April 2014 Moms
Emilyroche3
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I went lurking on other forum sites
Emilyroche3
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I'm not much for voicing my opion when it comes to all you beautiful preggo ladies. I'm
much more of a listener\supporter. Which I hope you will be for me if I need it. With all the drama the last few days I thought I would lurk on some other forums. Guess what?!?! THEY ARE JUST LIKE OURS. We live in a very diverse world. Lets love and embrace. Even if you don't 100% agree.
much more of a listener\supporter. Which I hope you will be for me if I need it. With all the drama the last few days I thought I would lurk on some other forums. Guess what?!?! THEY ARE JUST LIKE OURS. We live in a very diverse world. Lets love and embrace. Even if you don't 100% agree.
Emily
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Re: I went lurking on other forum sites
we all want the same things:
encouragement
to feel better (ms is horrid)
and to have healthy babies at the end!
Preach!
DD1- 2009, M/C- 2011, M/C- 2012, DD2- 2012, DD3- 2014
It's usually the people who are all puppies and rainbows who post ignorant shit like "transgenders are immoral". Do you really think people are supposed to look past that sort of thing? If people didn't make asinine remarks in the first place, they wouldn't get flamed. The "bullies" are the ones who get blamed for causing disharmony, but you can't tell me that someone isn't trying to stir the pot by posting controversial stuff to start with. The "bullies" are rarely the ones who start those kinds of posts, they are just quick to call people out for being so ignorant in a public forum.
/sarcasm
@Serenla @Andrewsgal @fireflygirl12
oh geez, it was a difference of opinion on one particular subject. Funny how you're all STILL bitching over it. The awesome thing about this country is that you can talk about it, and debate things. And I never said that "transgenders are immoral" I said that I have morals. And my morals are going to be different from yours and yours are going to be different from the person down the street.
I really strongly believe that an individual has the right to do what they want to their body, no matter who agrees or disagrees. So even though I may not agree with the transgender life-style, I still think that it's their choice to do so. I feel that way about other things too, such as abortion. I am against abortion (excluding cases of rape/incest), but that's MY choice and who am I to tell someone else they can't have one if they really want it?
It's like you said "This place will never be puppies and rainbows".. and I think that it's cool it's that way. It makes things interesting, life would be pretty boring if everyone agreed on everything.
DD1- 2009, M/C- 2011, M/C- 2012, DD2- 2012, DD3- 2014
You may not said it verbatim, but you absolutely said it. And that is how everybody took it and you never corrected them.
Anyways, I agree that it's OK to have differences in opinion and to not agree about everything all the time. Debates are actually quite healthy in my opinion. I also think that it's OK for people to question your opinions and to disagree with you too. And there are a lot of opinions that are personally offensive to people, so everybody isn't just going to be like "oh, well that's her opinion and I'm good with that since everybody has a right to their own opinion" They're going to be defensive and pissed. And that's OK too.
DD1- 2009, M/C- 2011, M/C- 2012, DD2- 2012, DD3- 2014
DD1- 2009, M/C- 2011, M/C- 2012, DD2- 2012, DD3- 2014
I am very strong in my morals, and I'm totally ok with having people question and debate me. Like I said, it makes life interesting. I would never want to live in a world where no one challenged anything.
@fireflygirl12 I never corrected anyone by explaining what I meant because at the time I didn't think it was worth the energy (I guess I can chalk it up to the long wave of pregnancy laziness I've had lately)
DD1- 2009, M/C- 2011, M/C- 2012, DD2- 2012, DD3- 2014
Like I said when your morals cause hate hurt and pain perhaps they are not in align with the same God you base your morals on. I have no doubt that as a Christian God does not call us to judge or hate others. Sadly most Christians do and stand behind this as morals. It is judgement plain and simple. Own it.
I would get bored with a board that only talked babies. We are going to be together for a while and I'd like to get to know people.
--------------- Eta: separation
Jesus how fucking boring would that be.
notes Christians can't be sassy. Good to know.
Like I said when your morals cause hate hurt and pain perhaps they are not in align with the same God you base your morals on. I have no doubt that as a Christian God does not call us to judge or hate others. Sadly most Christians do and stand behind this as morals. It is judgement plain and simple. Own it.
One thing to add, the language you used in the inital post was inflammatory. That is not a good way to potray a good solid argument, you came out swinging with the liberal feel good thing.
And I was flagged why?
Eta ooooh it's you. Thanks for flagging my charity post btw, the mods will love that.
And I was flagged why?
Eta ooooh it's you. Thanks for flagging my charity post btw, the mods will love that.
I'm pretty sure @paryesrain is going to be banned any minute now anyways. So no worries
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