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CMSullivan326 · September 2013

This board confuses the shit outta me.

tealowl · September 2013

catmagick said:

I am bisexual. I was engaged to a woman once upon a time. It ended because she was an asshole, but of course my gay friends blamed it on not being gay enough (since I then married a man). Eh, *shrug*.

I am too, but I've never dated a woman because I'm not lesbian enough either apparently, and I never ended up meeting anybody before I met S/O.

tealowl · September 2013

Damn, I miss boobs.

catmagick · September 2013

@lovelym13 Word. I still think you're the bomb.

PrimRoseMama · September 2013

CMSullivan326 said:
This board confuses the shit outta me.

Same. To be fair, Tamma did not actually call lovelym out. So, I don't really see how it can be construed as bullying. Yes, I think that lovelym has grown, changed & did exactly as she was told. That's great. Everyone deserves another chance.

I don't think it makes Tamma an ugly person if she connects the online dots. Just observant?

WolFox · September 2013

I've kissed a girl a few times and I liked it (softer lips). I even had a full blown crush on a girl in college, but she was a well-established lesbian and I was a freshman beginner-feminista so I don't think she took it seriously. But damn I really liked her...

I don't consider myself bi, but I can't say that I'm exclusively hetero because of these experiences. There's a "Kinsey Scale" that rates sexuality on six stages from exclusively straight to bi to exclusively homosexual. There are stages in between each of those. Not everyone likes it because it "defines" you sexually, but you can certainly be a higher or lower number during certain points of your life. I just know that some women are super attractive, even though I married a boy. I really like boobs, both my own and other women's. I totally get why men love them. I just never met the right woman I guess....

PS DH says that if I cheat on him with a woman, he'd forgive me as long as I video taped it....

EmeJay · September 2013

WolFox said:

PS DH says that if I cheat on him with a woman, he'd forgive me as long as I video taped it....

Stupid double standard ...

WolFox · September 2013

Spookster said:

@Lovelym13

Lettin' the lady balls hang. We all have a shitty ass day from time to time and make mistakes or say something that we regret later. I think your self-call out is pretty fucking redeeming. I am glad you did it!

@lovelym13, you are awesome and brave for owning it. @spookster I love this response completely and agree wholeheartedly.

Spookster · September 2013

PrimRoseMama said:

This board confuses the shit outta me.
Same. To be fair, Tamma did not actually call lovelym out. So, I don't really see how it can be construed as bullying. Yes, I think that lovelym has grown, changed & did exactly as she was told. That's great. Everyone deserves another chance. I don't think it makes Tamma an ugly person if she connects the online dots. Just observant?

I agree with this, I am sure that some one would have figured it out at some point. I don't think Tamma is an ugly individual either.

Spookster · September 2013

tealowl said:

Damn, I miss boobs.

I can appreciate a great rack too :-)

I have had my share of girl on girl encounters...Boom!

catmagick · September 2013

Lol I am so happy so many people are coming out after me!!! @tealowl, somehow that doesn't surprise me at all that you're family too ;-)
Boobs are pretty amazing.

I hate people who get drunk and make out with their friends for the entertainment of men and say they're bi. They give us a bad name and it contributes to the bi hate in the gay community.

tealowl · September 2013

EmeJay said:

WolFox said:

PS DH says that if I cheat on him with a woman, he'd forgive me as long as I video taped it....
Stupid double standard ...

Ugh, I don't like this. Why would he be OK with that? I get that he's joking, but if I cheated on S/O with anyone, it's cheating.

My husband was like that. He would tell me I could have sex with women but only if he got to watch. Gross. No, buddy.

WolFox · September 2013

tealowl said:

EmeJay said:

WolFox said:

PS DH says that if I cheat on him with a woman, he'd forgive me as long as I video taped it....
Stupid double standard ...

Ugh, I don't like this. Why would he be OK with that? I get that he's joking, but if I cheated on S/O with anyone, it's cheating.

My husband was like that. He would tell me I could have sex with women but only if he got to watch. Gross. No, buddy.

It's definitely a joke on his part and it's definitely a double standard. If I cheated on him, with a man or a woman, he would be absolutely devastated and distraught. If he cheated on me, with either gender, I sure as shit wouldn't want to watch it! DH is really good when it comes to gender bias, identifies as a feminist, etc., (please see prior post from the other day!) so when e says that I understand that it comes from a purely silly place, hiding the fact that he would be, in all actuality, completely heart broken.

SmurfyLite · September 2013

tealowl said:

EmeJay said:

WolFox said:

PS DH says that if I cheat on him with a woman, he'd forgive me as long as I video taped it....
Stupid double standard ...

Ugh, I don't like this. Why would he be OK with that? I get that he's joking, but if I cheated on S/O with anyone, it's cheating.

My husband was like that. He would tell me I could have sex with women but only if he got to watch. Gross. No, buddy.

Yes yes and yes. I hate that a woman being with another woman is thought of as "less". Cheating is cheating is cheating. There is this kind of thought that if a woman is with another woman it is for the purpose of, or can be used for the purpose of, fulfilling a male fantasy. Simply incorrect.

EmeJay · September 2013

I tried it with a girl when I was younger and I didn't like it at all.

mmb248 · September 2013

EmeJay said:

mmb248 Thanks boo - How was your apointment?

Fantastic! I'm as excited as a girl on CD2, cycle 19, month 26 can be! We did my baseline u/s, no cysts, so we're moving on this month with increased Clomid, DH is 100% on board with IUI this time.

And, my RE was giving out free samples of preseed. DH thinks it's the best lube ever, so I know he'll be excited.

oneblessedmess · September 2013

dlsexton said:

@lovelym13 I like you even more now

Thisx69

Spookster · September 2013

@macylynn27

That gives me the sads for you. Have you talked to him about it?

CMSullivan326 · September 2013

macylynn27 said:
My FFFC:
My husband never goes down on me and never shows any interest in going down on me. It makes me very sad, because I really like it. And I struggle with bitterness because of it. I don't like the taste of dick but I still give you blow jobs!
*sigh*
Pity party
<:-P </p>

I'd go on a blow job strike.

mmb248 · September 2013

@dorothyzbornak97: I haven't hooked up with a girl! Although, I lived with my BFF after college, and we frequently refer to each other as, "my first wife." And I'm pretty sure we're both serious when we say that after our husbands die (if they go first), we're going to get married so we can live together in the married housing at the old folks' home.

Sometimes when I get irritated with DH, I tell him that C was a better spouse.

tealowl · September 2013

Spookster said:

@macylynn27
That gives me the sads for you. Have you talked to him about it?

Me too. Have you discussed this with him?

I dated someone before I met S/O for about 6months, and he never did. Ever. I asked him once and he said, "Oh, I just haven't done it in awhile." We also had like, minute man sex, so it was obviously a matter of him just being very, very inexperienced. But still, it hurt my feelings a lot, because he got plenty of blowjobs from me.

I personally cannot orgasm from sex alone, so someone who doesn't do oral I couldn't date.

Has he ever done it or just doesn't like too?

WolFox · September 2013

I get squirmish when DH goes down on me. He's VERY good, but I have long term weirdness with thinking that there's NO WAY he likes it. But... he LOVES it. And when I let him, I love it. But there's this initial resistance like "eww... I wouldn't want to be down there, what are you doing?"

Spookster · September 2013

macylynn27 said:

Spookster said:

@macylynn27
That gives me the sads for you. Have you talked to him about it?

Not really. It's just recently become an area that I've wanted to explore more but feel like I can't. DH is very...well...he doesn't like to stimulate me unless he's getting pleasure too.
I've been thinking about how to bring it up without sounding like I'm accusing him of anything, because I really do just want to talk about it.

That's fucking selfish. You shouldn't always have to be getting to give your Wife/Husband something pleasurable. That makes me stabby.

duncs107 · September 2013

PrimRoseMama said:

This board confuses the shit outta me.
Same. To be fair, Tamma did not actually call lovelym out. So, I don't really see how it can be construed as bullying. Yes, I think that lovelym has grown, changed & did exactly as she was told. That's great. Everyone deserves another chance. I don't think it makes Tamma an ugly person if she connects the online dots. Just observant?

@PrimRoseMama I see her as a bully because she's been trying to passive aggressively call me out for a couple weeks now. On here and on freaking IG for crying out loud. Just like @slappalicious said, I was told to leave and start a new sn after a "bump break." Which I did.

Another reason why is that I had been in communication with the Bump mods to delete that screen name because it had my last name in it. So for privacy concerns, I wanted it gone. Well, that was now a huge waste of that mod's time since she just blasted it on here.

Now some of you will say/think, well she didn't say who you were you did when you called yourself out.

As true as that may seem, tamma has been telling other bumpies about this (Sully and lord knows who else), so my real life name has been outted. As shown by the fact that she went through and found my facebook page.

*Bring on the friend requests. I will accept them. Probably.*

Pretty sure that's a "bannable" offense, but I'm not a huge gaping twatface and do not plan on reporting her. If someone else does, that's on them, but I don't give a fuck that she chose to be like this. Good for you girl, hope you enjoyed what came from it.

8-|

PS: If "gamergirl" is on here now, she's trying to out you too. So protect yourself and your privacy if you want to remain anonymous and continue your bump days.

ETA: Oh, and @PrimRoseMama please don't put words in my mouth. Never did I once say tamma was an "ugly person".

Spookster · September 2013

@Wolfox

My Husband is the same way, he would stay down there for an hour if I let him, after about 5 O's though that shit is way to sensitive to handle anymore.

catmagick · September 2013

WolFox said:
I get squirmish when DH goes down on me. He's VERY good, but I have long term weirdness with thinking that there's NO WAY he likes it. But... he LOVES it. And when I let him, I love it. But there's this initial resistance like "eww... I wouldn't want to be down there, what are you doing?"

Two things: why would you want to go down for a bj? It's the same thing.
And I have gone down on a woman :-) it's just what you do when you're in a sexual relationship with someone. I would talk to him about it.

jaytee16 · September 2013

@mmb248 - woo hoo! That's awesome. I'm happy to hear your H is on board with IUI. Wishing you the best of luck this cycle!!

@macylynn27 - that makes me sad for you! It sounds selfish if he's only giving while receiving. There's got to be give and take. Every so often H & I have conversations and I'll ask if there's anything he wants to try that we've never done, any fantasies he's into, ask about going to the sex store to see about any new toys. We've been having sex for 9 years, I make sure we regularly talk about our sex life to make sure we're both satisfied.

Specifically, we decided to watch a sexy movie the other night - we don't really do this, and we laughed the whole time! the embarrassing part that makes this a FFFC: It was the teen mom porn, haha. It was awful, we had to turn it off quickly, I used to watch teen mom and she kept saying "Baby" to the dude exactly like she does to her daughter - it creeped me out. We still had sex though.

Tamma254 · September 2013

lovelym13 said:

PrimRoseMama said:

This board confuses the shit outta me.
Same. To be fair, Tamma did not actually call lovelym out. So, I don't really see how it can be construed as bullying. Yes, I think that lovelym has grown, changed & did exactly as she was told. That's great. Everyone deserves another chance. I don't think it makes Tamma an ugly person if she connects the online dots. Just observant?

@PrimRoseMama I see her as a bully because she's been trying to passive aggressively call me out for a couple weeks now. On here and on freaking IG for crying out loud. Just like @slappalicious said, I was told to leave and start a new sn after a "bump break." Which I did.

Another reason why is that I had been in communication with the Bump mods to delete that screen name because it had my last name in it. So for privacy concerns, I wanted it gone. Well, that was now a huge waste of that mod's time since she just blasted it on here.

Now some of you will say/think, well she didn't say who you were you did when you called yourself out.
As true as that may seem, tamma has been telling other bumpies about this (Sully and lord knows who else), so my real life name has been outted. As shown by the fact that she went through and found my facebook page.

*Bring on the friend requests. I will accept them. Probably.*

Pretty sure that's a "bannable" offense, but I'm not a huge gaping twatface and do not plan on reporting her. If someone else does, that's on them, but I don't give a fuck that she chose to be like this. Good for you girl, hope you enjoyed what came from it.

8-|

PS: If "gamergirl" is on here now, she's trying to out you too. So protect yourself and your privacy if you want to remain anonymous and continue your bump days.

First, that pic on IG, was a generalization. Second, you are the one that outed your full name on here. I haven't done a bannable offense, just some insomnia-induced research.

CMSullivan326 · September 2013

@lovelym13 Guuuurl. Don't be bringing my name in the middle of this hot mess. I've been keeping my opinion off of this board for a reason. I've also remained neutral on here.

WolFox · September 2013

catmagick said:

I get squirmish when DH goes down on me. He's VERY good, but I have long term weirdness with thinking that there's NO WAY he likes it. But... he LOVES it. And when I let him, I love it. But there's this initial resistance like "eww... I wouldn't want to be down there, what are you doing?"
Two things: why would you want to go down for a bj? It's the same thing. And I have gone down on a woman :-) it's just what you do when you're in a sexual relationship with someone. I would talk to him about it.

I have, and he's slowed his approach so I ease into it now. S'all good in the lady-hood

PrimRoseMama · September 2013

@lovelym13 : I lurk a lot. Late night nursing sessions make it easy to stay on top of various threads etc. My BMB and TTGP (not to mention April 2014 BMB) are my main reads. I haven't seen anything close to the "passive aggressive attempts to call you out" by Tamma. I don't really see Tamma posting much of anything. If you could please provide links and examples that would be great. I just don't see what you are talking about. Tamma has always been super sweet to me and she doesn't deserve to be called a bully just because she made the connections based the virtual bread crumbs that you left behind.

She hasn't linked any of your personal information. Your last name was in your original screen name. That's not her fault, is it? Even if you have the screen name changed the old posts will still be there. So there isn't really any personal information that you didn't have out there all by yourself. It would be unfair to try to get Tamma banned because you didn't mind your P's & Q's about internet safety.

I'm sorry that you feel exposed when you tried to start over. That really sucks, and many (including myself) have lauded your lady balls about owning your stuff. You've said you don't want to actually have anyone harmed or hit by a bus. Many of the friends you've made believe you.

I don't really do the instagram thing, so I can't comment there.

I get it about the internet safety, but you really did yourself in there. Internet 101 don't use your full name ever. I wish you the best, but I really think you are taking this out of control with Tamma. She doesn't seem to have anything against you personally. She just noticed the connections and mentioned them. She didn't say you were a bad person or anything like that.

Can someone give me the recap of the Gamer Girl situation? I am sleep deprived and the SN doesn't ring a bell.

duncs107 · September 2013

Tamma254 said:

lovelym13 said:

PrimRoseMama said:

This board confuses the shit outta me.
Same. To be fair, Tamma did not actually call lovelym out. So, I don't really see how it can be construed as bullying. Yes, I think that lovelym has grown, changed & did exactly as she was told. That's great. Everyone deserves another chance. I don't think it makes Tamma an ugly person if she connects the online dots. Just observant?

@PrimRoseMama I see her as a bully because she's been trying to passive aggressively call me out for a couple weeks now. On here and on freaking IG for crying out loud. Just like @slappalicious said, I was told to leave and start a new sn after a "bump break." Which I did.

Another reason why is that I had been in communication with the Bump mods to delete that screen name because it had my last name in it. So for privacy concerns, I wanted it gone. Well, that was now a huge waste of that mod's time since she just blasted it on here.

Now some of you will say/think, well she didn't say who you were you did when you called yourself out.
As true as that may seem, tamma has been telling other bumpies about this (Sully and lord knows who else), so my real life name has been outted. As shown by the fact that she went through and found my facebook page.

*Bring on the friend requests. I will accept them. Probably.*

Pretty sure that's a "bannable" offense, but I'm not a huge gaping twatface and do not plan on reporting her. If someone else does, that's on them, but I don't give a fuck that she chose to be like this. Good for you girl, hope you enjoyed what came from it.

8-|

PS: If "gamergirl" is on here now, she's trying to out you too. So protect yourself and your privacy if you want to remain anonymous and continue your bump days.

First, that pic on IG, was a generalization. Second, you are the one that outed your full name on here. I haven't done a bannable offense, just some insomnia-induced research.

First, you are flat out lying that it was a "generalization". In your post on here today you stated that you mentioned it in your blog. The title of your blog post is what was displayed on your IG picture you posted yesterday. Also, you told me in the PM you sent me that you were basically out for revenge because of something that happened in chat seven months ago. I explained to you why that happened in the PM I sent you back. Second, no Tamma. I know that you have been telling others about it, and you have given the pieces to them to look up my first and last name on facebook and search in the area in which I live. They will then also find all of my freaking family. That's not cool. If I wanted people to have that information I would have given it out myself. Well, you left me no choice today so I did. Thanks for that.

Go ahead and try to make yourself look innocent all you want. You know what you've done. I know what you've done. I'm picking myself up and moving on with life. It is what it is.

tealowl · September 2013

Spookster said:

macylynn27 said:

Spookster said:

@macylynn27
That gives me the sads for you. Have you talked to him about it?
Not really. It's just recently become an area that I've wanted to explore more but feel like I can't. DH is very...well...he doesn't like to stimulate me unless he's getting pleasure too.
I've been thinking about how to bring it up without sounding like I'm accusing him of anything, because I really do just want to talk about it.
That's fucking selfish. You shouldn't always have to be getting to give your Wife/Husband something pleasurable. That makes me stabby.

That's what I was going to say. That's not acceptable at all. I am sorry he feels that way.

WolFox · September 2013

duncs107 · September 2013

CMSullivan326 said:

@lovelym13 Guuuurl. Don't be bringing my name in the middle of this hot mess. I've been keeping my opinion off of this board for a reason. I've also remained neutral on here.

Guuurl I saw that winky face on the IG photo. lol I know you know. I was just pointing out that I know she's been telling people which is calling me out on the bump via PM. Anyways, I have nothing against you at all. You make me LOL and I still want to use the tin foil photo challenge SO BAD.

tealowl · September 2013

Spookster said:

@Wolfox
My Husband is the same way, he would stay down there for an hour if I let him, after about 5 O's though that shit is way to sensitive to handle anymore.

5??!?

EmeJay · September 2013

duncs107 · September 2013

PrimRoseMama said:

@lovelym13 : I lurk a lot. Late night nursing sessions make it easy to stay on top of various threads etc. My BMB and TTGP (not to mention April 2014 BMB) are my main reads. I haven't seen anything close to the "passive aggressive attempts to call you out" by Tamma. I don't really see Tamma posting much of anything. If you could please provide links and examples that would be great. I just don't see what you are talking about. Tamma has always been super sweet to me and she doesn't deserve to be called a bully just because she made the connections based the virtual bread crumbs that you left behind.

She hasn't linked any of your personal information. Your last name was in your original screen name. That's not her fault, is it? Even if you have the screen name changed the old posts will still be there. So there isn't really any personal information that you didn't have out there all by yourself. It would be unfair to try to get Tamma banned because you didn't mind your P's & Q's about internet safety.

I'm sorry that you feel exposed when you tried to start over. That really sucks, and many (including myself) have lauded your lady balls about owning your stuff. You've said you don't want to actually have anyone harmed or hit by a bus. Many of the friends you've made believe you.

I don't really do the instagram thing, so I can't comment there.

I get it about the internet safety, but you really did yourself in there. Internet 101 don't use your full name ever. I wish you the best, but I really think you are taking this out of control with Tamma. She doesn't seem to have anything against you personally. She just noticed the connections and mentioned them. She didn't say you were a bad person or anything like that.

Can someone give me the recap of the Gamer Girl situation? I am sleep deprived and the SN doesn't ring a bell.

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12058879/fffc/p1 page one, third or fourth post.

IG

Blog

Finding me on FB

Telling other bumpies about her findings

As far as Gamer Girl said that the regs (focusing mostly on CLE) were bitter. I am in no way sticking up for her because that was really messed up, but as you will see in the FFFC I posted, tamma said she's on to her too.

Spookster · September 2013

Spookster said:

@Wolfox
My Husband is the same way, he would stay down there for an hour if I let him, after about 5 O's though that shit is way to sensitive to handle anymore.

5??!?

@Tealowl
He is more than skilled in the ways of the tongue :-)

duncs107 · September 2013

EmeJay said:

Ooohh, another FFFC. H and I love iCarly. We have the sads that it's gone.

Sam's show just isn't as good.

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