I need some advice on which is better? I feel the crib is just so large to put a newborn in, and the co-sleepers' seem ideal, but then again I've heard some neg things about them too. I would love some input from experienced moms as I'm a first timer! thanks!!
Re: crib or bassinet?
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We have this one and I have used it every single day since DD was born, no joke. She used it with the bassinet setting for the first 4.5 months sleeping next to my bed. Then we have used it since then when I am at work and DH is getting ready in the morning. Totally worth every penny. I plan on using it again with DS for the first 4-5 months next to my bed as well.
The other plus to a packnplay is that you can pack it up and take it with you for vacations. We have brought it on a few plane trips and a few road trips and it has never failed us!
The bassinet was convenient to have right next to the bed, since my boys were big. But, also with them being big, they outgrew the bassinet very fast. I also discovered that having the baby right next to me, I didn't sleep well. I'd rather watch them sleep, and marvel at how that HUGE thing was scrunched up inside me for so long...
I'm sure this was really helpful.
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My stroller has a bassinet so we got a bassinet stand and baby was in the bassinet beside our bed for a coule of months. I also had a PacknPlay - this was super useful at first downstairs as I could do diaper changes and put LO down for a nap without always going back upstairs. When LO was older I had the PacknPlay in my room and then around 4 months he went into his crib (at that point he was sleeping 8+ hours a night).
The PacknPlay is super useful - I used it at playdates, trips to grandmas, vacations etc. DS slept in their recently when DH and I went on a babymoon.
There is nothing wrong with using the crib from day one. The reason I didn't was because with BFing every three hours it was WAY easier to just reach for DS in the bassinet then leave bed and go to another room. Once he was sleeping more I really liked him in his crib.
Really you do what works for you in your place.
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DD transitioned herself to her crib around 4 months, even though we tried the p-n-p in our room she just wasn't having it.