April 2014 Moms

How much sex are you having these days

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edited September 2013 in April 2014 Moms

How much sex are you having these days 351 votes

Not so much- tired and sick
41% 145 votes
Can't get enough!
8% 29 votes
Once in a while, when Im in the mood
29% 102 votes
None- too scared of spotting
21% 75 votes
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Re: How much sex are you having these days

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  • I have been put on pelvic rest for spotting, I haven't had sex in a month.



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  • SS - none due to pelvic rest.
  • Once a week to keep the hubby happy... It does nothing for me when I'm pregnant :-(

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  • Pelvic rest here, too. Which is making me want it more than usual. :-<

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  • About once a week I'd say. I throw him a bone when I don't think it'll repulse me. Poor guy.
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  • dmresnickdmresnick member
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    I know it's early in the poles but I about peed myself when I saw can't get enough. I was thinking before I voted "if anyone picks that answer they're a liar liar pants in fire." Lol

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  • Maybe once a week.  I'm just not in the mood.
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  • Pretty much none. It's a combo of exhaustion and m/s on my part and no desire to have sex with a pregnant woman on DH's part. I'm fine with it because I have no desire during pregnancy.
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  • I really wanted to do it today (thanks to a XXX dream last night) but I was too nauseous :(
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  • I'm in the none category, but not because of spotting, because of the fun side effects of Crinone. Even if I had the energy and wanted it DH hasn't come near me in 8 weeks. It's so sad :( I'm hoping things will change in a few weeks

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  • Sad to say I haven't had an orgasm since the positive test. DH has gotten a few, but I've just been too scared, and now feeling too yucky. I am hoping to feel better tonight, though, as I am ready to face my fears and could use some relaxation :)
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  • I actually do feel like it, but I'm constantly really hot, and the idea of DH's hot body on mine is a massive turn off. Also, I can't stand kissing. So weird. I'm been having pity sex with him about once a every 2 weeks, heh heh. 

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  • My DH would LOVE to answer this for me. His response would be "She doesn't know what that is anymore!!!!!" He's been a little more than perturbed at my lack of a sex drive. :/ I really wish I wanted it but I just have no interest.
  • None but not bc Im scared bc of back to back infections. It will be almost a month bf we can. It's nice bc I have no desire but I'm starting to feel distant from my hubby and am looking forward to when we can again.
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  • I wouldn't say "can't get enough".. But honestly our sex life has been better since our BFP, nausea and all! Somehow the big O settles my tummy, even if I do get winded more easily. I spose DH and I should consider ourselves lucky! (It helps that he only wants it when I'm feelin ok)
  • I was nervous at first went the first 3 weeks of knowing abstinent, now we have sex ALMOST every night I'm still sick some night but it's picked up ALOT. Thank god I got over my fear though. I have no spotting whatsoever and a healthy baby measuring 5 days ahead!
  • Once a week for us. I was feeling a little better yesterday morning and actually initiated it!
  • Slim to none. I am too tired!
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  • None and I don't see that changing anytime soon. I was on pelvic rest till 20 weeks last time ~ and I have imposed that rule again this time.

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  • I've never been more horny and DH couldn't be happier :)

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  • It's hand jobs for days around here. Poor hubby wishes I was more into it right now. Sweet guy says he's been more attracted to me since I've been pregnant, but between the nausea and the exhaustion, I just cannot handle it.
  • @jolieemma it's the boobs lol.



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  • Can count on one hand how many times since bfp on 8/5. Actually just had an emotional discussion about it. DH said he misses that part of us (I do too) but I've been so bloated/crampy I just can't imagine something going up there right now. I already feel unsexy & a little fat & now I feel like I can't please my husband. He says he understands but I can see it really bothers him... and it bothers me. Hoping to feeling better in the 2nd tri
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  • I had a subchorionic hemmorage and am on a zofran pump for hyperemesis... None of that going on here now lol
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  • dmresnick said:

    I know it's early in the poles but I about peed myself when I saw can't get enough. I was thinking before I voted "if anyone picks that answer they're a liar liar pants in fire." Lol

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    Just wait until the 2nd trimester. Personally my desire is pretty high--until I see my hubby, then I just want to puke.
  • We're still doing it 4-5 times a week. My SO has a really high sex drive I think. He's young. I don't ever really "feel like it" but once we get going I enjoy it. Most of the time... Lol
  • ss: none, DH is deployed. left Friday will be back early-mid Feb
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  • Actually it had done wonders for us! SO is pretty happy he is getting it everyday if not a couple times....:)
  • Haa like twice last month once this month so far . we've already accomplished what we needed no need to over do it now .

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  • A few times a week to keep DH happy. I get a really good back rub & he gets lucky :)
  • Partner is in armed forces, home on weekends, feel like I have to make the effort, don't always enjoy it....
  • I can't get enough! As strange as it is hormonal and often hate my husband lately but I find myself putting that a side te moment I think "hey I can totally seduce him right now." It's very up and down right now I will be 10weeks on Tuesday so I still have my really sick moments =\ but the second the sick feelings lifts I'm thinking about all kinda freaky things....but I need it there and then let a lil time pass and I'm sick ...if he gets near me I'll cut him..more like puke on him :)
  • None, I had spotting after our last intercourse.
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  • I'm feeling a-ok at 12 weeks so its nearly every night! I feel like this is odd reading the other posts haha
  • We tried yesterday. It was NOT comfortable for me or him, at all. Frustrating. We'll try again when he gets back next week.
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  • Nothing.  We haven't had sex since my egg retrieval.  It doesn't look like we will be having it any time soon either.  Both of us are a bit scared, so we are avoiding.

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  • rlmanning said:
    Once a week to keep the hubby happy... It does nothing for me when I'm pregnant :-(
    Me neither, it actually got more and more uncomfortable as I got more pregnant with DD (not painful, but just not enjoyable like normal). But, I try for once a week because I like the intimacy with DH.
                                                                            
                                                          
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  • My fiance has been loving my bloated body (I find that kind of weird) so we have been doing it a lot. On the plus side the motion oddly eases my stomach. 
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