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DebateThis · September 2013

novmommy13 said:

DebateThis said:
First, who the hell are you??

Second, you're an idiot and making every bit as many ASSumptions and stupid comments as the OP. How DARE you allude that OP's husband is "hiding something" like an affair or that she needs to be "careful" about him? There are several women on this board who are dealing with actual affairs and abusive marriages and for you to make comments like this (based on some very tenuous threads of hearsay/secondhand information from the OP's friend) is incredibly stupid.

Third, you clearly have no idea how corporate America works or how internet forums work so why don't ya just GTFO.

You are obviously offended because YOU see yourself as one of the women I was referring to. It's easier for people like you to judge and criticize others from behind a keyboard without any sympathy or understanding for their situations. Online bullies like you have nothing better to do but jump on every opportunity to attack and label someone who may be emotional or vulnerable in a situation they decided to share hoping to get some advice but all you can do is make them feel bad about themselves. Are you really that desperate to feel good about yourself that you feel the need to label others?

Who are you to call her clingy when she's clearly stated that she's usually pretty understanding about this stuff because her husband does travel for work often. You don't know how she handles other situations so YOU'RE the one making assumptions. Anyway, she knows what's normal for her marriage and what's a red flag or even a concern that needs to be addressed. Who are you to tell her what should be acceptable in her marriage? The bigger issue here is that he kept something from her that he shouldn't have. I'm not assuming anything about an affair, I simply just told her to be careful.

Women like you are making excusing for this guy based on assumptions when in really none of you really know the real reason. You should GTFO because you're insecure about yourself and feel the need to start fights online. Perhaps you would like it if EVERYONE shared the same opinion as you and no one had anything different to bring to the table. I can tell how insecure you are about yourself by the how you jumped on my case when I wasn't even talking to you, about you, or give a crap about you and your life. I have sympathy for this women because she reached out to others in a difficult situation. Now you want to criticize me and be immature because I'm not labeling and judging her like you? Shame on you.

BAHAHAHAHAHA.

novmommy13 · September 2013

CaitS07 said:

I'm sorry. I have a hard time thinking that he did this on purpose and that it is just a miscommunication. What was he going to do when the time came to fly up there??! Just say he's headed to 7-11 and not come back for 2 days?

Also, why would he send you am email (which you stated you ignored) if you all had already decided "together" you ALL wouldn't be in attendance.

I honestly think he took it to mean that you and baby weren't going but that he was.

uh-oh these women are about to rip you apart for not agreeing with them. They want everyone to make this poor women feel bad about herself so they can feel good about themselves.....typical bullies. They are the reason these boards shouldn't exist. There's a nicer way to give honest advice without belittling, criticizing, or judging others.

fluttergirlmoonchild79 · September 2013

novmommy13 said:

DebateThis said:
First, who the hell are you??

Second, you're an idiot and making every bit as many ASSumptions and stupid comments as the OP. How DARE you allude that OP's husband is "hiding something" like an affair or that she needs to be "careful" about him? There are several women on this board who are dealing with actual affairs and abusive marriages and for you to make comments like this (based on some very tenuous threads of hearsay/secondhand information from the OP's friend) is incredibly stupid.

Third, you clearly have no idea how corporate America works or how internet forums work so why don't ya just GTFO.

You are obviously offended because YOU see yourself as one of the women I was referring to. It's easier for people like you to judge and criticize others from behind a keyboard without any sympathy or understanding for their situations. Online bullies like you have nothing better to do but jump on every opportunity to attack and label someone who may be emotional or vulnerable in a situation they decided to share hoping to get some advice but all you can do is make them feel bad about themselves. Are you really that desperate to feel good about yourself that you feel the need to label others?

Who are you to call her clingy when she's clearly stated that she's usually pretty understanding about this stuff because her husband does travel for work often. You don't know how she handles other situations so YOU'RE the one making assumptions. Anyway, she knows what's normal for her marriage and what's a red flag or even a concern that needs to be addressed. Who are you to tell her what should be acceptable in her marriage? The bigger issue here is that he kept something from her that he shouldn't have. I'm not assuming anything about an affair, I simply just told her to be careful.

Women like you are making excusing for this guy based on assumptions when in really none of you really know the real reason. You should GTFO because you're insecure about yourself and feel the need to start fights online. Perhaps you would like it if EVERYONE shared the same opinion as you and no one had anything different to bring to the table. I can tell how insecure you are about yourself by the how you jumped on my case when I wasn't even talking to you, about you, or give a crap about you and your life. I have sympathy for this women because she reached out to others in a difficult situation. Now you want to criticize me and be immature because I'm not labeling and judging her like you? Shame on you.

First, back the F off DT and everyone else on this board for that matter, you don't know us.

Second, I'm not insecure, nor is DT.

Third, my DH goes on business trips all the time and I 100% trust him when I'm not with him, sound like you have the issues, not us

And finally, we're not bullies. We're BLADS! Get it right!

alexisjo88 · September 2013

novmommy13 said:

DebateThis said:
First, who the hell are you??

Second, you're an idiot and making every bit as many ASSumptions and stupid comments as the OP. How DARE you allude that OP's husband is "hiding something" like an affair or that she needs to be "careful" about him? There are several women on this board who are dealing with actual affairs and abusive marriages and for you to make comments like this (based on some very tenuous threads of hearsay/secondhand information from the OP's friend) is incredibly stupid.

Third, you clearly have no idea how corporate America works or how internet forums work so why don't ya just GTFO.

You are obviously offended because YOU see yourself as one of the women I was referring to. It's easier for people like you to judge and criticize others from behind a keyboard without any sympathy or understanding for their situations. Online bullies like you have nothing better to do but jump on every opportunity to attack and label someone who may be emotional or vulnerable in a situation they decided to share hoping to get some advice but all you can do is make them feel bad about themselves. Are you really that desperate to feel good about yourself that you feel the need to label others?

Who are you to call her clingy when she's clearly stated that she's usually pretty understanding about this stuff because her husband does travel for work often. You don't know how she handles other situations so YOU'RE the one making assumptions. Anyway, she knows what's normal for her marriage and what's a red flag or even a concern that needs to be addressed. Who are you to tell her what should be acceptable in her marriage? The bigger issue here is that he kept something from her that he shouldn't have. I'm not assuming anything about an affair, I simply just told her to be careful.

Women like you are making excusing for this guy based on assumptions when in really none of you really know the real reason. You should GTFO because you're insecure about yourself and feel the need to start fights online. Perhaps you would like it if EVERYONE shared the same opinion as you and no one had anything different to bring to the table. I can tell how insecure you are about yourself by the how you jumped on my case when I wasn't even talking to you, about you, or give a crap about you and your life. I have sympathy for this women because she reached out to others in a difficult situation. Now you want to criticize me and be immature because I'm not labeling and judging her like you? Shame on you.

WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU?????? Why do you think it is ok to come on here and tell us to do anything? We have been here for a long while, you have never shown your face before. If you can't handle how we run shit around here GTFO and take you little doggy too! We did not attack her, we told her how shit is. Reality sucks and people need to suck it up and get over it. You came here and directly insulted us, so yea, we are turning into ravenous wolves, against you!

dnt27 · September 2013

novmommy13 said:

DebateThis said:

First, who the hell are you??

Second, you're an idiot and making every bit as many ASSumptions and stupid comments as the OP. How DARE you iallude that OP's husband is "hiding something" like an affair or that she needs to be "careful" about him? There are several women on this board who are dealing with actual affairs and abusive marriages and for you to make comments like this (based on some very tenuous threads of hearsay/secondhand information from the OP's friend) is incredibly stupid.

Third, you clearly have no idea how corporate America works or how internet forums work so why don't ya just GTFO.

You are obviously offended because YOU see yourself as one of the women I was referring to. It's easier for people like you to judge and criticize others from behind a keyboard without any sympathy or understanding for their situations. Online bullies like you have nothing better to do but jump on every opportunity to attack and label someone who may be emotional or vulnerable in a situation they decided to share hoping to get some advice but all you can do is make them feel bad about themselves. Are you really that desperate to feel good about yourself that you feel the need to label others?

Who are you to call her clingy when she's clearly stated that she's usually pretty understanding about this stuff because her husband does travel for work often. You don't know how she handles other situations so YOU'RE the one making assumptions. Anyway, she knows what's normal for her marriage and what's a red flag or even a concern that needs to be addressed. Who are you to tell her what should be acceptable in her marriage? The bigger issue here is that he kept something from her that he shouldn't have. I'm not assuming anything about an affair, I simply just told her to be careful.

Women like you are making excusing for this guy based on assumptions when in really none of you really know the real reason. You should GTFO because you're insecure about yourself and feel the need to start fights online. Perhaps you would like it if EVERYONE shared the same opinion as you and no one had anything different to bring to the table. I can tell how insecure you are about yourself by the how you jumped on my case when I wasn't even talking to you, about you, or give a crap about you and your life. I have sympathy for this women because she reached out to others in a difficult situation. Now you want to criticize me and be immature because I'm not labeling and judging her like you? Shame on you.

........You're obviously missing her point. And sadly, there is no cure for
stupid. Shut the fuck up.

GopherBaby13 · September 2013

@novmommy13

What IS your problem, anyway? Women, like you, that speak for other women piss me right the fuck off! I read your response to my SO and he thinks you are rude AND crazy for trying to put into OP's head that her husband is doing something wrong behind her back.

But, go ahead. Keep coming back to argue with @DebateThis. You will look like an idiot (as if you don't already) and you will lose! So it's a win win for us!

fluttergirlmoonchild79 · September 2013

novmommy13 said:

CaitS07 said:

I'm sorry. I have a hard time thinking that he did this on purpose and that it is just a miscommunication. What was he going to do when the time came to fly up there??! Just say he's headed to 7-11 and not come back for 2 days?

Also, why would he send you am email (which you stated you ignored) if you all had already decided "together" you ALL wouldn't be in attendance.

I honestly think he took it to mean that you and baby weren't going but that he was.

uh-oh these women are about to rip you apart for not agreeing with them. They want everyone to make this poor women feel bad about herself so they can feel good about themselves.....typical bullies. They are the reason these boards shouldn't exist. There's a nicer way to give honest advice without belittling, criticizing, or judging others.

Wrong! No one is going to jump her shit the way we're doing to you. Wanna know why? Because we know her! She's been around. Many of us have differing opinions and can respectfully agree to disagree. It's idiots like you that turn us into BLADs (and yes, you are the D in that acronym)

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CaitS07 · September 2013

novmommy13 said:

CaitS07 said:

I'm sorry. I have a hard time thinking that he did this on purpose and that it is just a miscommunication. What was he going to do when the time came to fly up there??! Just say he's headed to 7-11 and not come back for 2 days?

Also, why would he send you am email (which you stated you ignored) if you all had already decided "together" you ALL wouldn't be in attendance.

I honestly think he took it to mean that you and baby weren't going but that he was.

uh-oh these women are about to rip you apart for not agreeing with them. They want everyone to make this poor women feel bad about herself so they can feel good about themselves.....typical bullies. They are the reason these boards shouldn't exist. There's a nicer way to give honest advice without belittling, criticizing, or judging others.

Don't quote me. I love them and agree with them. OP is being a child.

SittingOnAMtnTop · September 2013

OP, you should ask a military wife if your husband leaving for 2 days for a business related trip is the end of the world.

FFS you'll be fine. And like PP mentioned, I bet HR booked his plane ticket and room, that's how my husband's company does it.

Kfran84 · September 2013

AE troll sounds really angry.

OP did not even sound a little ticked when she came back with more detail and she had been called clingy or exhibiting clingy behavior in several posts. She asked for opinions and is wearing her big girl panties. Good job, OP.

alexisjo88 · September 2013

CaitS07 said:

novmommy13 said:

CaitS07 said:

I'm sorry. I have a hard time thinking that he did this on purpose and that it is just a miscommunication. What was he going to do when the time came to fly up there??! Just say he's headed to 7-11 and not come back for 2 days?

Also, why would he send you am email (which you stated you ignored) if you all had already decided "together" you ALL wouldn't be in attendance.

I honestly think he took it to mean that you and baby weren't going but that he was.

uh-oh these women are about to rip you apart for not agreeing with them. They want everyone to make this poor women feel bad about herself so they can feel good about themselves.....typical bullies. They are the reason these boards shouldn't exist. There's a nicer way to give honest advice without belittling, criticizing, or judging others.

Don't quote me. I love them and agree with them. OP is being a child.

You go girl!

Lindsayloring1 · September 2013

@novmommy13...

MrsCCParra · September 2013

novmommy13 said:

CaitS07 said:

I'm sorry. I have a hard time thinking that he did this on purpose and that it is just a miscommunication. What was he going to do when the time came to fly up there??! Just say he's headed to 7-11 and not come back for 2 days?

Also, why would he send you am email (which you stated you ignored) if you all had already decided "together" you ALL wouldn't be in attendance.

I honestly think he took it to mean that you and baby weren't going but that he was.

uh-oh these women are about to rip you apart for not agreeing with them. They want everyone to make this poor women feel bad about herself so they can feel good about themselves.....typical bullies. They are the reason these boards shouldn't exist. There's a nicer way to give honest advice without belittling, criticizing, or judging others.

@novmommy13 Hold up just one little second here, if these boards shouldn't exist...why the HECK ARE YOU HERE????

fitmama418 · September 2013

@novmommy13 YOUR PRESENCE IS A BLESSING FROM ABOVE! You have FINALLY given me a chance to use this:

BEST! DAY! EVER!

AnsbyGamber · September 2013

novmommy13 said:
You are obviously offended because YOU see yourself as one of the women I was referring to. It's easier for people like you to judge and criticize others from behind a keyboard without any sympathy or understanding for their situations. Online bullies like you have nothing better to do but jump on every opportunity to attack and label someone who may be emotional or vulnerable in a situation they decided to share hoping to get some advice but all you can do is make them feel bad about themselves. Are you really that desperate to feel good about yourself that you feel the need to label others?

Who are you to call her clingy when she's clearly stated that she's usually pretty understanding about this stuff because her husband does travel for work often. You don't know how she handles other situations so YOU'RE the one making assumptions. Anyway, she knows what's normal for her marriage and what's a red flag or even a concern that needs to be addressed. Who are you to tell her what should be acceptable in her marriage? The bigger issue here is that he kept something from her that he shouldn't have. I'm not assuming anything about an affair, I simply just told her to be careful.

Women like you are making excusing for this guy based on assumptions when in really none of you really know the real reason. You should GTFO because you're insecure about yourself and feel the need to start fights online. Perhaps you would like it if EVERYONE shared the same opinion as you and no one had anything different to bring to the table. I can tell how insecure you are about yourself by the how you jumped on my case when I wasn't even talking to you, about you, or give a crap about you and your life. I have sympathy for this women because she reached out to others in a difficult situation. Now you want to criticize me and be immature because I'm not labeling and judging her like you? Shame on you.

I'm sorry, did you just post a whole rant about how people shouldn't be judging and labeling other people, WHILE judging and labeling someone? I'm pretty sure you just LABELED DT as an insecure, immature internet bully.

You also said that OP knows what's normal in her marriage and what should be a red flag in her marriage so we shouldn't tell her what to be concerned about. That's pretty funny because YOU are the one who told her that her husband is hiding something and that she should be careful. Everyone else was saying that OP should just slow down and have a discussion with him before overreacting to something she has just heard 3rd hand.

You also said that women on this board love to act like they are better people and judge other people's actions. That's a much more direct attack than anything anyone said about OP. Maybe you should address your comments to yourself rather than DT.

DebateThis · September 2013

@AnsbyGamber ILY.

novmommy13 · September 2013

Of course your husband doesn't like my response because he wants you to be the way you are.....ignorant. He can hide things from you and you have the mentality to let it slide so yeah he likes that.

JamieCallow · September 2013

SittingOnAMtnTop said:
OP, you should ask a military wife if your husband leaving for 2 days for a business related trip is the end of the world.

FFS you'll be fine. And like PP mentioned, I bet HR booked his plane ticket and room, that's how my husband's company does it.

This!!! I am a Navy wife and my husband could be called up at anytime for a year or more so I don't think 2 days is a long time at all! There have been periods of time that he has been stuck at work for 2 days just because the Navy can do that to him (and I cannot even speak to him bc they have him that busy! oh and he certainly is not out there cheating on me). Luckily I have not had to deal with a long deployment YET but when we get to our new home in 2 weeks he is deployable and I could be without him for up to a year...So really, it sounds awful clingy if you ask me!!

Kfran84 · September 2013

novmommy13 said:
Of course your husband doesn't like my response because he wants you to be the way you are.....ignorant. He can hide things from you and you have the mentality to let it slide so yeah he likes that.

Whaaaat? Who is this directed to?

Projecting much?

fitmama418 · September 2013

mishkaroni said:

novmommy13 said:

Of course your husband doesn't like my response because he wants you to be the way you are.....ignorant. He can hide things from you and you have the mentality to let it slide so yeah he likes that.

Still haven't learned to use the quote function, eh? And WHAT THE EFF

Seriously...who are you talking to here? And you really seem to know a lot about other peoples' marriages...just sayin'

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Lindsayloring1 · September 2013

novmommy13 said:

Of course your husband doesn't like my response because he wants you to be the way you are.....ignorant. He can hide things from you and you have the mentality to let it slide so yeah he likes that.

what does this even mean? Guess I am ignorant too, because I dont get it...

alexisjo88 · September 2013

novmommy13 said:

Of course your husband doesn't like my response because he wants you to be the way you are.....ignorant. He can hide things from you and you have the mentality to let it slide so yeah he likes that.

Yes, because all men are pigs and go behind our backs to be with other women. Oh wait you must be talking about your life and your SO. Just because you got dissed, doesn't mean all men are like that. Quit trying to make other people miserable. You disgust me.

CaitS07 · September 2013

Lindsayloring1 said:

novmommy13 said:

Of course your husband doesn't like my response because he wants you to be the way you are.....ignorant. He can hide things from you and you have the mentality to let it slide so yeah he likes that.

what does this even mean? Guess I am ignorant too, because I dont get it...

When someone drops a Miley Cyrus Gif on you..it's time to re-evaluate.

GopherBaby13 · September 2013

novmommy13 said:
Of course your husband doesn't like my response because he wants you to be the way you are.....ignorant. He can hide things from you and you have the mentality to let it slide so yeah he likes that.

@novmommy13

FUUUUCCCCKKKK YOOOUUUUUU.

You know NOTHING about our relationship. You don't know that he lost one of his best friends to suicide, his sister to cervical cancer and his other best friend, his father, to an aneurism all in 4 years, nor do you know that those deaths brought us closer together. You have no idea what he has done for me when it comes my rocky relationship with my parents. You have NO FUCKING CLUE that he is the hardest working man I know (he runs his very own, successful company) and that he supports me with every fucking thing I do.

We spend every day together. We have everything but our political affiliation in common (him- dem, me- con). We are each others best friends. You know what? I'm surprised that you are even on a pregnancy board. You are such a bitch, I'm surprised that anyone would want to get within 10 feet of you much less knock you up.

mmm50 · September 2013

LJGS1010 said:

CFox815 said:

Hi, @novmommy13! You're crazy! I'm not even touching your crazy. I'm just going to chit chat with OP for a minute, so take a nap, k? OP, I don't think you're completely in the wrong if your fact set happened exactly as you state it did. This is long, but Im going to give you background. My husband travels a lot for business. I'm a bit of a Lady Macbeth about it because, I figure, if he needs to get ahead, he's got to play the game. The first 5 years of his career, he would work a full day, take out clients, get home around 4am, out the door at 6am for the office, every day. That was the nature of the industry he was in. Now, he's paid his dues and its not as bad but I will tell you, our babymoon, he took work calls, our honeymoon, he took work calls, during this pregnancy, he took the longest commercial airline flight for a meeting, just this week he was on a call until the second the ob stepped into the exam room. Pre-Cana counseling before our wedding? I went alone because he was traveling. I recently told him he's completely allowed to take calls in the delivery room until I push. My husband told me I'm nuts, but I really don't mind, he works so hard at building his business and I respect that. Oh did I mention most of his business is in Asia so he frequently takes calls in the middle of the night too? Also, he has a conference across the country about 6 weeks after my due date and he asked if our son and I would like to tag along. I will play it by ear, but you can bet my husband is going. Also, my husband has a vicious golf habit, at least 1-2x a week. I tell you all this because it probably sounds like my husband and I are never together, right? Wrong. We are together all the time. And there's a secret. It's really simple too. Communication. My husband calls me at least once a month from the office and says, "lets go over dates." I pull out my calendar and I write in anything he has coming up for work, leisure, etc. I respect those dates and I make sure I don't schedule anything on them for us. I typically use those nights to schedule dinners with girlfriends or have "me" time (that will probably change soon!). I also give my husband dates during that phone call: social events, dinner reservations, my work events etc., and he calendars them and gives me the same respect. In between those dates are tons of days I can spend with my husband and two days doesn't seem like such a big deal when you realize you have 5 other days during the week to spend time together. If I was in your position, and found out he scheduled the flight/hotel himself, without consulting you, yes I would be mad. But, I also would have never gotten an email from him regarding an upcoming event and ignored it. Our relationship thrives on keeping the lines of communication open and keeping one another in the loop. I think you need to approach the issue with respect this weekend and not go in guns blazing. Going forward, you both need to communicate with one another and give each other respect in return.

I have such a lawyer crush on you, @CFox815.

Ditto on the lawyer crush on @CFox815. This is our life too. Including the emails back and forth that say things like- I paid the electric bill. Or I bought _______ online today. I still don't understand how OP ignored an email, especially one from her husband. Even when he sends me dumb sports articles I half read them and reply.

McJen715 · September 2013

Kfran84 said:
Is it weird that I'm excited that we have an AE troll?

I have a meeting and shit gets crazy.

fluttergirlmoonchild79 · September 2013

mmm50 said:

LJGS1010 said:

CFox815 said:

Hi, @novmommy13! You're crazy! I'm not even touching your crazy. I'm just going to chit chat with OP for a minute, so take a nap, k? OP, I don't think you're completely in the wrong if your fact set happened exactly as you state it did. This is long, but Im going to give you background. My husband travels a lot for business. I'm a bit of a Lady Macbeth about it because, I figure, if he needs to get ahead, he's got to play the game. The first 5 years of his career, he would work a full day, take out clients, get home around 4am, out the door at 6am for the office, every day. That was the nature of the industry he was in. Now, he's paid his dues and its not as bad but I will tell you, our babymoon, he took work calls, our honeymoon, he took work calls, during this pregnancy, he took the longest commercial airline flight for a meeting, just this week he was on a call until the second the ob stepped into the exam room. Pre-Cana counseling before our wedding? I went alone because he was traveling. I recently told him he's completely allowed to take calls in the delivery room until I push. My husband told me I'm nuts, but I really don't mind, he works so hard at building his business and I respect that. Oh did I mention most of his business is in Asia so he frequently takes calls in the middle of the night too? Also, he has a conference across the country about 6 weeks after my due date and he asked if our son and I would like to tag along. I will play it by ear, but you can bet my husband is going. Also, my husband has a vicious golf habit, at least 1-2x a week. I tell you all this because it probably sounds like my husband and I are never together, right? Wrong. We are together all the time. And there's a secret. It's really simple too. Communication. My husband calls me at least once a month from the office and says, "lets go over dates." I pull out my calendar and I write in anything he has coming up for work, leisure, etc. I respect those dates and I make sure I don't schedule anything on them for us. I typically use those nights to schedule dinners with girlfriends or have "me" time (that will probably change soon!). I also give my husband dates during that phone call: social events, dinner reservations, my work events etc., and he calendars them and gives me the same respect. In between those dates are tons of days I can spend with my husband and two days doesn't seem like such a big deal when you realize you have 5 other days during the week to spend time together. If I was in your position, and found out he scheduled the flight/hotel himself, without consulting you, yes I would be mad. But, I also would have never gotten an email from him regarding an upcoming event and ignored it. Our relationship thrives on keeping the lines of communication open and keeping one another in the loop. I think you need to approach the issue with respect this weekend and not go in guns blazing. Going forward, you both need to communicate with one another and give each other respect in return.

I have such a lawyer crush on you, @CFox815.

Ditto on the lawyer crush on @CFox815. This is our life too. Including the emails back and forth that say things like- I paid the electric bill. Or I bought _______ online today. I still don't understand how OP ignored an email, especially one from her husband. Even when he sends me dumb sports articles I half read them and reply.

Yep, same here. DH is constantly working even when he's home. Hell, he was supposed to come to my appointments in a hour and he just texted me 30 minutes ago to say that he wasn't going to be able to make it because shit blew up at work. And you know what? I'm completely fine with it! He's great at what he does and is getting ready to get a huge promotion that will mean big things for him and by extension us so go for it! Hell, he was in a different room and texted me about how the Colt's acquired Trent Richardson last night. It's just what we do!

novmommy13 · September 2013

First of all, no one "owns" this board. Just because I have a life and I don't post or visit much on this board, doesn't mean you b****** own anything around here. Anyone with a F***ING email address can sign up and post a reply so don't act like there's anything to be earned. Your nothing special for knowing or posting on this board often. You all sit around and do nothing all day and I'm supposed to be impressed by how much you post on here and know each other. I don't have to be nor do I want to be one of you to post on this board.....GOT IT?

GopherBaby13 · September 2013

LJGS1010 said:

GopherBaby13 said:

novmommy13 said:
Of course your husband doesn't like my response because he wants you to be the way you are.....ignorant. He can hide things from you and you have the mentality to let it slide so yeah he likes that.
@novmommy13

FUUUUCCCCKKKK YOOOUUUUUU.

You know NOTHING about our relationship. You don't know that he lost one of his best friends to suicide, his sister to cervical cancer and his other best friend, his father, to an aneurism all in 4 years, nor do you know that those deaths brought us closer together. You have no idea what he has done for me when it comes my rocky relationship with my parents. You have NO FUCKING CLUE that he is the hardest working man I know (he runs his very own, successful company) and that he supports me with every fucking thing I do.

We spend every day together. We have everything but our political affiliation in common (him- dem, me- con). We are each others best friends. You know what? I'm surprised that you are even on a pregnancy board. You are such a bitch, I'm surprised that anyone would want to get within 10 feet of you much less knock you up.

HOLD THE PHONES. @GopherBaby13, you're a conservative? Now I'm all confused and conflicted, because I think you're pretty cool.... :-/

I guess you could say more moderate. I'm definitely more towards the middle. But you won't ever see me talk politics on here.

fluttergirlmoonchild79 · September 2013

mishkaroni said:

novmommy13 said:

First of all, no one "owns" this board. Just because I have a life and I don't post or visit much on this board, doesn't mean you b****** own anything around here. Anyone with a F***ING email address can sign up and post a reply so don't act like there's anything to be earned. Your nothing special for knowing or posting on this board often. You all sit around and do nothing all day and I'm supposed to be impressed by how much you post on here and know each other. I don't have to be nor do I want to be one of you to post on this board.....GOT IT?

THEN GO THE FUCK AWAY. I'm not even going to touch the rest of you disgusting spewage.

This. Why the fuck are you still posting!

And FWIW, I'm working. Thanks.

fitmama418 · September 2013

YES! There's the GBCB!

novmommy13 · September 2013

Who the F asked you for your or your husband's life story? That was unnecessary and it only proves how bored you are......you are so bored with your life.

DebateThis · September 2013

GopherBaby13 said:

GopherBaby13 said:

Of course your husband doesn't like my response because he wants you to be the way you are.....ignorant. He can hide things from you and you have the mentality to let it slide so yeah he likes that.
@novmommy13 FUUUUCCCCKKKK YOOOUUUUUU. You know NOTHING about our relationship. You don't know that he lost one of his best friends to suicide, his sister to cervical cancer and his other best friend, his father, to an aneurism all in 4 years, nor do you know that those deaths brought us closer together. You have no idea what he has done for me when it comes my rocky relationship with my parents. You have NO FUCKING CLUE that he is the hardest working man I know (he runs his very own, successful company) and that he supports me with every fucking thing I do. We spend every day together. We have everything but our political affiliation in common (him- dem, me- con). We are each others best friends. You know what? I'm surprised that you are even on a pregnancy board. You are such a bitch, I'm surprised that anyone would want to get within 10 feet of you much less knock you up.

HOLD THE PHONES. @GopherBaby13, you're a conservative? Now I'm all confused and conflicted, because I think you're pretty cool.... :-/
I guess you could say more moderate. I'm definitely more towards the middle. But you won't ever see me talk politics on here.

Just don't tell me gay people shouldn't get married or my uterus isn't my own to make decisions over and we cool. :P

fluttergirlmoonchild79 · September 2013

novmommy13 said:

Who the F asked you for your or your husband's life story? That was unnecessary and it only proves how bored you are......you are so bored with your life.

Who the fuck are you talking to? The quote button is your friend.....

novmommy13 · September 2013

mishkaroni said:

novmommy13 said:

Who the F asked you for your or your husband's life story? That was unnecessary and it only proves how bored you are......you are so bored with your life.

Says the troll.

Do you think you are special for being a regular on here? It's sad that you need this board to prove to yourself that you matter.

fluttergirlmoonchild79 · September 2013

mishkaroni said:

novmommy13 said:

mishkaroni said:

novmommy13 said:

Who the F asked you for your or your husband's life story? That was unnecessary and it only proves how bored you are......you are so bored with your life.

Says the troll.

Do you think you are special for being a regular on here? It's sad that you need this board to prove to yourself that you matter.

How's the view from your high horse? I don't NEED this board to prove that I matter. I matter to my family and friends and couldn't give two shits what some twatpocket says over the internet about me. But you're hate tirades just show the type of person YOU are. I wouldn't believe you're pregnant for a second because you are downright disgusting.

And here I thought the word twatwaffle was awesome. Twatpocket > twatwaffle. Totally stealing.

dnt27 · September 2013

novmommy13 said:
First of all, no one "owns" this board. Just because I have a life and I don't post or visit much on this board, doesn't mean you b****** own anything around here. Anyone with a F***ING email address can sign up and post a reply so don't act like there's anything to be earned. Your nothing special for knowing or posting on this board often. You all sit around and do nothing all day and I'm supposed to be impressed by how much you post on here and know each other. I don't have to be nor do I want to be one of you to post on this board.....GOT IT?

BYE BITCH. It's useless piece of shit people like YOU that have nothing better to do with their time. Not sure how the fuck you got knocked up, unless the poor bastard was desperate enough to pay for your services, because you are a C U Next Tuesday.

ranaverde · September 2013

Some people just don't understand how internet communities work, do they?

I can just imagine @novmommy13 walking by parties in public parks, stopping, and yelling at random people there. Or going to the mall, seeing some friends sharing fries at a table, and plopping herself down to lecture them about their relationships. And then getting angry and offended when the people there look at her like she has two heads, because no one has any clue who she is. I mean, I know I've not been here as long as many of you have, and I respect that! It would be rude to act like I'm one of the veterans of this board, because I'm not! Let alone lecturing them on how to behave!

OP - I agree with the others that the main issue here is lack of sufficient and clear communication, not his travel plans per se (though the golf thing would bug me a bit). I recommend setting up a shared Google calendar or similar, and make a point to check in with each other on a regular basis. Once we did this, it got a lot easier to plan both our schedules, and there are no surprises (like learning the day of that his mother is planning to come over, or that I've scheduled something for both of us on a day he has work obligations). Good luck.

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