TTC After a Loss

Early intro if that's ok (ds mentioned)

Kristy774Kristy774 member
edited September 2013 in TTC After a Loss
Hi all, I found out yesterday my baby doesn't have a HB, I was supposed to be 11 and 1/2 weeks but the baby was measuring at 10 weeks. I'm scheduled for a D&C on Tuesday (the wait is killing me). I have 2 sons, 9 and 3. After I get the go ahead from my doctor I plan on TTC, if its ok with you guys I'd like to hang here until then. I feel like a truck hit me, this is truly devastating.

Re: Early intro if that's ok (ds mentioned)

  • ((Hugs)). I'm so sorry for your loss. This is a great place for support. Welcome.

    You may also wish to check out the Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss board. It's a good place to connect with people who right this minute are likely actively having similar experiences (actively miscarrying, waiting for a D&C this week, working through the raw physical and emotional pain of a very recent loss, etc). 

    We are here for you too, of course. 

    Be kind to yourself this weekend. ((HUGS))



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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, but you are definitely welcome here.  You might also want to check out the MC/Loss board, as some women find it helpful during the initial raw emotion stage.  I hope the next few days go as quickly and smoothly as possible for you.  (((HUGS)))

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    MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
    BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
    BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14
  • I'm so sorry for your loss!  Take care of yourself this weekend and good luck on Tuesday.  I know the feeling of just wanting it to be over and to move on.  Make sure to give yourself time to grieve and heal!  This is a wonderful group of very supportive women that will help you get through this horrible time!  ((HUGS))
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    6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

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  • (((hugs))) and I am sorry for your loss

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  • Huge ((((hugs)))) hun.  I know I've already said this but I'm so sorry for your loss & that you find yourself here.  Welcome to the board & I hope your stay is short.  
    Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
    BFP#4 6.18.14 EDD 3.3.15 Team Pink
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here. Welcome.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss....sending you lots, and lots of (((hugs))).
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
  • So very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.  Everyone here has been amazing and has helped me so much.  You and I have similar stories.

    Take care of yourself.  Good Luck on Tuesday, it will be here before you know it.  Hope all goes well.

     
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    ~ BFP: 6/12/2013 EDD: 2/21/2014 NT Scan: 8/5/2013 (11w3d) MMC D&C: 8/8/2013 ~

    ~BFP: 3/15/2014 EDD: 11/24/2014 CP 4 weeks 4 days ~

    ~BFP: 7/2/2014 EDD: 3/15/2015 CP 4 weeks ~

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  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. There is a TTA avoid check-in that you are welcome to participate in. If you haven't already done so, I recommend reading the blog and reading the "read this first thread" as both have a lot of information.
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    BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
    9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs
    3/14: IUI#1 letrozole/Bravelle/Menopur + trigger = BFN
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope Tuesday comes quickly and goes smoothly! Take it easy this weekend.


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    DD #1: Arrived 10.7.2011
    TTC #2 Since March 2013
    BFP 5.20.2013, EDD 1.26.2014, natural mc @ 5 wks 5.25.2013
    BFP 6.21.2013, EDD 3.14.2014, Twins - missed mc @ 7w6d, D&C 8.6.2013
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.  Take care of yourself!

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

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  • I'm so sorry. I hope you get a lot of support, hugs, and love this weekend.
  • So sorry for your loss! (((Hugs)))

    BFP #1: 3/23/13, EDD: 11/22/13, MC: 4/2/13
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    BFP #2: 10/25/13, EDD: 7/3/14, Grow baby Grow! Anabelle Rose born 6/6/14 

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. (((Hugs)))

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  • I am so sorry for you loss. I am also sorry that you have to wait until Tuesday. Take care of yourself.

    TTC Since June 2012 BFP #1 08/01/12, D&C 09/07/12 9 weeks, Blighted Ovum BFP #2 01/01/13 m/c 5 weeks BFP #3 03/02/13 D&C 4/15/13 m/c 11 weeks, 07/19/13 Hysteroscopy for Scar Tissue, 9/12813 Hysteroscopy & Laparoscopy for Scar Tissue, Cleared to TTC October 2013. 

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  • ((hugs)) I am so sorry for your loss.  Take care of yourself this week.


     
     
     
     
  • I am so sorry for your loss. And having to wait for a D&C sucks, I've been there  before. I just found out on Wednesday that our baby no longer had a heartbeat, so I can join in on it being a crappy week.

    Going through a loss is truly devastating and whatever emotions you are going through are completely normal. Take as much time as you need to grieve and don't let anyone try and rush you through it. If you have any questions about D&C's or recovery, please feel free to ask.

    I'm sorry you have to join us at all but welcome. ((hugs))
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    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
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    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.((((HUGS))))
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    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

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  • Sorry that you're going through this now
  • So very sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
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    BFP #1: 10/24/2012  EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E 
    DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13
    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
    RPL, Karyotyping, and SHG: All Normal
    BFP #4: 9/6/14 EDD 5/16/15 Praying for our RAINBOW!
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