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  • RingletRinglet
    BootsOrHearts said:
    Oh honestly. On the off chance this is not MUD, OP try feeding your child FOOD. And if he's thirsty, there's this magical clear substance that comes out of taps, called WATER. That and send him to school for heaven's sake.
    WATER doesn't give him nutrients or show him that I love him and won't abandon him. He went to school for a week and cried the whole time because he wasn't shown affection and love, no one ever held him or made him feel safe. I don't care about the test scores, I want him to be NORMAL and HEALTHY when he grows up. Not like my sister who has to keep all the attention on her like you women. Just go back to your cake. I hope it makes you fat and you have to buy 2 plane tickets from now on. It is like an insensitivity tax.
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    Ringlet said:
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    Cashingn2 said:
    No one is supportive of me doing this in my life. I thought there would be some women who would understand but I guess you are all more concerned with CAKE and FROSTING to really understand that some babies have needs that can't be met in a conventional way.
    We do love cake.

    Clearly you don't lurk here without knowing that we love cake. And derailing ridiculous MUD threads with discussions about cake.
    It's not MUD, it's my life. But it is nice to know you think my life is so absurd it is made up. My husband supports me and I will never cave to societal pressure like all of you would. I do what feels right to give my family the best chance and show them unconditional love. You just talk about cake and don't even care about the importance of supporting other mothers who are demeaned for loving their babies. I hope your cake keeps you warm at night. And I hope your cake helps your baby learn creativity and safety and love because you won't be teaching them if you would let the sham wedding of a drama queen stop you from doing what is BEST.
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    Definitely call MUD! You obviously haven't been lurking for months if you thought this would go over smoothly. You were wrong and obviously crazy if you think you're behavior was acceptable and that you're not hurting your son by treating him as an infant. GL with that
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  • KELLILOVESJOSHKELLILOVESJOSH member
    If this isn't MUD then you have some serious issues. Ever heard of a cup,a straw or maybe having someone take your screaming pre schooler outside to feed from a bottle? I've never been to a ceremony that lasted over 30 minutes. WTF? Anyway...

    Yeah the cake and brownies and oreo's! Seriously ladies? I'm so jealous! I need to go make these just so I can smell them.
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  • Marchmellow2Marchmellow2 member
    I can't stop laughing! You guys are hilarious! And to OP, bish please, just stop. You sound ridiculous. Move along.

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  • RingletRinglet
    He is not even 5 yet. He is still 4. It was a Catholic ceremony with a full mass and communion so it was very long. What would he think if I told him supporting a green wedding dress was more important than nursing him? And my husband could have left with him but he was obviously upset because he was screaming for mommy to help him. You are all cold hearted if you would not have cared about that. Or maybe you just have absurd cake hearts since that's all you talk about.
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  • RingletRinglet
    What if your husband thinks nursing is best for him? It is not just your decision. I hope he divorces you when he sees the LIQUID ARSENIC you are feeding your baby from a bottle. Breast is best. You will see.
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  • 2010weddinggal2010weddinggal member
    OP did you know your body is made up of like 90% water he needs water, you may not care about test scores but I'm sure he will when he can not pass school or get a job. Your prob setting him up to have issues with his future girlfriends but whatever floats your boat. BTW cake or bust!
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  • grannyweatherwaxgrannyweatherwax member
    Ringlet said:
    He is not even 5 yet. He is still 4. It was a Catholic ceremony with a full mass and communion so it was very long. What would he think if I told him supporting a green wedding dress was more important than nursing him? And my husband could have left with him but he was obviously upset because he was screaming for mommy to help him. You are all cold hearted if you would not have cared about that. Or maybe you just have absurd cake hearts since that's all you talk about.
    What?

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    Ringlet said:


    pirategirlpink said:


    Cashingn2 said:

    Ringlet said:

    No one is supportive of me doing this in my life. I thought there would be some women who would understand but I guess you are all more concerned with CAKE and FROSTING to really understand that some babies have needs that can't be met in a conventional way.

    We do love cake.


    Clearly you don't lurk here without knowing that we love cake. And derailing ridiculous MUD threads with discussions about cake.

    It's not MUD, it's my life. But it is nice to know you think my life is so absurd it is made up. My husband supports me and I will never cave to societal pressure like all of you would. I do what feels right to give my family the best chance and show them unconditional love. You just talk about cake and don't even care about the importance of supporting other mothers who are demeaned for loving their babies. I hope your cake keeps you warm at night. And I hope your cake helps your baby learn creativity and safety and love because you won't be teaching them if you would let the sham wedding of a drama queen stop you from doing what is BEST.


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  • RingletRinglet
    pirategirlpink said:
    Ringlet said:
    He is not even 5 yet. He is still 4. It was a Catholic ceremony with a full mass and communion so it was very long. What would he think if I told him supporting a green wedding dress was more important than nursing him? And my husband could have left with him but he was obviously upset because he was screaming for mommy to help him. You are all cold hearted if you would not have cared about that. Or maybe you just have absurd cake hearts since that's all you talk about.
    What?

    A green wedding dress is an expression. It means the bride was rolling around the grass with another man before she was married. Everyone knows my sister did this, she isn't even clever at hiding being such a whore. I'm surprised more people here haven't been told their dresses were GREEN! Mine was white just like my perfect baby boy and my new baby deserve.
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  • PinkinProvencePinkinProvence member
    You must know how wrong, disrespectful and selfish you were. An apology and a grand gesture is in order and even then, I would have a hard time forgiving you.

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  • grannyweatherwaxgrannyweatherwax member
    Ringlet said:
    pirategirlpink said:
    Ringlet said:
    He is not even 5 yet. He is still 4. It was a Catholic ceremony with a full mass and communion so it was very long. What would he think if I told him supporting a green wedding dress was more important than nursing him? And my husband could have left with him but he was obviously upset because he was screaming for mommy to help him. You are all cold hearted if you would not have cared about that. Or maybe you just have absurd cake hearts since that's all you talk about.
    What?

    A green wedding dress is an expression. It means the bride was rolling around the grass with another man before she was married. Everyone knows my sister did this, she isn't even clever at hiding being such a whore. I'm surprised more people here haven't been told their dresses were GREEN! Mine was white just like my perfect baby boy and my new baby deserve.
    I'm just quoting for posterity here.
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  • KFED103KFED103 member
    Here's my cake heart for OP

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    Can we flag her/him for telling us we'll be feeding our little ones liquid arsenic?

    I want to bake Betty Crocker brownies now :D
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  • RingletRinglet
    PinkinProvence said:
    You must know how wrong, disrespectful and selfish you were. An apology and a grand gesture is in order and even then, I would have a hard time forgiving you.
    Sure, why not? Maybe I'll send her a cake that says, "Sorry the day you pretended to love your husband was ruined, you're a whore and you deserve much worse than you got. And we are keeping the espresso machine!" I told my mom not to get it so we could give it to her but my husband opened it this morning and made me a nice cup. She's never getting it back. Maybe she will apologize to me when she has a baby and knows the LOVE I have for my baby. I won't accept unless she gives me a CAKE since that is best.
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    HollisW12 said:
    If my heart was a cake it would probably be Boston cream...mmmm
    I like angel food with strawberries!
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  • RingletRinglet
    BootsOrHearts said:
    This thread is giving me some good ideas. DH hasn't felt very loved lately, maybe I should let him suckle a bit tonight.
    If there's anything there yet, it might make him feel good. But you should probably just get a pump and deep freeze that for the baby.
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  • RingletRinglet
    Cashingn2 said:
    BootsOrHearts said:
    This thread is giving me some good ideas. DH hasn't felt very loved lately, maybe I should let him suckle a bit tonight.
    If there's anything there yet, it might make him feel good. But you should probably just get a pump and deep freeze that for the baby.
    You sound like Rumparoo without the head injury.
    You know what, I'm tired of your attitude. You're always so negative toward everyone. All you do is criticize and demean everyone who posts. Maybe you should think about yourself and stop projecting your grouchy attitude everywhere. Maybe karma will have you choke on your cake.
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  • RingletRinglet
    2010weddinggal said:

    Ringlet said:
    PinkinProvence said:
    You must know how wrong, disrespectful and selfish you were. An apology and a grand gesture is in order and even then, I would have a hard time forgiving you.
    Sure, why not? Maybe I'll send her a cake that says, "Sorry the day you pretended to love your husband was ruined, you're a whore and you deserve much worse than you got. And we are keeping the espresso machine!" I told my mom not to get it so we could give it to her but my husband opened it this morning and made me a nice cup. She's never getting it back. Maybe she will apologize to me when she has a baby and knows the LOVE I have for my baby. I won't accept unless she gives me a CAKE since that is best.
    umm I have a question your 29 weeks now, what happens when the new kid comes you going to have one on each boob how will you ever leave the house. your going to have to walk around with no top on all day/night.
    I will do whatever it takes to make each of my children feel loved and nourished. If that means I can't leave the house then so be it. But I don't have a problem nursing in public so I don't think that will be an issue. We waited a long time to have another baby because I knew my son still needed to nurse frequently. He has stopped needing me as much so I think the new baby will have plenty of time.
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  • grannyweatherwaxgrannyweatherwax member
    Ringlet said:
    2010weddinggal said:

    Ringlet said:
    PinkinProvence said:
    You must know how wrong, disrespectful and selfish you were. An apology and a grand gesture is in order and even then, I would have a hard time forgiving you.
    Sure, why not? Maybe I'll send her a cake that says, "Sorry the day you pretended to love your husband was ruined, you're a whore and you deserve much worse than you got. And we are keeping the espresso machine!" I told my mom not to get it so we could give it to her but my husband opened it this morning and made me a nice cup. She's never getting it back. Maybe she will apologize to me when she has a baby and knows the LOVE I have for my baby. I won't accept unless she gives me a CAKE since that is best.
    umm I have a question your 29 weeks now, what happens when the new kid comes you going to have one on each boob how will you ever leave the house. your going to have to walk around with no top on all day/night.
    I will do whatever it takes to make each of my children feel loved and nourished. If that means I can't leave the house then so be it. But I don't have a problem nursing in public so I don't think that will be an issue. We waited a long time to have another baby because I knew my son still needed to nurse frequently. He has stopped needing me as much so I think the new baby will have plenty of time.
    How often does he nurse now?
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  • RingletRinglet
    Cashingn2 said:
    Cashingn2 said:
    BootsOrHearts said:
    This thread is giving me some good ideas. DH hasn't felt very loved lately, maybe I should let him suckle a bit tonight.
    If there's anything there yet, it might make him feel good. But you should probably just get a pump and deep freeze that for the baby.
    You sound like Rumparoo without the head injury.
    You know what, I'm tired of your attitude. You're always so negative toward everyone. All you do is criticize and demean everyone who posts. Maybe you should think about yourself and stop projecting your grouchy attitude everywhere. Maybe karma will have you choke on your cake.
    Nope, now I'm thinking Supergirl. I'm never grouchy actually but thank you. At least whatever I'd have to say to you, I'd say under my real log in and not some AE.
    This is not an AE. I thought it was MUD, now it is an AE. Sure, I just made a 6 page thread of everyone calling me immature so I can tell you about cake? Right.
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  • RingletRinglet
    hswan91011 said:

    If feeding from a bottle is liquid arsenic what is drinking espresso doing to your LO inside you??? Just curious...
    Nothing, the baby inside me isn't having any breastmilk so the espresso isn't harming him or her.
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