Poor OP just wanted advice and has been awesome and gracious and level headed...then someone takes it so far as to imply a pregnant woman needs a diet cookie?!
Wow, here I am working and when I finally check in you're already up to 6 pages.
I love how when novmommy13 finally figured out how to use the quote button she went absolutely nuts with it!
I also like the part where warning someone that her husband could be having an affair is offering a "fresh perspective." LMFAO.
Since you like me using the quote function now I gotta go back to not using it just to annoy you LOL
And by the way, I never said he was having an affair because there could be many reasons for hiding something. I just told her to be careful.
Use the quote function or don't; I couldn't care less. I just find you amusing in an ironic way. You keep accusing everyone of living and dying by this message board but you've stuck around and continued posting all.day.long.
And as far as warning her to be careful, don't insult anyone by acting like you weren't implying her husband is sneaking around on her. What the hell else would anyone be worried about when their SO travels? Surely he's not smuggling exotic pets.
Poor OP just wanted advice and has been awesome and gracious and level headed...then someone takes it so far as to imply a pregnant woman needs a diet cookie?!
Thank you for commenting on that! Telling any pregnant woman they need a diet ANYTHING is about the LEAST supportive thing somone could say! Besides diet, usually means artificial sweeteners, which are part of the no, no list...not a very well informed pregnant lady :P
NovemberMommy, you were given a warning just like anyone else that violates TOU. If you would like to point out where anyone else in this thread made personal attacks I will be glad to look into it. Consider this a second warning for your little comment about diet cookies.
I sent your message privately, in order to not embarrass you when I have to remind you to be an adult. Adults are allowed to use curse words, but it is not ok to use personal attacks that attack weight issues, other peoples marriage, or others parenting skills. If you have a problem with how I moderate the board, then by all means contact bumpJackie@thebump.com.
NovemberMommy, you were given a warning just like anyone else that violates TOU. If you would like to point out where anyone else in this thread made personal attacks I will be glad to look into it. Consider this a second warning for your little comment about diet cookies.
I sent your message privately, in order to not embarrass you when I have to remind you to be an adult. Adults are allowed to use curse words, but it is not ok to use personal attacks that attack weight issues, other peoples marriage, or others parenting skills. If you have a problem with how I moderate the board, then by all means contact bumpJackie@thebump.com.
I'm just gonna say this... I heart you. That is all.
NovemberMommy, you were given a warning just like anyone else that violates TOU. If you would like to point out where anyone else in this thread made personal attacks I will be glad to look into it.
Consider this a second warning for your little comment about diet cookies.
I sent your message privately, in order to not embarrass you when I have to remind you to be an adult. Adults are allowed to use curse words, but it is not ok to use personal attacks that attack weight issues, other peoples marriage, or others parenting skills.
If you have a problem with how I moderate the board, then by all means contact bumpJackie@thebump.com.
@Jmo30, I just wanted to let you know, none of the hate and distaste of this post with meant for you. We appreciate that you were mature enough to handle displeasing comments without flying off the wall unlike a certain person I no longer care to name. We know you don't have to agree with us, but we will put it out there, so you can reference another point of view.
@Jmo30, I just wanted to let you know, none of the hate and distaste of this post with meant for you. We appreciate that you were mature enough to handle displeasing comments without flying off the wall unlike a certain person I no longer care to name. We know you don't have to agree with us, but we will put it out there, so you can reference another point of view.
I'm not a regular on here I mostly just lurk and read and if I feel like I have good advice I jump in or if I have a question I jump on here... But this... Has made my day! u ladies are pretty awesome and since all my friends that are girls moved away in March and all I have are guy friends it makes me happy to be a November mommy! I don't know how to do the awesome pics u guys post but if I did I would have like 12 of them with this!
@jmo30 it sounds like the main reason you're upset about this is because he's going to go have a good time without you. So I might suggest getting your jealousy under control before you have a baby you'll be splitting attention and love with soon.
This is far from the problem but thanks for your input anyways.
My husband is also military as are apparently many husbands of ladies on here! I would be upset with my husband if this were the case.. It may also be because My husband has made is clear to me that he wants to be around me and the baby for as long as possible and other things can wait. He was invited to do a few things in December, but chose against it because he wants to spend all his time with his new baby and his wife. That is how I believe it should be! I don't think you're overreacting, honestly. If it were my husband I would be upset
Some people just don't understand how internet communities work, do they?
I can just imagine @novmommy13 walking by parties in public parks, stopping, and yelling at random people there. Or going to the mall, seeing some friends sharing fries at a table, and plopping herself down to lecture them about their relationships. And then getting angry and offended when the people there look at her like she has two heads, because no one has any clue who she is. I mean, I know I've not been here as long as many of you have, and I respect that! It would be rude to act like I'm one of the veterans of this board, because I'm not! Let alone lecturing them on how to behave!
OP - I agree with the others that the main issue here is lack of sufficient and clear communication, not his travel plans per se (though the golf thing would bug me a bit). I recommend setting up a shared Google calendar or similar, and make a point to check in with each other on a regular basis. Once we did this, it got a lot easier to plan both our schedules, and there are no surprises (like learning the day of that his mother is planning to come over, or that I've scheduled something for both of us on a day he has work obligations).
You can be a thug online but in real life you're prob a fat ass that no one liked in high school and couldn't get a prom date. And you wouldn't even be pregnant right now if your SO didn't lower his standards to FUCK you haha.
Re: Would you be upset? Long
A cookie is prob the last thing you need unless it's a diet cookie. Yes, now it's personal and I don't give a shit.
Really? You are gonna go there? STFU, she can have as many cookies as she pleases or are you a Dr now too?
ETA: messed the quote up, first paragraph was from novmommy13
#LOLFITMAMA
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Fact: Diet cookies suck
Fact: Novmommy13 sucks
Conclusion: Novmommy13 is here from the diet cookie coalition to make us all miserable.
My logic is infallible.
But for real, EVERYONE START POSTING PICTURES OF PETS IN COSTUME UNTIL THIS THREAD DIIIIES
ETA Ugh! I hate being in sucky people's quote boxes.
And as far as warning her to be careful, don't insult anyone by acting like you weren't implying her husband is sneaking around on her. What the hell else would anyone be worried about when their SO travels? Surely he's not smuggling exotic pets.
:P
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Consider this a second warning for your little comment about diet cookies.
I sent your message privately, in order to not embarrass you when I have to remind you to be an adult. Adults are allowed to use curse words, but it is not ok to use personal attacks that attack weight issues, other peoples marriage, or others parenting skills.
If you have a problem with how I moderate the board, then by all means contact bumpJackie@thebump.com.
Sorry. Trying to respond quickly in between meetings so my punctuation and paragraphs have sucked today!
I appreciate that.
This is far from the problem but thanks for your input anyways.
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