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fireflygirl12 · September 2013

cczp8211 said:

I couldn't agree more. I am respectful of others, but God forbid I step outside the box on this forum and post a new idea. There are a lot of Divas around who can't tolerate a difference of opinion. I didn't stress caddy chicks in high school and I'm certainly not going to in my 30s on a preg message board. This is supposed to be fun and supportive.

And there are lots of demeaning opinions posted that are not fun or supportive.

Serenla · September 2013

@Andrewsgal are you related to me or something?!

Sheybre · September 2013

8-}

Andrewsgal · September 2013

Lol @Serenla we posted that at the same time. Lol caddy chick.

mrscrcalli · September 2013

normally if you don't like something you leave it right? :-?

jap618 · September 2013

cczp8211 said:

I couldn't agree more. I am respectful of others, but God forbid I step outside the box on this forum and post a new idea. There are a lot of Divas around who can't tolerate a difference of opinion. I didn't stress caddy chicks in high school and I'm certainly not going to in my 30s on a preg message board. This is supposed to be fun and supportive.

If you post a "new idea" and they post another "new idea" that doesn't agree with your idea does that really make them "caddy" (I think you meant catty) or just debating? Is it really them who can't handle a difference of opinion or can you not handle the difference in opinion? Just because someone make a new point doesn't mean they are catty. You're being very hypocritical.

AcaAwkward · September 2013

baylorlinda said:

AcaAwkward said:

baylorlinda said:

deidremaria said:

I didn't get puppies and rainbows from this post. Why is everyone so defensive and quick to pounce? I thought it was quite accurate. At the end of the day we are all going to recieve things differently. That's what it falls down to when communicating on the Internet.

My thoughts exactly.
--------------- Eta: separation

Jesus how fucking boring would that be.

What do you mean?

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OOPS. Major Fail. Meant to quote another post.

IGNORE ME.

AcaAwkward · September 2013

jgreig83 said:

kwolslager said:

@Serenla @Andrewsgal @fireflygirl12
oh geez, it was a difference of opinion on one particular subject. Funny how you're all STILL bitching over it. The awesome thing about this country is that you can talk about it, and debate things. And I never said that "transgenders are immoral" I said that I have morals. And my morals are going to be different from yours and yours are going to be different from the person down the street.
I really strongly believe that an individual has the right to do what they want to their body, no matter who agrees or disagrees. So even though I may not agree with the transgender life-style, I still think that it's their choice to do so. I feel that way about other things too, such as abortion. I am against abortion (excluding cases of rape/incest), but that's MY choice and who am I to tell someone else they can't have one if they really want it?
It's like you said "This place will never be puppies and rainbows".. and I think that it's cool it's that way. It makes things interesting, life would be pretty boring if everyone agreed on everything.

IMO some things just shouldn't be debated or even discussed on online forums (i.e. transgender, same sex marriage or abortion). This site is about babies, if you want to discuss your views on such topics find a forum on them.

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HERE WE GO. Now I've found it!

Let's discuss babies and only babies?! (And I repeat, now with proper punctuation:) Jesus, how fucking boring would that be.

kwolslager · September 2013

Andrewsgal said:

kwolslager said:

Andrewsgal said:

When your morals cause hate and hurt you need to reevaluate them. You are more than entitled to you morals but let it be know that they will questioned. And if you are as strong in your morals as you think you would be fine debating and discussing them.

I am very strong in my morals, and I'm totally ok with having people question and debate me. Like I said, it makes life interesting. I would never want to live in a world where no one challenged anything.
@fireflygirl12 I never corrected anyone by explaining what I meant because at the time I didn't think it was worth the energy (I guess I can chalk it up to the long wave of pregnancy laziness I've had lately)

Like I said when your morals cause hate hurt and pain perhaps they are not in align with the same God you base your morals on. I have no doubt that as a Christian God does not call us to judge or hate others. Sadly most Christians do and stand behind this as morals. It is judgement plain and simple. Own it.

I never once mentioned God or religion, I know that this is usually the reason behind that particular opinion on the matter, but that's not the reason behind my feelings on the subject.

@Serenla while my opinion on the subject remains the same, I do apologize to you and others that I offended with the liberal comment I made in the beginning, I agree that it was uncalled for.

and what is up with that person who marked your comment as abuse? you didn't say anything bad at all.

Jrabbitv · September 2013

Andrewsgal said:

kwolslager said:

Andrewsgal said:

When your morals cause hate and hurt you need to reevaluate them. You are more than entitled to you morals but let it be know that they will questioned. And if you are as strong in your morals as you think you would be fine debating and discussing them.

I am very strong in my morals, and I'm totally ok with having people question and debate me. Like I said, it makes life interesting. I would never want to live in a world where no one challenged anything.

@fireflygirl12 I never corrected anyone by explaining what I meant because at the time I didn't think it was worth the energy (I guess I can chalk it up to the long wave of pregnancy laziness I've had lately)

Like I said when your morals cause hate hurt and pain perhaps they are not in align with the same God you base your morals on. I have no doubt that as a Christian God does not call us to judge or hate others. Sadly most Christians do and stand behind this as morals. It is judgement plain and simple. Own it.

Ah yes this is the one I skimmed across...morals are different then words or intentions nvm. It's ok you're a Christian today so of course you won't judge others or have intent to hurt anyone feelings either. Sassy maybe not cuz even the sassy people are nice. Just down right mean...nasty? One if those.

Jrabbitv · September 2013

It's all good babe. We'll just be different kinda Christians

nikki912 · September 2013

Jrabbitv said:

Andrewsgal said:

kwolslager said:

Andrewsgal said:

When your morals cause hate and hurt you need to reevaluate them. You are more than entitled to you morals but let it be know that they will questioned. And if you are as strong in your morals as you think you would be fine debating and discussing them.

I am very strong in my morals, and I'm totally ok with having people question and debate me. Like I said, it makes life interesting. I would never want to live in a world where no one challenged anything.
@fireflygirl12 I never corrected anyone by explaining what I meant because at the time I didn't think it was worth the energy (I guess I can chalk it up to the long wave of pregnancy laziness I've had lately)

Like I said when your morals cause hate hurt and pain perhaps they are not in align with the same God you base your morals on. I have no doubt that as a Christian God does not call us to judge or hate others. Sadly most Christians do and stand behind this as morals. It is judgement plain and simple. Own it.

Ah yes this is the one I skimmed across...morals are different then words or intentions nvm. It's ok you're a Christian today so of course you won't judge others or have intent to hurt anyone feelings either. Sassy maybe not cuz even the sassy people are nice. Just down right mean...nasty? One if those.

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I'm not trying to be mean just trying to help. I recommend you reread your posts before sending them. I find it very difficult to understand a lot of what you post. Punctuation really helps too. I'm sorry, but its hard to take what you write seriously if I can't understand it.

mrscrcalli · September 2013

Andrewsgal said:
When your morals cause hate and hurt you need to reevaluate them. You are more than entitled to you morals but let it be know that they will questioned. And if you are as strong in your morals as you think you would be fine debating and discussing them.

This!!!! =D>

Calling yourself a Christian because you go to church is as good as calling yourself a car because you're standing in the garage.

thomas930 · September 2013

@Jrabbitv

You aren't making a whole lot of sense...your post is very confusing.

Jrabbitv · September 2013

nikki912 said:

Jrabbitv said:

Andrewsgal said:

kwolslager said:

Andrewsgal said:

When your morals cause hate and hurt you need to reevaluate them. You are more than entitled to you morals but let it be know that they will questioned. And if you are as strong in your morals as you think you would be fine debating and discussing them.

I am very strong in my morals, and I'm totally ok with having people question and debate me. Like I said, it makes life interesting. I would never want to live in a world where no one challenged anything.
@fireflygirl12 I never corrected anyone by explaining what I meant because at the time I didn't think it was worth the energy (I guess I can chalk it up to the long wave of pregnancy laziness I've had lately)

Like I said when your morals cause hate hurt and pain perhaps they are not in align with the same God you base your morals on. I have no doubt that as a Christian God does not call us to judge or hate others. Sadly most Christians do and stand behind this as morals. It is judgement plain and simple. Own it.

Ah yes this is the one I skimmed across...morals are different then words or intentions nvm. It's ok you're a Christian today so of course you won't judge others or have intent to hurt anyone feelings either. Sassy maybe not cuz even the sassy people are nice. Just down right mean...nasty? One if those.

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I'm not trying to be mean just trying to help. I recommend you reread your posts before sending them. I find it very difficult to understand a lot of what you post. Punctuation really helps too. I'm sorry, but its hard to take what you write seriously if I can't understand it.

I'm mobile sorry just it isn't easy to type and I noticed this app has a lot of glitches when trying to post.
So "quotes" get mixed up.

Andrewsgal had posted saying if your morals cause hate or hurt then you should reevaluate. I think she should
reevaluate her self.

Dianakdee · September 2013

Haa it's always like this everywhere no matter what specially on the Internet

Jrabbitv · September 2013

I'm mobile. I get mixed up.

thomas930 · September 2013

You think Andrewsgal should reevaluate herself?.....no, no, what she said is very correct.

If you are spewing hate and using the excuse of morals, then I'm sorry but that is far from the "Christian" thing to do. I grew up in the Christian church and was taught to love people, not hate. Hate is far from having morals. Morals and beliefs are what drive our opinions, so they all play a factor. But you can't use morals as an excuse and the not back it up and thats what happened yesterday.

Sorry the was the response to jrabbitv's clarification.

ParyesRain · September 2013

You silly little rabbits!!! Hahaha! I won't be banned!

thomas930 · September 2013

ParyesRain said:

You silly little rabbits!!! Hahaha! I won't be banned!

If you continue abusing the flag button, then yes you will.

knotty-girl · September 2013

Obviously you have before, considering you have had this profile for a week, yet seem to be very familiar with The Bump forums. Not that it matters. I'm sure you'll just pop back up under a new avatar like an annoying rash one can't get rid off.

Jrabbitv · September 2013

@thomas I haven't read any of the other "drama" posts yet just everything else. So when I skimmed through this one and she's trying to say something about morals I thought that was funny because she attacks people like she has none... It's always the same people pouncing. (I haven't read that thread but-) if she's standing up for transgender awesome. But you attack people regardless of what it is as long as there's room for it. It's like the villain playing the hero..doesn't work that way.

thomas930 · September 2013

Jrabbitv said:

@thomas I haven't read any of the other "drama" posts yet just everything else. So when I skimmed through this one and she's trying to say something about morals I thought that was funny because she attacks people like she has none... It's always the same people pouncing. (I haven't read that thread but-) if she's standing up for transgender awesome. But you attack people regardless of what it is as long as there's room for it. It's like the villain playing the hero..doesn't work that way.

If you don't know the back story than your opinion really doesn't matter since you dont know what you are talking about.

Attacking, really? No, I call out stupid claims. I never attacked you. You really confuse me and I can no longer take you seriously. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt...that's run out for you, sorry.

Jrabbitv · September 2013

When you read through the threads you see some people saying some rude hateful things then all of a sudden the same people are preaching "don't spread hate." Ya we should love one another not just on a day we're feeling holy and righteous. You see someone being attacked on here you don't just pounce because you see everyone else doing it.

mrscrcalli · September 2013

ParyesRain said:
You silly little rabbits!!! Hahaha! I won't be banned!

Literally the craziest bitch on th block.. 8-}

Jrabbitv · September 2013

thomas930 said:

Jrabbitv said:

@thomas I haven't read any of the other "drama" posts yet just everything else. So when I skimmed through this one and she's trying to say something about morals I thought that was funny because she attacks people like she has none... It's always the same people pouncing. (I haven't read that thread but-) if she's standing up for transgender awesome. But you attack people regardless of what it is as long as there's room for it. It's like the villain playing the hero..doesn't work that way.

If you don't know the back story than your opinion really doesn't matter since you dont know what you are talking about.

Attacking, really? No, I call out stupid claims. I never attacked you. You really confuse me and I can no longer take you seriously. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt...that's run out for you, sorry.

I wasn't talking about you I was talking about Andrewsgal...I wasn't picking on just one thread I've seen a few this is general not just one thread. I didn't see the one about the transgender I only seen her post about morals here...you're not understanding. I'm saying in ALL other posts if there's room to pounce she's all game. That's happened in more then one post.

Jrabbitv · September 2013

If you're trying to stand up for "what's right" then act right.

Kristy774 · September 2013

@jrabbitv I have to disagree about @Thomas930, she's one of the most level headed ladies on this board, I've never seen her attack anyone and she was one of my votes as a mod for this board because of how she handles herself on here, she will however tell someone if they are being an idiot.

Jrabbitv · September 2013

cczp8211 said:
I couldn't agree more. I am respectful of others, but God forbid I step outside the box on this forum and post a new idea. There are a lot of Divas around who can't tolerate a difference of opinion. I didn't stress caddy chicks in high school and I'm certainly not going to in my 30s on a preg message board. This is supposed to be fun and supportive.

Ya well that's something I tried explaining yesterday and that didn't go over well. It gets seriously nasty here. So just pay attention to the non drama ones. Don't bother scratching your head wondering wth is up with some ladies because really they're bored, maybe hormonal or have some under lining issues.

fireflygirl12 · September 2013

Jrabbitv said:

thomas930 said:

Jrabbitv said:

@thomas I haven't read any of the other "drama" posts yet just everything else. So when I skimmed through this one and she's trying to say something about morals I thought that was funny because she attacks people like she has none... It's always the same people pouncing. (I haven't read that thread but-) if she's standing up for transgender awesome. But you attack people regardless of what it is as long as there's room for it. It's like the villain playing the hero..doesn't work that way.

If you don't know the back story than your opinion really doesn't matter since you dont know what you are talking about.

Attacking, really? No, I call out stupid claims. I never attacked you. You really confuse me and I can no longer take you seriously. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt...that's run out for you, sorry.

I wasn't talking about you I was talking about Andrewsgal...I wasn't picking on just one thread I've seen a few this is general not just one thread. I didn't see the one about the transgender I only seen her post about morals here...you're not understanding. I'm saying in ALL other posts if there's room to pounce she's all game. That's happened in more then one post.

Yeah, I'm sure that @andrewsgal jumps on people because everybody else is doing it, and not because the OP is being ignorant. ::eye roll::

Jrabbitv · September 2013

fireflygirl12 said:

Jrabbitv said:

thomas930 said:

Jrabbitv said:

@thomas I haven't read any of the other "drama" posts yet just everything else. So when I skimmed through this one and she's trying to say something about morals I thought that was funny because she attacks people like she has none... It's always the same people pouncing. (I haven't read that thread but-) if she's standing up for transgender awesome. But you attack people regardless of what it is as long as there's room for it. It's like the villain playing the hero..doesn't work that way.

If you don't know the back story than your opinion really doesn't matter since you dont know what you are talking about.

Attacking, really? No, I call out stupid claims. I never attacked you. You really confuse me and I can no longer take you seriously. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt...that's run out for you, sorry.
I wasn't talking about you I was talking about Andrewsgal...I wasn't picking on just one thread I've seen a few this is general not just one thread. I didn't see the one about the transgender I only seen her post about morals here...you're not understanding. I'm saying in ALL other posts if there's room to pounce she's all game. That's happened in more then one post.

Yeah, I'm sure that @andrewsgal jumps on people because everybody else is doing it, and not because the OP is being ignorant. ::eye roll::

Is it your turn to jump?

Jrabbitv · September 2013

Kristy774 said:
@jrabbitv I have to disagree about @Thomas930, she's one of the most level headed ladies on this board, I've never seen her attack anyone and she was one of my votes as a mod for this board because of how she handles herself on here, she will however tell someone if they are being an idiot.

I haven't seen you attack anyone so I'll take what you say as me just being over sensitive. Fair enough. Ranting stops.

baylorlinda · September 2013

fireflygirl12 said:

Jrabbitv said:

@thomas I haven't read any of the other "drama" posts yet just everything else. So when I skimmed through this one and she's trying to say something about morals I thought that was funny because she attacks people like she has none... It's always the same people pouncing. (I haven't read that thread but-) if she's standing up for transgender awesome. But you attack people regardless of what it is as long as there's room for it. It's like the villain playing the hero..doesn't work that way.

If you don't know the back story than your opinion really doesn't matter since you dont know what you are talking about.

Attacking, really? No, I call out stupid claims. I never attacked you. You really confuse me and I can no longer take you seriously. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt...that's run out for you, sorry.
I wasn't talking about you I was talking about Andrewsgal...I wasn't picking on just one thread I've seen a few this is general not just one thread. I didn't see the one about the transgender I only seen her post about morals here...you're not understanding. I'm saying in ALL other posts if there's room to pounce she's all game. That's happened in more then one post.
Yeah, I'm sure that @andrewsgal jumps on people because everybody else is doing it, and not because the OP is being ignorant. ::eye roll::

I think the OP's message got lost during this thread. I don't think she is being ignorant.

Kristy774 · September 2013

I think some girls do attack as soon as they can but @thomas930 isn't one of them.

fireflygirl12 · September 2013

baylorlinda said:

fireflygirl12 said:

Jrabbitv said:

@thomas I haven't read any of the other "drama" posts yet just everything else. So when I skimmed through this one and she's trying to say something about morals I thought that was funny because she attacks people like she has none... It's always the same people pouncing. (I haven't read that thread but-) if she's standing up for transgender awesome. But you attack people regardless of what it is as long as there's room for it. It's like the villain playing the hero..doesn't work that way.

If you don't know the back story than your opinion really doesn't matter since you dont know what you are talking about.

Attacking, really? No, I call out stupid claims. I never attacked you. You really confuse me and I can no longer take you seriously. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt...that's run out for you, sorry.
I wasn't talking about you I was talking about Andrewsgal...I wasn't picking on just one thread I've seen a few this is general not just one thread. I didn't see the one about the transgender I only seen her post about morals here...you're not understanding. I'm saying in ALL other posts if there's room to pounce she's all game. That's happened in more then one post.
Yeah, I'm sure that @andrewsgal jumps on people because everybody else is doing it, and not because the OP is being ignorant. ::eye roll::

I think the OP's message got lost during this thread. I don't think she is being ignorant.

I'm not referring to the OP of this thread, I'm just saying in general. The OP in this thread didn't say anything flame worthy.

Jrabbitv · September 2013

Kristy774 said:
I think some girls do attack as soon as they can but @thomas930 isn't one of them.

Then I gotten it wrong my apologies to Andrewsgal.

Kristy774 · September 2013

Idk about Andewsgal, I'm only speaking for thomas930. I honestly have a hard time remembering anyone but Thomas930 is one of the few I remember.

Jrabbitv · September 2013

Kristy774 said:
Idk about Andewsgal, I'm only speaking for thomas930. I honestly have a hard time remembering anyone but Thomas930 is one of the few I remember.

Oh I wasn't talking about thomas930 she seems pretty chill nothing negative to say about her I was talking about Andrewsgal.

fireflygirl12 · September 2013

Jrabbitv said:

Jrabbitv said:

@thomas I haven't read any of the other "drama" posts yet just everything else. So when I skimmed through this one and she's trying to say something about morals I thought that was funny because she attacks people like she has none... It's always the same people pouncing. (I haven't read that thread but-) if she's standing up for transgender awesome. But you attack people regardless of what it is as long as there's room for it. It's like the villain playing the hero..doesn't work that way.

If you don't know the back story than your opinion really doesn't matter since you dont know what you are talking about.

Attacking, really? No, I call out stupid claims. I never attacked you. You really confuse me and I can no longer take you seriously. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt...that's run out for you, sorry.
I wasn't talking about you I was talking about Andrewsgal...I wasn't picking on just one thread I've seen a few this is general not just one thread. I didn't see the one about the transgender I only seen her post about morals here...you're not understanding. I'm saying in ALL other posts if there's room to pounce she's all game. That's happened in more then one post.
Yeah, I'm sure that @andrewsgal jumps on people because everybody else is doing it, and not because the OP is being ignorant. ::eye roll::
Is it your turn to jump?

Because it's impossible to believe that more than one person legitimately disagrees with what someone says?

Jrabbitv · September 2013

fireflygirl12 said:

Jrabbitv said:

fireflygirl12 said:

Jrabbitv said:

thomas930 said:

Jrabbitv said:

@thomas I haven't read any of the other "drama" posts yet just everything else. So when I skimmed through this one and she's trying to say something about morals I thought that was funny because she attacks people like she has none... It's always the same people pouncing. (I haven't read that thread but-) if she's standing up for transgender awesome. But you attack people regardless of what it is as long as there's room for it. It's like the villain playing the hero..doesn't work that way.

If you don't know the back story than your opinion really doesn't matter since you dont know what you are talking about.

Attacking, really? No, I call out stupid claims. I never attacked you. You really confuse me and I can no longer take you seriously. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt...that's run out for you, sorry.
I wasn't talking about you I was talking about Andrewsgal...I wasn't picking on just one thread I've seen a few this is general not just one thread. I didn't see the one about the transgender I only seen her post about morals here...you're not understanding. I'm saying in ALL other posts if there's room to pounce she's all game. That's happened in more then one post.

Yeah, I'm sure that @andrewsgal jumps on people because everybody else is doing it, and not because the OP is being ignorant. ::eye roll::
Is it your turn to jump?

Because it's impossible to believe that more than one person legitimately disagrees with what someone says?

My boobs are really sore and my farts smell is there any way to relive the soreness in my tits and make my farts smell like roses??

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