We banged properly earlier this week, but DH has gotten two BJ's since then... to completion!
I still like to get naked and do sexy stuff with him, make out, rub each other, oral is all great... but putting the P in the V is just getting really uncomfortable for me.
We will still try to do it about once a week, but there's plenty of sexytime happening in between the actual sexing. I agree with @JoeLies, it's not like our marriage is dependent on sex or revolves around sex, but it is a special bond we share and I would miss that connection if we weren't having it in any form.
I don't even know if its uncomfortable or comfortable ! It's been that long ! I need a silver bullet and he can go enjoy his non pregnant interwebs women. Oh god I wanna punch him in the face lol
August 25th... only reason why we haven't been in the sack lately is because I'm restricted from it for another five weeks. That's when my bed rest ends
I don't remember when we last had sex. I have had a sex drive, but my vagina has been so soar lately and one of my rhoids split open last week so I'm going to hold off on it until after the LO arrives.
I would say we do it every other week or so. I think it's been a little over 2 weeks at this point, and I've had sex dreams 3 nights in a row. It's like Beetlejuice--- so I'll have to make sure it happens today or tomorrow.
This. Lmao... Just my husband touching me on my boob or butt is an annoyance. And he does it every chance he gets... So I'm always annoyed with him but I keep telling him its just the hormones so don't take it personal.
God Bless you for admitting this. My name is Maimes10 and I have not had sex with my husband since before I got pregnant (through IVF). @-)
Me 39, DH 40. Married on 9/18/2010 and have been TTC since. IVF # 1-7/13/2012, 15 retreived, 6 fertilized, 2 transferred, 4 frozen. BFP Natural MC 9/10
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I have to say that legitimate self-confidence is a total turn on for men. If you can find it within yourself and display it for yourself he will notice - even if you are not trying to be sexy. It will come through.
I don't remember the last time MH and I were intimate. It has been very physically uncomfortable, BUT we just bought some lube so this weekend it is! Kinda feeling huge, so I'm not sure if we can get through the awkwardness. We certainly will try! The connection is so important, and we need that right now.
Last Saturday. So, almost a week ago. But, DH confessed to me the REAL reason why he hasn't had a sex drive. He admitted that he has put on 30Ibs since I have been pregnant. So now sex is too much work for him, and he gets tired to fast. I'm not complaining though, because I feel the exact same way.
God Bless you for admitting this. My name is Maimes10 and I have not had sex with my husband since before I got pregnant (through IVF). @-)
Yeah, Lupron lack of sex drive and then pelvic rest due to stims and egg retrieval, then OHSS, the pelvic rest due to 1st tri, then morning (all day) sickness, then shortened cervix = one thing after another and now I am not cleared til 37w. Harumph.
Six years of infertility and loss, four IUIs, one IVF and one very awesome little boy born via med-free birth 10.24.13.
I dont remember, haha. Sometime in August maybe. We were talking about it in the car and essentially it has come down to neither of us are all that interested at this time. We are the craziest cuddly, lovey dovey people right now, but the desire for sex just isnt there. I find him attractive and he tells me I am beautiful everyday and we are both super happy so I am not too worried about sex. I jokingly said on Wednesday, "tonorrow is my birthday; I better get some" and we both had a good chuckle. Try not to stress about because it only adds more pressure and think of other aspects of your relationship that may have strengthend at this time.
We've only had actual sex once every few weeks while I've been pregnant. I still do other things to make sure he gets taken care of more often, and I'm Sure he helps himself out more often then not lately as well
The most important thing though is that he and I talk about it all the time. He always knows if I'm up for it or not. I feel 100% comfortable asking him if he's ok with our frequency and vice versa.
We have sex at least once a week. I take care of myself on the daily.
If DH doesn't want it, I know how to take care of my own needs. During my first pregnancy DH was scared of sex. After a while it just became habit to not do it. It stretched to PP, too. It took us until DS was about 6 months to get out of our rut. I really hope it doesn't take yall that long. Good luck.
I think it was 2 weeks ago or so. DH has a rash and not know what it is or if its contagious I don't want to cuddle. Also ladies its not cheating if you use a toy in the interim.
I have had two incidents of blatantly asking if my husband is cheating. Im not even jealous but my hormones were so out of control i followed him one day. Lol. Then i called and admitted to following him but he laughed and said i want good at it because he saw me the entire time. Lol yes clearly frustrated and have lost my mind.
Re: When's the last time you had sex?
I still like to get naked and do sexy stuff with him, make out, rub each other, oral is all great... but putting the P in the V is just getting really uncomfortable for me.
We will still try to do it about once a week, but there's plenty of sexytime happening in between the actual sexing. I agree with @JoeLies, it's not like our marriage is dependent on sex or revolves around sex, but it is a special bond we share and I would miss that connection if we weren't having it in any form.
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only reason why we haven't been in the sack lately is because I'm restricted from it for another five weeks. That's when my bed rest ends
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This exactly! So glad it's back!!
God Bless you for admitting this. My name is Maimes10 and I have not had sex with my husband since before I got pregnant (through IVF). @-)
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I don't remember the last time MH and I were intimate. It has been very physically uncomfortable, BUT we just bought some lube so this weekend it is! Kinda feeling huge, so I'm not sure if we can get through the awkwardness. We certainly will try! The connection is so important, and we need that right now.
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Try not to stress about because it only adds more pressure and think of other aspects of your relationship that may have strengthend at this time.
Sure he helps himself out more often then not lately as well
The most important thing though is that he and I talk about it all the time. He always knows if I'm up for it or not. I feel 100% comfortable asking him if he's ok with our frequency and vice versa.
If DH doesn't want it, I know how to take care of my own needs. During my first pregnancy DH was scared of sex. After a while it just became habit to not do it. It stretched to PP, too. It took us until DS was about 6 months to get out of our rut. I really hope it doesn't take yall that long. Good luck.
:-bd
July I think, and then before that... what month was the baby conceived in? March?
ETA: and let me add, that will be the last time until the baby is 8wk+, It hurt so freaking bad.
BFP #2 11/30/09 EDD 08/12/10- Sophia Grace born 8/1/10
BFP #3 11/16/10 EDD 08/04/11- Samuel Richard born 7/28/11
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BFP #5 03/27/13 EDD 11/25/13- Savannah Lee born 11/18/13
MMC 01/26/12
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