what the hell???

Re: what the hell???

• nosoup4u member

  September 2013

  Everyone processes grief differently? Or, VBAC board has its first troll. My cynical self really can't decide which one it is.

  DS1 - Feb 2008

  DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)

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• aadamson12 member

  September 2013

  I agree! I noticed it too.

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• MamaP19 member

  September 2013

  Agree. Very disturbing. I really hope they don't do this to every new post. 

  

  

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• holly321 member

  September 2013

  I think it is troll. Clearly the made the account just to post what they are saying. Plus she is using incorrect statistics. I don't want to see people scared because of what she is saying. As we all know, rcs have their own dangers. And if the story is true, it sucks if the ob wasn't there, but that isn't always going to be the case. I personally had the on call ob, and e hospitalist there and in and it the entire time.

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• Ellasmommy2011 member

  September 2013

  Saw it on my post and it did bother me but then I saw the same exact response in many other posts one right after another...

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• candlequeen member

  September 2013

  I think it should be taken off. I don't want anyone to be scared either. Obviously, bad things happen, VBAC or not. A RCS carries it's own set of risks as PP said. Please don't let this person discourage your dreams of a vaginal birth. It can be done! I had a CS for failure to progress and had a beautiful baby girl in April, I even had an epidural! Good luck to all of you!

  

  
  

   

  

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• Ceefome member

  September 2013

  I've flagged them all as SPAM. XPing the same thing over and over is spam, regardless of the message. But maybe the bump gods will disagree and bannate me.

  "Little seahorse/Floating on a primal tide/Quickening like a/Spark in a haystack side/I already love you/And I don't even know who you are" -Bruce Cockburn BOOKWORMS and BUTTERFLIES

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• IBackBevo member

  September 2013

  I don't know what it is worse - to think that her story is true or to think there is some sicko out there that would make up such a story.

  IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
  2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
  BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
  Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
  BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
  

  
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• akbride25 member

  September 2013

  I think her story could be true (though her statistics are off). If you type in the name and birthdate of the baby into a search engine, you will find that there is a baby who was born and died on that date.

                                                                           

   
  

  

  

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• IBackBevo member

  September 2013

  How horrible.

  IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
  2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
  BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
  Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
  BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
  

  
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• iris427 member

  September 2013

  Ugh, I really did not know what to do with this as a mod and didn't get any guidance from the bump.  Her story very well may be true and even if it's not, it's true for someone out there.  VBAC does have a small but real risk of that happening.  I don't want to be like other boards I've heard about that remove any post that doesn't promote a certain agenda.  I feel bad about taking her posts down because I think she was really just a grieving mom.  But OTOH she did basically spam the board.  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• MAprincess member

  September 2013

  Iris- I definitely can see how conflicted this decision must be for you.  She is certainly welcome to start a thread and tell us her story.  But to copy and paste it into every other thread must be against terms of use. 

  

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