge: "He's my favorite. His birthday is the same as mine almost"
Missing my little one lost at 9 weeks on 2.24.13. brokenhearted but not broken...
d&c 5/21/13... Still Healing, Still Standing...
MMC discovered 10/2/2013, TWINS... d&c 10/7/2013. I still miss you, little ones.
Surgery December 2013 to remove a 10+cm fibroid... Open myomectomy. Benched for 3-9 months... Will TTC summer Summer 2014 we hope!
Dear God, Since I couldn't hold my little one in my lap and tell him about you, could you hold him in your lap and tell him about me?
My dd bday Is June 7 2010 my ds is may 8 2012 and this baby will be may 21 2014 give or take because it's a c section baby all within 23-24 months apart planned this way and we are done! Lol 3 under 4 for a month or so and I'm exhausted thinking about it now ...
My DS will be 4 on June 13th and this baby is due May 31st, practically a 4 year gap. It was planned. I would have had them closer together but my husband wasn't ready :P
Re: ST+M'S How far are your kids apart?
Me: 31, DH: 34, Married 5/29/05
BFP #1: 6/22/10, EDD 3/6/11, DS born 2/25/11 @ 38w5d
BFP #2: 7/27/13, EDD 4/9/14, CP 8/3/13
BFP #3: 8/31/13, EDD 5/10/13, DD born med-free 5/9/14 @ 39w6d
DD 4yr (will be 5)
DS 2 = 3yr (will be 4)
There was a gap between 1 & 2 was because I was young when I had 1 & didn't marry til he was 3. DD & DS2 are exactly 18mo apart. We were shocked when I got pregnant with #3 and then he came 5.5wk early. This baby was not planned either. Hubby was done. There will be an 11 year gap from oldest to youngest & 4yr gap to the closest sibling.
August '16-January '17: Clomid + HCG + IUI/TI = BFN
February/March '17: Menopur + HCG + IUI = BFN
April '17: Menopur + HCG + TI (due to too many mature follicles) = BFN
May '17: Took off due to cysts
June' 17: Menopur + HCG + IUI = Cancelled due to 8+ mature follicles
November '17: Clomid + HCG + IUI= BFN
December '17: Menopur + HCG + TI= BFP!!!! Due August 2018
T 2.12 | W 5.14
As for how to deal, I think you just adjust, just like you had to with #1, and any consecutive children. Always an adjustment period.
DD1 - 6 years next week
DD2 - 4 years
DS1 - 11 months
My first two were 15 months apart, and our son was born right after our first daughter turned 5. This baby will be born when DS is 18 months old, and when our DDs are 5 and 6. I love the age differences we have, but am anxious about a 4th baby! We have always wanted a large family, it's just kind of scary to actually have one!!
BFP#3 9-4-13 Benjamin Lee born 4-28-14
TTCAL Siggy Challenge: "He's my favorite. His birthday is the same as mine almost"
Missing my little one lost at 9 weeks on 2.24.13. brokenhearted but not broken...
d&c 5/21/13... Still Healing, Still Standing...
MMC discovered 10/2/2013, TWINS... d&c 10/7/2013. I still miss you, little ones.
Surgery December 2013 to remove a 10+cm fibroid... Open myomectomy. Benched for 3-9 months...
Will TTC summer Summer 2014 we hope!
Dear God, Since I couldn't hold my little one in my lap and tell him about you, could you hold him in your lap and tell him about me?
PgAL and PAL always welcome...