I really didn't know a lot of people who smoked until I met DH, but now I think maybe I was just naive! Do you smoke? Often? Do you hide it or do people close to you know?
Me: 33 DH: 38
TTC since August 2011
DX: PCOS and subseptate uterus
August 2013: Clomid + Trigger + IUI TI = BFN
September 2013: Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
October 2013: Clomid + Trigger + IUI canceled
November 2013: NTNP
April 2013: Femara + Trigger + IUI = ???
S/O UO: The Weed Poll 204 votes
Occasionally (weekly/few times a month)
Seldom (every month or so)
Rarely (maybe once or twice a year)
I did it once and I'll never do it again
I was a regular, but I quit
SS or I thought this was about weeding my garden.
Re: S/O UO: The Weed Poll
I once drank too much PJ at a party and while walking back to my dorm, I made my friend crawl with me on the sidewalk between the President's house and the administration building because as I told her, "The fuzz is always after me."
April 2013: Femara + Trigger + IUI = ???
The first time I smoked pot was ONLY because the crush of my fuggin' life was there and he helped me with the bong and we totally touched and oh my God it was amazing.
He also ended up being the first person I ever gave a beej too. Go Teal.
- Still, I've never been a 'pot head'. My mom was a 911 dispatcher and my Dad was a firefighter, I couldn't do shit wrong. I didn't even drink until I was almost 18.
"Your truth is different from my truth, and we're both right."
TTC since March 2013. BFP 4/13/13, blighted ovum discovered 6/6/13, m/c 6/8/13.
BFP 11/10/13, EDD 7/25/13 - stick little owlet!
I will still do it once in a while in a social environnement.
ETA: spelling iz hard.
When I was 13, they finally got new carpet and I mentioned the stain to my dad, and said I was glad to get rid of the reminder of being a clumsy two year old. His reaction, "What are you talking about? That's where Dave spilled the bong water the year before you were born."
WHAT?!?!?!?!?!? My mom blamed a bong water stain on her toddler?!? FTR - she also told my sister that the stain was her fault. I guess that was her way of making sure we didn't spill.
April 2013: Femara + Trigger + IUI = ???
I don't hide it from my SO but I don't do it in front of him either, he's pretty against it.
If I wasn't ttc I'd do it almost every day, but only after work. I really find it relaxing.
Nope! We became friends before Teenage Sexy Time happened. I see him every so often and we tease each other about it.
"Your truth is different from my truth, and we're both right."
TTC since March 2013. BFP 4/13/13, blighted ovum discovered 6/6/13, m/c 6/8/13.
BFP 11/10/13, EDD 7/25/13 - stick little owlet!
Team Purple!!!!
See, my friend who smokes says it makes her the opposite of lazy. She likes to smoke on Saturdays, and she gets her whole house clean. It's bizarre.
Her house sparkles for cripes sake.
"Your truth is different from my truth, and we're both right."
TTC since March 2013. BFP 4/13/13, blighted ovum discovered 6/6/13, m/c 6/8/13.
BFP 11/10/13, EDD 7/25/13 - stick little owlet!
Occasionally, he brings that up. Like after our first RE visit when he said, "Seems like you want my DNA now."
April 2013: Femara + Trigger + IUI = ???
One of my friends when we were studying architecture was like this. The models he made when he was high was nothing short of a miracle. They were so detailed and perfect...yet when he was sober, he couldn't draw a straight line for shit...
I haven't smoked in years because of my job. It's not worth the risk to me.
But if it were legalized where I live, game on.
chart.
TTC #1 5/13 BFP #3 5/2/14 DD born 1/19/15
NTNP #2 8/17 BFP 12/13/18 ED 8/21/19
TTC #1 5/13 BFP #3 5/2/14 DD born 1/19/15
NTNP #2 8/17 BFP 12/13/18 ED 8/21/19
DH plays base in a reggae band, which is usually all I need to say about him on this subject.
Here is Louis CK on how weed is too strong these days:
"I didn't know they had been working on this shit like it was the cure for cancer"
*TTC #1 since June 2013*
THAT'S THE SPOT!
I have never smoked anything in my life, no cigarettes, hookah, or weed. I still have no desire to. I'm not opposed to it though & preach to people all the time that it should be legalized. Fat chance of that ever happening in Texas.
Team Purple!!!!
I smoked a fair amount in college. I never bought, though.
Since we're sharing college stories, I'll go:
Freshman year a friend on mine's parents had a ranch somewhere down in south Texas, so about 10 of us decided to go down and have a party weekend for pretty much no reason. So, Friday night we get there, drink some beer, have a bonfire and smoke a little. No biggie. Saturday, the idea was to go get brownie mix. Exactly none of us had used edibles before. So we rolled up in this tiny country grocery store, already stoned, with a joint behind a friend of mine's ear, and managed to not get arrested. We go back to the ranch, smoke some, and make brownies. We put an ounce into 8 brownies. So, we eat the brownies, and then, super bright idea, get in the friend's Jeep to try to find this haunted shack on the property. We then think the brownies aren't kicking in, so we smoke another joint.
Then, the brownies kick in. We are in the Jeep, and all of a sudden it's like Jurassic Park. We finally get back to the house we're staying it, and it is so miserable. Pretty much everyone goes to bed early. We get up the next morning and decide to go out for breakfast and don't seem to realize until we leave the breakfast place and don't recognize the car we came in, that we are still really fucking high. Of course, we have to drive back to school that evening. I don't think any of us actually came down until Tuesday morning.
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
DD born 6.13.11 at 37w5d
DS born 5.23.12 at 36w5d
BFP 6.9.13|heartbeat of 128bpm 7weeks|7.23.13 ultrasound revealed no heartbeat|natural m/c and d&c 7.25.13
DS born 5.20.14 at 38 weeks
All are welcome
H used to be a huge stoner in college but now works for the government and to keep his secret access he gets random drug testing. I work in the hospital and also get tested, so those days are over for us
I would if it was legal. I wouldn't even know how to go about getting any.
DH and I got a contact high from being in the pit at a music festival surrounded by bongs and joints but we've never done any of it directly.
Started Dating 03/04/2007 ~ Got Engaged 04/23/2010 ~ Said "I Do" 03/19/2011
Started TTC #1 11/2011 ~ BFP #1 03/28/2012-EDD 12/02/2012 ~
Greyson was Born by Unplanned C-Section on 11/20/2012 @ 8lbs 9oz 21 inhces
Started TTC #2 07/2013 ~ BFP #2 10/11/2013-EDD based on growth is June 26th
Liam born by Repeat C-Section on June 20, 2014 @ 8lbs 2oz 20.75 inches
My last roommates before I got married did though. It was pretty funny being the only sober one with two grown women who were high as a kite while we watched reruns of Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
DD born 6.13.11 at 37w5d
DS born 5.23.12 at 36w5d
BFP 6.9.13|heartbeat of 128bpm 7weeks|7.23.13 ultrasound revealed no heartbeat|natural m/c and d&c 7.25.13
DS born 5.20.14 at 38 weeks
All are welcome
Ended up wandering into our stoner friends apartment to see if DH was there and they promised they would help me find them after they smoked. Next thing I know I've got two joints hanging out of my mouth and DH is standing in the door thinking I'm some sort of closet stoner or something. I was pretty ashamed of myself after that whole situation and hid from everyone for a few days lol
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DD1 July 31, 2011
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Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
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