I've mentioned my situation lately in some posts - FFFC for one. Here's a timeline of sorts:
I haven't heard from BD in 6 weeks.
4 weeks ago he didn't show up to the meeting point to get DS, no call, nothing.
2 weeks ago his GF called almost saying "there was a lot going on and she really needs to have some time to talk to me".
So I've been thinking that he was either dead or in jail somewhere, just sitting here waiting for the GF to call me back. The longer it went the more curious I was to find out what was going on. Well I just got a message from BD's mother asking if she can pick DS up Saturday and take him to a festival down in BD's town. I didn't answer the question and only asked if she had talked to her son lately. She said she saw him Thursday "and he didn't say much". I hadn't told her that he hasn't seen DS in 2 months.
So nothing happened, there's nothing wrong with him. He just forgot about and/or abandoned his son apparently, and is too chicken shit to call and talk to me himself! I'm fucking fuming right now.
What would BF do? How do I handle this? I have no problem with DS's Gma seeing him. But the fact that she wants to take him down to BD's town, when he has made zero attempt to see DS or had any attempt at contact makes me angry.
ETA: Gma is accusing me of not wanting DS to have contact with BD at all.