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I am a hot mess.

jezebel57jezebel57 member
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It's raining and I had to go to a pet store for food for our parrots- I stopped at a convenience store in way and of course, fell in the parking lot because of the rain. I didn't hit my belly but this caused me to freak out and call dr. They said not to worry but if it would make me feel better to come in so of course I am going. Called hubby who immediately freaked out and is on way home now to go to drs with me. Now I am a hysterical crying mess that my ankle hurts, I am a bad mommy already because I put my kids in danger, and I am making my DH come home from work when he doesn't have that much leave time. Crap.
Me (37) DH (39); PCOS changed to Unexplained, changed to DOR in 2012 (finally a correct diagnosis!); 
Started TTC 2009 with RE after 6 months.  
Clomid + Trigger x2; 
IUI + Femara x1,
IUI + Follistim x2;
IVF #1 (MDL) February 2013- BFN.
IVF #2 (antagonist) May 2013, First BFP of my life. 
Identical twin miracle BOYS (!!) headed our way- due date is technically 2/4/14 but c section is scheduled for 1/7! 


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  • daiseydoodadaiseydooda member
    Take a deep breath. It is very common for pregnant women to lose there balance and fall. Your not a bad mommy. I've seen women fall on there stomach and all was well with the baby/babies. I hope you feel better soon.






          


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  • LittleLady77LittleLady77 member
    I'm so sorry all that is happening but you are no where near a bad mom. You just stop that right now! Accidents happen, no one can avoid them and I'm sure your sweet babies are just fine! Big hugs to you and I'm glad you're going to the doc so you don't have to worry.

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  • MJC1116MJC1116 member
    You poor thing... I can imagine how scary that must be. But I'm sure everything will be okay. You protected those babies instinctively and probably hurt yourself to prevent anything from happening to them. You are not a bad mama! Going to the dr will give you peace of mind. 

    If it helps, my good friend tripped over a rug in her classroom and fell on all fours at 9 months. She instinctively arched her back to protect her belly. I think because she was so far along, she bumped her bump even with arching. She was so worried, but her baby was fine and now is an active 5-year old. :) 
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    TTC #1 4/2009 -  DD 2/5/10
    TTC #2 since October 2011
    2IF issues
    7/2013 - IUI #1: 50 units Follistim +  Ovidrel  = BFN
    8/2013 - IUI #2: 50 units Follistim +  Ovidrel  = BFP! Beta #1 (12 dpiui) 8/21: 45  Beta #2 (16 dpiui) 8/26: 301 Beta #3 (21 dpiui) 8/30: 1,929. 1st Ultrasound 9/4 - One perfect sac. 2nd Ultrasound 9/13 - Heartbeat at 124 bpm! Anniversary  

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  • ForevAAROSEForevAAROSE member
    Accidents happen, you're a great mommy for being cautious and checking on your little guys after the fall. I'm sure they are a okay. Hubby and you can now enjoy this rainy monday. And u get to see the babies. Its a good day :)
    TTC Since 112010 Naturally. Diagnose:PCOS(ME) + Low Motility(HIM). Started IVF+ICSI Cycle 12312. ER 27 & ET 210 two embies transferred. *BFN 1ST IVF CYCLE.* **Getting as healthy as possible and will try IVFICSI#2 again hopefully in April.** -- HAVE FAITH; LET GO & LET GOD --
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  • mlampingmlamping member
    You are fine. Being a mommy is hard work and you will have many worries ahead of you. Try to relax and think how this will make a funny story some day! 


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  • Julie21613Julie21613 member
    I'm sure everything is just fine... as foreverAAROSE said, you will get to see your little guys and spend the afternoon with your hubby! 
    Me 35, DH 36
    TTC summer 2008
    Diagnose me. DOR, DH perfect
    IUI # 1 6/2010, BFN
    IUI # 2 8/2010, BFN
    IVF # 1 10/2010 Canceled poor response
    IVF 1.2 12/2010 BFP! mc 6 weeks 2 days
    Mental health break for 10 months
    IVF # 2 10/2011 BFN
    IVF # 3 5/2012 BFP! 10 eggs retrieved (best ever)
    7 fertilized transferred 3
    Beta #1 14dpo - 72, Beta #2 17dpo 145 Beta 3 20dpo 521
    First u/s June 15 saw HB 126 bpm missed m/c 7/5/12 10 weeks D&C 7/6/12
    IVF#4 ER 9/30 ET 10/3 Beta 10/16 BFFN. IVF #5 final with o/e. ER 1/21 only 1 retrieved, hoping my lonestar is the one. Beta #1 2/6/13 = 209.... please let this be it! Keep growing lonestar! Beta #2 2/8/13 - 586! , Beta #3 2/10/13 = 1898. First u/s perfect little heart beat at 116 bpm. Measure 6 weeks 1 day. EDD 10/14/13
    3/4/13 measuring right on track beautiful heartbeat 171 bpm, graduated from RE to OB... bittersweet.
    PAIF/SAIF always welcome! Its a girl! 

    Maggie Grace is here!  10/5/13... 8lbs 6 ounces of pure joy!

    TTC#2  No birth control since DD was born.  Getting ready to jump back in the saddle.  Weaning this month. RE
    appt scheduled 5/8.   Here we go again!

    IFV# 6.  10/27  6 retrieved 4 mature 3 fertilized.  2 made it to 3dt 10/30. 1"very pretty 8 cell" and 1 6 cell.  Beta
    11/13.   Please stick embies!!!!  We love you so much already! 11/12/14  POAS, BFP... beta tomorrow!
    11/13 beta #1  924!!!  2nd bet 11/15 1906, one more on 11/17 3rd & final beta 3430.  First u/s 12/5, 7w4d, 2 heartbeats,
    both measuring right on track....2nd u/s... all is well... both beans measuring right on track... released from RE... first
    appointment with MFM 1/5.  Looks like this is really happening!

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  • jezebel57jezebel57 member
    Just got done- babies are good and my ankle hurts like hell. I am going back to bed. Thanks ladies for the calming words.
    Me (37) DH (39); PCOS changed to Unexplained, changed to DOR in 2012 (finally a correct diagnosis!); 
    Started TTC 2009 with RE after 6 months.  
    Clomid + Trigger x2; 
    IUI + Femara x1,
    IUI + Follistim x2;
    IVF #1 (MDL) February 2013- BFN.
    IVF #2 (antagonist) May 2013, First BFP of my life. 
    Identical twin miracle BOYS (!!) headed our way- due date is technically 2/4/14 but c section is scheduled for 1/7! 


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  • PhillyJ33PhillyJ33 member
    Glad to hear that the boys are okay- sorry to hear about your ankle though!!
    I think they are a lot more protected in there than we think but I would have done the same thing!
    Me 36/DH 46 Me: Low AMH (.21) DOR, mild endo; Started seeing RE 11/12
    Jan-March '13 3 IUIs Clomid + Trigger = BFN
    April '13 IVF 1 MDLF converted to 4th IUI due to 3 runaway follicles! BFN
    July/Aug '13 IVF 1.2 Long Lupron = 7R, 6F, 2T= BFP!!!
    Beta 1=512, Beta 2=1,368 Beta 3= 4,128
    It's a boy!!!!
    SUA, GD
    EDD 4/26/14

    He's Here! Arrived 4/15/14!!!!

    September 2015 - FET with remaining embryos
    Twins! EDD: 6/14/15

    PAIF/SAIF Everyone welcome!
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  • jezebel57jezebel57 member
    thanks all.  they only did a doppler not ultrasound but as long as both were still hanging out there i am happy.  such a relieving sound.  tomorrow is anatomy scan with MFM so will see what she has to say as well.  
    Me (37) DH (39); PCOS changed to Unexplained, changed to DOR in 2012 (finally a correct diagnosis!); 
    Started TTC 2009 with RE after 6 months.  
    Clomid + Trigger x2; 
    IUI + Femara x1,
    IUI + Follistim x2;
    IVF #1 (MDL) February 2013- BFN.
    IVF #2 (antagonist) May 2013, First BFP of my life. 
    Identical twin miracle BOYS (!!) headed our way- due date is technically 2/4/14 but c section is scheduled for 1/7! 


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  • PurpleIris30PurpleIris30 member
    A little late in responding, but I'm glad that everything looks ok with the babies.
    Married 8/2008. IVF with PGD March 2013.
    3/22 ER: 25R, 20M, 15F. 9 genetically normal, and 3 survived to Day 5
    3/27 ET: transferred 1 embryo, beta 9dp5dt=163, 12dp5dt=639
    4/25 1st ultrasound at 7 weeks = identical twins with heartbeats?!!!
    PPROM at 31w, delivery at 32 weeks of two beautiful girls
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  • BlueEyedDreamerBlueEyedDreamer member
    Glad everything turned out okay, jez. You are a great mom for caring so much about your boys. Now take care of yourself! <3
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    TTC #1 since March 2011
    Dx = Unexplained IF
    1 medicated TI cycle & 4 clomid IUIs = all BFNs
    June 2013 IVF #1 = 6 frosties + BFP!
    DS1 born 2/14

    TTC #2 since December 2014
    May 2015 unassisted BFP ended in m/c at 7wks
    April 2016 FET #1 = BFN
    June 2016 FET #2 = c/p
    August 2016 FET #3 = BFP!
    DS2 born 4/17
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  • BeeBee08BeeBee08 member
    ((Hugs))  Sorry you had a rough day. 

     
    me 33/DH 36
    ttc since 10/2008; d/x: mild MFI, stageII endo
    ~~PAIF/SAIF Welcome~~
    11 IUI’s = 1 m/c (7w4d)
    IVF#1 January 2012 BFN, FET #1 April 2012 BFN
    Surprise BFP October 2012 m/c (7w), Surprise BFP April 2013 m/c (6w4d)
    IVF #2: July 2013, ET 1 embryo 7/18, beta 1 @ 14dp3dt - 757, beta 2 @ 16dp3dt - 1762
    U/S 1 @ 6w4d = 1 little frogger with HB of 118, U/S 2 @ 7w3d measuring right on track with HB of 160
    Stick Frogger Stick! Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!   It's a Girl, EDD April 7, 2014

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  • imoveritimoverit member
    Glad things are okay. Hope your ankles feel better soon. Get some rest.
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  • golfrgalgolfrgal member
    Doh!  I just joined you for a fall after reading this thread!  

    I was about to clean out the non-maternity clothing from my closet to store in space bags, but ended up slipping across the bags (wearing socks) and landed with a loud thud, wedged in between a laundry hamper and a dresser.  Ouch, there will be bruises all over my hip and side belly;  just glad I didn't land belly down.  And this is only an hour after emergency OB visit, thinking I had a UTI or some other infection.    
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  • jezebel57jezebel57 member
    golfrgal said:

    Doh!  I just joined you for a fall after reading this thread!  


    I was about to clean out the non-maternity clothing from my closet to store in space bags, but ended up slipping across the bags (wearing socks) and landed with a loud thud, wedged in between a laundry hamper and a dresser.  Ouch, there will be bruises all over my hip and side belly;  just glad I didn't land belly down.  And this is only an hour after emergency OB visit, thinking I had a UTI or some other infection.    
    Oh no- glad you didn't land on your belly either. Did you call dr?

    Me (37) DH (39); PCOS changed to Unexplained, changed to DOR in 2012 (finally a correct diagnosis!); 
    Started TTC 2009 with RE after 6 months.  
    Clomid + Trigger x2; 
    IUI + Femara x1,
    IUI + Follistim x2;
    IVF #1 (MDL) February 2013- BFN.
    IVF #2 (antagonist) May 2013, First BFP of my life. 
    Identical twin miracle BOYS (!!) headed our way- due date is technically 2/4/14 but c section is scheduled for 1/7! 


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  • RoseHQ12RoseHQ12 member
    You are not a bad mommy, in fact the opposite making sure your LO's are ok. I hope your ankle isn't hurt too badly :(
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  • golfrgalgolfrgal member
    jezebel57 said:
    Doh!  I just joined you for a fall after reading this thread!  

    I was about to clean out the non-maternity clothing from my closet to store in space bags, but ended up slipping across the bags (wearing socks) and landed with a loud thud, wedged in between a laundry hamper and a dresser.  Ouch, there will be bruises all over my hip and side belly;  just glad I didn't land belly down.  And this is only an hour after emergency OB visit, thinking I had a UTI or some other infection.    
    Oh no- glad you didn't land on your belly either. Did you call dr?
    No, he already thinks I'm paranoid that things are wrong.  I feel fine, just bruised and startled.  I would think that there would be blood or fluid of some sort right away if LO was injured.
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  • jezebel57jezebel57 member
    golfrgal said:
    jezebel57 said:
    Doh!  I just joined you for a fall after reading this thread!  

    I was about to clean out the non-maternity clothing from my closet to store in space bags, but ended up slipping across the bags (wearing socks) and landed with a loud thud, wedged in between a laundry hamper and a dresser.  Ouch, there will be bruises all over my hip and side belly;  just glad I didn't land belly down.  And this is only an hour after emergency OB visit, thinking I had a UTI or some other infection.    
    Oh no- glad you didn't land on your belly either. Did you call dr?
    No, he already thinks I'm paranoid that things are wrong.  I feel fine, just bruised and startled.  I would think that there would be blood or fluid of some sort right away if LO was injured.
    Yeah they said fluid or blood would be warning sign over next 24 hours.  so far so good.  wishing you a speedy recovery also! 
    Me (37) DH (39); PCOS changed to Unexplained, changed to DOR in 2012 (finally a correct diagnosis!); 
    Started TTC 2009 with RE after 6 months.  
    Clomid + Trigger x2; 
    IUI + Femara x1,
    IUI + Follistim x2;
    IVF #1 (MDL) February 2013- BFN.
    IVF #2 (antagonist) May 2013, First BFP of my life. 
    Identical twin miracle BOYS (!!) headed our way- due date is technically 2/4/14 but c section is scheduled for 1/7! 


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  • zazu13zazu13 member
    Glad things are Ok, but sorry to hear about your fall!

    Age: 35 TTC since 2005, MFI & DOR 

    IVF #1 Sep '11 - canceled poor response

     IVF #2 Nov '11  8R/8M/4F 3dt x2 - chemical

    IVF #3 April '12  11R/6M/4F 3dt x2 - m/c

    FET #1 Aug 2012  3dt x2 - BFN

    **new RE**

     IVF #4 Jan '13 BFN 11R/6M/6F 5dt x2 - BFN

     IVF #5 July '13 16R/10M/10F 5dt x2 + 1 frostie

    9dp5dt Beta 1 = 344!! 16dp5dt. Beta 2 = 4822 7wk u/s= 2 heartbeats!

    Twin girls! 3/6/14

     

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  • diamante1181diamante1181 member
    Glad everything is okay with the boys!
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  • Keephope2012Keephope2012 member
    Aww sorry to hear that! I would also freak out and think the worst but i agree with PP- don't be so hard on yourself! Creating new people is hard and stressful work! Glad you got to check the babies for peace of mind. Now rest up :)
    Me:30 low AMH; DH:30 MFI (count, motility, morphology)
    2 rounds clomid 100 mg -BFN
    IUI#1- 25 mg clomid- July 2012= BFN!
    IUI #2 August = BFN!
    IUI #3 September = BFN!

    IVF #1 November - converted to IUI #4 due to poor response = BFN
    IVF #1.2 February- converted to IUI #5 due to poor response = BFN
    IVF #1.3 April- micro dose Lupron flare with HGH; 14R, 13M, 11F! Transfer of 1 day 5 blast on 4/30, 4 frosties. BFP! Beta #1 9dp5dt= 179; Beta #2 11dp5dt= 442; Beta #3 4106 Stick baby stick!!

    *trying to keep hope*




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